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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by nnamdi640: 11:27pm On Oct 21, 2025

Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie". My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.

Same way another side guy will be doing his things with your wife to be, Kama never forget

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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by sylve11: 11:31pm On Oct 21, 2025

advanceDNA:
why u dey let the matter pain you??

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Dottore: 11:38pm On Oct 21, 2025

AngelSlay:
You're free to live how you want. But understand:

Relationships built on manipulation rarely lead to anything meaningful.

Constantly being a “side guy” might seem fun now, but it often leaves people empty in the long run — because there's no trust, no depth, just cycles of use and escape.

If that’s all you want — cool. But don't pretend it's something noble or wise. It's just one way to live. It has its pros and cons.

You’re not wrong that many “main boyfriends” get played.
But being the side guy doesn’t make you immune — it just makes you a different kind of tool in the game.

Be real with yourself about what you're offering, what you're getting, and what this lifestyle costs you in the long run.

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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by mila1121(m): 11:42pm On Oct 21, 2025

Poor man !!poor man pikin !!! Dey see something
Had I !!
Na him be the last comment of fool

Whatever you do don't be poor don't remain poor
Sapa can turn any man to any thing

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by mila1121(m): 11:43pm On Oct 21, 2025

Poor man !!poor man pikin !!! Dey see something
Had I !!
Na him be the last comment of fool

Whatever you do don't be poor don't remain poor
Sapa can turn any man to any thing

Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie". My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Wiseman2y(m): 12:12am On Oct 22, 2025

You will soon show your preek to Tinubu, continue. Tinubu will soon catch you.

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Sk5050: 12:21am On Oct 22, 2025

Said it all he should know the consequences as well

TheFreshVanilla:
Keep bragging about being the backup generator. You’re not a ‘side guy’, you’re just a human vibrator with no dignity.

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by GodisStriking: 12:29am On Oct 22, 2025

nnamdi640:
Same way another side guy will be doing his things with your wife to be, Kama never forget

I was waiting to read this wisdom. What you create in the world you create within yourself that same outer world. How it plays out isn't spooky but scientific according to how the subconscious mind works. His suspicious and doubtful nature from being with women playing their men will play like a movie in his future mind. So once he does settle down all this betraying behavior will draw into his life a woman who cheats and plays games. If he avoids any serious relationships eventually his old age will diminish his player status. Still wanting cheat good looking young women he will become an old sugar daddy who ladies come after him only for money and robbery. Everything has already been written we are choosing what story or fantasy we want to live. If you want negative karma in the future then keep doing wrong.

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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Nobody: 12:32am On Oct 22, 2025

I don’t still get why mods pushed the page before it developed tongue

Probably to be derailed grin

It was supposed to be a sanctuary where young guys who wants to learn about game can go tongue

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Majnas56: 3:27am On Oct 22, 2025

Sonnobax15:
. Make e be . I prefer to be a generator than to be the transformer that'd be powering the life of one female cockerel while being taken for a fool . I'm too wise to be foolish in this present economy

Wow....I love ur reply bro

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Steveagro: 5:42am On Oct 22, 2025

jaszplus12:
And probably she's just been had and Mr Side Guy arrives to chop from same pot....lick plate recently "cleared" of male fluid!!!
Shit, what a position! Side guy! Second hand material!!

It goes both ways it could be the main guy feasting on the side guy cumm

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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Rolings: 6:06am On Oct 22, 2025

TheFreshVanilla:
Keep bragging about being the backup generator. You’re not a ‘side guy’, you’re just a human vibrator with no dignity.

E no even shame to call himself backup generator

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by pretydiva(f): 6:09am On Oct 22, 2025

Sonnobax15:
. Make e be . I prefer to be a generator than to be the transformer that'd be powering the life of one female cockerel while being taken for a fool . I'm too wise to be foolish in this present economy

So you just confirmed you are the side guy aka generator to your banny 🤦‍♀️God Abeg !

