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10thTenthMan:
While the question was posed to women. Let me do aproko and say that even if you catch me having a party with your sister, mother and grandmother, I won't kneel to apologize. I dont apologize. No.

If you say you dont like something or You say I wronged you and I actually reflect and agree that I wronged you, I will acknowledge and learn and make no further comments, or I will simply tell you what I have done or plan to do to remedy the situation. You won't get an apology.

At least not from me sha. Maybe from other men. Not to talk of kneeling. Anyway na man wey think say him life don spoil without that particular woman sha. And please dont ask me ''what if it is your wife and she is Dangote's daughter''. I was feeding before she met me.

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Although this ancestor can say sorry but kneeling? You'll have to point a gun at my heart first. I was in my teens when my own mother warned me not to do that for her but instead emphasized more on saying sorry and meaning it. That great woman influence never leave me and has shaped my person in some aspects.

That's why I still find it strange that an African man will kneel to simply propose.

Men how do you feel. Cos I don't think I'll ever experience it 🙁

pussyphilia:
This is what I want to confirm from the ladies themselves, but as usual, you who is a guy has assumed the position of the mouthpiece of ladies! You guys like to make up a lot things and claim ladies don't like this or that just to fit into whom you think ladies are! Why not allow real ladies to speak for themselves!

You think the ladies will tell you the truth? It's clear you don't know women...They will tell you it's sweet but in their mind,they will call you mumu.

Namaster:
Kneel to apologise to a woman and her attraction will DIE immediately!

There is NO resuscitating such relationships.

A man who kneels to apologise to a woman will soon be licking off another man's EJACULATES from his woman's vagina during cunilingus.

There is NO 2 ways about it.

Kneeling is for 1 person in a relationship—the WOMAN.

A man who KNEELS to his woman is NO man.

It's a great day to see such comment coming from you.

African men are pursuing Western values in the name of civilization, meanwhile those white guys are so primitive. Handing over total control to women and dogs while making themselves last in the pecking order.

Incredible

Say, who die?

Even this one sef.

MBA MBA, never, never.... How can I do that! Would rather thrill her with gifts and something she likes than degrading my personality. I no dey level ground with my kneel.... Never.... I could even turn it to a lovely play and that settle it...... Kneeling for a woman other than my mum and older women is very okay but for my babe, mbaano

They always feel like Nebuchadnezzar

The guy in the second pics is not serious he just want to chop and clean mouth. If not why will he be using slippers

The only time i can kneel down to apologize to a woman is if i cheated on her and it has to be a woman i dont want to let go. Apart from that, i cant kneel down for any woman for any reason especially if she wants to go.

I can't believe this thread made it to front page! It disgusting!!!

I know most ladies will be happy with it but won't say it.

lordm:
I would rather die

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PepeXKermit:
The only time i can kneel down to apologize to a woman is if i cheated on her and it has to be a woman i dont want to let go. Apart from that, i cant kneel down for any woman for any reason especially if she wants to go.

Even if you cheated sef.

Be a man and apologise like a man.

Why emasculate yourself?

A lot of all these pseudo acts of virtue signalling love and affection is not our own reality as Africans even though on the surface level may not be bad. You should not be borderline begging someone to love you as maybe you are desperate but to be able to convince them beyond reasonable doubt that your affection for them supersedes all.

A lot of these acts come from the western world, and has been further shown in the media as it being the gold standard of showing love.

Narcissistic women feed on energies of weak men so the attraction will not die rather it will grow if their men kneel to apologize to them. A cool headed woman trained well by her father will immediately stop a relationship with any man that kneels down to apologize to her because that's a red flag. The man is a leader and must not show weakness. When he makes mistakes or wrongs his subordinates, he should apologize to them but must not show weakness while at it.

No be u scam me that year on top earbuds? Wetin u dy find online. Cause this your moniker 🤔

I believe everyone knows when there men is being humble and sincere especially if you have been with them for long. So for some men knelling might not be sincerity and humility, it might be a bait to make you weak and forgive then, but won't change the bad behavior.

