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Quite long... So, there's this my friend (male) since 10years now, he's the jovial type and social as well, but right now the friendship is sour. Last year, when I broke up with my ex, he was the so happy about it that he banters me any given chance he gets. I didn't see any fault with it because he warned me before entering the relationship.
He introduced me to this girl(chi) from where he is serving so I got interested not because I wanted anything serious with the girl but my friend kept on Insisting dat I try her... So, I met the girl we got talking and she was a vibe ngl, my friend invited me to his place of service, I went and spent 2weeks there. Immediately I got to the town where he is serving he introduced me to the girl and we clicked almost immediately, this babe was so clingy and all dat, we got intimate, I was staying with my friend in his room while the babe has her own room with her roommate, so all of a sudden my guy hated this babe and started beefing her, I was surprised asking him what the problem was and he refused telling me.
One day, on a Wednesday he told me he'll be expecting a girl to spend the night with him so I'll have to excuse him and go and stay in Chi's room, which was kinda disrespectful to me for the fact I am a guest here, after telling the rest of our guys in our group, I was persuaded to stay over in Chi's room so dat my guy will spend the night with his own guest, I agreed but on the condition that the next day he'll have to excuse me as well so that Chi will spend the night with me, he agreed. So, I went to Chi's room to sleep which was awkward to me but anyways I had sex with her that night and unfortunately for my friend his guest didn't let him have his way with her, which was funny...
Now it was my turn to spend the night with Chi in his room, my guy refused after telling him I had sex with her, my friend swore on his life that he won't let Chi enter his room, Note; ( this was the girl he hyped and told me she was nice and good) still refused to tell me what his problem with the Chi is after I came. I was still in Ondo(my friend's state of service) 4days before my departure my friend stopped cooking with me, omo but I was still hanging out with the babe till my last day there, my friend refused to escort me to the park the morning I was going. On my way, my friend didn't call me once to know whether I am safe or not, he didn't. I got back to Lagos and still chat this girl as a friend, that day I went back to Lagos was the same day my friend too went back to Lagos.
In our circle of friends and our group, this guy kept on saying horrible things about this girl, the most horrible words mehn, I now asked him "If you knew she was horrible, why did you introduce me to her", still no answer🤷🏾‍♂️. Now, on Christmas Day, we were hanging out and on our way to the bar, we passed my ex's house and my friend intentionally went to my ex's gate and banged on her gate causing a nuisance, I immediately made it known to him that I didn't like what he did, instead of him acknowledging what he did was wrong and uncalled for he started telling me I did him wrong in Ondo state when I came visiting, I was amazed and cold wondering what wrong I did to him in Ondo state... We fell out that day, and the rest of our guys we're asking him what wrong I did, he still wasn't making any sense, he refused to apologize for what he did dat day till today. So, unlike him I was worried and I decided to do my diggings, I had a long talk with Chi and asked him if she had any thing with my friend that I am not aware of and she told me my friend made a move on her for sex and relationship and she turned him down but he wasn't specific about what he really wanted with the girl and I felt used and betrayed but I lock up, nothing spoil *I DON COLLECT MY THREE POINTS* .
I thought of everything and I realized what the problem was with him and the sudden hatred he grew for Chi... I was the problem. He had feelings for the girl and couldn't open up, he didn't even tell me his friends about the move he made on the girl, another question I asked myself was why did he invite me and linked me up with the girl in the first place, I've tried to make peace but he's gone cold with me because of this girl that I am not even dating because I told him I don't want a relationship with any girl, we've not spoken since December... I still talk with the girl actually no strings attached tho... Now, early this week the girl told me that my friend is now moving close to her again and acting all nice with her, he even asked her to come to his room and eat with him, saying he wants the friendship back with her like it was before I came into the picture or rather invited. Anyways, the friendship between me and my friend isn't like it was anymore and I don't really care again...

I hate it when I see guys beefing each other because of a banny

From your own side of the story,I think your guy is simply angry with you simply because you ate the same pot of beans which he has been finding so difficult to eat

But then again,if not for f00l1shnex,why did he bring you into the whole picture if he actually had feelings for the banny in the first place?

Anyways,my only piece of advice for you is that,steer clear from that friend of yours cuz such a person wouldn't hesitate to kpai you at any given opportunity

Na why I no too get nighas be this..

Real men don't fight or beef over any skirt.

Y'all should be beefing over money.
Btw any thing woman put hand dey always scatter.

Shameless friends fighting over used car including you storyteller!!

Ki11YurSev:
Shameless friends fighting over used car including you storyteller!!

U too mumu

Is it not the same thread I just read hours ago?

