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Kobojunkie:
When will Nigerian police step up and take seriously their duty to serve and protect the public, abeg? 🥱🥱🥱

See the audacity of these boys! They literally showed up in broad daylight to rob this woman's house, and expect us to believe they were doing some sort of good service. That woman should use this as evidence to have all of them charged and arrested, abeg.

It wasn't robbery. It is called repossession. Remember that ownership is sometime different from possession so the guys want to reclaim his properties from his ex girlfriend, probably he must have receipts or invoice of what he bought for her

So if she calls police, na whose name dey for receipts or who paid from his or her account is owner.

It is same kind of story you people were saying for sending transport to a girl and later she refused ro come and refused to refund the money. Then police say it is a fraud case - obtaining with false pretense. you people didn't agreed. The matter was taken to court two times, courts ruled and awarded huge claims against the girls who received transport money but didn't show.

Nigerian men are wiser now,

Kobojunkie:
Usually, when folks gift cars to others, they ensure the documents pertaining to the vehicle, not necessarily the receipt that was used to purchase it, are transferred to the recipient. This ain't nothing new to any of us.

Without the receipt, you cannot process change of ownership document.

wirinet:
✓ Without the receipt, you cannot process change of ownership document.

You are not making sense. I suggest you go back and review the image attached to the original comment for explanation you need here..🤔

Goo0dHardDick:
The girl didn't even buy a single thing in her name.

I blame guys who finance and upload a woman's lifestyle. She even brought her friends to be living with her. I am very sure they usually invite guys too for rounds there

I blame such guys too. I'm not even impressed with the guy's actions sef. Why get her all those stuff in the first place
His mom or sister won't forget in a hurry if he spent that money on them... Infact, they'll always be ready to assist or fight any witch for him.
SMH

Kobojunkie:
When will Nigerian police step up and take seriously their duty to serve and protect the public, abeg? 🥱🥱🥱

See the audacity of these boys! They literally showed up in broad daylight to rob this woman's house, and expect us to believe they were doing some sort of good service. That woman should use this as evidence to have all of them charged and arrested, abeg.

shebi dem say naa eye dey pain you, e be like you also get hearing problem ... well the gurls know the robbers

i dont know how robbery i have seen where the victims have freedom to camera the scene and doing the talking

Kobojunkie:
When will Nigerian police step up and take seriously their duty to serve and protect the public, abeg? 🥱🥱🥱

See the audacity of these boys! They literally showed up in broad daylight to rob this woman's house, and expect us to believe they were doing some sort of good service. That woman should use this as evidence to have all of them charged and arrested, abeg.

you don talk your own, e sweet for your mouth. Did you know the circumstances under which the items were given to the girl?

The key offence is “obtaining property by false pretence.”
Under the Criminal Code, a person commits this offence when they get money or property from someone by making a false claim they know isn’t true, and they intend to deceive the other person.

For this scenario, the law would apply if the guy can show that:

1. She made a false statement — for example, claiming she loved him while knowing she didn’t.


2. She made that statement to get the gifts.


3. He relied on that statement when giving the gifts.


4. She intended to deceive him from the start.

If he can prove those things, then the girl will even pay for emotional damage join.

1Alex:
you don talk your own, e sweet for your mouth. Did you know the circumstances under which the items were given to the girl?
The key offence is “obtaining property by false pretence.”
Under the Criminal Code, a person commits this offence when they get money or property from someone by making a false claim they know isn’t true, and they intend to deceive the other person.
For this scenario, the law would apply if the guy can show that:
1. She made a false statement — for example, claiming she loved him while knowing she didn’t.
2. She made that statement to get the gifts.
3. He relied on that statement when giving the gifts.
4. She intended to deceive him from the start.
If he can prove those things, then the girl will even pay for emotional damage join.

Let's pretend for a second that what you posted somehow applies in this case, where in what you have above does it state that the person who was defrauded in that case is allowed to violate trespassing laws and other criminal codes in an attempt to retrieve or claim said property?

