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This doesn't apply to the beautiful, amazing, well raised and blessed ladies that are unfortunate to meet some dmb little boys, keep being the wonderful ladies you guys are. I give you all wonderful good ladies your flowers.

This is for the pipe dreamers. Most ladies want to marry and have their dream weddings and all their fantasies fulfilled which is a good thing but the big problem is most of them are not ready to be good wives but want to be married, it's like trying to be a pilot but fail to study to be a pilot or earn the license to fly.
It's like a pipe dream, though this has nothing to do with those that have paranormal issues, village people or whatever but for those that don't posses the features of a good wife which is most ladies in Nigeria today. Like there was a bridge and it seems mother's have failed to teach their daughters how to be good wives or maybe not which some might be on this list but we can't keep making excuses, if you can learn the latest fashions, how to cook, how to twerk, blow all types of leaves and do all the tiktok dances why can't you learn how to be a good wife? A good wife has or learns wonderful skills, it's not easy at all. A good wife is the best thing that can happen to a man.

So these pipe dreamers, they want the prize but don't want to work for it, you want to marry but don't want to learn and horn the skills, characters of a good wife. Funny you will see how cilly some are, they say I'm stubborn with a smiley beside it like it's some achievement.

A man will see you want to marry you and somehow make his intentions known but while dating you he now discovers that you're empty, no skills on how to be nourishing, be a good mother or wife. Thanks to the fake "feminism" band wagon now some see their partners as opponents instead of team mate or unit. Whw the guy now feels disappointed and renege on his marriage intentions because he has seen that you're not worth it you cry deception, after all I did for you which if researched now you didn't do anything. Most of the deception claims are not true, sometimes guy man go see babe and want to marry her but while dating u realize this biznitch ain't sh, she's just for fun. She will make a bad wife and a horrible mother which will now make the guy double back and leave her were she belongs. They'll now claim deception and champion men are scum.

Their problem is these fulzz can never sit down to run a critical self analysis and criticism.
1. Why am I still single,?
2. What are my bad habits?
3. Why do guys just Bleep me n move?
4. What skills do I need to learn to be a good wife?
5. All these things my exes complained about me are the true and how do I fix it get rid of these bad behaviours.
6. AM I SUBMISSIVE?
7. AM I RESPECTFUL?
8. CAN I LOVE AND FOLLOW A MAN'S LEAD without undermining his authority?

They won't ask themselves questions or take steps to be a better lady, to learn those skills that a good wife ought to have but will binge on BBN all day. They see advice as criticism and see correction as control instead of a learning process a wife BUT THESE FULLZ WILL QUICKLY RUN TO CHURCH AND SHOUT MY HUSBAND MUST LOCATE ME THIS 2025 well you have 2 months left.

Just imagine this, all your exes is their faults, they're all horrible people. You're perfect and it's not your fault which is the lie they tell themselves but fail to be honest to themselves.

Magically it's never a woman's fault, it's the man. Well when they roaster comes home we'll know how it goes.

Shout out to the beautiful queens that are good and knows how to bask in their feminity, yes there are crazy wild littles boys messing around but stay solid. Being solid always wins, cheers to you wonderful ladies out their.

you're trying to cause insomnia for some people abi? Hahaaahaha

marriage is not an achievement


this post shows how inept your celebral is functioning.

Will they ever have sense

Go online and see them arguing whether Fair, Dark, tall or short guy are husband material.

They talk about the type of man they need without knowing that men are the price and not them.

Even the ugly or broke guys don't even need marriage from them but sex.

Sense start locating them when they cross 30 years

Kaczynski:
marriage is not an achievement


this post shows how inept your celebral is functioning.

Is achievement to women

Don't whine yourself

i saw what you did with that pic.

That thing is their new lov e dey scatter their brain like kilode!

now 60% of them have it! both single and married.

obiekunie01:
i saw what you did with that pic.

That thing is their new lov e dey scatter their brain like kilode!

now 60% of them have it! both single and married.

What's the name of that thing pls

Kaczynski:
marriage is not an achievement


this post shows how inept your celebral is functioning.

That is a lie, marriage is an achievement, especially to Nigerian ladies married to a worthy man.


Marriage is an achievement to my wife. My wife have achieved so much for marrying me.