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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Josywhyte: 6:23am On Oct 22, 2025

Me and you sopos Sidon knack like two crates of beer each for this. You're no different from me. I satisfy their sexual urge and still bill the bannies. Na their boyfriends dey do the heavy lifting. I get one wey dey come house like three weekends in a month and she dey always tell her guy say she dey visit her mumsy. The guy na big shot. Side guy is the best. You go enjoy both the rubbas and kitten

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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by advanceDNA: 6:33am On Oct 22, 2025

nnamdi640:
Same way another side guy will be doing his things with your wife to be, Kama never forget

That's not how karma works.....

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by purples25(f): 7:02am On Oct 22, 2025

It will look like a blessing.
Until you get too old to be playing such games.
When you turn old and frail and you need company but can’t commit because trust is extinct due to your lifestyle.
Then you will understand that it’s more like a curse.
Funny enough, when you surrender, you may be punished by no peace with your chosen partner. May.

Oh well, it’s not that serious right? You can picture yourself at seventy doing this, I guess. 🤷🏾‍♀️

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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Grundman(m): 7:18am On Oct 22, 2025

Its just a pity. The two men are being played by the woman. One is played knowingly and is comfortable with the reward and demands of his role and the other is played and deceived and mercilessly taken advantage of.

First, its the woman at fault here. She is a player, cheat, wicked etc. Even if you give her everything, she will still cheat. Because it's her lifestyle. A smart guy no dey carry relationship go knack for woman. A woman knows a man he wants or needs and she will always overtly or covertly take a shot.

When you meet a lady, just relax and know who she is and know whether to stay or take your share. Time and game will betray her.

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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Kalulu44: 8:05am On Oct 22, 2025

In as much as I am not doubting what you're saying. But swear you don't spend anything at all on them?

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Hismajesty44: 8:09am On Oct 22, 2025

TheFreshVanilla:
Glad you said it, a human vibrator. No identity, no respect. Just a tool that gets used, replaced, and dumped for another. As they say, like attracts like. You keep ending up with ladies who cheat, lie, and use people… because that’s the energy you carry. You’re comfortable being a backup plan.

All these your games, game plan, backup plan comments are just trashy! It becomes very difficult for guys presently to attract ladies that don't cheat..., all you can do here just trying to blackmail victims of these ladies bad conduct emotionally.

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by DMCA: 8:19am On Oct 22, 2025

Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie". My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.

My guy u be correct man cool

A proud member and fellow of side niggas association cool

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Emeka71(m): 9:15am On Oct 22, 2025

Tenrack:
bro abeg drop more OT with real life examples make we learn

Me I don't have any babe but I always enjoy by servicing countless number of babes all free of charge especially at a crowd , that thing is so sweet, even a babe once told me that sex is a free gift of nature that they are not supposed to charge people to sleep with them.

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Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Tenrack: 9:23am On Oct 22, 2025

Emeka71:
Me I don't have any babe but I always enjoy by servicing countless number of babes all free of charge especially at a crowd , that thing is so sweet, even a babe once told me that sex is a free gift of nature that they are not supposed to charge people to sleep with them.

Chineke God! Where do you get these babes from and how? Shey you go fit marry so?

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by CyracksMrBlogger(m): 9:32am On Oct 22, 2025

Sonnobax15:
. Make e be . I prefer to be a generator than to be the transformer that'd be powering the life of one female cockerel while being taken for a fool . I'm too wise to be foolish in this present economy

🤣🤣🤣 really? and you call this wisdom? OMG!

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by diogo23: 9:51am On Oct 22, 2025

TheFreshVanilla:
If you’re really ‘too wise to be foolish,’ then be wise enough to pick women who don’t easily move at the flash of naira. Being the side guy doesn’t make you smart, it just proves you’ve got no game outside of being used.

Why are you pained? Everybody live there life as they pleased

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by sojayy(m): 11:19am On Oct 22, 2025

Goo0dHardDick:
I am so happy being the human vibrator. While you're the main generator

He knew his girlfriend can fall victim of d guy as he's d main guy for d girl grin

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by sojayy(m): 11:19am On Oct 22, 2025

Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by Luckysbab: 11:50am On Oct 22, 2025

folake4u:
Then do the side niggar responsibility of knacking in peace. What's all these whinings for?

Is he your side guy, make we know how to join mouth yab am?

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