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Hhh4444:
bros, life is deeper than your grail message

To your beliefs, your tent.

Dada4me:
I have same feelings towards my mum... I've been trying to get over it. It's been more than 30 years.

See a mental health counselor/therapist to get you get over the feeling. It won't make her no longer guilty of whatever she may have done to cause the resentment, but at least it would remove the burden you have been carrying for so long. Yes, that feeling you have there is an emotional burden.

AllBlack:
Yes naw... abi I talk lie?
Laugh my guy.

👍

CoronaVirusPro:
Resentment towards your biggest fans!

Hello, they only want you to be the best of they so much on your case.

Those two are the only people in the world who genuinely wish you well and keep you at heart always.

You won’t appreciate them till you lose them.

You never jam irresponsible parents that don't give a fk about their children. Some papas stingy die and some mothers curses their children day and night.
Thank God you're lucky.

olaztek:
You never jam irresponsible parents that don't give a fk about their children. Some papas stingy die and some mothers curses their children day and night.
Thank God you're lucky.

When you say a man is stingy, do you mean he has abundance and not ready to give, or he doesn’t have and not ready to go the extra mile?

CoronaVirusPro:
When you say a man is stingy, do you mean he has abundance and not ready to give, or he doesn’t have and not ready to go the extra mile?

A man who has more children than he can afford to provide for or a man who refuses to sufficiently provides for his family is a stingy man. 🥱

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPMQ4tJ-1z4

Mrdealer4all:
I have so much resentment towards my parents

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Una be spoiled child while growing up

E no dey always pass say your parents had more children than they could take care of all in the name of cHiLdReN aRe bLeSsInGs fRoM gOd🙄

enemyofprogress:
you're not in his shoes. Please don't george.

I will try not to judge you for this error you made

3kay945:
To your beliefs, your tent.

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That teaching is not unique to the Grail message; indeed many ancient schools of thought especially Eastern religions like Hinduism have taught same for millenia long long long before the Grail Message.

Karma, and the placement of souls, previous lives, next lives, etc.

Nevertheless you must spare a thought for the consideration that all these may just be humanity's attempt to explain away the unexplainable and to justify what appears unjust and unfair.

Because we desperately need a sense of equity, a sense of meaning and a sense of justice.

What if that sense is meaningless to an impersonal universe?

Spare the thought, just spare the thought. Not saying there isnt karma, but just spare the thought that it might be human imagination to help us sleep at night.

SamuraiXXX:
I will try not to judge you for this error you made

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The chap is insisting that that is the way Americans spell "Judge" . . . . even after corrected. . . . So I guess we should "George" him.

enemyofprogress:
both of them are correct. One is British English, while the other one is American English, I chose to use the American English which is my mother tongue.

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ZombieDredd:
Taaaa

its not proper to use "George" in reference to act of judgement.

What are you telling me?

judge is a doing verb, while George is a noun and name of person.

What are they teaching you people in that america?

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DeepSight:
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Kaaaaaaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii! ! ! ! !

Olodumare, Chineke, Osanobua!

Gerrard59:
E no dey always pass say your parents had more children than they could take care of all in the name of cHiLdReN aRe bLeSsInGs fRoM gOd🙄

U wanna die young?

Tayorshd87:
my parent gave birth to 5 and I died so we are left with 4 and am d last ..

Is that ''i'' or ''1''

enemyofprogress:
both of them are correct. One is British English, while the other one is American English, I chose to use the American English which is my mother tongue.

Says who?? Which American English writes ''judge'' and ''george''

Stop saying what you don't know, abeg

ChybuzzDD:
Says who?? Which American English writes ''judge'' and ''george''

Stop saying what you don't know, abeg

Professor Wole Soyinka, see as you carry the matter for head like sey the owners of English language dey pay you for every correction you make online. No waste your time and energy on me, channel them on something that will yield money and other benefits for you.

ChybuzzDD:
Is that ''i'' or ''1''

😂that's a mistake ooo 😆

It's 1 not I

ukaface:
No one receives a manual titled “How to Be a Parent.”
Parents are simply individuals — each with their own personalities, strengths, weaknesses, and flaws — who happened to grow older. They still make mistakes, they’re still learning, and most of the time, they’re just doing the best they can. Remember, it’s a cycle: they were once raised by their own parents and shaped by the experiences and knowledge they had.

I may not know your personal story, but try to see them as people who never had it all figured out — they just moved through life, doing what they thought was right.

It is well.

And most importantly, whatever they are doing to you that makes you feel this way is done out of LOVE
Yeah they may not get it right sometimes but they genuinely do things to their children out of love

Nwaikpe:
This is exactly how you feel when you grow into adulthood without leaving your adolescence behind.

During adolescence, everyone feels like the actions and words of our parents were always overbearing.

The moment we enter adulthood, we see beyond the screens of childishness and appreciate every one of those moments as love.

Don't be surprised, the things that these children may have experienced from that their 'parents,' may not be up to 1/5 of what we experienced. But we still love our parents and wil continue loving them till our last days.

That's ur own point of view....that you swallowed everything like it's nothing doesn't mean they're wrong for resenting their parents....a lot of parents aren't fit to have kids in this country.

adamkkk:
abi


cos i really had it bad with my mum bt growing up i realized i had been plain childish. It wasn't right. No matter what she says and does, she remains d mother. Sorry mama.

Pple like you are the reason why Africa remains backward.....overlook wrong doing because the person is ur own or somehow connected to you. .

Anyone that does wrong should be called out for it.....if not you're not fit to judge anyone as well for wrong doing...if ur reason is she's ur mother so she can't be wrong another person's reason will be he is his tribesman so he can't be wrong and another his friend to thus creating a dangerous, backward and moral less society like this country.

Rolings:
✓ And most importantly, whatever they are doing to you that makes you feel this way is done out of LOVE
Yeah they may not get it right sometimes but they genuinely do things to their children out of love

It fascinating to see that many of you have yet to realize that why idea of love you may have to blindly imposes on others is not love but control. 🥱🥱🥱

adamkkk:
abi


cos i really had it bad with my mum bt growing up i realized i had been plain childish. It wasn't right. No matter what she says and does, she remains d mother. Sorry mama.

Some other people's stories are quite different from yours, they had it worse, way worse. Not this kind of childish of yours

Mrdealer4all:
I have so much resentment towards my parents

You will become a parent like them too one day and face the challenges they face now including the sacrifices bringing you up and that’s when moment of realization will hit you

You will understand better when they are no more... Your eyes will clear

Clazzone:
You will understand better when they are no more... Your eyes will clear

Nonsense! If you think that because you are a parent you will be remembered, better think again. There are lots of people out there who forgot their parents the moment they moved out and didn't even show up for their funerals. You have obviously been brainwashed into reasoning that all children have no option but to love their parents, an idea that is far from reality.