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My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by bokondogi: 3:44am On Nov 25, 2022
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Urheadmaster(m): 3:49am On Nov 25, 2022
cheesy

This your story sweet and long like an India film.










I can't wait to read the part 2 tongue.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by immortalcrown(m): 3:52am On Nov 25, 2022
More than two and half decades and your marriage is still like this?

This story is not complete. Show your wife this post and let her tell her side of the story. Then, I can say something. I say this because I wonder what led to your friend sending you porn, you that have spent more than 2 decades in marriage. This seems to be a case of a pot calling a kettle black.

He that comes to equity should come with clean hands.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by TheRareGem1(f): 3:52am On Nov 25, 2022
Two and half decades is such a long time. Try and manage the situation for the sake of your children. It hurts really but your wife is your wife.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Urheadmaster(m): 4:05am On Nov 25, 2022
TheRareGem1:
Two and half decades is such a long time. Try and manage the situation for the sake of your children. It hurts really but your wife is your wife.

Short story about me and my ex-girlfrend angry.

Married with a child, and when she heard that I have travelled out of the country to Germany.


On my Instagram page, I have my contact details.

That was how she got my contact and began to chart me up on WhatsApp messenger.


After telling me that, she regret married to the man she is currently living with.


One thing lead to another, she started sending me videos of her naked body while taking her baths.

Asking me to do the same but I declined.



She would call me on video chat while pressing her milky tits asking me to bring out my dick for her to see shocked



I kuku ma blocked her because I couldn't take it any longer tongue

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Flora2Sweet: 4:06am On Nov 25, 2022
Be happy you where smarter than her, if not ..... na for hotel room u for see them..

Never ever trust a woman..

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by advanceDNA: 4:17am On Nov 25, 2022
TheRareGem1:
Two and half decades is such a long time. Try and manage the situation for the sake of your children. It hurts really but your wife is your wife.

This is one that is already offing pant in her head is the one u are saying "your wife is ur wife"
What does this statement mean seff?? grin
That he doesn't have any choice but to accept her nonsense or what?? "your wife is ur wife"

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by advanceDNA: 4:19am On Nov 25, 2022
Urheadmaster:


Short story about me and my ex-girlfrend angry.

Married with a child, and when she heard that I have travelled out of the country to Germany.


On my Instagram page, I have my number details.

That was how she got my contact and began to chart me up on WhatsApp messenger.


After telling me that, she regret married to the man she is currently living with.


One thing lead to another, she started sending me videos of her naked body while taking her baths.

Asking me to do the same but I declined.



She would call me on video chat while pressing her milky tits asking me to bring out my dick for her to see shocked



I quickly block her because I couldn't take it anymore tongue



Limaqueen98 come and carry one of ur people, later u will say only men cheat ...women are saints

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by advanceDNA: 4:25am On Nov 25, 2022
Old flame ...
They never die....
20 - 50 years later....they can become an inferno

...this your wife wey don dey send money, dey send pórn....Las las e be like say she go off pant ooo


Just Brace your self.... U can't force an adult from fvcking up if their heart is there ...and it's clear ur wife wants to fvck up with this nigga cos she don fvck the nigga b4..... in addition to all her lies that she doesn't think she was doing any wrong or the implications of her action...

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Urheadmaster(m): 4:30am On Nov 25, 2022
advanceDNA:
Old flame ...
They never die....
20 - 50 years later....they can become an inferno

...this your wife wey don dey send money, dey send pórn....Las las e be like say she go off pant ooo


Just Brace your self.... U can't force an adult from fvcking up if their heart is there ...and it's clear ur wife wants to fvck up with this nigga cos she don fvck the nigga b4..... in addition to all her lies that she doesn't think she was doing any wrong or the implications of her action...

I fear men who no fear their wives tongue








For men to think that women are only entitled to one prick after marriage for the rest of their lives is the most stupid things to think about cheesy tongue

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by jogsman01(m): 4:37am On Nov 25, 2022
2½ decades? Fear women ooo

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by NoahHadNoArk: 4:54am On Nov 25, 2022
This will never end well, who go bet am grin

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Nobody: 4:55am On Nov 25, 2022
undecided Ghost writers hitting FP in…

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Chloraseptic: 5:31am On Nov 25, 2022
Phone and social media are the greatest barriers to successful marriage..

There are old flames that would never have crossed path nor reignited again in this lifetime if phone and and social media weren't available.

Just watch how redpillers will rush in to tell you to leave your wife of 25 years as if it's as easy as leaving a relationship of one month. They don't know or believe that anything marital issues can be fixed..

