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What women want in a boyfriend or a husband is a Provider. They choose a man for marriage by his ability to supply materially, not by the size of his dick, his appearance or his sexiness. All which means boyfriends and husbands - by nature - are NOT a woman's sexual fantasy, just her financial fantasy.

JESHAL007:
What women want in a boyfriend or a husband is a Provider. They choose a man for marriage by his ability to supply materially, not by the size of his dick, his appearance or his sexiness. All which means boyfriends and husbands - by nature - are NOT a woman's sexual fantasy, just her financial fantasy.

And I am telling you the most difficult masculine trait is your ability to provide. We should all aim for it

monerozi5590:
And I am telling you the most difficult masculine trait is your ability to provide. We should all aim for it

Dude what's the use of providing for a lady that has had multiple dicks, she wasn't a virgin again, you are just an ego manipulated slave

monerozi5590:
And I am telling you the most difficult masculine trait is your ability to provide. We should all aim for it

People that fuxck her steadily didn't drop one naira, but you slave hard in marriage to have pussy rationed to you based on her terms

JESHAL007:
Dude what's the use of providing for a lady that has had multiple dicks, she wasn't a virgin again, you are just an ego manipulated slave

That trait will attract all kind of women whether virgin or not

To all the Single guys,, if you've female cousins and female work colleagues you vibe with , Get in the habit of asking them to introduce you to a friend they think you may click with. Don't sleep on those introductions. They do work. And they're many times better and more productive than cold approaching Women on the street ,,, and in terms of labor, definitely more fruitful than even being Chosen, especially if you have problems identifying choosing signals. Women listen to women and trust women above men and having a woman make a case for you with another woman will always be better than engaging and seducing a woman yourself. The added bonus with introductions is that they are a passive way of getting girls, you literally don't have to lift a finger. You don't even have to talk to the girl until she's brought to you. The most that'll be required from you is maybe your pics. And even then, if you're like every guy out there your pics are already on your social media so no one may even directly ask for the pics.

Go ahead try it. You've nothing to lose.

With Feminism cheering them on; with dating apps Tinder, Instagram, Facebook, WhatsApp, 2go etc delivering an endless stream of men direct to their phones; with multiple contraception methods on hand and with the best medications for various STIs, women are overdosing themselves on sex and accumulating pussy-numbing Dick counts.

Marriage, with its 1 Dick, is increasingly becoming a prison no woman wants to enter and every woman is eager to exit (as shown by the sky-high divorce rate and the fact that 80% of all divorces are initiated by women)

The genie is out of the bottle. Female sexuality, long kept in check by the Patriarchy, has finally broken free. There is no going back. The Age of The Slut is upon us. It's either you run and hide under a rock and wait for Society to collapse, or you ride the wave of female lust like a pro surfer.

JESHAL007:
With Feminism cheering them on; with dating apps Tinder, Instagram, Facebook, WhatsApp, 2go etc delivering an endless stream of men direct to their phones; with multiple contraception methods on hand and with the best medications for various STIs, women are overdosing themselves on sex and accumulating pussy-numbing Dick counts.

Marriage, with its 1 Dick, is increasingly becoming a prison no woman wants to enter and every woman is eager to exit (as shown by the sky-high divorce rate and the fact that 80% of all divorces are initiated by women)

If a your wife or girl friend is acting holy and prude, telling you "I can't suck d!ck, that's disgusting", "I don't do doggy, that's for hòes", "I can't do this, it is too degrading" etc, just have itbe at the back of your mind that you are being shortchanged and you are not among the guys who get her sexual best; if you insist on getting it you will meet resistance because she will want to defend her image (women do this a lot). Besides, what a woman isn't getting from you sexually, she will seek it elsewhere from the right guy if the opportunity presents itself. If she can have the best of both worlds without any consequences, she will. All women are sexual freaks to the right guy in the right situation. Don't bother with those that are not sex freaks to you.

What is a Beta?
A Beta is a man who is failing with women whom women deal with only as a second option and use him for his resources.

A woman can't say "Moses loves me cause he had sex with me". Not really, cause sex is not something men control. Just as a man can't say,"Dorothy loves me cause she bought me this and that". Cause a womans commitment is worthless. As long as he hasn't smashed Dorothy, his friends can't really be convinced Dorothy loves him. Cause the only thing of value Dorothy has is the pucc. Until she puts that on the table, she's holding back.

All this is to illustrate both men and women understand the "moment of Truth" concerning each gender. A woman can't use commitment to show a guy she loves him, just as much as a man can't use sex to show a woman he loves her. Women express love by sex, men express love by commitment. Hence that woman who's hard to fucc is the woman everyone fights for cause she has value.Just like that man who's hard to commit is the man everyone fights for cause he has value.
Which brings us full circle back to the virgin and the Bad boy as the most valuable in the dating field.

gender and masculinity are the two most hated things at the moment together with heterosexual marriages and being pro-life (as opposed to being pro-abortion). If you're an enemy of gender, men,marriage and babies, the mainstream world will love you.

