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You haven't answered my question, why dump the same girls you guys disvirgined if you want to settle with virgins?

Don't tell me about what girls did or did not because this is about you and not the other way around.

SpencerForbes:
A lot of girls got deflowered because they wanted to explore, some by greed, others got deflowered because they were naive and others by rape.

Exception of rape victim and those that lost the hymen due to sport and stress, the rest were just controlled by their innate nature so we can blame men for being there.

One thing I’ve learnt is if a lady doesn’t want you to touch her, there’s nothing you can do except rape which is morally and legally wrong.

If you’re given a gift to keep by your dad till he’s back and you gave it to a stranger because of sweet words and cheap things and your father comes back and you couldn’t provide the gift, who’s to be blame🤔
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Samantha125:
You haven't answered my question, why dump the same girls you guys disvirgined if you want to settle with virgins?

Don't tell me about what girls did or did not because this is about you and not the other way around.

About females, when they’re reaching their peaks, they always go for the “bad boy” the one that usually spark their fantasies and imagination. They might ignore the good boys that really loved them just to focus on the guy with sweet words and cash. Majority of them always go for guys that have utterly no intention to marry them. I won’t say it’s all their fault but if ladies should be able to maintain their stance that no sex before marriage, I think the guys will be able to adapt. But since the “bad ones” know the female psyche could be twitched especially when they’re still young, they try to manipulate it.

As a lady knowing you have more to lose, it should be your duty to safeguard it.

Now back to your question, bad boys have gotten more chances to deflower girls than guys with good intentions and since the lady “looseguard” to give her sheep to the wolves without strong commitment and agreement, it is bound to be broken.

But let’s imagine every girl is taught and made to understand that giving your cookies at the right time is profitable, then I think men would have gotten used to it and then “maybe” and just “maybe” some girls would be able to discern between a guy with clear intentions and the ones that just want to eat their cookies.

But since we live in a world that celebrates sexual promiscuity, ladies are even influencing the young ones to indulge in it and it is even celebrated thereby leading to decay. It takes people like us to “ do the Lord’s work” and still preach the benefits of virginity and if possible we can have more men with the same thought processes where sexual decadence is scorned then I think we can have a good society that doesn’t celebrate sexual promiscuity🍹
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Bahamas95:
I wish it's possible to be forever young, whenever I see old people so many things run through my mind.

Man Bolo is very old now? dude has been acting since the time of Bruce Lee.

But it's always those same "bad boys" who are saying they want virgins as wives when they'd have disvirgined many women and dumped them, why?

How do you expect ladies to know that they're dealing with bad boys when they don't go around with the words "bad boys" written on their foreheads? You guys would promise ladies heaven on earth, including marriage until they eventually give in.

When is it the right time for a lady to give out her cookie and how come guys are also not taught the same thing? Because it takes two to tango... All women would've stayed as virgins if you guys kept your distance until marriage.

And those young ladies are not indulging in sexuality promiscuity by themselves, but with you guys, the same people who claim to want virgins as wives, but still going around disvirgining girls out of wedlock with zero intentions of marrying them... Some of you are also products of promiscuity...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

SpencerForbes:
About females, when they’re reaching their peaks, they always go for the “bad boy” the one that usually spark their fantasies and imagination. They might ignore the good boys that really loved them just to focus on the guy with sweet words and cash. Majority of them always go for guys that have utterly no intention to marry them. I won’t say it’s all their fault but if ladies should be able to maintain their stance that no sex before marriage, I think the guys will be able to adapt. But since the “bad ones” know the female psyche could be twitched especially when they’re still young, they try to manipulate it.

As a lady knowing you have more to lose, it should be your duty to safeguard it.

Now back to your question, bad boys have gotten more chances to deflower girls than guys with good intentions and since the lady “looseguard” to give her sheep to the wolves without strong commitment and agreement, it is bound to be broken.

But let’s imagine every girl is taught and made to understand that giving your cookies at the right time is profitable, then I think men would have gotten used to it and then “maybe” and just “maybe” some girls would be able to discern between a guy with clear intentions and the ones that just want to eat their cookies.

But since we live in a world that celebrates sexual promiscuity, ladies are even influencing the young ones to indulge in it and it is even celebrated thereby leading to decay. It takes people like us to “ do the Lord’s work” and still preach the benefits of virginity and if possible we can have more men with the same thought processes where sexual decadence is scorned then I think we can have a good society that doesn’t celebrate sexual promiscuity🍹
🚶‍♂️

VOsimhen144:
Jack and Rose in the movie titled “Titanic”

These wrinkles you see are harsh reminder that NOTHING LAST FOREVER! Not even you!

Marry a woman with a good heart and not for beauty alone… If u like fine pass mami water, that beauty will fade one day.

Mamiwater no fine o!
In case you have never seen one before.
Don't believe these Nollywood movies.

Samantha125:
But it's always those same "bad boys" who are saying they want virgins as wives when they'd have disvirgined many women and dumped them, why?

How do you expect ladies to know that they're dealing with bad boys when they don't go around with the words "bad boys" written on their foreheads? You guys would promise ladies heaven on earth, including marriage until they eventually give in.

When is it the right time for a lady to give out her cookie and how come guys are also not taught the same thing? Because it takes two to tango... All women would've stayed as virgins if you guys kept your distance until marriage.

And those young ladies are not indulging in sexuality promiscuity by themselves, but with you guys, the same people who claim to want virgins as wives, but still going around disvirgining girls out of wedlock with zero intentions of marrying them... Some of you are also products of promiscuity...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

The dating sphere is like a game. You either win or you lose. Few times we may have a win-win situation, other times we may have a win-lose situation.

