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| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Emeka71(m): 11:27am On Oct 25, 2025 |
advanceDNA:So right. |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Adakintroy: 11:27am On Oct 25, 2025 |
If am in a seriouse relationship and I meet someone I notice am developing seriouse interest in..I cut them off. The mind is a fool. 1 Like |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by BlackfireX: 11:27am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Is like saying I love ofe Egusi more that I have eaten obe egushi Humans |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Franking: 11:31am On Oct 25, 2025 |
You assume she's your original partner because you didn't marry her. Marry her and she won't be. 1 Like |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Fiscus105(m): 11:32am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Kobicove:They posted this this week.
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| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Caaz: 11:33am On Oct 25, 2025 |
DMCA:Drag me all you want,gather all your 6tas dem nor go eva reach me. I guess that hurt. Abeg laminate my comments. |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Kobojunkie: 11:35am On Oct 25, 2025 |
theophorus:1. Keep chasing your dreams until you find exactly what it is you are looking for, is what I am getting at here. I would rather you leave and allow others find their own happiness than for you to stay and make others--- your spouse and children -- live miserable and unhappy because you didn't get what you wanted for you.  There are many more husbands/wives who remained in loveless marriages because they were too afraid the love they pinned for will not find them back, and you know who paid for their not going off to chase there dream? The other spouse and the children most of whom ended up emotional dumpsters(and in many cases punching bags) for them. (Domestic violence and toxicity usually comes out of this phenomenon.) A spouse who finds love outside should leave so that those left behind can mouth and then move on. 🥱🥱🥱 2. There is nothing commitment about remaining in a marriage where you have no love but regret to offer. Ruining the life and happiness of your partner and children by remaining in a marriage where you contribute no warmth but bitterness and loneliness is not commitment but cruel and unusual punishment... wickedness even. 🥱🥱🥱 It is better you leave and they mourn your departure after which they can then move on to finding happiness than for them to be burdened with your sadness/bitterness and maybe all other toxicity that could potentially go along with it --- domestic violence included --- because you choose to remain attached to them in their name.of some useless commitment. Children, for one , would rather you love them from afar than make their lives a living hell by staying. 🥱🥱 |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by qtx(m): 11:36am On Oct 25, 2025 |
advanceDNA:You have stolen my words. So on point. Greedy people will meet correct, more correct, most correct , super correct... etc. spouse after marriage. Correct spouse, no de ever finish, but when you get close for some time, you will now discover out there , there are more correct ones. So what do you do? Just be content with the one u have and move on knowing in life you cant have every woman as wife or every man as husband. 3 Likes |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Galadimabawa: 11:37am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Helpout12345:Your head get too much oil 1 Like |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by oweniwe(m): 11:37am On Oct 25, 2025 |
theophorus:I wanted to reply the message until I saw the moniker. You try dey respond for am 1 Like |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by DMCA: 11:38am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Caaz:Road side Akara wisdom  na 3 brothers I get  how those ur children and husband ? |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Staywithbina: 11:39am On Oct 25, 2025 |
marry with purpose, never rush into it ,not everyone is for marriage ,theres always someone better when your partner losses value 1 Like |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Lamasta(m): 11:40am On Oct 25, 2025 |
So the one you married is a fake  The bible said "Whosoever finds a husband finds good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord" |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by DMCA: 11:40am On Oct 25, 2025 |
MarkNsukkaBread:imagine say d kobojunkie na woman wey dey nairaland since 2007 oh just imagine d age we e go be na frustration d cause her bitterness 2 Likes |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by deardevil(m): 11:42am On Oct 25, 2025 |
advanceDNA:So tru |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Druss(m): 11:42am On Oct 25, 2025 |
People looking for excuse to jump ship - this op smells of infidelity! 2 Likes |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Ashirioluwa: 11:43am On Oct 25, 2025 |
advanceDNA:You said it all. |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Shawarmagirl: 11:46am On Oct 25, 2025 |
cutecommend:Except your marriage is not the will of God. God should be the foundation of your marriage. You both should seek his will before getting married. Marry once and the best. Nothing like after married, then I'll see the perfect one for me. |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Breaker001: 11:46am On Oct 25, 2025 |
cutecommend:Yes, it possible to meet someone who may seem to align easier with your views and perspective in life. However, seeing you are already avowed to someone else, you just gat to love the one to whom you have been "yoked" to. Guess what! It's not as easy as it seems. But if you fixed your heart and mind to it, you will do it. |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Ashirioluwa: 11:51am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Wait until you marry and start living together; you will know that the so-called original partner you're longing for is as fake as other people out there. 1 Like |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Kobojunkie: 11:51am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Shawarmagirl:This na one particular brand of lie men use to delude women they settled for into staying in abusive, humiliating marriages with them all while they continue to go forth to get their knobs shined outside by the women they longed for but could not afford to persuade into fully having them. Women do it too to themselves; only the feel that if they sprinkle that "will of god" language into everything they say, somehow that marriage they really hate being a part of magically become better to manage. |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by michoim(m): 11:52am On Oct 25, 2025 |
It is an adulterous generation that sees 'original spouse ' , after marriage. It is self-deception to indulge in such things as ' original spouse'. It is a concept from HELL... 2 Likes |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by doncartel: 11:53am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Then I will marry all. Though Im a Christian, I have some admiration for polygamy. |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Kobojunkie: 11:53am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Ashirioluwa:Dey there dey deceive yourself. There are many more people who found their so-called love of their life after 3 or 4 marriagea marriagea than those who did it on the first try. Check history and your own ancestors. Many of the ended up abandoning many years ives before finally finding the one they would grow old with. 🥱🥱🥱 |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Kobojunkie: 11:54am On Oct 25, 2025 |
michoim:Adulterous generation that started back during the time of your ancestors, abi? 👍 |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Kobicove(m): 11:57am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Fiscus105:Engagement and actual marriage are not the same thing. According to information available he has been engaged twice before but on both occasions the engagements were called off |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Hemanwel(m): 11:57am On Oct 25, 2025 |
OP, if beauty is your drive for marrying your current spouse, then know that, "the beautiful ones are not yet born". You'll keep seeing the "best" generation after generation until you kpai. Moreover, the grass isn't always greener on the other side 1 Like |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Kobojunkie: 11:58am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Lamasta:Go tell the many domesticate violence victims out there that they the one they married is the real one naw! Explain to them how their other spouse taking out anger, regret and frustration of not being with the love truly loved on them makes them the real love. 🥱🥱🥱 Before you respond, there are also many men caught in DV marriages too. 🥱🥱🥱 |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Fiscus105(m): 11:59am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Kobicove:Ordinary introduction, in which the woman park to your house and start leaving with you, it's your wife. Stop leaving in self denial. You can see world has been counting it for him, meanwhile, which marriage even bigger than engagement? Bye. |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by advanceDNA: 11:59am On Oct 25, 2025 |
Gotocourt:Did the op say anything about being killed or something wrong with the spouse at home?? He's just lusting after a new woman....na thi£f dey him eye.....ajeh!! 1 Like |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by Amarachieze(m): 12:01pm On Oct 25, 2025 |
This is very terrible! Eyes full of adultery they never stop sinning says the Holy book. How can someone you meet or saw after marriage be "original" while the real wife becomes fake. Anyways the beautyful ones are not yet born 1 Like |
| Re: May You Not Meet Your Original Partner After You Are Married by advanceDNA: 12:04pm On Oct 25, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Baba...after the 4 the marriage..they only became more tolerant, considerate, rational and of ofcourse tired of jumping around..... 3 Likes 1 Share |
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