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Im a 21yo M and I've been a chronic masturbator for the past three years I can jerk off on an average 4-5 times in a day and I do it almost every day I started this bullsh!t back in 2022 and since then my life have been a huge mess I've been having a lot of financial struggles I can't even save money my parents were suspicious of me masturbating and they warned me to stopped doing it I felt really ashamed when they found out but i kept on doing it and I can tell you for free it really messed up my life nothing works in my favour or goes the way I planned and girls just hate me for no reason a girl that I would meet for the first time would look at me like I offended her in the past my friends would tell me it's because I'm a fair guy and girls hate fair guys but I know a lot of guys that are fairer than me but have tons of girlfriends and I'm not even ugly I look very average my case was very different even the girls that manages to like me when I masturbate and meet them their attitude towards me changes all of a sudden or I just don't see them anymore (later heard they moved out of the area or they relocate to another state ) without me even getting the chance to ask for their number when ever I have a group presentation and I masturbate my group would fail that presentation or something would happen and the group leader would remove me from the group either because of a personal grudge they have with me or because there is no topic to allocated to me and I end up failing that presentation that would be used as my assessment another thing is I struggle financially right now as I speak I can't even boast of 5k in my account I tried engaging in cyber fraud earlier last year and it didn't work out because the clients would delay paying me or they just don't respond to my messages even when they agree to pay it's either my account get disabled by mark or azaman die my money but other guys that started with me have already started cashing out and if they decide to help me my bad luck affects them as well two years earlier I applied to work at a supermarket but the manager incharge refused to employ me because of a ridiculous reason he said it's because I look suspicious I tried venturing into oil bunkering because it was a booming business back then in portharcourt and then boom Wike started a crackdown on oil bunkers and my job was gone the bad luck kept getting worse the people where I live started ridiculing me using the term "wahala for who no get money" to diss me when ever they see me and mind you throughout this period I never suspected masturbation to be the cause of my predicament I thought it was someone somewhere that was sabotaging me I recently discovered it was masturbation when I stumbled upon a Christian article on masturbation which says masturbation is sex with demon and each them we masturbate these demons take our luck away and give it to someone else after then I swore to myself never to masturbate again and I didn't masturbate for 15 days and during this short period of nofap my life was just quite I saw an opportunity to make millions and my course mates who never talked to me started sending me messages I found it quite surprising but then the urge hit me and I relapsed badly and the habit continues everything went to ash my course mates no longer responded to my messages some delayed while some even blocked my line my life changing opportunity to make over a million was lost simply because I was not eligible to get the money I started having horrific dreams sometimes when I sleep I would feel a hand caressing my chest or massaging my legs and I won't be able to move or say anything until whatever was happening to me stopped the recent one that just happened I had a dream I can't remember the full details but I was chasing a girl who had looked like a demon and then a bus drove by the passengers in the bus were in shock while seeing me chase the girl but the face of the woman driving the bus was what terrified me the most she looked like she came straight out hell she wore her black gown her hair was while and in bad condition and they way she looked at me as if she has been watching me my entire life she looked like those witches you see in Hollywood movies like season of the witch,hansel and gratel or the last witch hunter while the passengers in the bus were all in shock at what I was doing she was just calm with that terrifying look on her face and all of a sudden the demon girl I was chasing carried me on her neck while she was running and that was how I woke up from the dream and as I was slowly waking up I was feeling something slowly leaving my chest when I woke up fully I didn't feel it any more I was so terrified I couldn't sleep anymore I prayed to God and promised not to masturbate anymore and since then I haven't masturbated and any porn scene that pops up in my head doesn't seem to arouse me anymore which is good but I still feel the urge and this is my fourth day without masturbating and I pray I don't fall back to that demonic habit again so help me God
Have anyone also experienced something like this or something similar?

It’s good you stopped. Keep tracking your progress but I see the cause as either spiritual (proverbial spiritual wife) I don’t know how real it is but I’ve heard a lot.

Secondly, it might also be due to guilt or low self esteem. Anytime you beat yo’ meat, you feel you’re filthy or a chronic sinner.