Once a guy has deflowered a girl, he feels he has conquered her. Not only virgins but once a guy has sex with a lady he feels he has won. That’s why ladies too should be careful because except from health issues, Mother Nature actually favors the male gender “sexually” compared to the female gender. So the question is can you conquer a land you’ve already won🤔 men are created to explore so once a man wins a particular territory, he moves on cos he’s an adventurer and he’s the one to choose who he marries not the other way round.

With your second question, you’ve got a point. But there’s a notion that once a lady talks to a guy, she already knows if she’ll have sex with him or not. Does that intuition only works on sex, can’t it be tweaked to determine marriage too?
Outside that, no one can tell me that after talking to a person for 3 months, you won’t know the person clearly. Except you’re not psychologically inclined but I’ll blame that on naivety. That’s why I still preach proper education of the value of virginity in sex and marriage.

You asked when is the right time for a lady to give out her cookies? If you’re a shop owner and you sell Gold and other jewelries and you know the “value” of your goods, will you give it to a random person because he started sweet talking you or you’ll give it out only when you collect money?
The best time to give a lady should sell out her “gift” is when the person is totally committed and they’re bound together. Due to westernization which destroyed the positive and negative traditions and customs that upholds us, we’ve lost tracked. In the days of our ancestors, women gave their virginity on the day of their wedding and we had virtuous girls.

Virginity was not the major point but that she could restrain herself from the “wolves” was worth celebrating and we had more virgins compared to now. But now virgins are scorned and all caution has been thrown to the wind. The search for virgins is likened to searching for a pin in an haystack which is quite unfortunate and shakes the very foundation of matrimonial relationship.

Lastly, you can’t compare the older generation to this present one. Having a child outside wedlock was a shame to both the mother and the child. Yes few of that generation was out of promiscuity but what we have now can’t be compared. The statistics is on the high. And if we don’t go back to our positive tradition. I can’t imagine what the future holds. Baby mama and single motherhood is on the rise because of this factors and if majority of girls are reprogrammed to see virginity as something tangible. “Maybe” just “maybe” our society will stop the rise of single mothers. So instead of asking if virginity is a characteristic of a good home. Let’s ask how can we stop the rise of single motherhood and baby mama in the society.

Nowadays some ladies even apply to be baby mama and they are celebrated🍹
👨‍🦯

Long story short, don't disvirgin a girl out of wedlock if you want to get married to a virgin.

I'm done here.

SpencerForbes:
The dating sphere is like a game. You either win or you lose. Few times we may have a win-win situation, other times we may have a win-lose situation.

Once a guy has deflowered a girl, he feels he has conquered her. Not only virgins but once a guy has sex with a lady he feels he has won. That’s why ladies too should be careful because except from health issues, Mother Nature actually favors the male gender “sexually” compared to the female gender. So the question is can you conquer a land you’ve already won🤔 men are created to explore so once a man wins a particular territory, he moves on cos he’s an adventurer and he’s the one to choose who he marries not the other way round.

With your second question, you’ve got a point. But there’s a notion that once a lady talks to a guy, she already knows if she’ll have sex with him or not. Does that intuition only works on sex, can’t it be tweaked to determine marriage too?
Outside that, no one can tell me that after talking to a person for 3 months, you won’t know the person clearly. Except you’re not psychologically inclined but I’ll blame that on naivety. That’s why I still preach proper education of the value of virginity in sex and marriage.

You asked when is the right time for a lady to give out her cookies? If you’re a shop owner and you sell Gold and other jewelries and you know the “value” of your goods, will you give it to a random person because he started sweet talking you or you’ll give it out only when you collect money?
The best time to give a lady should sell out her “gift” is when the person is totally committed and they’re bound together. Due to westernization which destroyed the positive and negative traditions and customs that upholds us, we’ve lost tracked. In the days of our ancestors, women gave their virginity on the day of their wedding and we had virtuous girls.

Virginity was not the major point but that she could restrain herself from the “wolves” was worth celebrating and we had more virgins compared to now. But now virgins are scorned and all caution has been thrown to the wind. The search for virgins is likened to searching for a pin in an haystack which is quite unfortunate and shakes the very foundation of matrimonial relationship.

Lastly, you can’t compare the older generation to this present one. Having a child outside wedlock was a shame to both the mother and the child. Yes few of that generation was out of promiscuity but what we have now can’t be compared. The statistics is on the high. And if we don’t go back to our positive tradition. I can’t imagine what the future holds. Baby mama and single motherhood is on the rise because of this factors and if majority of girls are reprogrammed to see virginity as something tangible. “Maybe” just “maybe” our society will stop the rise of single mothers. So instead of asking if virginity is a characteristic of a good home. Let’s ask how can we stop the rise of single motherhood and baby mama in the society.

Nowadays some ladies even apply to be baby mama and they are celebrated🍹
👨‍🦯

Samantha125:
Long story short, don't disvirgin a girl out of wedlock if you want to get married to a virgin.

I'm done here.

Noted but I’ll be coming to South Africa soon to get one😉
I love their feminine nature. I pray their character is same.
Don’t worry she’ll love Nigeria😎
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SpencerForbes:
The man could still get another younger lady if he wants but the lady, hell no
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What are you talking about? She just turned 50 less than 3 weeks ago while Di Caprio will be 50 in less than 3 weeks.

Kate Winslet is still beautiful and hot.