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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by MarkNsukkaBread: 2:20pm On Nov 02, 2025

Vikto17:
so a woman of 56 will look like a woman of 100 right? swear you haven't seen women looking younger than their age bro?
What am l doing with a woman of 30? l found peace bro.. l find fulfilment bro

If this is the case why then are you bothered about the fact that she looks older than her age?

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by AlphaTaikun: 2:23pm On Nov 02, 2025

macphilip:
I once dated a lady who told me her age when we first met.

Later on, I managed to see her CV, with a much older age.

I confronted her about this, she rebuked me that what's my business with her age
That is it her or her age am dating...

That's another classic example shared on this thread further emphasizing on why due diligence or verifications about a potential spouse's real age, family background, birth place, medical status, financial liabilities, and more MUST be done before proposing to her. The deal-breaker for me (and other men over the past decades) is finding out if a woman tells lies to me about her age or family background.

On the other hand, even a young woman who is older in age by 1 to 3 years than a young man isn't bad as most men tend to look OLDER than the women in their lives as time goes by. The lawyer and movie producer, Bolanle Austen-Peters (who is the biological daughter of the nonagenarian legal luminary Aare Afe Babalola, SAN), and the founder/owner of Terra Kulture on Victoria Island, Lagos, is in her early 60s now and she's still looking younger than her age by 20 years. An older woman has to have good genes and be clearly intentional about keeping physically fit.

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by MarkNsukkaBread: 2:24pm On Nov 02, 2025

plessis:
When fine girls wey get big ass and fine face pass your front you go get depression when you remember the masquerade wey dey house.

Na this kind mouth you want use take enter heaven? grin

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by regenerateman(m): 2:27pm On Nov 02, 2025

The woman may not be looking older than her age. I believe, it is the age difference between the two of you that is making you think that she is older than her age. If a man is 40 years old and a woman is 32 years old, when you look at them definitely, you will think that the woman is older than the man not to talk of 2 years gap. Just go ahead and marry her. Woman age faster than men.

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Onegai(f): 2:28pm On Nov 02, 2025

Procashtips:
She should be 46 soon
Husband should be 38 soon

Can you see how she screwed everything up?

Omo.

It is well. May the Lord remember them soon.

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Qualityoffer: 2:29pm On Nov 02, 2025

Saig:
Go and marry one with a younger face and body but rugged and haggard heart. Body go tell you.
You have a good woman. Better open your two arms and embrace her

My bible tells me in Proverbs 12:5 - The plans of the righteous are just, but the counsel of the wicked is deceitful.

My point is, stop being wicked. I wonder what makes you think that the OP can't find another woman who's younger face and body and good heart, if he decides to leave this one.

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by inforesource: 2:31pm On Nov 02, 2025

Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks

Hmmm, be calming down oo. Now you have the chance to choose younger person. Marriage is not for boys and girls o. Take the looks the way it is and shot your mouth and eyes from it forever or turn back.

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by tbliss22(m): 2:32pm On Nov 02, 2025

How can you say you love this lady and still have all these flaws in your head...

In marraige, this issues will go worse.... Leave her alone let her be if you can't love her the way she is...

You can aswell taje her to a good spar for good facial routine treatment if you truly wish to keep her

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by MarkNsukkaBread: 2:32pm On Nov 02, 2025*

greypencils:
This is all the proof you need. If She can lie and reduce her age on her NYSC certificate. Why can't She lie to you?

She is not the first and she definitely would not be the last in Nigeria to alter her age.

Over 70% of Nigerians have altered their ages at some point including you!

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by AlphaTaikun: 2:35pm On Nov 02, 2025

Procashtips:
Someone I know fell into a trap, ended up marrying a woman 8 years older than him.

They currently still expecting good news pregnancy wise. (5 years after marriage)

The wife lied to him in all ramifications.

Ask serious questions, she's likely lying about her age.

That was very deceptive of the woman. I propose that the dude should go for a comprehensive fertility check with the woman and if she isn't able to have kids due to fertility issues, then he has a right to ditch her if she doesn't want him to have biological children from another woman. However if both are cool about NOT having children but just want to have a relationship based on companionship, then they are good to go. BUT for me, I know that MOST of us men want to have our own biological kids even if it's via co-parenting. Period.

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Aleem26(m): 2:36pm On Nov 02, 2025

Upload her image

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by AlphaTaikun: 2:43pm On Nov 02, 2025*

Vikto17:
Thanks bro... we serve the same time during our nysc... her Nysc certificate was showing 1997,, she was the one who even open up to me that she was born 1995

Is this a typographic error? 1997... 1995?
She told you she was born in 1995 but claimed before then that she was born in 1997?

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by tesseract: 2:48pm On Nov 02, 2025

Maybe she lied about her age to you

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by DarkJeddi(m): 2:50pm On Nov 02, 2025

meobizy:
Will you marry her face or personality?

physical compatibility matters in marriage,so yes he will be marrying her face and other physical attributes.

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by DarkJeddi(m): 2:52pm On Nov 02, 2025*

Kobojunkie:
The one who ought to be asking these things if the women if and only if she indeed deserves to look younger than she does. Otherwise, I will say this is probably a you problem than it is her problem. Why are you making an issue of her looks?

Why shouldn't he make an issue of her looks?
Do women not make issues about how men look and the content of their pockets?
It reaches a man's turn and he should turn deaf and dumb?