What men must do is we must double our efforts to make sure none of our gender is exploited. This is the very meaning of the gender war.

Dealing with hoes is not wrong but committing to hoes is wrong. You can't be paying top dollar for something trashy jerks have been getting for free for a decade.If only the average man can see the shenanigans the average girl gets up to between the ages of 17 and 27ish, guys wouldn't be too quick to dismiss our message of being selective.
Anyone who has gone to college or university knows what girls get up to while their male coursemates are struggling to get even a proper GF.

this is one of the core truths that turned many men red pill,, while a man hustles in his early years to put his life together, women are having their fun. And when these women are tired they then decide to settle, just in time as hustling guys are getting successful. So now women are ready to settle and men are ready to commit, which is not bad in itself but for the fact that women are serving men secondhand left over coochie but want men's freshly minted coins. That's what men are rebelling against. Its robbery.

women always have options. no matter how horrible they are. that's something no one can take away from them,since they are the most desired sex

it should be noted that when women complain of a shortage of men , in any country on any continent, they're only complaining of the Beta Bucks shortage. cause women will never run out of men who wanna smash. it's the shortage of men willing to commit which troubles women cause it means many things: eg it means there's no one women can use to correct their mistakes (no step fathers for those alpha's kids), and it means women may have to work till they die since there's no "retirement package" men that will wife them up and support them later on in life.

100% of Women want to flex their peak SMV to the core, they always want to settle down when they hit the wall and their SMV starts declining.
Sadly, 80% of men want to marry immediately they are about to peak on the SMV, That's why married men tend to cheat a lot... Because they just entered their season of abundance but they've already tied themselves down.

Every human being has his or her own frame. Men and women have their own frame. And generally 80% of the Male population (the Beta majority) by default break frame when they deal with women,, as in they leave their own frame and enter a woman's frame, as in they abandon their own dominance of their reality and break their own rules to satisfy/align with/live by, the woman's rules - which is her frame

when you're strong, women WANT and are WILLING to hand over control and rest in their femininity with the full confidence that they're safe with you, that you know what you're doing and you're able to lead, protect etc (women break rules for alphas).

basically being a "Nice Guy" is using kindness to "buy" sex. Like "I'm sweet and caring so I deserve your puccy". It's lame and it won't work.

A nice guy wants to be agreeable, sweet and kind in hopes of being rewarded with sex for said qualities. They are the biggest manipulators. And rarely get the puccy. Cause women see through that bull.

If you like a girl be upfront with her. Dont do good and pleasant things for her to win her friendship while quietly waiting for her weakest point to "attack" and try to fucc her. Cause you're only wasting your time, energy and resources and you'll be angry when the woman calls you out for it.

JESHAL007:
100% of Women want to flex their peak SMV to the core, they always want to settle down when they hit the wall and their SMV starts declining.
Sadly, 80% of men want to marry immediately they are about to peak on the SMV, That's why married men tend to cheat a lot... Because they just entered their season of abundance but they've already tied themselves down.

This is true but then, the life of a man and woman work inversely proportional.
As men grow older, the tendency to become stable and valuable becomes higher while the woman's own lower.
So if you do things right, you should start getting on track by 30 all the way to 40 of which you will be married by then.
Nature made it so, if not many men won't marry.

JESHAL007:
women always have options. no matter how horrible they are. that's something no one can take away from them,since they are the most desired sex

And Options means Power. Ability to negotiate for a better condition and service.
Something the average man does not have.
It is the Bedrock of Simping.
If life and nature is against you and you have no option, naturally you will drop your ego, demands, price and be more humble.

JESHAL007:
this is one of the core truths that turned many men red pill,, while a man hustles in his early years to put his life together, women are having their fun. And when these women are tired they then decide to settle, just in time as hustling guys are getting successful. So now women are ready to settle and men are ready to commit, which is not bad in itself but for the fact that women are serving men secondhand left over coochie but want men's freshly minted coins. That's what men are rebelling against. Its robbery.

Well, there is no need to rebel.
The system always have a loophole to take advantage of.
While the man who has hustled is left with a semi-damaged woman, he has the option and power to explore as far as his financials can take him aside his wife.
It is not a crime. Don't let anyone gaslight you or demonize you for having a side chick outside marriage.
Don't let them tell you, you have a wife and stick to her. Why did you marry when you know you won't be faithful to one woman blah blah blah.
Bro, enjoy your life. So many pussies to conquer out there if you want and like

emmaodet:
And Options means Power. Ability to negotiate for a better condition and service.
Something the average man does not have.
It is the Bedrock of Simping.
If life and nature is against you and you have no option, naturally you will drop your ego, demands, price and be more humble.

You see this bolded part eh...

May it never happen to us ..

It can make the best of us look very stupid and the learned very foolish..

