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I met this guy on Facebook. He had been chatting me for months, but I didn't reply him.

Then one day, I decided to respond. While we were chatting, he told me he likes me and would love me to be his wife.

But on his profile picture, there were two guys him and his friend, so i told him I liked his friend, not him.

He just laughed and said that the other guy was his roomie, and that there was no problem, he could even link me up with him.

So he introduced me to his friend, and me and the friend started talking. We chatted for about three months, and I accepted to date him, though we hadn't met in person.

Yesterday was the first day I visited them.

That's when I realized that the first guy, the one who initially chatted with me is actually more handsome in person than the one I accepted to date.

He's tall, well built, smells good, and he's the real owner of the apartment. The one I'm dating is just scortting with him.

Honestly, I was shocked because in pictures, the first one didn't look attractive at all. But in real life, he's everything I want in a man.

The one I'm dating is short, and I just lost interest immediately I saw them together.

Now I'm really confused because I'm beginning to like the first guy who initially liked me.

I and his friend haven't done anything intimate, though we've exchanged some ńüďè pictures before. But there's been nothing physical between us.

Even when the other guy was saying on our wedding day that he would be the chairman because he linked us together.

I was not laughing because I do not want the joke.I do not want the second guy anymore it's him I like

Even when we wanted to go to bed that night ,l feel bad If it wasn't a travelling thing I wouldn't have slept there yesterday..

I had to enter the second guys room but I didn't allow him to touch me because I was şaď

He only has bed and fan in his room and puts his clothes in Ghana must go.

But the ither guy room is well set, very beautiful, smelling good, the painting, the interior, wordrobe and it was AC inside everything was screaming classic ...Not to even talk.of the sitting room

Please, how do I approach the first guy to let him know I'm now interested in him without looking cheap or disrespectful?

Because honestly, I feel like he's the one I should have been with from the start. I really need your advice on what to do."

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Sounds to me like you think glitter is gold, or you wouldn't be dating based on looks alone.

My hope is, when you approach the first guy he tells you where to go, because he deserves much better than you.

The most confused gender so far

Na once the native hen brain reset when she see the first guy doings . A.C tight and everywhere just dey smell good,na once she realize her mistake .

Got no single advice for you

I done watch this film before..

Only unwise people judge a book from the cover.


Life is all about choice

Sonnobax15:

The most confused gender so far
Got no single advice for you

ANY OTHER gender dey apart from the 2?
e no come CLEAR AGAIN werin u fit dey on.. like SM0KING oo

kiddaz:
Well normally or should I say before there used to be 2 but in these modern times the gender done plenty bro. They identify as anything and some even can't identify with what they identify with. But he's wrong the female isn't the most confused, it's those other recent ones. Even me typing about them done dey confuse with wetin I dey type.

i know dem Him/SHIM

She must be an e-diotaa

Wealthoptulent:
ANY OTHER gender dey apart from the 2?
e no come CLEAR AGAIN werin u fit dey on.. like SM0KING oo

Well normally or should I say before there used to be 2 but in these modern times the gender done plenty bro. They identify as anything and some even can't identify with what they identify with. But he's wrong the female isn't the most confused, it's those other recent ones. Even me typing about them done dey confuse with wetin I dey type.

kiddaz:
Well normally or should I say before there used to be 2 but in these modern times the gender done plenty bro. They identify as anything and some even can't identify with what they identify with. But he's wrong the female isn't the most confused, it's those other recent ones. Even me typing about them done dey confuse with wetin I dey type.

whats is Well normally

Please take the L and never look back! You fumbled the bag and anything you do now will be embarrassing.

Sometimes it's wise to count loses and move on...


It's unwise, disrespectful and cheap of you to even think of going back to the first guy.

He probably knew she would regret your actions ie choosing the other guy over him from the beginning and was setting her up for the outcome.


Go and look for another fish to fry elsewhere and forget the two of them because she would just be setting herself up for embarrassment and nothing good can come out of this as the first guy already knows her mindset of being a gold digger.


Besides no one likes to know they are the second option.

Move on... preserve what is left of your self respect!

Nollywood at its peak 😂

Wahala 😀, very confused gender, not all that glitters is gold

duduade:
Nollywood at its peak 😂

Only it will become boring towards the middle

Confused fish

Women are naturally confused in nature.

That's exactly why it is irrelevant trying to understand a woman. And it is more easy for a bad boy to get them because these guys tell them what they want to hear.

This one wants B but suddenly wants A and now she's confused that A is also good looking but B is her spec and she'll end up sleeping with them both.

You thought the grass was greener on the other side. count your loss and move on .....my opinion