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I am a testament to this truth. Some of us were very sexually active, and lived a so sensuous life that it seems no man can exist without sex in a week or month if he has the money to spend on women.
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Oga this is a big lie. A big lie. By the time you master yourself and can control your sexual appetite, you will realise the need for girl friend does not even exist, especially the type we have in Nigeria where a man pretends he loves a woman but only for sexual gratification and the woman also pretends to love you only for the money, company and sex you provide.

You can live without such worthless life style. Embrace God. If you yeild yourself to God, even masturbation and porn will be things of the past because you will gravitate towards thoughts that bring you to God's word, prayers, and growing your spiritual life will be like a huge priority for you.

Holy spirit will become real and will help you shelve away all avenues Satan uses to deceive you to seek self gratification that leads to sin.

So I can categorically say that if Christ is truly dwelling in you, you will realise combining girlfriend and unhibited sexual lifestyle with God can not truly work. Because Holy Ghost will convict you. You have to drop one for the other, except you want to practice hypocrisy and deceive yourself.

So truly you can live without girlfriend till marriage and be free without the sexual burden characterised with it.

See you, see pr😂state cancer😎🤧
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SpencerForbes:
See you, see pr😂state cancer😎🤧
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You need eating of bitter cola more than sex to prevent prostate cancer. Stop believing fake research.

FreeSpirited:
You need eating bitter cola more than sex to prevent prostate cancer. Stop believing fake research.

Okay sir. Let’s add alligator pepper and schnapps😂😂😂

Bitter cola enhances libido, improves erectile quality, increases stamina and boost testosterone.

I wonder how you’ll handle the libido and erectile quality when it comes😂

The issue I have with Nigerians is lack of research. We post first before researching.
What else would you like to add😂
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Whatever works for you. This preek is not for decoration

SpencerForbes:
Okay sir. Let’s add alligator pepper and schnapps😂😂😂

Bitter cola enhances libido, improve erectile quality, increases stamina and boost testosterone.

I wonder how you’ll handle the libido and erectile quality when it comes😂

The issue I have with Nigerians is lack of research. We post first before researching.
What else would you like to add😂
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Good protein Food is also major stimulant for libido, does that mean we shouldn't eat protein because we don't want to have sex? . Bitter cola won't be a problem if your eyes and heart is kept clean from lust and focused on God.
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And if you are focused on God, you will fast occasionally

RealityKings1:
Whatever works for you. This preek is not for decoration

Some are in hospital, they can't even remember sex or any sexual organ, they are pleading God to just give them good health
While some are battling sexual dysfunction, no matter the beauty or nude, their oga can't stand up again. So you don't have to be in those situation to realize you can live without your organ putting you in sinful troubles

FreeSpirited:
Good protein Food is also major stimulant for libido, does that mean we shouldn't eat protein because we don't want to have sex? . Bitter cola won't be a problem if your eyes and heart is kept clean from lust and focused on God.
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And if you are focused on God, you will fast occasionally

So fasting can reduce libido anything that rocks your boat. So how do repress libido, by praying to God🤔 or you have another way you want tell us

Sometimes I wonder why God didn’t make sex like puberty. When you’re married, then he gives you organs
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SpencerForbes:
So fasting can reduce libido anything that rocks your boat. So how do repress libido, by praying to God🤔 or you have another way you want tell us

Sometimes I wonder why God didn’t make sex like puberty. When you’re married, then he gives you organs
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The goal is not to repress libido. Though the Bible says we should mortify our body, but before we can even do that, we have to first receive Christ, and yield our life to him.
Then over time as we continue to fear him, and obey him, he will start working on us, and start helping us to resist things we couldn't resist.
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Then with our love for God, we will see ourselves fasting and praying which all allow God to supply needed grace to bring our body in subjection to him.
This is why mere discipline don't work when tryin to stop sexual addiction, we need spirit energy .
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Even if we fall back, once we are honest, and ask God for forgiveness and learn from that event, he will forgive and we will start our journey all over again, temptation will come to test if we mean our resolve and repentance, once we keep passing it, then more strength will be released... Till a time will come we now realise the need to seduce a woman or sleep with her does not even come to our heart..In fact it will sound dirty. That's the word abiding in us.. Substituting the mind of sin with the nature of Christ.