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by MarkNsukkaBread: 2:52pm On Nov 02, 2025

Uzobejeme:
You love her that's why you are seeking a solution. For this singular reason. I will help you make her look younger again.
1. She has to go for facials. Once monthly.
2. Buy her earth creations 21 again and their collagen supplement.
3. Buy lots of fruits, encourage he to eat lots of fruits.
4. Buy Dr Rashel' niacinamide and face cream for her. I recommend this because it's cheap. If you have money go get her dang products or buy either Susan chanel or Jenny's glow facial products. ( I use Jenny glow and I look 20nyeqrs younger. Her products are awesome. Just make sure it is used according to the instructions on tbe products. Those that have complained about it, used it wrongly)
Consistency is key!
5. She should always sleep for at least 8 hours and drink lots of water daily.
That said, God bless you . A man that seeks for solution for his woman is a keeper. Some men complain that their wife is fat instead of them to start going to the gym with her. Encouraging her and buying her the supplements she needs to control her weight.
Goodluck!

quote author=Vikto17 post=137284429] Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks

If a woman who is supposedly 30 starts spending this much just to look her age it means by the time she's 50 the budget for her beauty routines alone will be over 60% of the total family income! angry

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by MarkNsukkaBread: 2:58pm On Nov 02, 2025

Onegai:
Chai

The thing shock you abi? 😂

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by AlphaTaikun: 3:00pm On Nov 02, 2025

Procashtips:
She should be 46 soon
Husband should be 38 soon

Can you see how she screwed everything up?

That's an 8-year age gap. She was 41 while the guy was 33 when she lied to him about her real age and he got married to her. Omolola or 'Lola (who has mixed Yoruba and Russian parentage) was born in 1974 while the other P-Square twin she got married to was born in 1981, that's a 7-year age gap BUT they still got married because truth and love was involved.

I personally would have ditched this kind of deceptive lady of 46 years on finding out her real age TBH. For me, the truth from any woman is a major turn-on. If fertility checks are done and it gets proven that she can't have her own biological children, then she should let the guy have kids from another woman and both can still be married if that's all she wants. Period.

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by eepeepook: 3:08pm On Nov 02, 2025

He should find someone else. He’s used the milk without buying the cow. Now he can make excuses why he should move elsewhere.

DarkJeddi:
physical compatibility matters in marriage,so yes he will be marrying her face and other physical attributes.

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by MarkNsukkaBread: 3:11pm On Nov 02, 2025

blackslayer:
You have to be atleast 70 years old by now! Nairaland agbaya!

E be like say you and Kobojunkie get beef before

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Kayberg: 3:13pm On Nov 02, 2025

Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks

Let her take Vitamin C and wash/apply on her face with salicylic acid products.
Whatever makes her look older than her age is because she has loose flesh and wrinkles.

When her facial skin looks tight, she'll look younger.

And besides, is she really 30?

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Ashirioluwa: 3:22pm On Nov 02, 2025

Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks

Ask her for her true age

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by SonOfZeus: 3:24pm On Nov 02, 2025

What are you even doing with a 30 year old woman? When she give birth and clocks 35, it’ll look like you got married to your moms elder sister.

You really get mind oh

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by SoaringLife01: 3:46pm On Nov 02, 2025

Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks

Does she look 40ish?
If she has all what you want and have the capacity to build with you , firedown.
In Economics,there is always an OPPORTUNITY COST. Her looks can be the opportunity cost for your peace of mind, building a financial investment, etc.

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by greypencils: 3:48pm On Nov 02, 2025

MarkNsukkaBread:
She is not the first and she definitely would not be the last in Nigeria to alter her age.

Over 70% of Nigerians have altered their ages at some point including you!

You speak for yourself. I have never had a reason to alter my age. My documents are very complete and very original from my birth certificate, not affidavit to my latest university degree.

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by adecz: 3:58pm On Nov 02, 2025

Don't be fooled, she is using
football ⚽⚽⚽ age.

She is most likely 38 years old.

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Pk01(m): 4:05pm On Nov 02, 2025

Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks

I beg you in the name of god ...go and look for someone younger... E get why

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Tendd: 4:05pm On Nov 02, 2025

Some people look older than their age.Some people also can look younger by doing makeup.You should rather concentrate on her health and wellness.Do cardio exercise to add more years to your heart and resistance training for overall longivety.Your physical and metabolic function is important than outward looks.

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Sofistcatdmoron: 4:11pm On Nov 02, 2025*

Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks

Why do you want to marry your age mate, you should be older than your wife with up to 8 years and above
Women age faster than men, in the next 5 to ten years , people would think she is your elder sister or mother

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Pk01(m): 4:24pm On Nov 02, 2025

Vikto17:
we serve together during Nysc,, l didn't meet her at 30,, we have actually been dating for 4yrs now,, so there is no way she will be lying about her age... l guess the stress of business... it is not easy been in a shop from morning to night

oga free that girl...go and look for someone one younger...you xtians to like wahala..in 7 years time she will look like ur mama..this is a warning ! !!

I am 28 my girl is 15...will marry her in two years time... Allah's willing... Go and look for 24 downward.. I know what I am saying

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Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by Frankaka8(m): 4:24pm On Nov 02, 2025

She may need some supplements, simple skin care anti-aging original products, exercise to balance her body. Also seek a good nutritionist

Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by aremubabs: 4:28pm On Nov 02, 2025

Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks

If this is what is bothering you, then you need serious therapy.

You are not only childish, but also very unprepared for marriage.

Na your wife I pity sha.

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