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SpencerForbes:
Honestly, if you think women just have a lower sex drive than men, you’re missing the point. Sometimes you’ll hear things like ‘“ men love sex than women” and it’s really funny

It's not about how much they want it—it’s about strategy and survival.
Think about the reality:

•The Stakes Are Way Higher: The consequences of a casual encounter are just different for a woman and it poses more risks. We're talking pregnancy, higher risk of STIs like HIV, and getting completely strung along by men they thought had good intentions and dumped. They are the gatekeepers because they literally have the most to lose. Their caution is just smart self-preservation.

• They Know Their Power: Women figure out pretty early on that sex is currency. Even though they try to hide it by acting ignorant, when they see how many guys act like total simps (sorry, not sorry!) sugar zaddies , married men and young guys lacking game, just to get access, they learn that careful control is power. They have to be super choosy about who gets through the door if they want to control the dynamic.

So, it boils down to two things: genuine attraction and safety.

When a girl is truly turned on by a guy, and she's certain she can avoid those major consequences, honestly? Her drive will probably scare you. Don't confuse strategy with a lack of desire.

[quote author=yemmit90 post=137489865]Naturally, women have lower sexual drives than men, women can enjoy or like sex but don't always have desire or urge to do it like men, which gave them natural ability to control their urge.

The gender that always want sex or enjoy it the most pay or do anything to have it. You can't pay or go extras miles to do what you're not the one enjoying the most, likewise you don't necessarily have to play hard to do what you know you enjoy the most. This simple analogy is more than enough to put this incessant argument to rest.

And contrary to some believes, women don't see anything special about good sex, they may enjoy it at that moment but that is where it ended. That is why a woman may prefer a man who can take care of her needs than the one who can fully satisfy her sexually. Some may say, they will cheat with the one that can satisfy them but that is not always the case. Majority of them may rather contented with good living and moderate sex than good sex and uncomfortable life.

Diamond098454:
Sex is not food

SpencerForbes:
True. But you’ll run to another man if your man doesn’t satisfy you. Women and hypocrisy 🤝

You’ll leave that loving man to follow gateman, driver, your ‘cousin’, daddy in the Lord and even gym instructor.

We all know that scam is just a power game. Y’all use it against men you’ve lost interest in or ‘ you don see finish ‘ Alias Papa Emeka 😂

If John text you immediately after that statement, you’ll start catching feelings.
Women and hypocrisy 🤝

Diamond098454:
hmmmm having feelings for someone that just chart you up or text you? Is this how you view women?

SpencerForbes:
Lolz 😂 if a woman has feelings for a guy, she can have sex with him that same day. The reason why it seems our ladies are hard to get is because we men caused it with our kiss-and-tell nature and also stigmatization especially in this part of the world where a lady that’s easy to get is seen as a sex worker or addict. With some good lines and emotional switch, any lady can fall for a guy. We all know how bad guys capture ladies heart with just sweet words. So let’s not hide under the pretense of ignorance.

Diamond098454:
hmmmm I don't have your strength please

Diamond098454:
Sex is not food

dhiqson:
By biblical definition, you're right
Sex isn't food


Sex was described as "thirst"
So yes we can do without food
But thirst for water??
Nahh
So there u go diamond