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Let women normalize not praying for marriage. I'm 29 and I don't pray for marriage and I'm not desperate. What happens to a man praying for a marriage. Why is a man not praying to marry me?” - Lady says

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ar0ueA60ow4

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Good for you!
😂 I once had a lot of ladies around your age back then and I never went for anyone.

When I got married they were surprised my wife was just about 22, In fact, 21. I am over 15 years older than my spouse.

Life is not argumentative. Do what suits you.

Everybody with their own choice

I think it comes with exposure. She's thinking that marriage isn't a priority because she wants to build her career and make money. But, the moment she has achieved those, she will realise that most of her friends now have spouses and children. That's when regrets creep in. That time, she will probably be in her 40's and not have anyone and start chasing after and paying younger boys to service her.

Women are like flowers; most times, their beauty doesn't last and their ability to birth a child wanes as they age. Any lady who is still single after crossing 30 should be worried. The best thing that can happen to both men and women is to have someone who they can call their own and children who they can call their own and raise with the values that matter to them.

What do you have in common with someone whom you're over 15 years her senior?

Felimax:
Good for you!
😂 I once had a lot of ladies around your age back then and I never went for anyone.

When I got married they were surprised my wife was just about 22, In fact, 21. I am over 15 years older than my spouse.

Life is not argumentative. Do what suits you.

Samantha125:
What do you have in common with someone whom you're over 15 years her senior?

Ehn! You are not a man, you won't know.

Do I need to be a man to understand that couples need to have similar characteristics and interests in a relationship/marriage?🤔🤔🤔

I'm just curious to know what is it that you have in common with her, that's all.

Felimax:
Ehn! You are not a man, you won't know.

Samantha125:
Do I need to be a man to understand that couples need to have similar characteristics and interests in a relationship/marriage?🤔🤔🤔

I'm just curious to know what is it that you have in common with her, that's all.

A lot of interest!
She remains the best thing to have happened to me and getting married to her one of my best decisions so far.

She is intelligent, smart and beautiful.
Her presence brought in light in so many dark areas.

She is dominant while I am recessive but we are still so good to God's glory.

A man should be praying to have you when you're not a virgin? You're 29 with numerous body counts. Why on earth should a normal man be praying to have you When he can easily get girls of 18-22 respectively?

What do you guys normally do during your spare time?

Felimax:
A lot of interest!
She remains the best thing to have happened to me and getting married to her one of my best decisions so far.

She is intelligent, smart and beautiful.
Her presence brought in light in so many dark areas.

She is dominant while I am recessive but we are still so good to God's glory.

Samantha125:
What do you guys normally do during your spare time?

There is barely anything we don't do together. As far as going for groceries.
We are really fond of each other.

Barely anything we don't do together.

Felimax:
Good for you!
😂 I am over 15 years older than my spouse

Ned Nwoko is that you?

Anything like what? Give me at least four examples... Because you can't possibly tell me that the only interesting thing you guys do during your spare time as a couple is going grocery shopping.

Groceries are essential requirements for survival... I'm talking about your hobbies as a couple.

Felimax:
There is barely anything we don't do together. As far as going for groceries.
We are really fond of each other.

Barely anything we don't do together.

Felimax:
A lot of interest!
She remains the best thing to have happened to me and getting married to her one of my best decisions so far.

She is intelligent, smart and beautiful.
Her presence brought in light in so many dark areas.

She is dominant while I am recessive but we are still so good to God's glory.

You marry Gen Z and you dey beat your chest like this. 😂😂😂 Better no dey relaxed.

Dogalmighty17:
Ned Nwoko is that you?

No sir!
Ned is still learning.

Tenrack:
You marry Gen Z and you dey beat your chest like this. 😂😂😂 Better no dey relaxed.

Over relax wan finish me. O boy not after four kids. When I know she is not mad.

The moment she tries it I will just be laffing. Opportunity don come be that.

Feds did a sweep

Felimax:
Over relax wan finish me. O boy not after four kids. When I know she is not mad.

The moment she tries it I will just be laffing. Opportunity don come be that.

oh she don born. Ehen dawan make sense

Samantha125:
Do I need to be a man to understand that couples need to have similar characteristics and interests in a relationship/marriage?🤔🤔🤔

I'm just curious to know what is it that you have in common with her, that's all.

Even if they explain to u till thy kingdom come, u no go still understand... just rest

Tenrack:
oh she don born. Ehen dawan make sense

You think I was going to waste time?
The babies were just coming like she was a baby making machine. I had to stop @ four.

Samantha125:
Anything like what? Give me at least four examples... Because you can't possibly tell me that the only interesting thing you guys do during your spare time as a couple is going grocery shopping.

Groceries are essential requirements for survival... I'm talking about your hobbies as a couple.

I don't know how to be detailed about that but one thing I can say is that first I respect and adore her quite well.

We love hanging out too as well.
She has a way of drawing a project and target plan and before I knew it we have achieved them.

I am not the savings type but when she came in I saw the difference.

When I was in Lagos she spare no opportunity to be with me even with her own money.

She was young, dark and cute and I sometimes wondered how I got such a woman. Very importantly, she was a Catholic like me.

She wants to round up her schooling first but I refused till my proposal was accepted.

The basic thing I can say is that we both complimented each other not that we are really comparable. What I don't have she has and what she does not I have. Our existence depends so much on each other.