God would show us mercy in Jesus name

The church, which is part of society also tows the the society's aim of making men simp and blue-pilled.

To be fair, society will collapse when all men get red-pilled because all men would be alpha and selfish to watch out for only themselves. With a lot of blue-pilled SIMPs, there are a lot of fools to be exploited, carrying everyone else

MGTOW is the shît.

The modernism of marriage these days and its accompanying elements is what has made men to start going their own way. Fûck dating and marriage!

Western men are fûcked deeply.

Africa, certain parts of Asia and the Middle east are the last bastions of decent masculinity and patriarchy.

Sadly, the simping culture is creeping up on our young men. I've seen university boys sacrifice their tuition fees for birthdays of women, do other stupid things as vagina worshippers etc.

One of the reasons why it hasn't gain much strong footing here is that men, on a general aren't earning much (weak economy), so women on average (who earn much lower than their men who also earn poorly) have to show traits of submission.

In the first world economies, high earning for men also improved the status for women and the men goofed by failing the biggest shit test, Feminism

temi4fash:
You see this bolded part eh...

May it never happen to us ..

It can make the best of us look very stupid and the learned very foolish..

God would show us mercy in Jesus name

Amen bro.
I say amen to your prayer.
If life goes against you, against your hustles, dreams and aspirations...... Hmmmmmm
People will categorize you as lazy, someone who didn't plan well and you will be virtually invisible in the dating/relationship/marriage world.
I don't even pray for my enemy to be in such position

emmaodet:
Well, there is no need to rebel.
The system always have a loophole to take advantage of.
While the man who has hustled is left with a semi-damaged woman, he has the option and power to explore as far as his financials can take him aside his wife.
It is not a crime. Don't let anyone gaslight you or demonize you for having a side chick outside marriage.
Don't let them tell you, you have a wife and stick to her. Why did you marry when you know you won't be faithful to one woman blah blah blah.
Bro, enjoy your life. So many pussies to conquer out there if you want and like

I swear you are correct some would say as a man in a relationship you have no business pursuing women for sexual purpose aren't you a Christian aren't you moral aren't you bound by masculine honor code of loyalty and fidelity, why can't you control your libido, why do you lack self discipline as a man, why aren't you behaving like a virtuous Christian and many other religious shaming like you are not depicting righteous living and godliness, some would shame you that you would get STD like HIV as if we are stupid enough not to use contraceptives, what annoys me is that the women telling you all these nonsense were fucking like mad having unlimited raw sex, fornicating heavily in their prime years as if there was no tomorrow, but to guilt trip and shame you not to pursue pleasure at all and rather manage the boredom of one single pussy

JESHAL007:
100% of Women want to flex their peak SMV to the core, they always want to settle down when they hit the wall and their SMV starts declining.
Sadly, 80% of men want to marry immediately they are about to peak on the SMV, That's why married men tend to cheat a lot... Because they just entered their season of abundance but they've already tied themselves down.

This is so true. Yet at the same time, the women withhold sex from their husbands with the popular arrogant question: "Is sex food?" But then, na mumu man fit get that kind of question. I bless God for the Internet in revealing how most women think and plan their lives. Fifteen years ago, I thought all women were angelic and could do no harm. The last two years have revealed a lot, and many yet-to-be married should conduct deep research on their kind of women they associate with, have sex with and marry.

emmaodet:
Well, there is no need to rebel.
The system always have a loophole to take advantage of.
While the man who has hustled is left with a semi-damaged woman, he has the option and power to explore as far as his financials can take him aside his wife.

This can be avoided provided the man does his research very well, including intentionally avoiding certain kinds of women. It is the reason I gbadu Fulani men. I consider them the true Alpha Males in Nigeria.

It is not a crime. Don't let anyone gaslight you or demonize you for having a side chick outside marriage.
Don't let them tell you, you have a wife and stick to her. Why did you marry when you know you won't be faithful to one woman blah blah blah.
Bro, enjoy your life. So many pussies to conquer out there if you want and like

While the bold is largely true, many men should be discerning of the pussy they shook their preek into. Some pussies come with problems. Most importantly, except the man is unbelievably liquid/or the religion/culture permits, endeavour not to have another child outside.

emmaodet:
Well, there is no need to rebel.
The system always have a loophole to take advantage of.
While the man who has hustled is left with a semi-damaged woman, he has the option and power to explore as far as his financials can take him aside his wife.
It is not a crime. Don't let anyone gaslight you or demonize you for having a side chick outside marriage.
Don't let them tell you, you have a wife and stick to her. Why did you marry when you know you won't be faithful to one woman blah blah blah.
Bro, enjoy your life. So many pussies to conquer out there if you want and like

These slutz were disvirgined very early and by by natural default abundance were more likely to have fuckedd like mad from the period they lost their virginity even till their post decline years, and they have the nerve to lecture about morality and spirituality about Chasity and purity, non virgins for that matter

It's well