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dbabs500:
Plenty of una wey dey chat this never marry or have never had close siblings married going through something similar that has children and are in western world, when i say its not that easy to decide is because children are involved and also am a dependent under her. Am at great risk here na why i dey count my eggs b4 them hatch.

all you need is prayer.. God will see you thru

eepeepook:
Did not read. I have important issues to deal with in my life.

But you had time to reply
Lol

You know what we will say
Yes sir, you don't have sense
You should have gone to the hotel and catch her redhanded.
Snapped pictures. Know the man she wants to meet (your enemy but the way)
I wish you all the best
They go soon finish you

Mariangeles:
You never ready.

He is a weakling. He is the type that will kneel, cry and beg a cheating wife that threatens to leave him

You mean he's not wise?

…but will not read. Lol.

Emceecee:
But you had time to reply
Lol

If not for procreation I would have just forget about marriage these generation of ladies we have these days are nothing to be compared to our mothers. These gen z ladies don't seem to give a damn about having sex with total strangers and getting infected in the process with incurable diseases or even getting initiated spiritually through illicit sex.

dbabs500:
Not always as easy as being said, when children dun involve.

Not easy but its going to happen eventually so better to start making plans.

I can see you are her dependant. If your wish is to stay in this country, then you really have no choice but to continue to play the fool until you get your indefinite leave (hopefully you dont get caught up in the 10 year wahala).

But start making plans and start saving if you can. One thing is guaranteed when you eventually leave you will be 'punished' financially. You guys are probably pooling two incomes to live a decent life now. When you go solo, you will be required to pay her about a quarter of your salary for children maintenance. Check https://www.gov.uk/calculate-child-maintenance to see bow much you'd be required to pay.

Its always tough at first but it helps you to believe in yourself, do more and things eventually get better.

I cant begin to quote all messages are they are way too much. I input it in my initial post that I could have put a surveillance down to track her movement and know her whereabout and who she is fucking, but I was at work that day, there is no way I could have done that, u see my pple u can call me a fool i understand, he get move wey u go make, no need to catch the woman again na to dey plan plan B, why i came here is to get idea of appropriate plan man fit explore or better still people wey dun go through this shit b4. The way I asked her the question, and the way she responded, she sef know sey i dun kana. No story, my being quieter about the whole thing has a good reason, i keep telling u guys if u are not in the Uk as a dependent with kids, u wont understand how hard it is to move like that. I have informed my mum and my sis, both are not even saying anything, they are just saying i should keep praying. Omo...

My kids are mine, done DNA years back, besides....

pappilo:
Guy come meet me for Escape or Starboy for Grays make I give u expo.

My story is very similar to yours but without the juju or violence part.

Na me Bleep up go dey fight side dude. I end up in crown court my bro. I get another paddy wey just dey go through him own. Him go beat up him live in non nigerian baby momma for that Basildon. Him case don dey on for almost 18 months now.

Which side u dey stay? I live in purfleet, I have been to starboy grill b4, dont know that escape, press me ur IG handle plz

dbabs500:
Not always as easy as being said, when children dun involve.

Do DNA. Are you sure they are yours?

Forgive her . Secondly, why will you denied your wife sex? It's her right remember you are pushing her out the more. This days we only discussed about married women and there cheating attitude which am not sure, because I haven't seen any cheating married woman before but cheating married men are everywhere.

ukaface:
To this statement, I have a question.
Is it right if the woman brings the man over as against the reverse? Does it make any difference ?

That happens but very few, if the man sent her there, then she should bring him over, if she went there on her own, then except if she insists he comes and she'll sponsor the trips, then it's ok. But in the major settings, the man goes abroad, work his ass out then brings the wife abroad and she turns against him. . You question has no direct answer but if you just needed a direct answer, then it makes it's right if the woman brings the man over until when men starts turning against their women who brought them over then it's wrong

this is the second week, still trying to carjol me into talking about no connection or whatever, i kept saying its the new work place, she does not seem to beleive and trying every possible means to get me to argue and then spill the bean, seems she's got a powerful lie she has assembled to defend herself, i am sometimes vulnerable and will open up, i pray this time, i will seal up and eventually win this battle. Its a life full of shit, sorrows and agony. But then a beautiful life also.