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Tokskob2008: 5:40am On Nov 25, 2022
Dimples2022:
undecided Ghost writers hitting FP in…
Lol... looks like it's the mods that do create this monikers and stories then push it to the FP just to keep the forum lively otherwise I don't see why a woman who has been married for close to 25yrs will start sex chatting her old school mate/boyfriend who is probably in his 50s and even sending him money and gifts plus I'm sure her own first child will be around 20yrs or so.... It doesn't make sense honestly

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Jmarjr(m): 5:43am On Nov 25, 2022
Nawa

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Nobody: 5:48am On Nov 25, 2022
grin


Tokskob2008:

Lol... looks like it's the mods that do create this monikers and stories then push it to the FP just to keep the forum lively otherwise I don't see why a woman who has been married for close to 25yrs will start sex chatting her old school mate/boyfriend who is probably in his 50s and even sending him money and gifts plus I'm sure her own first child will be around 20yrs or so.... It doesn't make sense honestly

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by duduade16: 6:04am On Nov 25, 2022
Na him disvirgine her any time dey meet dey will Bleep, ladies don't use to forget the experience

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by dawnomike(m): 6:11am On Nov 25, 2022
She has crossed the line, but since you found no evidence showing she gave in to any sexual acts. Well, forgive and let go for now.
I can understand how embittered you feel right now

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Tunagee(m): 6:12am On Nov 25, 2022
jogsman01:
2½ decades? Fear women ooo

I wonder why people are still getting married, and i keep saying this: ''women are always the achitect of any destroyed marriage'' anyone can quote me. Very gullible being. So she has to be told that what she is doing is wrong?she does not have respect for the husband at all.
Her heart is with the guy, so poster carry your cross oooo!
Uncle poster, let her fall into this trap the devil has set for her like her ancestor eve. Then tell her off your marriage.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by GOFRONT(m): 6:12am On Nov 25, 2022
Marriage is Overrated.....

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Tunagee(m): 6:14am On Nov 25, 2022
Tokskob2008:

Lol... looks like it's the mods that do create this monikers and stories then push it to the FP just to keep the forum lively otherwise I don't see why a woman who has been married for close to 25yrs will start sex chatting her old school mate/boyfriend who is probably in his 50s and even sending him money and gifts plus I'm sure her own first child will be around 20yrs or so.... It doesn't make sense honestly

Things like this do happen regularly.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Tokskob2008: 6:24am On Nov 25, 2022
Tunagee:


Things like this do happen regularly.
No doubts about that and that's why marriage is kind of scary this days but the issue with this particular post is that the woman is of the old generation and not this indomie generation atal.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by meobizy(f): 7:02am On Nov 25, 2022
This boy again. Front page sure.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by zexy2030(m): 7:07am On Nov 25, 2022
If the devil wants to destroy you, he enters your woman.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by siofra(f): 7:07am On Nov 25, 2022
Urheadmaster:


Short story about me and my ex-girlfrend angry.

Married with a child, and when she heard that I have travelled out of the country to Germany.


On my Instagram page, I have my contact details.

That was how she got my contact and began to chart me up on WhatsApp messenger.


After telling me that, she regret married to the man she is currently living with.


One thing lead to another, she started sending me videos of her naked body while taking her baths.

Asking me to do the same but I declined.



She would call me on video chat while pressing her milky tits asking me to bring out my dick for her to see shocked



I kuku ma blocked her because I couldn't take it any longer tongue






Everytime Germany this, Germany that. Are you the only Nigerian in Germany undecided

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by zexy2030(m): 7:08am On Nov 25, 2022
If the devil wants to destroy you, he enters your woman. Avoid Adam's method in correcting this. Adam corresponded with eve. But God's approach was a curse n caution.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by chachanga: 7:12am On Nov 25, 2022
Quarrel openly...

Get family, Church etc involved...

Make sure you have witnesses.

Don't accept her apologies privately. Cheating spouses and manipulative partners are most happy when they're able to take you through cycles of "private-hurt/private-apology" when caught because it hides their guilt, shame and lays foundation for them to continue. It makes them believe they can easily manage or handle you. You don't want to be handled by a manipulative narcissistic cheat.

Get marital counseling where necessary.... You'll be shocked what you'll hear. But committing to the process will yield great results for you.

Do what you can to re-spice your marriage after all your making up. Re-ignite your love, up your dicck game.

It's 2 and half decades of beautiful memories you've made together... Don't let teenagers here tell you to throw her away.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by saheed2325(m): 7:29am On Nov 25, 2022
Hmmm!
I pray God continue to increase you in wisdom.
Women are all the same in vein. Don't take it with levity, secret apology may not be enough. As it is, she is in lust with that guy. I'm quite sure while all these are happening, she will be misbehaving in some manners. But don't let her turn you to the kind of man u are not. Seek wisdom from elders. 21st century get as e be. All man with his problem.

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Nobody: 7:30am On Nov 25, 2022
Married women and cheating these days, what is wrong?

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Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by lolu2019: 7:41am On Nov 25, 2022
Tokskob2008:

Lol... looks like it's the mods that do create this monikers and stories then push it to the FP just to keep the forum lively otherwise I don't see why a woman who has been married for close to 25yrs will start sex chatting her old school mate/boyfriend who is probably in his 50s and even sending him money and gifts plus I'm sure her own first child will be around 20yrs or so.... It doesn't make sense honestly
things dey happen bro.nor be everything wey man see e dey talk.

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