Kobojunkie:
Go back and re-read the comment you pretend you responded to. I didn't say you should not try to get your things back if that is what you want; however, you have no right to show up at a person's house uninvited to take it yourself. Yes, everyone has their ways, but there is only one proper way to do anything, and that is going the way that one is legally allowed to do so.

If that man had tried that nonsense here, and gal maybe shot at them to keep them from invading her space and stealing her property at that, the law would probably have been on her side.

2. If my sister had been dumb enough to do so, I would recommend that she go through legal means to get her TV back if possible. I would never advise her to invade anyone's home.

Which legal implications? when many guys deliberately buy those things in their name and reserve the receipt. What evidence have you that it rightly belongs to you? Even the car people have seen you driving everyday, if a legal case happens and you can't prove ownership, it will be taken away from you. Nigerian law is still at the level of providing strong evidences, words of mouth (except recorded and verified) or assumptions may not win you a case here!!
From the law you quoted, what "proven" assurances or agreements can she provide that will show the gift is unconditional

Good one from my gender ,women are voltures ,it serves her right

ogaontop:
➜Which legal implications? when many guys deliberately buy those things in their name and reserve the receipt. What evidence have you that it rightly belongs to you? Even the car people have seen you driving everyday, if a legal case happens and you can't prove ownership, it will be taken away from you. Nigerian law is still at the level of providing strong evidences, words of mouth (except recorded and verified) or assumptions may not win you a case here!!

Read the information presented below.

Kobojunkie:
Read the information presented below.

From the law you quoted, what "proven" assurances or agreements can she provide that will show the gift is unconditional?
Legal battles are not straightforward as you see written on paper.
A good lawyer will claim conditions of "as far we are dating", the gift is yours.
When it's not written down anywhere, he may not prove it, and she can't prove otherwise, so what happens?
Exercise in futility!
If she even cheated in the course of the relationship and if the guy proves it as a fact, another legal technicality will come in.

All this content creator sef.. however, this is stealing and could be used as a leverage to lock those boys up

One of the reason it's very bad to be fully providing for a lady that one is yet marry even the ones that's inside marriage already do Bleep up how much more person thats one is yet to marry.if the guy follow the lady drags it she won't release the properties now that this had happened i think the lady can only take her loads back if those things are bought in her name means na her name dey on the receipts

ogaontop:
➜From the law you quoted, what "proven" assurances or agreements can she provide that will show the gift is unconditional?
➜ Legal battles are not straightforward as you see written on paper. A good lawyer will claim conditions of "as far we are dating", the gift is yours. When it's not written down anywhere, he may not prove it, and she can't prove otherwise, so what happens?
Exercise in futility! If she even cheated in the course of the relationship and if the guy proves it as a fact, another legal technicality will come in.

What you are struggling with is a lack of comprehension. The answer you seek is right there for you to glean.

Legal battles do not change the letter of the law or how it works.

Walezy2020:
One of the reason it's very bad to be fully providing for a lady that one is yet marry even the ones that's inside marriage already do Bleep up how much more person thats one is yet to marry.if the guy follow the lady drags it she won't release the properties now that this had happened i think the lady can only take her loads back if those things are bought in her name means na her name dey on the receipts

Please stick to Pr0stitutes until you get married, that way you don't need to worry about these sort of things as you are instead forced to pay exactly how much you owe.

Kobojunkie:
Trying to blame the lady in this case for the man choosing to gift her all those things is tiny-brained and an attempt to avoid holding these men accountable for their immature behavior towards women who reject or dump them in love.

A woman does not owe a man her life in any sort of relationship. The moment she believes she no longer benefits from a relationship with any man, or she conceives that she is investing more than she benefits from the union, she has every right to exit the relationship. So, men who think they are entitled to a woman's time and energy without reciprocal return are just being ridiculous. Also, men who date women whom they realize are above their league, only to then cry foul when such women decide they are ready to level up, are not victims but immature beings. And I truly believe these men should be penalized by women like these. I really wish the woman in the OP would get advice to call the cops and report the man and his friends to the police for what they need.

2. You should probably not bother dating any woman at all, because after all is said and done, it seems many of you do not need lovers, but pr0stitutes who would only charge you for the cost of the exact time and physical labor they invest in you—with none of the emotional and mental investment that lovers bring. I think many of you are doing the wrong thing by looking for girlfriends when what you need are pr0stitutes.

