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It's 27 - 30 yrs anything apart from that is late

COMRADES, I think when one is economically viable

Whatever you do, don't marry a liability or a lady that her family looks up too before they feed.

Financial weigh of marriage and kids when they start coming can make a man age three times faster if he has no helper or strong support system.

Better to stay single than marry a lady that looks and move like an orphan.

House chores no be work o. Enough said.

Whenever you feel you’re capable to do so without pushing your responsibilities to family and friends.

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

Save this My message, if you continue like this poverty will locate you trust, the kind of generational poverty I mean, you don't what's zina continue. Just save this message for The next few years.

You can marry anytime you want I'd you have the mental capability to be with a woman,and more so you should be financially stable

18 years old

Nobody Catches a Late Comer in marriage , When You Are Matured Enough & Ready to be a Man ,Father & Husband

I married at 32, my wife was 22 that was last year, but before then, I was already doing fine in my business, I ensure that I built my house atleast no more renting... then I bought small car, before I now went for her.. Today I am comfortably taking care of her, my baby son and two siblings of mine...

Marrriage is sweet if you marry for peace of mind.. She is beautiful and good cook, though not a degree holder but I love it like that..

If you have money and wisdom to handle the kind of woman that you want to marry, go ahead and marry even if you're 19 years old. If any of the 2 is missing, sorry. You won't enjoy the marriage.

You must have money. Don't let anyone deceive you. Most marriage disputes come from money. Finance.
You must have the wisdom to handle the kind of woman you marry. If you marry a PhD, you must have the wisdom to handle such a woman. If you marry an ogbanje, you need a requisite wisdom. If you marry agaracha, you need the level of wisdom to handle her. Money + Wisdom = successful marriage. Wisdom includes even intimacy matters. Every other thing in between na stories.

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

If you know what’s good for you and your future, don’t get marry and regret tomorrow. Nothing special, I repeat nothing special about marriage. I’m few years shy away from 40 but I’ve resolved not to get married. If you eventually go ahead to marry, you’ll regret your decision come back to this comment and other comments like mine. Marriage is now a risky decision now ooo.

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MikeofKd:
Nice one sir .........
I'm thinking 30 or 35 , well for finances , I'm okay in that aspect , I have a few successful businesses. I can comfortably take care of 2 to 3 people so it's not a Biggie.
I'm just low-key scared of marriage ,I've seen many marriages go bad , my parents , my uncles and aunts , even my broda too , it scares me a lot.

I just pray I find a good Nigerian woman.

You saw all these patterns yet you still want to tẹri si (enter there). Is it a must you get married? Have you ever ask yourself why you want to get married? You want to get married so that you’ll be controlled in your house bah? Continue😂😂😂

Whatever age he finds a woman that will not be a liability

OP
BETTER Wait till 40 years.

With your Story, it is Clear you are NOT mature enough for marriage.

If u marry now, You will likely be chasing Sec Sch Girls around.

Whatever you do, just know there is reward for any decision you eventually take, it’s your life anyway, some got married at the age of 40 and their son who wanted to be like them also plan to get married at 40 , by then you were 80years waiting to see your grandson , lol

They were still training children in school at the age of 60 with their pension


But your cousin who got married at the age of 25, trained his kids when he was still very energetic and saw his great grand kids at age 80. think about it?

You don’t want to be taking your first born to primary school at the age of 50.

There is reward for everything in life


Finish early and sit down to enjoy the fruits of your labor

Whenever you can afford to feed someone 3 square meal without complaining and live comfortably.

Whenever they tell you apart from this is a scam.

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

I would say 35. By then you get married to a woman of 26/27/28 who is chaste , career oriented, and not a clout chaser.

Tolu2024:
Whenever you can afford to feed someone 3 square meal without complaining and live comfortably.

Whenever they tell you apart from this is a scam.

Loads of 18 year olds are earning big and can feed multiple people. Would you say yes to them at that age?

If u get resources to manage feed ur family, cos in Nigeria now one of the causes of death is family pressure on young men…

MikeofKd:
I have all these attributes here except for picking a reasonable woman , all the ones I've met are far from reasonable...
And my type of person , I don't believe in patience with women , one little slip up , one little mistake and I'm gone like the wind.

This way you are ready to fly and be gone with the wind is one sure way to not get a reasonable lady to marry.

Patience, not foolishness, is one ingredient you need to have. We all slip up at one point or the other. When you are patient, it doesn't mean you are stupid. To study or research on anything, you have to be patient. That's why you don't get university degrees in one day.

Don't let girls have any idea about the depth of your pocket. Let her imagine you are both struggling. Good girls are fast going into extinction now but there are still a few good ones who'd love genuinely without ulterior motives.
I wish you good luck in your search but no matter what, don't be pressured. It will be at your detriment if the unfortunate happens. Let your mum know you are taking your time so you can pick the best.

Finally, like from a big sister now, stop philandering around. For a man too, it doesn't make sense!

25

As long as both of you have jobs, latest 35. There can never be a perfect time

NO AGE






Anytime you are already.

Marriage can often feel like a burden rather than a blessing. Focus on raising children and enjoying life rather than getting caught up in the institution of marriage. True marital love is almost impossible to achieve with the kinds of ladies out there now. When finances become tight, the pressures of marriage can weigh heavily. Embrace the idea of being a single father – it can be a fulfilling path without the complications that often come with marriage. Prioritize what truly matters and live life on your own terms.

Marry ke! Don't mind them, it's a trap! You'll be skrewed for life. Just get a baby mama, and you're good.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
For this great tinubulation era, nah 45 years win am.🥱

I swear

Britishcoins:
I married at 32, my wife was 22 that was last year, but before then, I was already doing fine in my business, I ensure that I built my house atleast no more renting... then I bought small car, before I now went for her.. Today I am comfortably taking care of her, my baby son and two siblings of mine...

Marrriage is sweet if you marry for peace of mind.. She is beautiful and good cook, though not a degree holder but I love it like that..

What’s the plan ? She’ll be a stay at home mom or you’ll set her up in a business?

FutureFocus:
Whatever you do, just know there is reward for any decision you eventually take, it’s your life anyway, some got married at the age of 40 and their son who wanted to be like them also plan to get married at 40 , by then you were 80years waiting to see your grandson , lol

They were still training children in school at the age of 60 with their pension


But your cousin who got married at the age of 25, trained his kids when he was still very energetic and saw his great grand kids at age 80. think about it?

You don’t want to be taking your first born to primary school at the age of 50.

There is reward for everything in life


Finish early and sit down to enjoy the fruits of your labor

Some married early and still died very early, some marry late and see their grandchildren. There’s no hard and fast rule to life.

I got married at the age of 40 and have my first child at the age of 40.

Arnd 60-65yrs na,,, if not, dis naija women go use their hoe-liness kee u at a yong age o

Demetrix:
As you dey plan chop different races of women, Just carry 35 years for mind

Also remind the mf that using of condom doesn’t prevent hiv/aids especially with the southy girls he has in mind.