Keep engaging in more hobbies. Research sexual transmutation (taking your mind of sex and channeling it into something productive), stop porn and also block all channels they can get to you. If you’ve got it in your phone, delete it.

From your narrative, you should be light (fappin’ 3-4 times daily, you deserve world record😳), start exercising. Build your self confidence and take your mind of your bad luck and start thinking about good things. Anytime you beat yo’ meat, you train your mind to expect bad luck and automatically it attracts bad luck.

It all happens in your mind and if you can control it, you’re fine🤧😊
🚶‍♂️

U obviously have a spiritual wife, start praying around 2am or 3 am everyday n always read d scripture daily. anytime u feel d urge,try and take a walk or go outside n gist with ur friends.

OP
It could be the Guilt associated with Masturbation.

The Guilt invites Negative Energy into your being and causes badluck.

If you Masturbate and you are Happy or Feeling Fly about it,
Might Surprise you that you will not experience any Badluck.🤔

Try to STOP it all the act.

SpencerForbes:
It’s good you stopped. Keep tracking your progress but I see the cause as either spiritual (proverbial spiritual wife) I don’t know how real it is but I’ve heard a lot.

Secondly, it might also be due to guilt or low self esteem. Anytime you beat yo’ meat, you feel you’re filthy or a chronic sinner.

Keep engaging in more hobbies. Research sexual transmutation (taking your mind of sex and channeling it into something productive), stop porn and also block all channels they can get to you. If you’ve got it in your phone, delete it.

From your narrative, you should be light (fappin’ 3-4 times daily, you deserve world record😳), start exercising. Build your self confidence and take your mind of your bad luck and start thinking about good things. Anytime you beat yo’ meat, you train your mind to expect bad luck and automatically it attracts bad luck.

It all happens in your mind and if you can control it, you’re fine🤧😊
🚶‍♂️

Thanks bro, I understand what you mean, but in my case it wasn’t really about training my mind to expect bad luck. To be honest, I never even suspected masturbation had anything to do with the things going wrong in my life until I came across a Christian article that talked about it deeply.
After reading that article, I started connecting the dots and relating it with all the bad luck, setbacks, and strange experiences I’d been having. That was when I realized how much the habit had been affecting me spiritually and mentally.
So for me, it wasn’t just guilt or mindset it was eye-opening knowledge that helped me see the real issue

BlackAdam65:
Thanks bro, I understand what you mean, but in my case it wasn’t really about training my mind to expect bad luck. To be honest, I never even suspected masturbation had anything to do with the things going wrong in my life until I came across a Christian article that talked about it deeply.
After reading that article, I started connecting the dots and relating it with all the bad luck, setbacks, and strange experiences I’d been having. That was when I realized how much the habit had been affecting me spiritually and mentally.
So for me, it wasn’t just guilt or mindset it was eye-opening knowledge that helped me see the real issue

That’s okay 😊

James Clear the author of “Atomic habit” taught that, to destroy a particular (negative) habit, you had to create some positive habits. It is known as habit stacking and helps a lot.

Find yourself doing positive things and you’ll find out ‘beating yo’ meat’ will be a thing of the past.

Always remember habit are easy to learn but hard to break 🤝 🍻
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Staying with a lady will help you solve this masturbation wahala

listen young man your 100 percent responsible for ur life and the way it turns out.

Your problem is your mind , you think everyone hates you , you think things aren't working in your favour , as a man thinketh so he his. All the negative things happening in your life isn't due to mastubation it's you, ur attracting negative energy into ur life because of ur negative thoughts. pple are busy with life , but u must think that everyone is thinking about u 24/7 abi ? cus ur who ? everyone has their own challenges in life too. thinking people hates you or not is an energy and that energy would flow back directly into your reality. the universe operates on vibrations and frequencies , if u think ur not good enuf pple would behave that way towards you, ifvu think ur worthy ,people would also behave that way towards you. start practicing self love.

lastly a good thing becomes bad if it's done too much , why tf are you nutting 3~4 times a day , its harmful to ur health and ur organs.
take a break for 3 months and use that energy within the 3 months to attract a girlfriend that u can be having sex and companionship with rather than masturbating.

if you need me to coach you more, send a mail. I love helping pple grow , that's how I grow as well.

