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Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by seanery: 10:28pm On Nov 11, 2025
Always stretch it both morning and night each day; with time it will add to size
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by joseph1832(m): 10:32pm On Nov 11, 2025
budaatum:
That there might be better more valuable and important things about the op than his d?

To be sincere, yes I do believe the op might have more desirable things than a d. He might be smart. He might be kind. He might be clean, disciplined and matured. He might be smart and intelligent and witty and lots of many other things that are much more desirable than the size of a d that the op could be I believe because I don't know, hence me asking instead of lying, as you claim.

Or do you have any evidence the op might not be any of these things and or more?
What I believe about the op and what you wrote about the op's other virtues, like kindness etc isn't the crux of that matter. The crux of the matter is: does size really matter?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 10:33pm On Nov 11, 2025
DrAda:
Hmmmm. What is your stretched penile size (SPL)? Pay attention to the word stretched. Measure it and compare to these images attached to this post (culled from researches conducted in diff countries since I can't find one for Nigeria). If it is within normal, please don't bother yourself
Thank you for taking time to pull these up.

But then, the average african man has an average size larger than all these measurements.

Secondly, I lived with boys and now men, I can tell you that I haven’t seen anyone small like me.

You seem to be a medical doctor. If you won’t find it intrusive and disturbing, I can avail pictures to you privately.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by spiceadole(f): 10:40pm On Nov 11, 2025
Size matters to some women while it doesn't matter to others.

While most women seems to like big sizes, few including myself prefer smaller size.

For me, I don't like sex.

Why should I enjoy a huge rod ramming into me?

My husband is quite small... He used to have this low self esteem about it but it doesn't matter cos I don't care about Bleep.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Memberclub(m): 10:42pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Why do u care about what she think? lol
My guy has small D him Dey enjoy many girls pass me by far. It's all in your head lol
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Teymanhenry(f): 10:49pm On Nov 11, 2025
Men with small dicks should know how to use their fingers and tongues... know this bro. The vagina is a place that a baby comes out from. It expands based on request. If you do the right things, the lady will appreciate you. I used to doubt myself too but later on realized confidence is also key
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by ravensckar(m): 10:49pm On Nov 11, 2025
For the first time in my life, I'm speechless! huh huh
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Ikaeniyan0: 10:52pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
How many inches is your D?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by ibinaboonline: 11:01pm On Nov 11, 2025
Couldn't resist laughing, sorry. Your write-up is quite funny, although I admit your situation isn't funny. Interestingly, it might end up not being the big deal you think it is. By the way, sex after marriage, only. That's God's way.
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by addexx: 11:01pm On Nov 11, 2025
chiagozien:
Learn how to use what you have.


Is not by size.





If you want I teach you how to go 40 mins to 1 hour on the first round without releasing.



The second unlimited until you are tired and want to release.






But know a good 20 minutes is already enough.
Interested
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by daneni1(m): 11:08pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
Are you sure you are not a grower. Some persons have small joystick, but when it rises, it grows twice longer.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by omooba969(m): 11:13pm On Nov 11, 2025
I don't see why you're doing all those tests. undecided
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:14pm On Nov 11, 2025
Nazgul:
Truth is most guys always feel their stuff is too small until they research and discover that they're within average. This might just be your case
BigDawsNet:
What’s ur erect sick size? Let start from dere
betbaron:
A pix at least could have saved him the stress
I attended an all-boys secondary school for 6 years, lived in a male hostel in Uni for 6 years, seen countless men urinating by the roadside, seen bulges through clothes; Never have I seen a D as little as mine.
All those average sizes of 5-5.5 inches are for oyinbo men.

I appreciate your contribution.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op):
ukaface:
How small is it?
Walz001:
And like my people have said get the inch first to determine if you are good to go or not and never allow it to depress you
Ikaeniyan0:
How many inches is your D?
EmmaLege:
Omo you really need to know how many inches you get in other to find solution o
TimiofAbuja:
What does small D looks like?
Noblex2011:
What is the inches first?
jaxxy:
how small are we talking about? That's a genuine concern.
When flaccid, it hangs higher than my balls. When erect, it barely touches my belly button when pulled up. Girth is 4.5 to 5 inches erect.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:25pm On Nov 11, 2025
Branco6:
The problem is una too dey watch adult flicks
Okay let me break it down for you
So in adult flicks the male talent do auditions i.e the size of their thing so that's why you see most of them are hung
Your normal size believe it or not is the general population size
Nothing can increase or decrease your tool size because it is genetics
Now to the low T,your physician should be able to prescribe something for that because in 2025 that's not an issue anymore.
As per women talking anyhow you might want to check the topics on FP where a woman falsely accused her OWN husband
Women talk off point nine times out of ten
Ignore and build yasef
The T is normal range. It just happens to be on the lower end of the normal range.

