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A young lady has shared her reason for deliberately being mean to men who try to get close to her.

In a post shared on X (formerly Twitter), she revealed that her attitude changed after an encounter with a man at the gym. According to her, being nice to men often leads to misunderstanding.

She wrote: “I’m always a little mean to men because if you’re too nice they’ll think you want to sleep with them. Because how is this guy at my gym inviting me over to his house? All I did was buy you Pocari sweat, bro. Are you not loved at home?”

She knows what she did. She’s making noise.

OP, next time you call someone a young lady, don’t post a picture of your aunt. That woman looks forty or a few days younger.

DyshApp:
A young lady has shared her reason for deliberately being mean to men who try to get close to her.

In a post shared on X (formerly Twitter), she revealed that her attitude changed after an encounter with a man at the gym. According to her, being nice to men often leads to misunderstanding.

She wrote: “I’m always a little mean to men because if you’re too nice they’ll think you want to sleep with them. Because how is this guy at my gym inviting me over to his house? All I did was buy you Pocari sweat, bro. Are you not loved at home?”

Internet ladies, men?? Run for ya life??

Future Shiloh candidate has dropped a quote

She should keep being mean to every man that crosses her path, until menopause presents her with a MoU

Ladies will always be quick to tell you about the men they turned down their request, but won't tell you the ones they accepted and fu.k.d. she should also tell us other gym guys she accepted.

Depriest2020:
Ladies will always be quick to tell you about the men they turned down their request, but won't tell you the ones they accepted and fu.k.d. she should also tell us other gym guys she accepted.

Don't mind them. Even in relationships too, they would tell their men about the other men disturbing them (the ones they don't like), but you see the ones they like, they would never let you know. And the moment you find out, they would pick up an argument...

The guy was just not your ‘spec’ or he misinterpreted signs. That’s why it’s better to stay chosen; there must be clear signs before you approach or we’ll keep having cases like this……
Inflated ego

YoungLionken:
➜Don't mind them. Even in relationships too, they would tell their men about the other men disturbing them (the ones they don't like), but you see the ones they like, they would never let you know. And the moment you find out, they would pick up an argument...

That depends on the kind of relationships they are in with you. A situationship, maybe? Definitely does not sound like a committed relationship to me.

Gym guys sha.........Gym guys and their ever raging and very functional preeqs!!!

If they are not Fvkcking peoples wife in da name of instructor, they are luring ladies from the gym over to their houses cos those Contours on her body are sexually attractive....

My advice to gym guys: Just as footballers empty their bowels before entering football field for a match, gym guys try and empty your konji before entering the gym hall........cos there are lots of temptation over there.

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Kobojunkie:
That depends on the kind of relationships they are in with you. A situationship, maybe? Definitely does not sound like a committed relationship to me.

You never know women,even the one in a so called serious relationship will do same. They will tell you,it was a mistake when you get to know. And most of the guys will never even know, because they have become too emotional in dealing with her,cux he thinks she loves him.

BigYash:
➜Hi You never know women,even the one in a so called relationship will do same.
➜ They will tell you,it was a mistake when you get to know.
➜ And most of the guys will never even know, because they have become too emotional in dealing with her,cux he thinks she loves him.

Women are not a monolith; they do not all react the same when in a relationship, so you need to be clear on what kind of relationship you are in with the particular woman you are talking to at any point.

2. * If it's cheating in a committed relationship you are referring to, then we all know that ain't never a mistake. And no, it isn't only the women who use that excuse when caught. So, let's be reasonable in our submissions.

3. The same applies as far as women who find themselves in such situations.

* I should add that if you are in an undefined relationship—non-committed romantic relationship— with a woman/man, you really cannot classify it as cheating.

Continue being mean until your lifec becomes meaningless.

I have since switched my gym sessions from mornings with crazy numbers of women dressing in seductive ways to evenings with way fewer numbers but even at that I’m not safe. God help me from these daughters of eve trying to pop my cherry. Ain’t gonna let them though🥱

WantsandMore:
✓ I have since switched my gym sessions from mornings with crazy numbers of women dressing in seductive ways to evenings with way fewer numbers but even at that I’m not safe. God help me from these daughters of eve trying to pop my cherry. Ain’t gonna let them though🥱

You are not safe because these women literally stalk and harass you clearly marking you a victim in this, abi wetin?

Kobojunkie:
You are not safe because these women literally stalk and harass you clearly marking you a victim in this, abi wetin?

you no go understand because you no dey go gym.

WantsandMore:
you no go understand because you no dey go gym.

Na simple question I ask. Your reaction to the question suggests to me that you are not at all a victim in any way of form as suggested by your previous comment.

Kobojunkie:
Na simple question I ask. Your reaction to the question suggests to me that you are not at all a victim in any way of form as suggested by your previous comment.

That’s why I say you won’t understand because you don’t go to the gym, the facts that you don’t go to the gym means you shouldn’t share opinion on a matter of experience because experience trumps intellect

thats how my female coworker was massaging my back and making coffee for me


if its not shes married with kids, i for don think say na green light

i don't believe her

Women are so good at using reverse phycology and manipulations.

This woman is definitely interested in the guy but wants to play hard to get while using reverse phycology on him. When a woman rushes to the internet to post such things, you don't need a prophet to tell you she has been thinking about the guy non stop. She only posted it online to get people's validation because women love validation and attention from strangers alot

DyshApp:
A young lady has shared her reason for deliberately being mean to men who try to get close to her.

Nigerian men are actually very considerate and nice oh.

How many men will even look at this balloon twice if spends three full months in Europe? Not to talk of getting close.

Depriest2020:
she should also tell us other gym guys she accepted.

You actually believe this AGEGE BREAD goes to the gym?

They are the type who will be begging to wash your boxers.

Only low self-esteem people post "turn down" chats and stories to public just to feel better.

She go dey mean to her brothers and the simps wey go date her, she carry that madness near some other men, na uppercut she go collect

What you bought for him wasn't necessary if you don't have feels for the guy!

Who does that!

To every action, there is equal and opposite reaction!

That naval guy spirit is in me!

➜thats how my female coworker was massaging my back and making coffee for me if its not shes married with kids, i for don think say na green light

What is sad is that a great many men out there take such niceness as green flags when they aren't meant as that at all. And that is why many more women need to resort to being mean to mean so they are not misunderstood by them.

Emeskhalifa:
She go dey mean to her brothers and the simps wey go date her, she carry that madness near some other men, na uppercut she go collect

Will her brothers misconstrue her niceness for romantic attention? That has to be the answer to your question.

Mean to which men ? Her type can only use those gym he-goat shine . Hanty goan drink cold minirah ! Which yeye mean .

Just look at the childish kind of reasoning. They're called fish brain for a reason

Na this grandma una dey call “young lady”? Ah, I tire for una oo