FreeSpirited:
The goal is not to repress libido. Though the Bible says we should mortify our body, but before we can even do that, we have to first receive Christ, and yield our life to him.
Then over time as we continue to fear him, and obey him, he will start working on us, and start helping us to resist things we couldn't resist.
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Then with our love for God, we will see ourselves fasting and praying which all allow God to supply needed grace to bring our body in subjection to him.
This is why mere discipline don't work when tryin to stop sexual addiction, we need spirit energy .
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Even if we fall back, once we are honest, and ask God for forgiveness and learn from that event, he will forgive and we will start our journey all over again, temptation will come to test if we mean our resolve and repentance, once we keep passing it, then more strength will be released... Till a time will come we now realise the need to seduce a woman or sleep with her does not even come to our heart..In fact it will sound dirty. That's the word abiding in us.. Substituting the mind of sin with the nature of Christ.

So you're viewing abstinence as a form of devotion or offering to a higher power 🤔. I appreciate you highlighting the recognition of human vulnerability.

How does abstaining from sex serve God, though?

About marriage, if it happens, kidnapping isn't exactly a conventional approach in most cultures, hope you aren’t planning to because I don’t see it happening without girlfriend.

Sex is largely driven by biology, alongside emotional and relational aspects. Suppressing it long-term might have consequences, kinda like ignoring basic needs like hunger.

This approach might lead to emotional distance from the opposite sex, potentially impacting marriage if skills for healthy interactions aren't developed.

Sex isn't always needed, but for adults in relationships, it's a normal part of life.

Maybe reframing the topic from "girlfriend" to "sex" could offer a more clarity. Because I think if you’re ever going to get married, then you need to know your partner. Even in the Bible Abraham knew Sarah even before taking her in.
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SpencerForbes:
So you're viewing abstinence as a form of devotion or offering to a higher power 🤔. I appreciate you highlighting the recognition of human vulnerability.

How does abstaining from sex serve God, though?

About marriage, if it happens, kidnapping isn't exactly a conventional approach in most cultures, hope you aren’t planning to because I don’t see it happening without girlfriend.

Sex is largely driven by biology, alongside emotional and relational aspects. Suppressing it long-term might have consequences, kinda like ignoring basic needs like hunger.

This approach might lead to emotional distance from the opposite sex, potentially impacting marriage if skills for healthy interactions aren't developed.

Sex isn't always needed, but for adults in relationships, it's a normal part of life.

Maybe reframing the topic from "girlfriend" to "sex" could offer a more clarity. Because I think if you’re ever going to get married, then you need to know your partner. Even in the Bible Abraham knew Sarah even before taking her in.
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Paul in Romans says, Presenting our body as holy sacrifice, devoid of sexual immorality is a compulsory and reasonable service unto God. Because we are the temple of God. And who ever defile the temple of God won't go unpunished according to Corinthians.
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In Revelation, Jesus himself said fornicators and sexually immoral can't make heaven...... No more argument....
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Marriage is not the ultimate of life. If you have success in sex and marriage and make hell, what's the point.
No marriage in heaven.
Sex is not mere biological issue... Sex impact our spiritual life, impact our behavior if not channeled properly.... And wrongly used sex like animal has both psychological, health and spiritual consequences. Ask porn stars if they are truly happy having indiscriminate sex? Research the truth of porn industry, those are the people who have sex like animal nature and what you will find out should tell you the truth.. It's a life of horror, drugs, addiction, disease, fear and demonic oppression.....
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. OGA don't allow oyinbo philosophy deceive you. The earlier you allow God dictate your sexual behavior the better.

FreeSpirited:
Some are in hospital, they can't even remember sex or any sexual organ, they are pleading God to just give them good health
While some are battling sexual dysfunction, no matter the beauty or nude, their oga can't stand up again. So you don't have to be in those situation to realize you can live without your organ putting you in sinful troubles

More reason why I should put my organ to good use.