My size isn't the normal size because I see men around and mine is way smaller.

I will build myself, thank you.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Nazgul: 11:29pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
I attended an all-boys secondary school for 6 years, lived in a male hostel in Uni for 6 years, seen countless men urinating by the roadside, seen bulges through clothes; Never have I seen a D as little as mine.
All those average sizes of 5-5.5 inches are for oyinbo men.

I appreciate your contribution.
You're still beating around the bush. How many inches are you? Go and measure your fully erected Deek and post it here, so we'll know what advice to give you.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:30pm On Nov 11, 2025
spiceadole:
Size matters to some women while it doesn't matter to others.

While most women seems to like big sizes, few including myself prefer smaller size.

For me, I don't like sex.

Why should I enjoy a huge rod ramming into me?

My husband is quite small... He used to have this low self esteem about it but it doesn't matter cos I don't care about Bleep.
Thank you for your contribution.

I'm not sure it is normal not to like sex, except you were circumcised.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:31pm On Nov 11, 2025
Memberclub:
Why do u care about what she think? lol
My guy has small D him Dey enjoy many girls pass me by far. It's all in your head lol
He's probably average. I dey shame to rock babe.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Montana23: 11:33pm On Nov 11, 2025
If you sabi knack and you balance..size dont matter
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by pansophist(m): 11:33pm On Nov 11, 2025
In the era of hoeflation, penis side may matter, but in reality, it should not.

If you’re healthy, can achieve and maintain erection, can ejaculate, and responsible, then your insecurity is unfounded.

Make sure you pick a homely lady, an intentional virgin. Not virgin by circumstances (too young), but those well-trained girls that intentionally keep it for their husband.

The internet is a place where if you spend some time on, even a well to-do guy will feel like he is a failure in life. The average penis size is 5 to 6 inch, and most men are within that range.

Any girl that insults you due to your penis size has just confessed that she is for the streets. Discard and move on.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:34pm On Nov 11, 2025
ibinaboonline:
Couldn't resist laughing, sorry. Your write-up is quite funny, although I admit your situation isn't funny. Interestingly, it might end up not being the big deal you think it is. By the way, sex after marriage, only. That's God's way.
So she won't know what it looks like before marriage, or it suddenly won't be an issue just because we are married? huh
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by spiceadole(f): 11:37pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
Thank you for your contribution.

I'm not sure it is normal not to like sex, except you were circumcised.
I'm not circumcised.
Sex is not just my thing.
I'm not a fan
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:40pm On Nov 11, 2025
BigCowHornn:
You don't need just any woman

Find the one that understands you.


For every product there is a market
How do I find that?
Discuss it on the first date or something?
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:43pm On Nov 11, 2025
spiceadole:
I'm not circumcised.
Sex is not just my thing.
I'm not a fan
I understand. It's usually hormonal.
As long as Oga too isn't a fan of sex, you are good then.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Mariangeles(f): 11:45pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
The T is normal range. It just happens to be on the lower end of the normal range.

My size isn't the normal size because I see men around and mine is way smaller.

I will build myself, thank you.
Whatever you do, don't get fat.

LINSAR:
I understand. It's usually hormonal.
As long as Oga too isn't a fan of sex, you are good then.
Someone that's not freaky about sex is your best bet.
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:54pm On Nov 11, 2025
Mariangeles:
Whatever you do, don't get fat.
Because of fat pad burying the D, right?
I have belly fat sha grin

Someone that's not freaky about sex is your best bet.
This won't work.
My libido is off the roof. Masturbation wan wound me!
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by RealityKings1:
Re: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by Mariangeles(f): 11:59pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
Because of fat pad burying the D, right?
I have belly fat sha grin


This won't work.
My libido is off the roof. Masturbation wan wound me!
So, your libido get mind dey off the roof. undecided
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