₦airaland Forum

A lady made a post:

"If a man loves you, he’ll do anything for you and you won’t have to do anything in return."

See as entitlement don turn philosophy 😂

Like say love na charity organization and men na humanitarian workers.
Some of these takes no get brake pad again — it’s just pure emotional laziness covered with soft girl coating.

Then one sharp guy replied:


Future Impossible Tense ma 😅


Baba didn’t lie. That line deserves to be printed on a billboard.

Reality Check:

Love is reciprocal, not one-directional.
You can’t sit down, cross leg, and expect one human being to move mountains while you do nothing — except exist.

If love is one-sided, it’s not love; it’s manipulation.
You can’t keep saying “If he loves me, he’ll do anything” when you’re not doing anything to deserve that “anything.”

It’s like saying,

“If my landlord likes me, he won’t collect rent.”
😂 My sister, prepare your load.

The Hard Truth:

Men are not emotional robots built to serve your fantasy.
Love needs contribution, not consumption.
You want emotional loyalty? Bring peace.
You want financial stability? Bring support.
You want respect? Give respect.

But if your entire relationship philosophy is “I don’t have to do anything” — then what you really want is a sponsor, not a partner.

In One Line:

“If love requires one person to do everything, then it’s not a relationship — it’s a job.”

I still find it hard to comprehend how a man will be giving money to a lady all because of relationship, so amusing

Even when men still dey street dey game, A go just give you raba like that? I'll rather still task collect from ur papa

Cerebellum:
I still find it hard to comprehend how a man will be giving money to a lady all because of relationship, so amusing Even when men still dey street dey game, A go just give you raba like that? I'll rather still task collect from ur papa

But that amusing fact is what your ancestors saw fit for men to bring to their relationship with the women they chose. A man brings money, whereas a woman is expected to uproot her life and join the man in accomplishing what are his dreams and aspirations in this life.

Think about it, apart from financial resources/material provisions, what else can a man provide a woman with that a woman is unable/incapable of obtaining for herself outside of a relationship with the man?

Cerebellum:
I still find it hard to comprehend how a man will be giving money to a lady all because of relationship, so amusing

Even when men still dey street dey game, A go just give you raba like that? I'll rather still task collect from ur papa

Na so one yeye banny been tell me one time say I go put her on 100k monthly allowance when she become my babe. Money wey even plenty pass salary from her Monday to Saturday work oo

All because of kpekus wey no be even every
time oo. If na knacks be my reason for looking for a babe, I would rather use that 100k dey strictly arrange knacking bannies come my side for a month..
I sharperly ghosted the werey!

I noticed upto 80% of Nigerian girls have adopted this new entitlement strategy of being put on a monthly allowance all in the name of relationship, so who gives the guy allowance then?

Nonsense and ingredients