FreeSpirited:
Paul in Romans says, Presenting our body as holy sacrifice, devoid of sexual immorality is a compulsory and reasonable service unto God. Because we are the temple of God. And who ever defile the temple of God won't go unpunished according to Corinthians.
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In Revelation, Jesus himself said fornicators and sexually immoral can't make heaven...... No more argument....
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Marriage is not the ultimate of life. If you have success in sex and marriage and make hell, what's the point.
No marriage in heaven.
Sex is not mere biological issue... Sex impact our spiritual life, impact our behavior if not channeled properly.... And wrongly used sex like animal has both psychological, health and spiritual consequences. Ask porn stars if they are truly happy having indiscriminate sex? Research the truth of porn industry, those are the people who have sex like animal nature and what you will find out should tell you the truth.. It's a life of horror, drugs, addiction, disease, fear and demonic oppression.....
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. OGA don't allow oyinbo philosophy deceive you. The earlier you allow God dictate your sexual behavior the better.

Too much of everything is bad even as a little as drinking water. Do you know too much of water can be bad for our health🤔
But if we drink water in a balanced way it can help and regulate our organs.
But if we have less water then it is dangerous to our whole system so you talking about pornstars is off grid.

Let me give you the gospel truth, if you can abstain for 100 years, please do but if your heart ain’t right with God, see you see hell. That’s not a prayer.

What’s sexual morality if I may ask, define the term moral sexuality🤔🤔🤔

SpencerForbes:
Too much of everything is bad even as a little as drinking water. Do you know too much of water can be bad for our health🤔
But if we drink water in a balanced way it can help and regulate our organs.
But if we have less water then it is dangerous to our whole system so you talking about pornstars is off grid.

Let me give you the gospel truth, if you can abstain for 100 years, please do but if your heart ain’t right with God, see you see hell. That’s not a prayer.

What’s sexual morality if I may ask, define the term moral sexuality🤔🤔🤔

So having sex out of God's law as you wish with right heart will will see you in heaven?

Hope you know that wrong sexual behavior outside of God's will is addictive. That's what brought pornstars off the grid. The addiction. And you can become like them if you continue in your tracks unhindered, the difference is that yours may not be televised to the world, but you guys will have the same spiritual end

FreeSpirited:
So having sex out of God's law as you wish with right heart will will see you in heaven?

Hope you know that wrong sexual behavior outside of God's will is addictive. That's what brought pornstars off the grid. The addiction. And you can become like them if you continue in your tracks unhindered, the difference is that yours may not be televised to the world, but you guys will have the same spiritual end

Do you know why I love Jesus Christ? Bros J never discriminated or made anyone feel like hell fire is his.
Jesus told one story of two people praying in synagogue, the first one was loud and explaining all his good deeds but the second one “acknowledged” he was a sinner. Who did Jesus Christ chose?

Secondly they brought an adulterous woman, if you were there, you’d have started quoting scriptures but bros J said he who’s without sin let him cast the first stone.

My point is from your first paragraph you were sounding like because you’ve abstained, you achieved the last height of transition but I’m here to tell you. Your abstinence is filthy and doesn’t guarantee your transition and instead of you to focus on sexual immorality ( which you didn’t answer my previous question) focus on doing good, make your heart right with God. Yes you’re going to sin but don’t dwell on your sin. That’s where satan comes in.

Let’s drop this holiness thing and focus on setting our heart with God and praying. With all sincerity, heaven is not even guaranteed for your preachers. Acknowledge you’re a sinner and pray God directs you and maybe you might have a chance.
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SpencerForbes:
Do you know why I love Jesus Christ? Bros J never discriminated or made anyone feel like hell fire is his.
Jesus told one story of two people praying in synagogue, the first one was loud and explaining all his good deeds but the second one “acknowledged” he was a sinner. Who did Jesus Christ chose?

Secondly they brought an adulterous woman, if you were there, you’d have started quoting scriptures but bros J said he who’s without sin let him cast the first stone.

My point is from your first paragraph you were sounding like because you’ve abstained, you achieved the last height of transition but I’m here to tell you. Your abstinence is filthy and doesn’t guarantee your transition and instead of you to focus on sexual immorality ( which you didn’t answer my previous question) focus on doing good, make your heart right with God. Yes you’re going to sin but don’t dwell on your sin. That’s where satan comes in.

