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goran3310:
I can’t imagine myself — not even in the worst nightmare — being married or in any kind of relationship with a woman who has a child.
She can’t possibly look that good, be that good of a person, be that smart, be that young — nothing. There’s no such woman in the world who could make me agree to let another man’s child into my home.

That would be deeply, deeply humiliating in every possible sense. Me, raising someone else’s child? I’d rather die than agree to that. Never. Not even then. There’s no scenario in which that would ever happen.

Even the thought of having a casual relationship with such a woman disgusts me — simply because that kind of relationship is far below and far more hypocritical than being with a prostitute. I can’t picture myself in that situation. And many men who actually have value think exactly the same way.

I do understand those women. They’ve ended up in that situation for all sorts of reasons — but that’s not my problem, just like it wouldn’t be theirs if the situation were reversed. They desperately try to find a new life, a new partner, without realizing that, in the eyes of men who actually have worth and could give them what they want, they are worth nothing.

That’s why they end up with low‑quality, weak‑character men who can’t get real women, so they settle for divorced ones — promising them everything, only to run away later because they have no real potential for anything. And that, in turn, frustrates those divorced women even more, making them increasingly toxic over time.


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Psychological Profile of a Man Who Stays with Divorced Women with a Child

1. Low Self-Esteem and Confidence

He does not believe in his own value or that he can get a better option.

He depends on the woman’s attention and is willing to tolerate compromises he would never accept if his partner had no children.



2. Emotional Insecurity

He constantly seeks validation from his partner.

Fear of rejection or loneliness keeps him in a burdensome relationship.



3. Inadequate Strategy and Resources

He cannot “target” free, quality women because he lacks social, financial, or status capital to be competitive.

Often weaker, more passive, and less ambitious.



4. Compensation Through Control or Promises

If he is seen as a “good guy” by the woman, he often promises everything to maintain the relationship.

If he lacks real potential, he runs away when things get serious or when investment is required.



5. Limited or Illusory Emotional Intelligence

He does not recognize that a relationship with a divorced woman with a child comes with a complex emotional package and responsibilities.

He believes he can “fix” the situation or be a heroic partner.



6. Passive Comfort and Compliance

He settles for a situation below his real potential because “something is better than nothing.”

He tolerates manipulation, drama, and complex dynamics that a quality man would avoid.





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Essence:
These men are not “bad” in themselves, but they are not a challenge for a woman seeking real value. They are the backup choice in the relationship market — men who do not have enough to choose from, so they settle for what is offered, regardless of additional complications.

In short: divorced women with a child do not get a man “who truly has value,” but a man who is not valuable enough to choose a free woman without baggage.

JESHAL007:
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But the most crazy part is that Many women now realize that So many men are very weak that they will accept them with any past for commitment, so they no longer care

zenithgroup:
If you come to realised your wife or partner has never take your lead nor listen to your opinion from the beginning DNA is a must for all your children. Generally women don't like to get f.ck, pregnant by Simp, if it happens by mistakes she'll abort it.

She will married simp collect his resources but she wants the seed of a man she cannot manipulate to grow inside her.

Women don't like to abort for redpiller even when under pressure to she'll preserve the child with all her life.

If she naively married and has children for Simp, she'll never be happy or fulfilled in that union.

It's the game, learn or perish.

Cybertroll:
What you wrote makes sense to you?

Cybertroll:
What you wrote makes sense to you?

JESHAL007:
just as women are always aiming for Financial Independence, so men must always aim for Sexual Independence. Women are fighting so hard to be financially independent so they don't have to rely on relationships for money , which is a way to live their life free from male control, Men should also fight equally hard to be sexually independent so they don't have to rely on relationships for sex, to be able to live their lives free from women's control. If as a man your access to sex depends on whether or not you're in a relationship you're in trouble.
But it's not going to be easy cause men are moral, and sex outside of relationships is something many men feel guilty about. While lots of men can have sex before marriage, quite a good number have issues with sex before commitment, we all have heard it, "I can't fucc a girl I don't love" "I can't sleep with a woman I'm not in love with".

JESHAL007:
Your greatest power when dealing with women is not your money, not your bedmatic skills and certainly not your looks.
It's your power and ability to keep her on her toe and make her know, though covertly, you can always walk away !
You're not going to put up with her bullshits, her whines and her negative energy.
As counterintuitive as it sounds, it's your greatest weapon when dealing with women