I don't understand how you people get bothered with the doings of fuls, perhaps you're a ful too
Someone is giving jealousy vibes especially towards mere girl and you're carrying it like gala, don't worry when he breaks your head, you'll have sense

Demetrix:
Is it not the same thread I just read hours ago?

people don kolo for this nairaland 😂😂
This story don reach like 2 years for here

Bannies should be the least thing to cause problem between two friends

Some people use the term “friend” so loosely. Everyone that smiles with you isn’t your friend! No matter how many years they’ve been smiling.

cut ties with your friend,or he'll one day destroy you for good.

Guy
Continue to Bleep her till it lasts

Agozskey:
Quite long... So, there's this my friend (male) since 10years now, he's the jovial type and social as well, but right now the friendship is sour. Last year, when I broke up with my ex, he was the so happy about it that he banters me any given chance he gets. I didn't see any fault with it because he warned me before entering the relationship.
He introduced me to this girl(chi) from where he is serving so I got interested not because I wanted anything serious with the girl but my friend kept on Insisting dat I try her... So, I met the girl we got talking and she was a vibe ngl, my friend invited me to his place of service, I went and spent 2weeks there. Immediately I got to the town where he is serving he introduced me to the girl and we clicked almost immediately, this babe was so clingy and all dat, we got intimate, I was staying with my friend in his room while the babe has her own room with her roommate, so all of a sudden my guy hated this babe and started beefing her, I was surprised asking him what the problem was and he refused telling me.
One day, on a Wednesday he told me he'll be expecting a girl to spend the night with him so I'll have to excuse him and go and stay in Chi's room, which was kinda disrespectful to me for the fact I am a guest here, after telling the rest of our guys in our group, I was persuaded to stay over in Chi's room so dat my guy will spend the night with his own guest, I agreed but on the condition that the next day he'll have to excuse me as well so that Chi will spend the night with me, he agreed. So, I went to Chi's room to sleep which was awkward to me but anyways I had sex with her that night and unfortunately for my friend his guest didn't let him have his way with her, which was funny...
Now it was my turn to spend the night with Chi in his room, my guy refused after telling him I had sex with her, my friend swore on his life that he won't let Chi enter his room, Note; ( this was the girl he hyped and told me she was nice and good) still refused to tell me what his problem with the Chi is after I came. I was still in Ondo(my friend's state of service) 4days before my departure my friend stopped cooking with me, omo but I was still hanging out with the babe till my last day there, my friend refused to escort me to the park the morning I was going. On my way, my friend didn't call me once to know whether I am safe or not, he didn't. I got back to Lagos and still chat this girl as a friend, that day I went back to Lagos was the same day my friend too went back to Lagos.
In our circle of friends and our group, this guy kept on saying horrible things about this girl, the most horrible words mehn, I now asked him "If you knew she was horrible, why did you introduce me to her", still no answer🤷🏾‍♂️. Now, on Christmas Day, we were hanging out and on our way to the bar, we passed my ex's house and my friend intentionally went to my ex's gate and banged on her gate causing a nuisance, I immediately made it known to him that I didn't like what he did, instead of him acknowledging what he did was wrong and uncalled for he started telling me I did him wrong in Ondo state when I came visiting, I was amazed and cold wondering what wrong I did to him in Ondo state... We fell out that day, and the rest of our guys we're asking him what wrong I did, he still wasn't making any sense, he refused to apologize for what he did dat day till today. So, unlike him I was worried and I decided to do my diggings, I had a long talk with Chi and asked him if she had any thing with my friend that I am not aware of and she told me my friend made a move on her for sex and relationship and she turned him down but he wasn't specific about what he really wanted with the girl and I felt used and betrayed but I lock up, nothing spoil *I DON COLLECT MY THREE POINTS* .
I thought of everything and I realized what the problem was with him and the sudden hatred he grew for Chi... I was the problem. He had feelings for the girl and couldn't open up, he didn't even tell me his friends about the move he made on the girl, another question I asked myself was why did he invite me and linked me up with the girl in the first place, I've tried to make peace but he's gone cold with me because of this girl that I am not even dating because I told him I don't want a relationship with any girl, we've not spoken since December... I still talk with the girl actually no strings attached tho... Now, early this week the girl told me that my friend is now moving close to her again and acting all nice with her, he even asked her to come to his room and eat with him, saying he wants the friendship back with her like it was before I came into the picture or rather invited. Anyways, the friendship between me and my friend isn't like it was anymore and I don't really care again...

I'm pretty sure I've read this piece before on NL, why recycling old thread?

Agozskey:
I've tried to make peace but he's gone cold with me because of this girl

Make peace keh?
Seems you have a strong desire to suffer or even die in the hands of a yeye selfish & childish friend. Good Luck with that.

Double0h7:
Some people use the term “friend” so loosely. Everyone that smiles with you isn’t your friend! No matter how many years they’ve been smiling.

great quote

Una no get job... See long epistle