₦airaland Forum

Sirchiboy:
How old were your wife when you married her

How many wives did he marry? How old were ur wife ke?

MikeofKd:
I dey use protection, no shaking. Plus I only do clean girls.

This is not about clean girls. HIV no dey show for face

My sincere advice is this, never ever think of marriage if you dont have a reliable source of income.

52 like Ned Nwoko and 17 years like Regina Daniels.




Then, the rest would be drama.

Get work and ensure the work you are doing gives you streams of income. Then pray when you are ready to settle down, don't just pick any lady with your head knowledge, ensure you go into courtship and observe her for some time, to know her anger level and other things, know her family history as well. Work on your spiritual life as well because someone that has got a lot of baby mamas would have a very big problem with his sexual life. You need the wisdom from above to lead the lady you eventually marry. Money is not everything.

lol…imo 30-35 should be the standard age…by then a man’s feet should be solid to an extent…both emotionally and financially

I got married at 30. I didn't wait for any family member to pressure me into getting married cos as a man you should plan your life ahead.
You are almost 30 and you are enjoying bachelorhood which is fine. But do a simple maths.
At 50 years of age, how old would you want your first child be? What about the second? and maybe a third?
At 70 yrs of age, if your children haven't attained legal adulthood then you planned poorly.

My case, Now I am 40 and my last child is 2yrs old. When I am 60, she's 22 by God's grace while her older ones are more mature.
Please plan adequately while you enjoy single life. Good luck

placeofallure:
This way you are ready to fly and be gone with the wind is one sure way to not get a reasonable lady to marry.

Patience, not foolishness, is one ingredient you need to have. We all slip up at one point or the other. When you are patient, it doesn't mean you are stupid. To study or research on anything, you have to be patient. That's why you don't get university degrees in one day.

Don't let girls have any idea about the depth of your pocket. Let her imagine you are both struggling. Good girls are fast going into extinction now but there are still a few good ones who'd love genuinely without ulterior motives.
I wish you good luck in your search but no matter what, don't be pressured. It will be at your detriment if the unfortunate happens. Let your mum know you are taking your time so you can pick the best.

Finally, like from a big sister now, stop philandering around. For a man too, it doesn't make sense!

Thank you Big sis..
I'm not playing around with girls on purpose , it's a coping mechanism for the pressures I face , but i would reduce it to the lowest minimum probably find one active sexaul partner while I look for my future wife.

The best Age is the Age of money ..When u have money to marry

ariesbull:
It's 27 - 30 yrs anything apart from that is late

That timeframe is for ladies, not men.

Why do I feel like I owe you a chilled drink for this rare thought

yomi007k:
The age of Enlightenment.

May1st:
I got married at 30. I didn't wait for any family member to pressure me into getting married cos as a man you should plan your life ahead.
You are almost 30 and you are enjoying bachelorhood which is fine. But do a simple maths.
At 50 years of age, how old would you want your first child be? What about the second? and maybe a third?
At 70 yrs of age, if your children haven't attained legal adulthood then you planned poorly.

My case, Now I am 40 and my last child is 2yrs old. When I am 60, she's 22 by God's grace while her older ones are more mature.
Please plan adequately while you enjoy single life. Good luck

Nice one sir....
I've planned my life ahead , you know sometimes plans falter. Doing good financially, currently I earn in two currencies , plus Nigerian naira as well. I have liquid assets , stocks ,bonds. Ntb
Asides from the pressures I've always been very mindful of the maths too , I don't want to have teenage kids in my 60s.

Na 29yrs I marry oo and I dey enjoy my life, as e reach ur turn wait till 55 yrs. Make you enjoy life go knack anything knackable na Man u be.

Your pocket should determine the right age

jiggyman:
I would say 35. By then you get married to a woman of 26/27/28 who is chaste , career oriented, and not a clout chaser.

The bolded part is like finding a needle in the deep ocean.

Majority of our girls are now damaged and far from being chaste.

If you find one, let me know.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
For this great tinubulation era, nah 45 years win am.🥱

At 45, your wife will have a baby by 46 best case scenario. If you're employed, you'll have 19 years to retirement at the best case scenario. Your 1st child will most likely still be in school after your retirement. The siblings probably in secondary school; all depending on your pension that is hardly sufficient for you and your wife to survive.

MikeofKd:
Nice one sir....
I've planned my life ahead , you know sometimes plans falter. Doing good financially, currently I earn in two currencies , plus Nigerian naira as well. I have liquid assets , stocks ,bonds. Ntb
Asides from the pressures I've always been very mindful of the maths too , I don't want to have teenage kids in my 60s.

Why did the marriages of all your uncles, aunties and even siblings fail? That looks like some sorts of underlying patterns in the family that you need to find a solution to, if not, don't expect anything different.

Mcslize:
That timeframe is for ladies, not men.

well you can deceive yourself!

That's the best time to get married as a man! Once you get your game sorted

Mcslize:
The bolded part is like finding a needle in the deep ocean.

Majority of our girls are now damaged and far from being chaste.

If you find one, let me know.

Lol it depends on where you are looking my bro. Most men go on Instagram explore page to look for girls in 10k skimpy wears. I worked in a multinational when I lived in nigeria, I was privileged to meet decent ladies who had a life going on for them.
Na from there I meet wife, and na tear rubber.

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

if God give settle u financially before 30 is best.

13 years

Age is just a number! Maturity is the yardstick and or the main determinant. We have moral, emotional and financial maturity. You have to ask yourself if you are ready to settle down and leave the attitude of and testing or exploring ladies round the globe. In short, are you ready to stick to one woman, that’s morals.

Are you ready to tolerate the shortcomings of another gender that’s totally new or foreign to you, that’s emotional?

Lastly do you have a good business or job that will sustain you and your new family? That’s that say, “do you have the financial capability and sustenance to run your immediate and extended families, that financial?

Marriage has its own responsibilities and you must know and factor them into your plans to be able to take the right decision

In summation, no time is late as far as you are not above 40 years. The ages of 30 to 40 years are ideal for young men that are matured enough to start off a family. Please be guided.

Whenever it is that you’re ready, not when aunties and uncles think you should be ready.

Probz:
Whenever it is that you’re ready, not when aunties and uncles think you should be ready.

Sure

My question to you is that from all your experiences with these different ladies is there any difference?.

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

Continue to chop till you chop HIV/AIDS join

MikeofKd:
Nice one sir .........
I'm thinking 30 or 35 , well for finances , I'm okay in that aspect , I have a few successful businesses. I can comfortably take care of 2 to 3 people so it's not a Biggie.
I'm just low-key scared of marriage ,I've seen many marriages go bad , my parents , my uncles and aunts , even my broda too , it scares me a lot.

I just pray I find a good Nigerian woman.

Take the red pill to understand intersexual dynamics, so you understand women and don't get played.

No age requirement for marriage for men…. Moment u know u ar financially, emotionally and spiritually fit to manage a woman den u ar good to get one and put for ous and manage her…

When you have enough money to take good care of wife and children. Avoid olosho women who may target you when your capable of the above requirements. Let them not use you as pension fund.

MikeofKd:
Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

Best age is 20s - 30s

That's the best active sex life of a man

Also the best time to start training kids so you don't use your pension to train them in the future

hapholaby:
Why do I feel like I owe you a chilled drink for this rare thought

Because your thinking is higher.