MikeofKd:
listen young man your 100 percent responsible for ur life and the way it turns out.

Your problem is your mind , you think everyone hates you , you think things aren't working in your favour , as a man thinketh so he his. All the negative things happening in your life isn't due to mastubation it's you, ur attracting negative energy into ur life because of ur negative thoughts. pple are busy with life , but u must think that everyone is thinking about u 24/7 abi ? cus ur who ? everyone has their own challenges in life too. thinking people hates you or not is an energy and that energy would flow back directly into your reality. the universe operates on vibrations and frequencies , if u think ur not good enuf pple would behave that way towards you, ifvu think ur worthy ,people would also behave that way towards you. start practicing self love.

lastly a good thing becomes bad if it's done too much , why tf are you nutting 3~4 times a day , its harmful to ur health and ur organs.
take a break for 3 months and use that energy within the 3 months to attract a girlfriend that u can be having sex and companionship with rather than masturbating.

if you need me to coach you more, send a mail. I love helping pple grow , that's how I grow as well.

You can be skeptical if you want, but don’t gaslight my experience. What I shared is real, and I’ve come to realize many others have gone through similar things too. Everyone’s path to awareness is different, so if you don’t understand mine, at least respect it.

Funny enough, I later saw a link where people were also sharing the same kind of experiences. That’s when I realized this thing is real and not just in my head.
And here is the link for those who are skeptical
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/everytime-i-masturbate-i-have-bad-luck-bad.html

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BlackAdam65:
You can be skeptical if you want, but don’t gaslight my experience. What I shared is real, and I’ve come to realize many others have gone through similar things too. Everyone’s path to awareness is different, so if you don’t understand mine, at least respect it.

You have a very long way to go.
peace.

This is the best explanation I've come across:

Sexual energy is creative in nature.

You need a certain level of creative energy to move forward in life. Anything below that level, your efforts would remain futile and impotent, like attempting to start a car with a dead battery.

You lose creative energy when you masturbate, meaning your life force diminishes without the mutually beneficial energy exchange that happens in a loving relationship with a woman.

The porn images you masturbate to combine with the creative energy you release to birth thought-forms.

These thought forms latch on to you like parasites, draining your life force. It's like leaving your car headlights on overnight.

They will also compel you to keep masturbating, so that they can continue feeding on you, creating a vicious cycle.

These thought forms follow you everywhere you go, and people generally react negatively to these thought forms unconsciously.

BlackAdam65:
You can be skeptical if you want, but don’t gaslight my experience. What I shared is real, and I’ve come to realize many others have gone through similar things too. Everyone’s path to awareness is different, so if you don’t understand mine, at least respect it.

Your mindset created the misfortune and bad luck you’re experiencing… the universe doesn’t know what you’re doing… the universe works with energies created by your thoughts or mindset.

The universe is blind, it only sees with emotions and thoughts.

If you’re always having negative thoughts, negative things will always surround you.

Why do you think that bad people prosper more ?

Because they have zero tolerance for bad thoughts or negative energies around them.

You have to change the energy you emits to the universe if you don’t like what’s happening around you.

Sit down and reflect on how to create positive thoughts around yourself

I won’t read this text diarrhea without paragraphs.

You’re 21. I don’t see the problem here. Think of all the possible STDs you’re avoiding.

