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I'm genuinely curious...individuals who had cases of unwanted pregnancies, what exactly happened?
Did the guy ejaculate in you? Or it was a failed withdrawal method? Or condom broke? Or you didn't take emergency contraceptives? Or you didn't track your cycle well?
This is not a sub, just genuinely curious. Because the rate at which I hear about unplanned pregnancies these days...

PeaceRN:
➜I'm genuinely curious...individuals who had cases of unwanted pregnancies, what exactly happened?
Did the guy ejaculate in you? Or it was a failed withdrawal method? Or condom broke? Or you didn't take emergency contraceptives? Or you didn't track your cycle well?
➜This is not a sub, just genuinely curious. Because the rate at which I hear about unplanned pregnancies these days...

Why does it matter how it happened, though?

2. Does knowing the how change any of the facts of what is?

Mutual Carelessness: Both people just got carried away and ditched the contraception. If the guy refused to use a condom, why did she decide not to take the pill? We have lots of them in the market now. So that isn’t an excuse.

The Pull-Out Lie: The guy was overly confident in his 'pull-out game,' completely ignoring the fact that pre-ejaculate can definitely contain sperm. That’s a risky gamble that rarely pays off. Some men likes to stay on the safer sides so if don’t like the latex, Abeg shift
Trying to Trap a Partner: Some women mistakenly think they can use pregnancy to force a commitment, believing it will 'hold the guy down especially the ‘Baba olowos’ and sugar zaddies . But guess what? Not every man is ready, and that strategy often backfires.

Old Greed 🤦‍♂️: Some girls get money specifically for contraceptives, but they spend it on things like perfume or a new wig instead. Then when they get pregnant, they just assume the guy is obligated to step up and take care of the kid 😤

Fear of Abortion : You also have the fear of abortion influencing decisions.

I could keep going with this list too, but those main points cover the core issues—it's either carelessness, overconfidence, manipulation, or misplaced priorities.

I pulled out. She took in. We got rid of it
She bled for days. Close to 7 days.
Don’t think I’ll do that again.

Was traumatized for months before I moved on.
I always use the after morning pill 💊

Eh! Some of us are still learners, how do you prevent pregnancy with salt solution and alcohol?🤔🤔🤔

CandyOps:
I pulled out. She took in. We got rid of it
She bled for days. Close to 7 days.
Don’t think I’ll do that again.

Was traumatized for months before I moved on.
I always use the after morning pill 💊
Or salt solution then alcohol b4 sex but I no trust that. I always trust post sex pills

CandyOps:
I pulled out. She took in. We got rid of it. She bled for days. Close to 7 days. Don’t think I’ll do that again.
Was traumatized for months before I moved on. I always use the after morning pill 💊 Or salt solution then alcohol b4 sex but I no trust that. I always trust post sex pills

Post-sex pill? Na women wey dey submit themselves to this nonsense I pity pass! 🥱🥱🥱

Samantha125:
Eh! Some of us are still learners, how do you prevent pregnancy with salt solution and alcohol?🤔🤔🤔

Why'd a married woman be asking this kind of question? . Hope you're not planning to do exactly what I'm thinking ?

What? Noo!!! We don't believe in abortion in my family... Abort those intelligent good looking genes? Never!!!

I'm just curious, that's all...

So are you going to tell me or what?

Sonnobax15:
Why'd a married woman be asking this kind of question? . Hope you're not planning to do exactly what I'm thinking ?

Kobojunkie:
Post-sex pill? Na women wey dey submit themselves to this nonsense I pity pass! 🥱🥱🥱

Women? It takes 2 to tango and it’s not an everyday or every month thing. It’s once in a while. The normal thing na condoms

Samantha125:
Eh! Some of us are still learners, how do you prevent pregnancy with salt solution and alcohol?🤔🤔🤔

It’s not proven to work scientifically though. But the idea is that taking high alcohol % drinks or hypertonic salt solution throws your internal acid-base levels and pH off hence implantation is less likely to occur.

Works for some and don’t for others. Like I said it’s a myth because my AI says what you ingest can’t affect your uterine pH. So kindly disregard that 🙏

CandyOps:
➜Women? It takes 2 to tango and it’s not an everyday or every month thing. It’s once in a while. The normal thing na condoms

Yes, it takes two to tango, but all you describe impacted the woman's body and constitution more than it did the man's, did it not? So, yes, I pity women who ignorantly submit themselves to this sort of nonsense in the year 2025.