Well if the aim of relationships is for mutual benefits and sex isn't suppose to be part of the bargain cause it's not a tool of exchange but of mutual consent. Although it takes maturity to move on without trying to be petty in relationships but my own point of view is this: don't give what you can't give away without feeling too much impact on the gift. Giving my wife my strength and resources is a must but relationship/dating is more elite testing waters to see if couples are fit to marry themselves. It's not the place to put so much more than what you can freely give

Give that guy a balon dior already. He did well.

eventainment:
➜Well if the aim of relationships is for mutual benefits and sex isn't suppose to be part of the bargain cause it's not a tool of exchange but of mutual consent. Although it takes maturity to move on without trying to be petty in relationships but my own point of view is this: don't give what you can't give away without feeling too much impact on the gift. Giving my wife my strength and resources is a must but relationship/dating is more elite testing waters to see if couples are fit to marry themselves. It's not the place to put so much more than what you can freely give

For you, those relationships may be just that, but for women many of whom end up investing time, emotional, mental, and physical energy in addition to bearing much of the mental load that is the relationship, it is more than that and as such there is need for them to ensure they at least benefit something from the exchange.

Again, I suggest that for those of you who think a wife alone should get gifts from you, please stick to patronizing pr0stitutes since you also seem to be amenable to their demands for strict payment for their time and physical energy.

Guy just keep quiet!

Kobojunkie:
Go back and re-read the comment you pretend you responded to. I didn't say you should not try to get your things back if that is what you want; however, you have no right to show up at a person's house uninvited to take it yourself. Yes, everyone has their ways, but there is only one proper way to do anything, and that is going the way that one is legally allowed to do so.

If that man had tried that nonsense here, and gal maybe shot at them to keep them from invading her space and stealing her property at that, the law would probably have been on her side.

2. If my sister had been dumb enough to do so, I would recommend that she go through legal means to get her TV back if possible. I would never advise her to invade anyone's home.

If you don't want him or her anymore, isn't it natural for you to return their stuff? You dont like a plate, but you like the food served on the plate. It doesn't work that way. If I were in her shoes, I would personally have returned the things he bought for her to avoid any embarrassment or stories that touch. Was it during or after the relationship that she found out he is a yahoo boy?

Kobojunkie:
For you, those relationships may be just that, but for women many of whom end up investing time, emotional, mental, and physical energy in addition to bearing much of the mental load that is the relationship, it is more than that and as such there is need for them to ensure they at least benefit something from the exchange.

Again, I suggest that for those of you who think a wife alone should get gifts from you, please stick to patronizing pr0stitutes since you also seem to be amenable to their demands for strict payment for their time and physical energy.

Your comments are indicative of a pained, bitter person. You must have gone through a lot to turn out this way. Sorry dear.

Kobojunkie:
When will Nigerian police step up and take seriously their duty to serve and protect the public, abeg? 🥱🥱🥱

See the audacity of these boys! They literally showed up in broad daylight to rob this woman's house, and expect us to believe they were doing some sort of good service. That woman should use this as evidence to have all of them charged and arrested, abeg.

What if the guy has the receipts for all the things he bought in his name?

Most of this ladies got nothing to offer but their body. Imagine the effontery of a lady staying in a house and almost nothing in there is hers. You still get mind break up with your benefactor. Lol. Make the new Maga continue where the old one stop.

Kaczynski:
normally dustbin attracts dustbin


why will you date a girl just to be spending on her?? abi you are after her honey pot


relationship is instead transactional , most girls now enter relationship just for profits because the guy is after her honeypot so a girl tries to gain advantage by securing monetary incentives and garden egg. in the end the girl profits mostly by accumulating lots of options.


as a guy the last thing you want is to enter a relationship where you will be taxed . if you are shmex starved , go one on one with vaseline or visit beggers den for correct girls

Visit beggars for sex if sex starved?

How do u mean pls?

