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dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.

A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.

Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do

bestman09:
The golden rule says; FEAR WOMEN, 24HRS EVERYDAY!

Kaido:
Marriage ain't for me

dbabs500:
Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do

dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.

A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.

Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do

AngelicBeing:
cc: Namaster , Abeg come offer your BRUTAL ADVICE to these guy ooooooooo

laivwire:
What is in the paper?

Why would you fire questions at her with no plan? You are simply throwing your ace away. You're supposed to be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove (Matthew 10:16) bu you appear to be doing the exact opposite, you are confrontational with your questions and being foolish to fail to investigate the root causes of problems, even saying its okay when you're burning inside.

I don't fancy your chances at all. Who books hotels by accident? Thats like booking a return trip by accident. Where does that happn?

Ojagun:
Men: "E no fit happen to me.No woman fit mumu me...Lai lai!"

When woman begin mumu you eh! E dey always be like film trick

dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.

A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.

Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do

nurudeen181:
About men taking their women abroad, i will say it's wrong, if a woman wants to go abroad, she should do it by herself. And first mistake men are making today is sponsoring their wedding 100% if it cant be 50x50 then you're investing wrongly.

dbabs500:
Attached is the picture of what I saw, forgot to attach

Goo0dHardDick:
You're a weak man.

Strong men moves in silence, they avoid unnecessary dramas until they are satisfied with their curiosity. After which they'll quietly end the marriage if they catch their wives in the hotel with another man.

The fact your beloved wife said she doesn't want to continue that conversation already shows she's in charge of the home and not you. She didn't bother proving anything. Ur beloved wife would be knacked back to back that's if hasn't already started collecting massive rods elsewhere

ukaface:
To this statement, I have a question.
Is it right if the woman brings the man over as against the reverse? Does it make any difference ?

DeepSight:
Why? I ask out of curiosity because I am of a similar mindset.

pigmania:
Sometimes we erroneously think that we know someone else, but we are still getting to know our own selves. The key is going for someone with a good character, it is never cool to ignore red flags before marriage. I have an aunt who took her husband to Europe (she sponsored everything), he was tall, handsome, well built and crying like a kid on their traditional wedding day. He got to Europe, got a job, started getting money, drinking and probably flirting, but she couldn't hide his flaws anymore when he started beating her in her own home. It got so bad that she once jumped from the balcony of a first floor building, while chasing her with rage. Well, they are divorced now with three kids and she moved all the kids to another country. As for me, I'm not sure I'll ever get married, the wahala is just too much, but I surely want about two kids, baby mama self na another wahala.

pigmania:
Sometimes we erroneously think that we know someone else, but we are still getting to know our own selves. The key is going for someone with a good character, it is never cool to ignore red flags before marriage. I have an aunt who took her husband to Europe (she sponsored everything), he was tall, handsome, well built and crying like a kid on their traditional wedding day. He got to Europe, got a job, started getting money, drinking and probably flirting, but she couldn't hide his flaws anymore when he started beating her in her own home. It got so bad that she once jumped from the balcony of a first floor building, while chasing her with rage. Well, they are divorced now with three kids and she moved all the kids to another country. As for me, I'm not sure I'll ever get married, the wahala is just too much, but I surely want about two kids, baby mama self na another wahala.

dbabs500:
Attached is the picture of what I saw, forgot to attach

Tenrack:
you don invite the devil himself make I wait patiently

CorperKola:
I think he never loved her from the beginning just wanted to use her to elevate himself

bestman09:
The golden rule says; FEAR WOMEN, 24HRS EVERYDAY!

DeepSight:
Why? I ask out of curiosity because I am of a similar mindset.

dollypi:
Just keep your eyes open, watch her actions and say less.