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Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by Diamond098454(f): 6:52pm On Oct 30, 2025
Gerrard59:
This means you must reside in either Lagos, Abuja or Port-harcourt.


Interesting stuff.

I am curious, what do you do for a living?


Sure. Everyone has the right to choose.


I have never done that before sef, and I give twale to dudes who do.


Interesting. So, when you meet a random lady and in an ensuing conversation, you seek to know what she does for a living and where she works before saving her contact? Is this strictly for a prospective romantic partner or platonic relationships?
hahaha hahaha I can't stop laughing oohhh my God

Good questions though.
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by Chemlite: 7:03pm On Oct 30, 2025
If affection needs constant top-up, it’s not connection; it’s subscription[color=#006600][/color]

The statement above deserve Quote for the Year Award!
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by AfDapone: 8:28pm On Oct 30, 2025
Jennyclay:
It irritates me when men talk about things like this, it’s not only love we’re going to eat in the relationship undecided

Mr man, nobody force you into the relationship, if you can’t spend on the woman you claim you love then get out of the relationship. undecided

The good news is there are hundreds of men that are willing to take good care of your girlfriend incase you don’t know. undecided
Yea, hundreds of men not thousands or millions.
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by seniorgozman(m): 8:59pm On Oct 30, 2025
Jennyclay:
It irritates me when men talk about things like this, it’s not only love we’re going to eat in the relationship undecided

Mr man, nobody force you into the relationship, if you can’t spend on the woman you claim you love then get out of the relationship. undecided

The good news is there are hundreds of men that are willing to take good care of your girlfriend incase you don’t know. undecided
Are you serious
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by spiceadole(f): 10:00pm On Oct 30, 2025
Lol

Nigerian men want to have sex as soon as they meet you but don't want to be billed.

Very funny.
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by lesson44: 5:46am On Oct 31, 2025
Jennyclay:
It irritates me when men talk about things like this, it’s not only love we’re going to eat in the relationship undecided

Mr man, nobody force you into the relationship, if you can’t spend on the woman you claim you love then get out of the relationship. undecided

The good news is there are hundreds of men that are willing to take good care of your girlfriend incase you don’t know. undecided
Poor man pikin
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by lesson44: 5:49am On Oct 31, 2025
Kobicove:
The economy is very hard and it's hitting everyone therefore expect to be billed
The people they billed are in the same country.
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by PantShifter(m): 10:25am On Oct 31, 2025
You can bill me all you want, so long as you're giving me pûssy I don't mind grin
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by pansophist(m): 10:47am On Oct 31, 2025
EvilMerodack:
Na why i dey choose my women with the kin Job wey dem dey do.
I have done stuffs with women in Finance(Bank and Audit), FMCG, Tech and now, na Oil and Gas i dey find badly but e still tight small

I carefully select women with earning powers first, every other thing na secondary

I no dey discriminate but i just want wetin i want

Goodluck to guys that find it cool to walk up to random women as ask them out. For me, i gat don know where you dey work already before i go even show interest or save your contact
Modernised “IJu-use” grin

You smart.
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by pansophist(m): 10:49am On Oct 31, 2025
Omalicious1:
That's why avoiding broke ladies is important
Actually it’s not about being broke, it’s a mentality.

I mean, depends on who we compare ourselves to, we are broke to some extent.

It’s poverty mentality that is wrong with such women.
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by pansophist(m): 10:58am On Oct 31, 2025
MikeofKd:
I've said it in my previous threads , it's men with low self esteem that are causing all these nonsense billing epidemic, all those baby send me Ur account let me appreciate Ur beauty type of men.
If you can't toast a woman without flashing Ur wallet or trying to impress her with Ur money , then u have serious low self esteem. Argue with Ur fore fathers.
It is men of course. A man will always suffer for his lack of sophistication.

Women know very well the kind of man they can extort. They can see if he lacks romantic options, and if she is above his league.

So she is not really bothered loosing him, hence she doesn’t care if she has a bad image in his book. She will bill until he wise up and leave.
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by femi4: 6:24pm On Oct 31, 2025
Jennyclay:
It irritates me when men talk about things like this, it’s not only love we’re going to eat in the relationship undecided

Mr man, nobody force you into the relationship, if you can’t spend on the woman you claim you love then get out of the relationship. undecided

The good news is there are hundreds of men that are willing to take good care of your girlfriend incase you don’t know. undecided
See what we are breeding in this generation...so unfortunate
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by Omalicious1: 8:54pm On Oct 31, 2025
pansophist:
Actually it’s not about being broke, it’s a mentality.

I mean, depends on who we compare ourselves to, we are broke to some extent.

It’s poverty mentality that is wrong with such women.
Whichever way, I flee from ladies with such mentality
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by tanigororo: 7:57am On Nov 02, 2025
Jennyclay:
It irritates me when men talk about things like this, it’s not only love we’re going to eat in the relationship undecided

Mr man, nobody force you into the relationship, if you can’t spend on the woman you claim you love then get out of the relationship. undecided

The good news is there are hundreds of men that are willing to take good care of your girlfriend incase you don’t know. undecided
You are absolutely right
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by MikeofKd(m): 8:29pm On Nov 02, 2025
We4all:
We already know this. But are you sure you are not one of those men that use money to impress a lady, then come online to form alpha male?
First of all I'm not an alpha male , i'm a very principled person. Second of all , yes I've spent money on ladies that were worth it cause they've spent money on me too. For example
One of my ex girlfriend back then once bought a whole full tank for me on my birth day with 50k cash too. Now thats the type of women i can spend on.

But I've never and i will never use my money to impress a woman on first impression.
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by DonroxyII: 3:53am On Nov 04, 2025
Gerrard59:
The problem with this avoid poor or "broke" people (both men and women) is that Nigeria is a country filled with poor people. The economy really needs to grow so people can get okay and good jobs which they use to build their lives.
The economy can't grow if the people Failed to grow!!

Economy wouldn't grow itself .....

A Poverty Oriented Economy(People) Wouldn't Grow go Anywhere !

What we have in Africa are "Tyrants" Not "Leaders" ....

Leaders lead her people to Blisses ...
Tyrants Are Power Obsessed Not "People" !!!
Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by Omalicious1: 6:35am On Nov 07, 2025
pansophist:
Actually it’s not about being broke, it’s a mentality.

I mean, depends on who we compare ourselves to, we are broke to some extent.

It’s poverty mentality that is wrong with such women.
However the case may be, avoid ladies with broke mentality and ladies that relate with men based on survival mode.
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