I have bought more than 5 luxury cars for her in less than 10 years of our marriage. None of her friends have achieved such fit even the ones practicing in USA haven't bought up to five luxury cars for themselves with their own hard earned money.


My wife owns a side business despite her in-demand career/profession, that's a huge achievement she couldn't have achieved without me.


She has gotten several certifications in her field all thanks to my support as her hubby.


My wife have never spent a dime on feeding or buying clothes (except special traditional wears she sews on her own) ever since we got married.

My wife doesn't know anything about paying rent or buying home appliances or house equipment, I take care of all that.


Let me stop here.


So if you think marriage is not achievement, it's probably because you only know married people that married the wrong persons.


I have also benefitted from being married to my wife.

Her profession added some respect to my life I won't lie cos many people respect people married to someone of her profession, that's one.


She has given me wonderful kids that when I look at them, I experience unimaginable joy. I spend a lot of time playing with my kids whenever I am around and chanced and those moments heal and fill my soul.


She has given me heirs lol.

I don't bother about taking care of the home cos she does that effortlessly.


So my dear marriage is an achievement if you marry right. And in Nigeria, marriage is a big achievement to women more than men. Many ladies would have died poor and wretched if not for their marriage to their husbands

Why will you marry someone who has committed abo_rtion, have High body count and being in a relationship without getting married? They are for recreational purposes only.

Women control who to give sex.
Men control who to give the ring 💍
Evolution is also to be blamed.
Men are quick to wife girls with good shape and less promiscuous tendencies.

obiekunie01:
i saw what you did with that pic.

That thing is their new lov e dey scatter their brain like kilode!

now 60% of them have it! both single and married.

hahaha that's their consolation in years to cum haha. Will leave them feeling empty.

Makavelli001:
What's the name of that thing pls

ROSE vibrats

People saying marriage is not an achievement for women don't know anything.

Both gender achieve a lot in marriage but women achieve more.
The list are endless.
For women.
1. That Mrs at the start of their name means a lot to them.
I remember when I was rounding up my masters program, merely calling a desk officer her first name without adding the Mrs got her offended.
I had to apologize.

2. That change of surname also means a lot to them,you will hear Mrs Joseph, Mrs opara and the rest.
The joy alone is nostalgic for them.

3.you will not know women love Gbola until you get married.
A woman who is happy with her marriage and her hubby is treating her well will open anytime,any day for the man,even begging the man at night and complaining if the man refuses to perform hos bedmatics duties

4. Others include the comfort she achieve, like cars, and other material items

5. This one is what drive women crazy, her kitchen and home.
She knows she is fully in charge of her home,na woman get house ,abi you no know.
She is in charge of her kitchen and can do,cook and eat whatever she likes.

The list are endless,women,na lie I talk?

franchasng:
That is a lie, marriage is an achievement, especially to Nigerian ladies married to a worthy man.


Marriage is an achievement to my wife. My wife have achieved so much for marrying me.


I have bought more than 5 luxury cars for her in less than 10 years of our marriage. None of her friends have achieved such fit even the ones practicing in USA haven't bought up to five luxury cars for themselves with their own hard earned money.


My wife owns a side business despite her in-demand career/profession, that's a huge achievement she couldn't have achieved without me.


She has gotten several certifications in her field all thanks to my support as her hubby.


My wife have never spent a dime on feeding or buying clothes (except special traditional wears she sews on her own) ever since we got married.

My wife doesn't know anything about paying rent or buying home appliances or house equipment, I take care of all that.


Let me stop here.


So if you think marriage is not achievement, it's probably because you only know married people that married the wrong persons.


I have also benefitted from being married to my wife.

Her profession added some respect to my life I won't lie cos many people respect people married to someone of her profession, that's one.


She has given me wonderful kids that when I look at them, I experience unimaginable joy. I spend a lot of time playing with my kids whenever I am around and chanced and those moments heal and fill my soul.


She has given me heirs lol.

I don't bother about taking care of the home cos she does that effortlessly.


