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KennethIbe59:
Good day kings in the house

Please I need your take on this
There’s this girl I met — she just relocated from Abuja to Lagos. She’s the sister to my senior man’s wife.

I’ve been very close to their family before I relocated to another area, but I still visit them often. My senior man’s wife likes me a lot.

So, one day when I visited them, I met this girl and collected her number. I’m 35, and she just turned 27.

She was actually the first to chat me up, and we started vibing well. Most times, she’s the one who initiates our chats.

I’ve visited her at her workplace before; we’ve kissed twice on different occasions. She has even sent me money for food twice. I’ve never given her money before — I only spend a little when we hang out for drinks.

Last Sunday was her birthday. I went to see her, called her on the phone, and she came out without telling her sister where she was going. I took her to a bar, and we lodged for about an hour — we had sex.

While we were at the bar, her sister kept calling her several times, but she didn’t pick up.

After everything, I escorted her back home and even spent some time with her sister’s husband at a nearby bar before heading back to my place.

I didn’t call her that night. The next morning, I called — but she didn’t pick, which is unlike her because she always calls me “back” whenever she misses my call.

Since then, I haven’t called her again.

Also I bought her body spray as a gift for her birthday

What do you think I should do, kings?

@Rizzputin
@pukkalolo
@heartofcity12
@caveAdullam
@martinez39s
@skepticus
@emmaodet

CaveAdullam:
1. Why don't you pay a visit to her place of residence since you're familiar there and it's unusual for her to act this way?

2. If she always returns missed calls and hasn't done so since then, perhaps, it might be that she has sunk into a hole.

Try to pay a visit to be able to ascertain her condition and attitudes. Or, make another call.

Thanks.

emmaodet:
A woman values loyalty only when it comes from a man other women want.

She doesn’t want a loyal man ,she wants a man worth being loyal to.

KennethIbe59:
@JESHAL007 WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE ON This sir

emmaodet:
It is a young relationship, so i will say give her more time.
It is not good to bolt out of a relationship at the slightest excuse. It is good to put in good effort to make things work before writing it off if not yielding.
You can't keep blaming others for things not working when you are regularly changing partners. Relationship needs time, effort and investment too.
That by the side, you are 35 and she is 27 so what do you really need? a fling or serious relationship leading to somewhere?
Also, you wrote that you lodged in a hotel just to sleep with her. Does it mean you are still struggling and don't have your own apartment for now? still squatting with someone? or your apartment is not decent enough to use or the environment? which may signal a man not ready for serious relation at that age.

JESHAL007:
The more women you deal with, the more women know you have what it takes to deal with women. And the less women you deal with, the more women know you don't have what it takes to deal with women.

KennethIbe59:
Good day kings in the house

Please I need your take on this
There’s this girl I met — she just relocated from Abuja to Lagos. She’s the sister to my senior man’s wife.

I’ve been very close to their family before I relocated to another area, but I still visit them often. My senior man’s wife likes me a lot.

So, one day when I visited them, I met this girl and collected her number. I’m 35, and she just turned 27.

She was actually the first to chat me up, and we started vibing well. Most times, she’s the one who initiates our chats.

I’ve visited her at her workplace before; we’ve kissed twice on different occasions. She has even sent me money for food twice. I’ve never given her money before — I only spend a little when we hang out for drinks.

Last Sunday was her birthday. I went to see her, called her on the phone, and she came out without telling her sister where she was going. I took her to a bar, and we lodged for about an hour — we had sex.

While we were at the bar, her sister kept calling her several times, but she didn’t pick up.

After everything, I escorted her back home and even spent some time with her sister’s husband at a nearby bar before heading back to my place.

I didn’t call her that night. The next morning, I called — but she didn’t pick, which is unlike her because she always calls me “back” whenever she misses my call.

Since then, I haven’t called her again.

Also I bought her body spray as a gift for her birthday

What do you think I should do, kings?

@Rizzputin
@pukkalolo
@heartofcity12
@caveAdullam
@martinez39s
@skepticus
@emmaodet

Tenrack:
You no get issue boss, as it is now you have the upper hand. Wait till she reaches out. If she doesn't, jejely move on. But I'm almost positive that she'll reach out. Don't do it man, don't try to get in touch after calling the first time and she didn't answer.

Nyascobar1414:
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Yea,they keep coming close ,but there is no lust left in my heart..
I look at them and see nothing worth liking 😔.

I snub them a lot and that intrigues them,cos throughout their whole lives all men they've come across simp for them..

I've figured out that if a man can identify/control the steam of his gonads,then he automatically conquers female manipulation ✌️