Let’s drop this holiness thing and focus on setting our heart with God and praying. With all sincerity, heaven is not even guaranteed for your preachers. Acknowledge you’re a sinner and pray God directs you and maybe you might have a chance.
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Without holiness, you have not even started doing business with God. You are still joking and deceiving yourself Oga. No two way about it.
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Jesus told the woman go and sin no more. Hope you know. Go and sin no more, go and stop committing adultery. Jesus dint save her to continue. Jesus saved her to give her grace to stop sinning instead of to die in sin., because if she was stoned to death, they would have fulfilled the law.... She would have been damned as well as the hypocrites who did the stoning....
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While the woman may have repented, the hypocrites didn't repent because they felt bitter when their sin was also exposed after Jesus said who among them who have not sinned should cast the stone.
If the woman failed to repent, of course, Jesus can't guarantee she won't be stoned to death subsequently. There's nothing like right mind in sin.
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I John says, anyone born of God doesn't sin... And if you sin, beg God to restore you, not being arrogant by saying anyone who calls you out is self-righteous, that means you are enjoying your sin and not ready to forsake it.
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In Luke chapter 13, Jesus also said those who died dangerous death were not worse sinners than those who escape dangerous death, he said unless those who escaped repent, they would also have same fate..... So repentance from our sin is non-negotiable from Christ perspective. Not even grace permits it. ...... Because sin can never make grace abound according to Romans.....
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Don't deceive yourself, when you are ready, ask God to help you. Tell him you want to stop fornicating, and little by little he will help you the way he helped me.
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FreeSpirited:
Without holiness, you have not even started doing business with God. You are still joking and deceiving yourself Oga. No two way about it.
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Jesus told the woman go and sin no more. Hope you know. Go and sin no more, go and stop committing adultery. Jesus dint save her to continue. Jesus saved her to give her grace to stop sinning instead of to die in sin., because if she was stoned to death, they would have fulfilled the law.... She would have been damned as well as the hypocrites who did the stoning....
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While the woman may have repented, the hypocrites didn't repent because they felt bitter when their sin was also exposed after Jesus said who among them who have not sinned should cast the stone.
If the woman failed to repent, of course, Jesus can't guarantee she won't be stoned to death subsequently. There's nothing like right mind in sin.
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I John says, anyone born of God doesn't sin... And if you sin, beg God to restore you, not being arrogant by saying anyone who calls you out is self-righteous, that means you are enjoying your sin and not ready to forsake it.
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In Luke chapter 13, Jesus also said those who died dangerous death were not worse sinners than those who escape dangerous death, he said unless those who escaped repent, they would also have same fate..... So repentance from our sin is non-negotiable from Christ perspective. Not even grace permits it. ...... Because sin can never make grace abound according to Romans.....
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Don't deceive yourself, when you are ready, ask God to help you. Tell him you want to stop fornicating, and little by little he will help you the way he helped me.
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Ever heard of grace and law
Why was the law made in the first place.
The just “ified” shall live by what

Read the book of Romans. When you understand, you’ll see that your righteousness is like a filthy rag before God. If you think you can keep the law, then so be it. You’ll be judge by the law. Let’s see how many you can keep and make sure you keep all of it because if you keep one and leave the rest, you’ll still be damned.
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1. *Romans 3:24*: "and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus"
2. *Galatians 5:4*: "You are severed from Christ, you who would be justified by the law; you have fallen away from grace."
3. *Ephesians 2:8-9*: "For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast."


You know why Paul had issues with the apostle, it was because of people like you. Yes keeping the law is holy, but I’m sorry bruh it doesn’t guarantee your justification. (Romans 7:12), (Romans 3:20).

Go and sin no more wasn’t a law, it was an advice. You think your holiness helps God, very funny 😄 what can the all powerful achieve with your holiness, does he help him gain more power? No.

SpencerForbes:
Ever heard of grace and law
Why was the law made in the first place.
The just “ified” shall live by what