So my dear marriage is an achievement if you marry right. And in Nigeria, marriage is a big achievement to women more than men. Many ladies would have died poor and wretched if not for their marriage to their husbands

it seems you have this nigerian boomer mentality


you quantify your wifes achievement solely in terms of material possessions which reduces her worth to a function of your financial generosity. is her inherent value as a human contingent on your ability to purchase her material goods? is she a tamagotchi??

you admitted to benefiting from your wifes profession which suggests that you view her as a status symbol commodifying her existence. is she not valuable regardless of how much or how little your profession and hers make?


your concluding statement is blatantly egregious. you imply that many nigerian women would be doomed to poverty without marriage to a worthy man which is a generalization and condescending assessment of a woman's capabilities.


https://www.noi-polls.com/post/most-married-nigerians-claim-to-be-happily-married

Kaczynski:
it seems you have this nigerian boomer mentality


you quantify your wifes achievement solely in terms of material possessions which reduces her worth to a function of your financial generosity. is her inherent value as a human contingent on your ability to purchase her material goods? is she a tamagotchi??

you admitted to benefiting from your wifes profession which suggests that you view her as a status symbol commodifying her existence. is she not valuable regardless of how much or how little your profession and hers make?


your concluding statement is blatantly egregious. you imply that many nigerian women would be doomed to poverty without marriage to a worthy man which is a generalization and condescending assessment of a woman's capabilities.


https://www.noi-polls.com/post/most-married-nigerians-claim-to-be-happily-married

I don't have strength for big grammars and long explanation.

Like I said, in Nigeria, marriage is a big achievement for most ladies and for many guys too.


Marriage is an achievement in Nigeria especially for the women because without marriage, many women would have ended up in their family's generational poverty cycle.


You can argue till next year, na you sabi, I am not here for political correctness or gender equality, I am telling you the truth and nothing but the truth based on Nigerian scenario.


Marriage also benefitted many Nigerian guys cos many were able to leave their financial struggling situation in Nigeria to western country through the help of their wife or fiance.


You can continue with your argument and international polls, bye

Bendeco02:
Will they ever have sense

Go online and see them arguing whether Fair, Dark, tall or short guy are husband material.

They talk about the man they need without knowing that men are the price and not them.

Even the ugly or broke guys don't even need marriage from them but sex.

Sense start locating them when they cross 30 years

Some still don't have sense even after 30+ at least I know some. Still regularly attending Shiloh and prayer mountains without doing the real work on themselves. God is laughing really hard at their f00lish prayers 😂

In the next few years, ladies will group their self and advertise it for suitors like this:, it will be like

"Here is bucky an accountant can cook, here is Amaka she's a nurse and earn good salary, Here's Bolanle she's a doctor and would take good care of our children, we are looking for a responsible man who will take the three of us at once, we are friends already and won't course any issue in your home"

Be expecting paid adverts like this on Instagram in the next 5 years, some will even create a website for it , by the time A.I takes away most of the job and single lady floored the street, that will be the new world order. Its here already but its not so intense yet.

franchasng:
That is a lie, marriage is an achievement, especially to Nigerian ladies married to a worthy man.


Marriage is an achievement to my wife. My wife have achieved so much for marrying me.


I have bought more than 5 luxury cars for her in less than 10 years of our marriage. None of her friends have achieved such fit even the ones practicing in USA haven't bought up to five luxury cars for themselves with their own hard earned money.


My wife owns a side business despite her in-demand career/profession, that's a huge achievement she couldn't have achieved without me.


She has gotten several certifications in her field all thanks to my support as her hubby.


My wife have never spent a dime on feeding or buying clothes (except special traditional wears she sews on her own) ever since we got married.

My wife doesn't know anything about paying rent or buying home appliances or house equipment, I take care of all that.


Let me stop here.


So if you think marriage is not achievement, it's probably because you only know married people that married the wrong persons.


I have also benefitted from being married to my wife.

Her profession added some respect to my life I won't lie cos many people respect people married to someone of her profession, that's one.


She has given me wonderful kids that when I look at them, I experience unimaginable joy. I spend a lot of time playing with my kids whenever I am around and chanced and those moments heal and fill my soul.


She has given me heirs lol.

I don't bother about taking care of the home cos she does that effortlessly.


So my dear marriage is an achievement if you marry right. And in Nigeria, marriage is a big achievement to women more than men. Many ladies would have died poor and wretched if not for their marriage to their husbands

Lori Iro..

No be only 10 luxury cars, nah 10 Private jet 🤣

PulaPower:
Lori Iro..