Is that not sometimes your position when you are eating Pucci?!😁 It is that feeling.

Simp

pussyphilia:
Let's assume he wrongly accused you of cheating with someone and you're very angry with him because you never cheated. Then he later finds out that you never did what he accused you about.

Another scenario is; you caught him flirting with his colleague at the office and got very mad at him... and in order to douse tension, he Kneels to apologize and promise not to repeat what he did.

Probably a scenario like, you caught him sleeping with your mom.

Or maybe he slapped you the first time in the relationship for a matter you are innocent of. You even got black eye from the slap.

It cab only happen in Nigeria movies. Why will a sensible kneel down to propose to a woman

Any woman that allows things get to the point where her man has to be emasculated in any form has since lost value for that man...!

Period!!!

pussyphilia:
Let's assume he wrongly accused you of cheating with someone and you're very angry with him because you never cheated. Then he later finds out that you never did what he accused you about.

Another scenario is; you caught him flirting with his colleague at the office and got very mad at him... and in order to douse tension, he Kneels to apologize and promise not to repeat what he did.

Probably a scenario like, you caught him sleeping with your mom.

Or maybe he slapped you the first time in the relationship for a matter you are innocent of. You even got black eye from the slap.

Or maybe you caught him sleeping you a fellow guy or maybe you caught him sleeping with your 17 years old niece.

Wld you forgive him if he comes kneeling with a puppy dog face begging you.

Samantha125:
I'm already from a spiritually gifted background... I'm from a lineage of prophets, prophetesses, spiritualists, and traditional healers... But I've grown so accustomed to them that I hardly take them seriously when they tell me about their visions/dreams about me... Sometimes I'd just pretend as if I'm listening out of respect and still go ahead and do me afterwards... ... The best they could do now is just pray for me...

One of them who's a qualified traditional healer, but works as an engineering specialist in Malaysia once told us how he moves with six spirits in his car which forbid him from giving people lifts... From that day, I started making it my sole duty to make sure that I always come up with a flimsy excuse whenever he's around to get him to give me a lift... ... And if he starts protesting, I'd tell him to appease his spirits for me and then buckle up my seatbelt...

So what makes you think that I'll take my husband's dream seriously when he's not even spiritually gifted? ... I'd just tell him it's just a bad dream and nothing serious, no need for him to get on his knees.

You must be a woman with the heart of a man. Perhaps, you've read the book 'think like a man, act like a lady'.

Can never be me, will never be me.
Woe onto men who stoop this low

A man that kneeled down to beg his wife has lost it all

The woman will be happy, because that's what they actually wanted with only a few exception.

If it's possible to build a house in the room of a woman some men will do.

These men are weaklings when it comes to women issues, they can deny their father, mother and their entire family because of a woman

Kobicove:
Me kneel down to apologize to my woman, never!

Anything wey wan happen make e happen!

I put it to you that you are yet to have a happy home.

Why do you say that?

YouandiAllofus:
You must be a woman with the heart of a man. Perhaps, you've read the book 'think like a man, act like a lady'.

Kneeling before a woman is no show of humility but of humiliation to manhood.

pussyphilia:
You had serious misunderstanding with your husband or boyfriend and later he finds out he was at fault. And you're very angry and pissed off with him. Then having realised his mistake, he comes to you and kneels to apologize profusely to you. Is this something you'll love and readily forgive him or is it a turn off that would piss you off the more?
Guys, can you kneel to apologize to your woman or do you consider it "unAfrican" and makes you less a man?
Remember it is a very serious misunderstanding! Perhaps she caught you cheating or something like that.

Na scam.. My ex does this alomst everytime we have issues, after few mins another whala
I packed my things without looking back

AllBlack:
I can't even remember saying SORRY to anyone in the past 10 years...

That's a problem.