Read the book of Romans. When you understand, you’ll see that your righteousness is like a filthy rag before God. If you think you can keep the law, then so be it. You’ll be judge by the law. Let’s see how many you can keep and make sure you keep all of it because if you keep one and leave the rest, you’ll still be damned.
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The Romans you claim to understand is the same book that gave me understanding that I can actually live above sin. Have you ever read Romans 6, Romans 7, Romans 8 and Romans 12 in that order and understand all the talking points... I doubt you have never...
If you do, you will understand walking in the spirit is the antedote to any sin. So if you are walking in the spirit how can you remain in sexual lust watching porn, masturbating or fornicating which is the fruit of walking in the flesh?
If you ever read Romans 8 , you would have known we are debtors, indebted to living in the spirit and not the flesh because everything flesh is against the spirit which is against God. .
Oga Read Romans 6,7,8 and 12 and come back let's talk.
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And if Romans doesn't teach you you have power to live above sin which is available in the Holy Ghost through Christ death, then don't talk to me again. .
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If Romans doesn't teach you that you have freedom from sin and if you decide to remain in sin you have become a slave to sin and not a free born, then I wonder what you have been reading. Me I do not want to be slave to sin, because I'm already a heir and son of God.
And lastly when Paul said we are dead to sin in Romans, what do you think he's talking of? Swimming in fornication, greed, fight and lying?

FreeSpirited:
You need eating bitter cola more than sex to prevent prostate cancer. Stop believing fake research.

Im sorry whats the work of bitter kola

FreeSpirited:
The Romans you claim to understand is the same book that gave me understanding that I can actually live above sin. Have you ever read Romans 6, Romans 7, Romans 8 and Romans 12 in that order and understand all the talking points... I doubt you have never...
If you do, you will understand walking in the spirit is the antedote to any sin. So if you are walking in the spirit how can you remain in sexual lust watching porn, masturbating or fornicating which is the fruit of walking in the flesh?
If you ever read Romans 8 , you would have known we are debtors, indebted to living in the spirit and not the flesh because everything flesh is against the spirit which is against God. .
Oga Read Romans 6,7,8 and 12 and come back let's talk.
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And if Romans doesn't teach you you have power to live above sin which is available in the Holy Ghost through Christ death, then don't talk to me again. .
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If Romans doesn't teach you that you have freedom from sin and if you decide to remain in sin you have become a slave to sin and not a free born, then I wonder what you have been reading. Me I do not want to be slave to sin, because I'm already a heir and son of God.
And lastly when Paul said we are dead to sin in Romans, what do you think he's talking of? Swimming in fornication, greed, fight and lying?

Im with you boss
Jesus died so sin died when he died
He took authority frim the local boss.
So that through him we are saved.
You just need to believe + faith is the key.
Add love you can never be stopped.
Study vibration

Thereedemer:
Im sorry whats the work of bitter kola

It's just like any other fruit with its specific God indued health benefits.
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Research has said eating bitter cola help to reduce risk of prostate cancer, it can also prevent digestion or diarrhoea issues, help libido, can also reduce pain and reduce fever. It's quite medicinal. U can google. Can cleanse the gut too

FreeSpirited:
It's just like any other fruit with its specific God indued health benefits.
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Research has said eating bitter cola help to reduce risk of prostate cancer, it can also prevent digestion or diarrhoea issues, help libido, can also reduce pain and reduce fever. It's quite medicinal. U can google. Can cleanse the gut too

But it feed you with caffeine
How do you cope?

FreeSpirited:
Without holiness, you have not even started doing business with God. You are still joking and deceiving yourself Oga. No two way about it.
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Jesus told the woman go and sin no more. Hope you know. Go and sin no more, go and stop committing adultery. Jesus dint save her to continue. Jesus saved her to give her grace to stop sinning instead of to die in sin., because if she was stoned to death, they would have fulfilled the law.... She would have been damned as well as the hypocrites who did the stoning....
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While the woman may have repented, the hypocrites didn't repent because they felt bitter when their sin was also exposed after Jesus said who among them who have not sinned should cast the stone.
If the woman failed to repent, of course, Jesus can't guarantee she won't be stoned to death subsequently. There's nothing like right mind in sin.
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I John says, anyone born of God doesn't sin... And if you sin, beg God to restore you, not being arrogant by saying anyone who calls you out is self-righteous, that means you are enjoying your sin and not ready to forsake it.
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In Luke chapter 13, Jesus also said those who died dangerous death were not worse sinners than those who escape dangerous death, he said unless those who escaped repent, they would also have same fate..... So repentance from our sin is non-negotiable from Christ perspective. Not even grace permits it. ...... Because sin can never make grace abound according to Romans.....
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Don't deceive yourself, when you are ready, ask God to help you. Tell him you want to stop fornicating, and little by little he will help you the way he helped me.
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This thing you’re doing is not cool from the standpoint of the scriptures. The Bible is against makeong arguments like this.

hunterezi:
This thing you’re doing is not cool from the standpoint of the scriptures. The Bible is against makeong arguments like this.