Give three balondior to this man. He deserves it.

psalmsjob:
Me too if love has died then see what he bought her should be making her angry abi no be so.... She ought to have returned the things before he came for them. It reminds of a time I took a girl to the eateries and I bought pastries of different types as she wanted but on our way to my house for me to collect receipts she started receiving calls from her uncle and aunties she claimed that they said she must come home immediately so I had to take her home instead and said ok no problem I can understand after all I'm not a virgin so no big deal along the way she was robbing my head and apologizing and I kept saying no worries until we got to her house and I made sure one of her siblings was around to witness that I brought her back home while we were waiting outside the car so when her sibling came out she opened the back seat where the pastries were to pick them but I waited for her to pack them while I formed to be making calls so she waited for me to finish my call and then I told her I was calling one of my girlfriends who was coming to keep me company for the night so I'll need to entertain her with those pastries and I proceeded to collect them from her hands and put back in the car and drove off... I no be mumu for toto o as you think say your toto sweet na so my gbola sweet we are both doing each other a favour.... By the way I started having sex when I turned 13 years so thing doesn't freak me out to say konji ... I have mastered.

Well done boys , na man una be

Kobojunkie:
1. I have been doing just that for a couple of decades now, and I won't have it any other way.

2. Obviously, I made it clear that I don't buy into your historical metaphors, which seek to rewrite pure human wickedness as something that it ain't.

3. I stand on the side of common sense instead.

4. Common sense, aka educated wisdom set on a foundation of facts and not lies/propaganda!

You stand on the side of common sense?

And common sense didn't tell her that if you dump your boyfriend, that the honourable thing to do is to return the proceeds of whatever you acquired from such a relationship?

You don't beat a child and tell him how NOT to cry.

The guy has gotten his items back by his own means,since the girl refused to relinquished them.

Let her take your advice, do the commonsensical thing and sue the guy to Court .

Abi na only men dey reserve the privilege of common sense?

Kobojunkie:
That's because you are insecure and certain that those single, unmarried female friends would invariably reveal to her how little value you truly bring to her existence, right? I grew up around your kind: men do all that is possible to isolate their wives from friends — outside support of their own—and family, in some cases, who could get in the way of them maintaining control over their wives.

2. Of course, keep her as isolated and blind to the truth of your real worth to her, abi?

Verify verily I say unto you, "women are meant to be domesticated..."

Afriifa:
I don't want to insult you but ya making it so hard. Relationship is a contract. The fact that if you gift a girl something you can't get it back after break up does not make the one that do it a bad person. Everybody has their ways. I personally, don't have problem with a guy wanting to retrieve things he got for a girl during their relationship if things goes south. She should also go and get her things back. So you mean if your sister got a guy a TV during their courtship and things goes south, if you believe there is nothing that same guy gifted your sister to equal the worth of that TV gift, you will not talk your girl or go there yourself to retrieve the TV? you want his new woman to come and enjoy the TV?

Why insult
Is your mouth bigger than anyone's
Is your own insult from Jupiter

The issue here is process not whether he is entitled to get back what he believes to be his

This is self help by force

What ud the law with regard to the process?

If for any reason you go to a bank where you have one billion and they don't honour your cheques can you gather boys to enter the bank to take your money by force?


What if that girl or person in that position has their own boys and there is a fight? That would be seen as armed robbery


What Mr loverboy has done is
Robbery
Under our law if robbery involves violence it is treated like armed robbery and carries a death penalty

Many people talk with ignorance of law

If you enter a person's property without their consent that is trespass, in this case breaking and entry even if you are the one paying the rent

donbenie:
You stand on the side of common sense?

And common sense didn't tell her that if you dump your boyfriend, that the honourable thing to do is to return the proceeds of whatever you acquired from such a relationship?

You don't beat a child and tell him how NOT to cry.

The guy has gotten his items back by his own means,since the girl refused to relinquished them.

Let her take your advice, do the commonsensical thing and sue the guy to Court .

Abi na only men dey reserve the privilege of common sense?

This is not about suing him she should report him to the police for robbery

This is a case of
Criminal trespass
Breaking and Entry
Robbery with force, violence or threat of violence which in our law is same as armed robbery

Maximum penalty death

In this case minimum of 10 years imprisonment