Kobojunkie:
Yes, it takes two to tango, but all you describe impacted the woman's body and constitution more than it did the man's, did it not? So, yes, I pity women who ignorantly submit themselves to this sort of nonsense in the year 2025.

Ok. What would you advice?

CandyOps:
➜It’s not proven to work scientifically though. But the idea is that taking high alcohol % drinks or hypertonic salt solution throws your internal acid-base levels and pH off hence implantation is less likely to occur.
➜Works for some and don’t for others. Like I said it’s a myth because my AI says what you ingest can’t affect your uterine pH. So kindly disregard that 🙏

This is nonsensical at best. You have out there people on drugs who still conceive and end up with babies high on drugs. Why in the world would you think that high alcohol would do any of what you pretend? Gosh!

No, it does not work at all! Why do women put up with this nonsense in this day and age!

CandyOps:
➜Ok. What would you advice?

Use protection! Prevention is better than cure!

Kobojunkie:
Use protection! Prevention is better than cure!

I already said that. You must have missed it
And when you don’t? Like when she’s in the mood on that time of the month and you copulate without a rubber unintentionally… what do you do afterwards?

CandyOps:
➜I already said that. You must have missed it. And when you don’t? Like when she’s in the mood on that time of the month and you copulate without a rubber unintentionally… what do you do afterwards?

Why should her mood supersede, at any point in time, the safety of her life and health?

If you had a son, would you also teach him that sometimes the mood for sex should come before the need to protect his health and future? This sense you offer is not sense-ing.

So what you're basically saying is that drunk women have high chances of not getting pregnant after unprotected sex?

CandyOps:
It’s not proven to work scientifically though. But the idea is that taking high alcohol % drinks or hypertonic salt solution throws your internal acid-base levels and pH off hence implantation is less likely to occur.

Works for some and don’t for others. Like I said it’s a myth because my AI says what you ingest can’t affect your uterine pH. So kindly disregard that 🙏

Only stupidly foolish guys will release inside a woman they are not sure they want to spend dia life's with... Only nonsense morons do that...


If u ain't sure u can't spend ur life with her,then always make sure to withdraw as soon as u feel the rush and splash it everyywia on ur body or better still use a condom.. na ala adia apugi

Kobojunkie:
Why should her mood supersede, at any point in time, the safety of her life and health?

If you had a son, would you also teach him that sometimes the mood for sex should come before the need to protect his health and future? This sense you offer is not sense-ing.

Yes we should use protection and That’s besides my question. I’m saying unprotected sex can happen w/o plan right? In such cases, what do you advice?

CandyOps:
➜Yes we should use protection and That’s besides my question. I’m saying unprotected sex can happen w/o plan right? In such cases, what do you advice?

And I am telling you that unprotected sex should never happen, given what you described earlier had happened to the woman. Suppose it had been your own body that had to experience those 7 days of straight bleeding, which caused you panic. In that case, I can bet my last kobo that you would never have had anyone do that to you again, but because it did not happen to your own body, that is why you seem to think it is OK if it happens sometimes. No be so?

Again, na women wey dey allow these kain things happen to them even at the hands of their own husbands I pity pass. The mind of such an individual is probably in such a place that their own health and survival have been caused to take a back seat to the particular attachment style that drives their relationship at this point. So very sad!

Kobojunkie:
And I am telling you that unprotected sex should never happen, given what you described earlier had happened to the woman. Suppose it had been your own body that had to experience those 7 days of straight bleeding, which caused you panic. In that case, I can bet my last kobo that you would never have had anyone do that to you again, but because it did not happen to your own body, that is why you seem to think it is OK if it happens sometimes. No be so?

Again, na women wey dey allow these kain things happen to them even at the hands of their own husbands I pity pass. The mind of such an individual is probably in such a place that their own health and survival have been caused to take a back seat to the particular attachment style that drives their relationship at this point. So very sad!