Can you back up this statement with bible verse ?
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Stephen Argued brilliantly, with his opponents
Jude told us to contend for the faith
Paul said we should study to show ourselves approve dividing the bible soundly
Paul was said to be in the synagogue in act of Apostle arguing out the truth of the scripture...
Would you rather we keep shut when error is being peddled in the name of Christ?

hunterezi:
This thing you’re doing is not cool from the standpoint of the scriptures. The Bible is against makeong arguments like this.

Still waiting for your reference

Those passages need clearing, especially for men.

[quote author=FreeSpirited post=137310308]Can you back up this statement with bible

Titus 3:9: "But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, arguments, and quarrels about the law, because these things are pointless and worthless". This is the most direct verse on the topic of avoiding "vain arguments."
2 Timothy 2:23: "Have nothing to do with stupid and senseless controversies; you know that they breed quarrels". This verse also warns against getting involved in debates that only lead to conflict.
Proverbs 26:4: "Do not answer a fool according to his foolishness, lest you also be like him". This proverb advises against engaging with a fool in a way that would validate their foolishness, suggesting that sometimes the best response is no response at all.

hunterezi:
[quote author=FreeSpirited post=137310308]Can you back up this statement with bible

Titus 3:9: "But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, arguments, and quarrels about the law, because these things are pointless and worthless". This is the most direct verse on the topic of avoiding "vain arguments."
2 Timothy 2:23: "Have nothing to do with stupid and senseless controversies; you know that they breed quarrels". This verse also warns against getting involved in debates that only lead to conflict.
Proverbs 26:4: "Do not answer a fool according to his foolishness, lest you also be like him". This proverb advises against engaging with a fool in a way that would validate their foolishness, suggesting that sometimes the best response is no response at all.

Where is the senseless controversy and argument about the Law ?
I'm explaining and dividing the scriptures to show my faith in purity and rebuking fornication and immorality..
Where is my debate about support for law of Moses which the scripture warned. This is what happens when you don't understand context

Oga you lot keep quiet when your faith is been preached and handled incorrectly. Imagine someone saying holiness and sexual immorality is not a big deal as long as ur heart is good and your response is to keep shut and do nothing. You have only failed the Gospel. You can't rebuke, correct, reproof using the scripture? You can't contend for the faith. You are a fake Christian using this Titus verse as excuse? This is what Bible says about dividing the scripture and correcting errors and standing for the truth using the scripture....

(1) - Rebuke, correct, teach
2 Timothy 3:16–17 (NIV)
"All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work."

( 2) - Always be prepared to Explain reasons
Peter 3:15 (NIV)
"…Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect…"

(3) - Argue persuasively about Kingdom truth
Acts 19:8 (NIV)
"Paul entered the synagogue and spoke boldly there for three months, arguing persuasively about the kingdom of God."

(4) - contend for the faith
Jude 1:3 (NIV)
"Dear friends, although I was very eager to write to you about the salvation we share, I felt compelled to write and urge you to contend for the faith that was once for all entrusted to God’s holy people."


(5) - correct, rebuke, encourage
2 Timothy 4:2 (NIV)
"Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction."

(6) - Defend the Faith against error
Philippians 1:16 (NIV)
"…I am put here for the defense of the gospel."


(7) - Refute those who oppose the truth with sound doctrine
Titus 1:9 (NIV)
"He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it."

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1. Acts 6:9–10 (NIV) – “Argue”
“Opposition arose… from members of the Synagogue of the Freedmen… [b]These men began to argue with Stephen, but they could not stand up against the wisdom the Spirit gave him as he spoke.”


So tell me how did I violate the charge for us to rebuke, refute opposition, debate, defend, teach, and argue persuasively the word of truth.
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You passive and Lukewarm Christians always look for an excuse to remain passive when we are suppose to be bring light, teaching and correcting errors. That's why the church if full of errors.
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Someone is saying holiness and sexual purity does not matter, I'm using scripture to make him understand and encouraging him if God can help me overcome it he can help him, u are here saying I don't need to say anything and watch error fly? Oga.... Your Christianity can't influence anybody...