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I Went to the hospital where my bro was admitted and I decided to spend the night there. Of course I met some guys there who came to check on their relatives too. While I was there I decided to look for where to get food. One of the guys offered to help show me a location and I and about 2 guys went along.

Unfortunately, those 2 guys didn't have any money on them and I decided to pay for them. I never knew the first guy who led us there was loaded with cash! The following morning similar thing also happened. We all went to the hospital's restaurant to eat and the first guy as usual said he doesn't have any money. I offered to pay for the two other guys to have breakfast. While we were there, a tall fair nurse came to get food and I was shocked at the speed this guy went and started talking to the nurse, sadly the nurse gave him a deaf ear and wanting to impress her he decided to pay for the food she bought and even asked her to collect more things.

My question is, why are some guys like this? Is this foolishness or stupidity?

Mynd44 justwise nlfpmod farano Seun

Not all guys are like that bro..

But I can feel you.......such guys forget that when all chips seems to be down,na the same guymen wey Dem loose guard today go come out to rescue dem..

More reasons why I don't like keeping friendships these days...Check my phone contact list,and you'll hardly find up to 5 guys numbers on it.......I delete contacts for a living once I notice you aren't beneficial to the friendship and you're still being parasitic on me...

They are only tough online...in real life they are white knight looking for women attention

Because when the other gender is involved, Most men turn into Zombified Simps.

Probably because he wanted to screw the nurse. Will you rather he was sexually interested in you, accept the favor for pay for your meal then bend over later on?

Let the women enjoy pretty privilege, it comes with a cost.

Goo0dHardDick:
I Went to the hospital where my bro was admitted and I decided to spend the night there.

Is it more comfortable than at home? 😄😄😄😄

Cybertroll:
Probably because he wanted to screw the nurse. Will you rather he was sexually interested in you, accept the favor for pay for your meal then bend over later on?

Let the women enjoy pretty privilege, it comes with a cost.

That is the main thing

Cybertroll:
Probably because he wanted to screw the nurse. Will you rather he was sexually interested in you, accept the favor for pay for your meal then bend over later on?

Let the women enjoy pretty privilege, it comes with a cost.

That is the main thing

Because of Pu.nani......

Some guys are s mps, waiting to get hurt before they wise up.

A big factor is guys not getting proper education about dating and sex stuff when they're growing up.

It ties into how we're wired to provide and be empathetic towards women – parents often drum it into us to be kind to the "weaker gender", squashing any "bad boy" tendencies. So we end up thinking we gotta help women all the time.

Some guys see helping women as looking out for their moms – you disagree, and they ask you "don't you have a mother or sister?" and you feel like a bad boy for not going along.

Might be somewhat biological too (allegedly because I’m still researching that) like with animals, males often provide for females to get in good with them. Cockerels provide for hens, chimps do their thing etc

Without solid education (learning from research and experience), guys might keep showing this suppressed nice-guy side. If we keep teaching boys to cherish girls without balance, we'll keep seeing these patterns play out.

Stephenmouka:
That is the main thing

If the guy had asked for them to spend the night at a hotel, op would have snapped and murdered him.

A man's kindness is hardly free. If the nurse was hideous, she would have been invinsible too.

Sonnobax15:

Not all guys are like that bro..

But I can feel you.......such guys forget that when all chips seems to be down,na the same guymen wey Dem loose guard today go come out to rescue dem..

More reasons why I don't like keeping friendships these days...Check my phone contact list,and you'll hardly find up to 5 guys numbers on it.......I delete contacts for a living once I notice you aren't beneficial to the friendship and you're still being parasitic on me...

I don't save contacts. Before I save any contact, I must make sure I screw such fellow very well and this might be probably take months until I am satisfied before saving his or her contact

motymop:
They are only tough online...in real life they are white knight looking for women attention

Who are the "they" ?

SeverusSnape:
Because when the other gender is involved, Most men turn into Zombified Simps.

Despite all the alpha male teachings on Facebook?

Cybertroll:
Probably because he wanted to screw the nurse. Will you rather he was sexually interested in you, accept the favor for pay for your meal then bend over later on?

Let the women enjoy pretty privilege, it comes with a cost.

Sadly, the nurse only thank him and left. The guy went back to his seat smiling. I know he was embarrassed and ashamed of his actions.

That isn't how to screw a nurse! That was a display of desperation and its a complete turn off

goran3310:
Is it more comfortable than at home? 😄😄😄😄

Have you ever had a loved one at the hospital and no one is with him or her? Even if someone is with him, common logic ought to tell you to stay with him on her if you wished to. Dude it's called empathy! Omo seems you don't love yourselves at home

Dat is how God created it. We are weaker vessels, ladys too still like to give help to guys more than their fellow lady is verse Visa

Stephenmouka:
That is the main thing

It's called desperation. That's a turn off.

A woman can sense desperation from miles away and that turns her off. The moment she noticed you're chasing, she'll immediately withdraw and you'll never get it. Worst still, to women, trying to impress her by offering to pay for her food means the guy is just a "mugu" . Esp when she know you're doing it just to impress her or get her. Bro, the guy will never get her that way!

Goo0dHardDick:
Have you ever had a loved one at the hospital and no one is with him or her? Even if someone is with him, common logic ought to tell you to stay with him on her if you wished to. Dude it's called empathy! Omo seems you don't love yourselves at home

Loved bro??
No.Never.I like girls.

Cybertroll:
If the guy had asked for them to spend the night at a hotel, op would have snapped and murdered him.

A man's kindness is hardly free. If the nurse was hideous, she would have been invinsible too.

The e..diot would have paid me half the hotel money we used for lodging

You can't be generous to women wey no send you and become super glue to your fellow men, as how na

goran3310:
Loved bro??
No.Never.I like girls.

Read my comment carefully.

So you don't love your brothers and sisters and your parents? Omo

Goo0dHardDick:
Read my comment carefully.

So you don't love your brothers and sisters and your parents? Omo

and world and... 🙄

dollytino4real:
Dat is how God created it. We are weaker vessels, ladys too still like to give help to guys more than their fellow lady is verse Visa

A lady will rather ask a man for help than to ask her fellow woman.

Honestly, I blame the simpletons giving you women this entitlement mentality

Good question for your gender let me reserve my comment

Goo0dHardDick:
It's called desperation. That's a turn off.

A woman can sense desperation from miles away and that turns her off. The moment she noticed you're chasing, she'll immediately withdraw and you'll never get it. Worst still, yo women, trying to impress her by offering to pay for her food means the guy is just a "mugu" . Esp when they know you're doing it just to impress her or get her. Bro, the guy will never get her that way!

you know too much.

Most guys do that to seduce the prey. If you enter into his mind at that moment,his thoughts is.. this babe get Yash o,this babe go sweet for doggy o. Since they can't get that from their fellow men,they would rather invest in community property

Reading comments here
So men help comes with sex expectations cuz they can’t get it from their fellow men

Shame

No be you go tell man how to spend hin money. They are his friends, not yours. He has a history with them, you don't.

You came all of a sudden and already jumped to conclusion without knowing if there's a backstory or not. Its easy to judge people when you have no idea what the reasons for their actions are. He can choose to spend on a dog if he pleases, it's his money.

Goo0dHardDick:
A lady will rather ask a man for help than to ask her fellow woman.

Honestly, I blame the simpletons giving you women this entitlement mentality

is not our making just live with it and enjoy it

T.OT.0 na ur mate? Una no get respect for this nairaland o. Better respect women to get closer to God.

dollytino4real:
is not our making just live with it and enjoy it

Live with it and enjoy it? Is this what you tell your brothers at home? The joke is on you