I don't know if I have answered you enough

uwa002:
Let women normalize not praying for marriage. I'm 29 and I don't pray for marriage and I'm not desperate. What happens to a man praying for a marriage. Why is a man not praying to marry me?” - Lady says

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ar0ueA60ow4

From where I stand — as one who does not kneel before unseen gods — prayer has always seemed a strange thing.
You say your God is all-powerful, all-wise, and never wrong; that His plan was written before the first star breathed fire.
If all that is true, then why whisper requests into the wind as though the universe might rewrite itself on your command?

It’s like standing before a finished painting and begging the artist to change the colours.
Or shouting at the screen when the film is already over — the ending won’t bend because you beg it to.
If your God’s plan is perfect, then your prayer is pointless.
If your prayer can change His plan, then His plan was never perfect.

To me, prayer looks less like a message to heaven and more like a mirror for the soul — a way for people to hear their own fears aloud and call it faith.
It’s a quiet form of self-comfort, a ritual to make chaos feel less wild.
And I understand that — humans crave meaning; they want to believe their words can stir the stars.

But if a god truly rules every breath, every dawn, every death — then He already knew what you’d ask, and why you’d ask it, before you ever spoke.
So tell me, what power lies in a prayer when the script was written ages ago, and the ending never changes?

That’s why I don’t pray.
I live, I act, I think — because no line I speak will change a story already filmed.

Felimax:
You think I was going to waste time?
The babies were just coming like she was a baby making machine. I had to stop @ four.

best decision ever. make she fit calm down

Single Ladies in their late 20's should NOT just sit down and be waiting for husbands.

Be busy, find a Job and also Continue to Mingle with Guys.
Give Coochies to any Good one among them.

Maybe the Brother can even get Trapped if the Coochie is Poporicious

Tenrack:
best decision ever. make she fit calm down

I am done!

VinnyBaba:
Single Ladies in their late 20's should NOT just sit down and be waiting for husbands.

Be busy, find a Job and also Continue to Mingle with Guys.
Give Coochies to any Good one among them.

Maybe the Brother can even get Trapped if the Coochie is Poporicious

You will just be wasting your time if you don't know what he wants.
Some ladies know they are not what their partner is looking for but they keep pushing it.

Again not all grown up guys are men. They can even be a pastor or a therapist. A lot of them are just grown up guys with kids mentality.

Felimax:
A lot of interest!
She remains the best thing to have happened to me and getting married to her one of my best decisions so far.

She is intelligent, smart and beautiful.
Her presence brought in light in so many dark areas.

She is dominant while I am recessive but we are still so good to God's glory.

Am always happy to hear this kind of good testimony

Keep it up

galantjoe:
Am always happy to hear this kind of good testimony

Keep it up

Thanks!

Apart from the church, clearly you guys have nothing in common here... Let's call a spade a spade, judging by your comments, you married her for your ego while she agreed to get married to you for your money, I'm very sure she's from a disadvantaged background.

There's no way you can marry someone that you senior with that many years and claim that the two of you have common interests, never.

Felimax:
I don't know how to be detailed about that but one thing I can say is that first I respect and adore her quite well.

We love hanging out too as well.
She has a way of drawing a project and target plan and before I knew it we have achieved them.

I am not the savings type but when she came in I saw the difference.

When I was in Lagos she spare no opportunity to be with me even with her own money.

She was young, dark and cute and I sometimes wondered how I got such a woman. Very importantly, she was a Catholic like me.

She wants to round up her schooling first but I refused till my proposal was accepted.

The basic thing I can say is that we both complimented each other not that we are really comparable. What I don't have she has and what she does not I have. Our existence depends so much on each other.

I don't know if I have answered you enough

Samantha125:
Apart from the church, clearly you guys have nothing in common here... Let's call a spade a spade, judging by your comments, you married her for your ego while she agreed to get married to you for your money, I'm very sure she's from a disadvantaged background.

There's no way you can marry someone that you senior with that many years and claim that the two of you have common interests, never.

Noooo ma! Don't get it twisted please.
I was totally jobless and helpless when I met her so the issue of me having money is totally ruled out.

Somehow she connected me to the man I worked with and that was where the transformation started.

I never wanted a woman that has something in common with me but rather someone who can fill in the blank spaces and so many areas she fits in perfectly.

Personally I like good food and she came in as a good cook. I don't know how to make you understand why even when the church and family said we not compatible we insisted and went ahead to solidify our union.

When we fight we fight like Lions but when we love is there we see the truth.
There is no manner of prophecy we did not hear but today we are 9 years in marriage minus 3 years in relationship.

My life hangs on our union and this has nothing to do with ego.

You are looking for something common I was craving for what will compliment my weakness. That was the lifeline for me.

Honestly, it's still too early for me to be typing in too much English on a Sunday...😩😩😩... So I'll come back later.

Felimax:
Noooo ma! Don't get it twisted please.
I was totally jobless and helpless when I met her so the issue of me having money is totally ruled out.

Somehow she connected me to the man I worked with and that was where the transformation started.

I never wanted a woman that has something in common with me but rather someone who can fill in the blank spaces and so many areas she fits in perfectly.

Personally I like good food and she came in as a good cook. I don't know how to make you understand why even when the church and family said we not compatible we insisted and went ahead to solidify our union.

When we fight we fight like Lions but when we love is there we see the truth.
There is no manner of prophecy we did not hear but today we are 9 years in marriage minus 3 years in relationship.

My life hangs on our union and this has nothing to do with ego.

You are looking for something common I was craving for what will compliment my weakness. That was the lifeline for me.