BlackAdam65:
Im a 21yo M and I've been a chronic masturbator for the past three years I can jerk off on an average 4-5 times in a day and I do it almost every day I started this bullsh!t back in 2022 and since then my life have been a huge mess I've been having a lot of financial struggles I can't even save money my parents were suspicious of me masturbating and they warned me to stopped doing it I felt really ashamed when they found out but i kept on doing it and I can tell you for free it really messed up my life nothing works in my favour or goes the way I planned and girls just hate me for no reason a girl that I would meet for the first time would look at me like I offended her in the past my friends would tell me it's because I'm a fair guy and girls hate fair guys but I know a lot of guys that are fairer than me but have tons of girlfriends and I'm not even ugly I look very average my case was very different even the girls that manages to like me when I masturbate and meet them their attitude towards me changes all of a sudden or I just don't see them anymore (later heard they moved out of the area or they relocate to another state ) without me even getting the chance to ask for their number when ever I have a group presentation and I masturbate my group would fail that presentation or something would happen and the group leader would remove me from the group either because of a personal grudge they have with me or because there is no topic to allocated to me and I end up failing that presentation that would be used as my assessment another thing is I struggle financially right now as I speak I can't even boast of 5k in my account I tried engaging in cyber fraud earlier last year and it didn't work out because the clients would delay paying me or they just don't respond to my messages even when they agree to pay it's either my account get disabled by mark or azaman die my money but other guys that started with me have already started cashing out and if they decide to help me my bad luck affects them as well two years earlier I applied to work at a supermarket but the manager incharge refused to employ me because of a ridiculous reason he said it's because I look suspicious I tried venturing into oil bunkering because it was a booming business back then in portharcourt and then boom Wike started a crackdown on oil bunkers and my job was gone the bad luck kept getting worse the people where I live started ridiculing me using the term "wahala for who no get money" to diss me when ever they see me and mind you throughout this period I never suspected masturbation to be the cause of my predicament I thought it was someone somewhere that was sabotaging me I recently discovered it was masturbation when I stumbled upon a Christian article on masturbation which says masturbation is sex with demon and each them we masturbate these demons take our luck away and give it to someone else after then I swore to myself never to masturbate again and I didn't masturbate for 15 days and during this short period of nofap my life was just quite I saw an opportunity to make millions and my course mates who never talked to me started sending me messages I found it quite surprising but then the urge hit me and I relapsed badly and the habit continues everything went to ash my course mates no longer responded to my messages some delayed while some even blocked my line my life changing opportunity to make over a million was lost simply because I was not eligible to get the money I started having horrific dreams sometimes when I sleep I would feel a hand caressing my chest or massaging my legs and I won't be able to move or say anything until whatever was happening to me stopped the recent one that just happened I had a dream I can't remember the full details but I was chasing a girl who had looked like a demon and then a bus drove by the passengers in the bus were in shock while seeing me chase the girl but the face of the woman driving the bus was what terrified me the most she looked like she came straight out hell she wore her black gown her hair was while and in bad condition and they way she looked at me as if she has been watching me my entire life she looked like those witches you see in Hollywood movies like season of the witch,hansel and gratel or the last witch hunter while the passengers in the bus were all in shock at what I was doing she was just calm with that terrifying look on her face and all of a sudden the demon girl I was chasing carried me on her neck while she was running and that was how I woke up from the dream and as I was slowly waking up I was feeling something slowly leaving my chest when I woke up fully I didn't feel it any more I was so terrified I couldn't sleep anymore I prayed to God and promised not to masturbate anymore and since then I haven't masturbated and any porn scene that pops up in my head doesn't seem to arouse me anymore which is good but I still feel the urge and this is my fourth day without masturbating and I pray I don't fall back to that demonic habit again so help me God
Have anyone also experienced something like this or something similar?

Baba it's in you mind
Babes yapka.. Omo I just read your case word for word, baba your village people dey use drone follow your matter.

Na there I meet all them scarbs wey dey follow me up and down for my area.

And you still young, when I dey 21 Omo I dey pipe Wella, I get no less that 5 GF. Some I dey even forget their names lol

Give your life to Jesus.. become born again and ask Jesus to help u overcome (demon of) masturbation

Anytime you feel that demonic hand massaging you say Blood of Jesus multiple times in your heart

You are right bro, I agree with your story! I’m going through similar things too

Try not living all by yourself bro.
And try telling your parents to help you.

thats your conscience propagating fear in yourself

thats certainly not bad luck .

bad luck sterns from bad decisions not j3rking off to your moms p@nti3s

Whether you do it or not, misfortunes or bad days still happens .It's not because of masturbation...

Silentgroper:
Whether you do it or not, misfortunes or bad days still happens .It's not because of masturbation...

True, bad things happen regardless but masturbation can make it worse. It drains your energy, focus, and motivation, which makes it easier for things to fall apart.