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Kobojunkie:
And then Nigerians wonder why most Nigerian married men end up abusers of their wives. 🙄🙄🙄

2. And when they become your enemies after years of you using them, you still play the victim, right?? 🥱🥱🥱

kobojunkie, post your acct no make I wire you something for the week.

Unclebayo:
Hey guys…

Why did we always go with the girls that don’t care about us and leave the ones that has pure heart for us.

A man sent 250k to a lady and she replied with seen and same man sent launch to another lady and the girl wrote a long epistles thanking him and appreciating the love..

But guess what the man will still go with the one that wrote seen..

I’m currently in the show that’s why I don’t blame him… I know a girl that loves me so much but I don’t have feelings for her and I still don’t knows why, this girl can do anything for me to survive Yet I’m not even replying her messages.

Why ? 😢

and she get another guy wey she love too but the guy no love her

Inside life

KingDashx:
✓ and she get another guy wey she love too but the guy no love her. Inside life

There is nothing inside life about any of this. In this life, you will find that there are those:
➜that supposedly love you yet find you are unable to love them back
➜that you love but don't love you back
➜ who love you and you love them too
➜ who hate you, and you also hate them too
....

Intelligent people will know to go with those with whom they share a mutual connection with even if these connections don't last for a lifetime. (It is only the intelligent ones out there that go on to experience the most love their lifetime and ultimately the most success— emotional.) Many of these individuals refuse to rush into relationships and end up enjoying them to the fullest— quality always beats out quantity.

Unfortunately, the vast majority of people out there are not intelligent at all. They surround themselves with people with whom they have no real mutual connections, and then whine about how everyone else is to blame for all of the problems they create for themselves by their unintelligent choices.

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing inside life about any of this. In this life you will find there are those

✓ that supposedly love you yet find you are unable to love them back
✓ that you love but they don't love you back
✓ who love you and you love them too
....

Intelligent people will know to go with those with whom they share a mutual connection with even if this connections don't last for a lifetime.(They are those who end up experiencing love the most in this life and learn the many lessons life has to teach.)

Unfortunately, the vast majority of people out there are not intelligent at all. They surround themselves with people who they have no mutual connections with, and then whine about how everyone else is to blame for all of the problems they create for themselves by their unintelligent choices.

so bros which one you dey inside like this.

fattprince:
Omo I'm in such dilemma now. There's this lady I like on our street, she is very pretty and a new entrant in the street. The first day I saw her was at a small store, she was there when I came so as I asked for what I wanted to buy she looked at me and continue to stare till I almost got uncomfortable. I wasn't sure if that was an attraction tho I felt it was(like 60%). Then I met another lady that came later to our street in the same house with the first one. The first day I saw that one I was 80% sure she likes me with the way she acted. I asked the second one out she agreed and we started dating until later when we were talking and the talk entered the first lady matter. The lady that likes me that we are dating now, mistakenly told me that the first one is crushing on me. The reason why I asked the second one out was because I was just sure she likes me and the first one if I ask her out and she turn me down, I would have blown my chances with the second one. But now I really don't think I love the second one though and she's already thinking of marriage and having children with me but I still continue to indulge her maybe I might change my mind later to love her.

You’re young. I don’t even know if it’s worth telling you this.
But I’ll tell you what I would do if I were in your place.

I would stay with my current girlfriend.

Here’s why:
Falling in love is just passion — and passion has an expiration date.
Love is a conscious decision to care for someone.

The shortest definition of love:
LOVE IS ATTENTION.

So, whether you’ll love that girl or not depends entirely on your conscious choice.
Everything else is passion — it burns hot, but it burns out fast.

And one more thing:
If you leave your current girlfriend, you’ll lose her forever.
A new girl comes with no guarantees. The fact that she’s in love with you — that passion — doesn’t mean things will be better with her.
If you want to take that risk, remember this: every gambler loses everything — sooner or later.

The choice is yours alone.

goran3310:
➜You’re young. I don’t even know if it’s worth telling you this. But I’ll tell you what I would do if I were in your place. I would stay with my current girlfriend. Here’s why: Falling in love is just passion — and passion has an expiration date. Love is a conscious decision to care for someone.
➜ The shortest definition of love: LOVE IS ATTENTION. So, whether you’ll love that girl or not depends entirely on your conscious choice.
Everything else is passion — it burns hot, but it burns out fast.
➜ And one more thing: If you leave your current girlfriend, you’ll lose her forever. A new girl comes with no guarantees. The fact that she’s in love with you — that passion — doesn’t mean things will be better with her. If you want to take that risk, remember this: every gambler loses everything — sooner or later. The choice is yours alone.

1. If love is passion and passion expires, then why remain with someone whom you know you have no passion for?

2. If love were merely attention, then there would be no such thing as getting attention for the wrong reasons, would there? There are people out there who have a passion for that which will eventually kill them... drugs, alcohol, etc. Does love kill?

Love is not attention, and love is more than mere passion. It is more than that dopamine high one gets when one gets attention or is passionate about something. Otherwise, it is no different from the many temporary highs one experiences in life.

3. And if that girl leaves you, then what? If you fancy a relationship as some sort of cage with which to trap yourself and the others in it with you, then you are already off on the wrong path.

Kobojunkie:
1. If love is passion and passion expires, then why remain with someone whom you know you have no passion for?

2. If love were merely attention, then there would be no such thing as getting attention for the wrong reasons, would there? There are people out there who have a passion for that which will eventually kill them... drugs, alcohol, etc. Does love kill?

Love is not attention, and love is more than mere passion. It is more than that dopamine high one gets when one gets attention or is passionate about something. Otherwise, it is no different from the many temporary highs one experiences in life.

3. And if that girl leaves you, then what? If you fancy a relationship as some sort of cage with which to trap yourself and the others in it with you, then you are already off on the wrong path.

You have to distinguish infatuation from love.
Infatuation is passion, and it lasts for three years.