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Tenrack:
Here's another reason you should renege on your plans to wife a single mom. My man in the videos is experiencing hurt and betrayal as his step daughter he trained in school, fails to invite him to her wedding but invites the deadbeat Dad and even made a list of songs dedicated to the Deadbeat🤣🤣😂


Please avoid single moms because if you somehow evade tears now, it would await you in the future.


https://youtube.com/shorts/7WqhtTXReYk?si=Wy7wt6rjIdnVpRpp

Tenrack:
[size=8pt]Here's another reason you should renege on your plans to wife a single mom. My man in the videos is experiencing hurt and betrayal as his step daughter he trained in school, fails to invite him to her wedding but invites the deadbeat Dad and even made a list of songs dedicated to the Deadbeat🤣🤣😂
Please avoid single moms because if you somehow evade tears now, it would await you in the future. [/size]

Kobojunkie:
You shouldn't yet single mothers and single fathers are getting married, even in that country? Clearly, people are not paying heed to this rant of yours. 😏😏

Joeboypondeck:
and na same you introduce her to nairaland

Tenrack:
➜🤣🤣🤣🤣😉 get one for your brother

Kobojunkie:
Nothing wrong with that! What am curious about is who the single mother who did this to you is? What did you do to her to get her to cause you this much trauma?

Tenrack:
wetin you dey talk..go watch the video

Joeboypondeck:
I'm talking about the single mom you introduce to nairaland

Tenrack:
➜I'm glad she did cause I would still be living with my head up in the cloud and I wouldn't have known better. You call it trauma, I call it enlightenment

Kobojunkie:
. Your head is definitely up in the clouds since she is still occupying rent-free space in your head to this day, evidenced by your continued posting of rants against single mothers in Nairaland, even though single mothers and fathers are busy having a life, even at that.

Tenrack:
yea yeah

Kobojunkie:
. Your head is definitely up in the clouds since she is still occupying rent-free space in your head to this day, evidenced by your continued posting of rants against single mothers in Nairaland, even though single mothers and fathers are busy having a life, even at that.

Tenrack:
➜calm down stop lamenting. I saw a video that I could relate with, and decided to post. Why are you blaming me for wanting my fellow men to stay safe??

Kobojunkie:
Seems you're intentionally searching out these particular contents because of the rent-free space your past continues to occupy in your head, though. Not blaming here.... just pointing out the obvious!

You are keeping men safe from the single mothers they keep producing by their very decisions to have sex without protection? Come on naw! You don't really believe that nonsense, do you?

Joeboypondeck:
are you happily married with her

Tenrack:
➜lol I stumbled upon it.
➜ why are you trying to blame m n for reckless women who open their legs for every tom dick and harry? Who say make dem get poor sense of judgment?

Kobojunkie:
1. Sure, Sure! You stumble on content that reminds you to badmouth single mothers on Nairaland like literally other post, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

2. Blame men? I see you have not been reading my comments, then, since I have made certain to point out that for every single mother, there is a single father out there— they literally go together. I guess you can't see that because the one who traumatized you was a single mother. 🥱🥱🥱

Tenrack:
lol I stumbled upon it. why are you trying to blame m n for reckless women who open their legs for every tom dick and harry? Who say make dem get poor sense of judgment?

SpencerForbes:
Some people are not worth advising. Sometimes it’s best to let them get bitten. Once they’ve gotten the experience, they’ll learn.

The crazy part is:: experience is not the always the best teacher but a hard teacher; a wise man once said- experience gives the test first before giving the lesson🤦‍♂️

Cybertroll:
Most men yapping on Nairaland about single mothers can barely afford to feed themselves. That's why they always get frustrated in the relationship. It's that inability to fulfill their expected role.

SpencerForbes:
Marrying a single mom to me is a sign of low self esteem. What happened to all the young girls around?

I don’t think most rich men will agree with you because what does a single mom bring to the table of an established man

Cybertroll:
I disagree. I think it's a challenge that only the best men win.

The irony of saying an established man... The men creating threads like this come here minutes later with their alternate accounts to spam giveaway threads or ask us to identify the rashes on their you know where

What do most Nigerian men bring to the table when they are mostly unemployed and broke or at best supporting their woman with allowance from their meagre earnings

Cybertroll:
You are entitled to your decision to not date single mothers. Some people might label it bigotry but not me, I am very biased too!
But it's ridiculous to claim moral superiority over all single mothers. Or say they are 'reckless women'.
When you do that it's probably because you're still hurting. Take the time to heal. Then tell us if you still have this single mother phobia.

SpencerForbes:
Stability, protection, support- emotionally and financially etc.

Now if we’re to agree most men are broke and unemployed, then don’t you think it is folly for a young broke man to marry a lady with a child and potentially baby daddy issues??

Don’t you think it is unwise to marry a lady that can always switch when their baby daddies become more financially stable than you?

Cybertroll:
In modern times? There isn't stability without affluence.

Protection? Lmao. That is the job of security enforcers.

How many women do you defend on a daily basis? And if you have ever done so, it was from your gender. No?

Emotionally support? Ok



Which takes us back to my earlier comment.

Most men yapping on Nairaland about single mothers can barely afford to feed themselves. That's why they always get frustrated in the relationship. It's that inability to fulfill their expected role.

Again, nothing stated shows that single mothers are morally lacking. It's rather emphasizes the deficiencies of men.

SpencerForbes:
No one is talking about moral compass but about psychological factors- a single mom is a lady that has been ditched; what do you think will be her plans
Majority of them plan revenge on their new partners.

Once you marry a single mom, there’s tendency she’s bound to return to her baby daddy if things go south.

Another challenge you might face is; disciplining your child and the other child, any little discipline might be regarded as wickedness and can cause trouble in the family.

There’s also tendency of the child going back to his/her dad. Especially if he’s a boy after all your care.

I can go on and on listing the disadvantages of single mothers. She’ll be emotionally attached to the child than even your child and you- because the child reminds her of her first love and mistake. Remember a woman doesn’t just marry for marriage sake so the child is a constant reminder of her failed expectations and experiences.

Cybertroll:
Who said the father of said child is her first love? Lol!

Overall, sounds like a poor home.

Why would you care about the child's decision when you already have yours? It would only hurt when you think about the investment as a sacrifice, and that means you are poor.

Disciplining the child? If it's done in a healthy way why would she mind? Or you want to physically and verbally abuse the child? Don't you correct children that aren't related to you? Any problems so far? All you have to do is not show disparity in the way you treat your biological and step children.

What does plan revenge on their new partners even mean? I think most would be grateful to have the support that comes with a good relationship.

When you date any woman or man, there is a 50percent chance they would cheat with someone new or their ex. It's simply common sense. Nothing to do with having children from a previous relationship.

Anyways, goodnight!