No be only 10 luxury cars, nah 10 Private jet 🤣

Na so my brother....I change car for her every 2 years...and in a certain year she gave birth....the baby brought so much blessing to us I didn't know when I bought 5 cars in one year......named one for my wife, one for the baby...you won't understand.....sometimes I look back at life, at my little beginning and I just give God the glory.


My life is a testimony.....just like the lives of many of my friends....God can bless anybody my brother....just be dedicated, believe in yourself...have a dream, work towards your dream....if na business, be consistent and fully dedicated to it even if its not paying off now....if its career....make sure you are acquiring necessary skills in your field....be the best.....strive to be among the best in your field.....if na Japa.....pray to God for help and favour.....and work towards relocating to a promising country with opportunities and when you get there....forget clubbing and buying every luxury thing you see....just focus on your job, avoid scam....acquire that country's educational qualification in a thriving field, don't be stubborn to change....and don't form the habit of earning and just saving and paying bills abroad....form the habit of multiplication through leveraging on that country and Nigeria....buy affording things you see there...gather them....load in a container....send to Naija....resell.....rinse, repeat.....if na gadgets.....there are low budget gadget markets...locate them and leverage being a Nigerian in a foreign country and do trans-atlantic business and watch your life transform magically in few years. I just gave you some free tips to change your financial life.


Above all.....don't neglect the God-factor....."I will Bless Whom I will Bless" says the Lord....so pray God puts you on that list....pray if you are not on that list for God to show mercy...Jabez in the Bible did it...a lot of people changed theirs....don't rely on fate and chance.....prayer works....hardwork pays....smartness is very important...and humility, being kind and generous will also help your cause in life....don't be too wicked and soulless in all you do in life cos you will pay for it one day.

Peace bro

franchasng:
That is a lie, marriage is an achievement, especially to Nigerian ladies married to a worthy man.


Marriage is an achievement to my wife. My wife have achieved so much for marrying me.


I have bought more than 5 luxury cars for her in less than 10 years of our marriage. None of her friends have achieved such fit even the ones practicing in USA haven't bought up to five luxury cars for themselves with their own hard earned money.


My wife owns a side business despite her in-demand career/profession, that's a huge achievement she couldn't have achieved without me.


She has gotten several certifications in her field all thanks to my support as her hubby.


My wife have never spent a dime on feeding or buying clothes (except special traditional wears she sews on her own) ever since we got married.

My wife doesn't know anything about paying rent or buying home appliances or house equipment, I take care of all that.


Let me stop here.


So if you think marriage is not achievement, it's probably because you only know married people that married the wrong persons.


I have also benefitted from being married to my wife.

Her profession added some respect to my life I won't lie cos many people respect people married to someone of her profession, that's one.


She has given me wonderful kids that when I look at them, I experience unimaginable joy. I spend a lot of time playing with my kids whenever I am around and chanced and those moments heal and fill my soul.


She has given me heirs lol.

I don't bother about taking care of the home cos she does that effortlessly.


So my dear marriage is an achievement if you marry right. And in Nigeria, marriage is a big achievement to women more than men. Many ladies would have died poor and wretched if not for their marriage to their husbands

Boss, sorry to ask which profession mak I add am to my lists of professional ladies to look out for.

AriseAndShine01:
Boss, sorry to ask which profession mak I add am to my lists of professional ladies to look out for.

lolz, medical

franchasng:
lolz, medical

Thanks for your response boss. I thought as much but na that certification confused me. Have always been a strong admirer of darling wifey in Top medical sector. Will surely see to accomplishing this feat.

Thanks for your audience. It's greatly helpful.

AriseAndShine01:
Thanks for your response boss. I thought as much but na that certification confused me. Have always been a strong admirer of darling wifey in Top medical sector. Will surely see to accomplishing this feat.

Thanks for your audience. It's greatly helpful.

You are welcome.

I never loved her profession while growing up for so many reasons and because at some point I believed my course produces more smart and formidable graduates cum professionals while people in her profession carried their shoulder up back then in school, making me dislike them


But after getting married to her, I began to appreciate her profession better, and with time I started enjoying the respect that comes with the title, no mind me, I be village boy weh suddenly make am small, I never adjust finish