Ok understood . 100% protection always. I have a friend who keeps to that rule. But we all know it’s not as enjoyable but then we all know it’s really not worth the pain. Thanks again for the strict reminder 🙏

CandyOps:
➜Ok understood . 100% protection always. I have a friend who keeps to that rule. But we all know it’s not as enjoyable
➜ but like we all know it’s really not worth the pain. Thanks again for the strict reminder 🙏

Stop telling this lie that using protection removes from the enjoyment of sex. Numerous studies have been done on this, and there is no evidence of this to be found out there. Most men who have sex with pr0stitutes find they have to wear protection every time, and still their enjoyment of the sex is not impacted. Why continue to perpetuate a baseless lie as a way to continue inflicting harm on the bodies of women you supposedly love? That is nothing short of wickedness.

2. Please stop telling these lies that hurt women. Yes, many of these women who submit to these acts are not themselves in their right minds— many married women basically have their minds running in attachment mode with their own survival taking a back seat to their reality. But that ain't any excuse for why the men who are supposed to love them should continue to threaten them less than animals. Send your woman to get her mental health checked asap.

Samantha125:
So what you're basically saying is that drunk women have high chances of not getting pregnant after unprotected sex?

Just Dey play ooo..

Kobojunkie:
Stop telling this lie that using protection removes from the enjoyment of sex. There is no proven evidence of this to be found out there. Most men who have sex with pr0stitutes find they have to wear protection every time and still their enjoyment of the sex is not impacted. So why continue to perpetuate a baseless lie as a way to continue inflicting harm on the bodies of women you supposedly love? That is nothing short of wickedness.

2. Please stop telling these lies that hurt women. Yes, many of these women who submit to these acts are not themselves in their right minds— many married women basically have their minds running in attachment mode with their own survival taking a back seat to their reality. But that ain't any excuse for why the men who are supposed to love them should continue to threaten them less than animals. Send your woman to get her mental health checked asap.

Bro she’s right ooo..If I use condom,I don’t cum early but when I take it off and feel that wet walls 💦💦

Dzzzz:
Bro she’s right ooo..If I use condom,I don’t cum early but when I take it off and feel that wet walls 💦💦

Do you orgasm at the same time every time you have sex without condoms? Stop making this sheet up, abeg!

Kobojunkie:
Do you orgasm at the same time every time you have sex without condoms? Stop making this sheet up, abeg!

Use ur head na guy..I Dey talk something and you Dey talk anything like say you Dey live inside my pweek..Try Dey expand your horizon bro.Why do ladies tell guys to remove CD?

Dzzzz:
➜Use ur head na guy..I Dey talk something and you Dey talk anything like say you Dey live inside my pweek..
➜ Try Dey expand your horizon bro.Why do ladies tell guys to remove CD?

You obviously did not use your head when you posted that your prick orgasms quicker when you go raw on a woman without realizing the magnitude of your claim. Again, studies have been done to show that there is no evidence for the claim you made. Your claim is based on delusions you formed in your head. What this means is that to claim yourself as an exception, you literally have to come toting facts, not delusions.😏😏

2. Ladies who reason the way someone like you does... those of them who abandon facts for delusions...would, at the risk of their own bodies and mental health, ask you to do so. Why is this a surprise that there are women out there who do the same thing you just did— live by crap? 🥱

Kobojunkie:
You obviously did not use your head when you posted that your prick orgasms quicker when you go raw on a woman without realizing the magnitude of your claim. Again, studies have been done to show that there is no evidence for the claim you made. Your claim is based on delusions you formed in your head. 😏😏

2. Ladies who reason the way someone like you does... those of them who abandon facts for delusions...would, at the risk of their own bodies and mental health, ask you to do so. Why is this a surprise that there are women out there who do the same thing you just did— live by crap? 🥱

Thats why I said you should expand your horizon cause thinking one sided can get you nowhere..What studies have been shown eh bruh?..Be a listener and stop arguing on things you no nothing about..

Dzzzz:
➜Thats why I said you should expand your horizon cause thinking one sided can get you nowhere..What studies have been shown eh bruh?..Be a listener and stop arguing on things you no nothing about..

Clearly, comprehension is lacking here.

Yes, condoms can delay ejaculation by reducing sensitivity, with some designed specifically for this purpose. This can be achieved through the physical barrier of a thicker condom or by using condoms with a desensitizing agent, such as a mild anesthetic like benzocaine, on the inside.

You would literally have to buy and use a condom specifically designed to delay ejaculation to get that feature. So, why insist that all condoms do what you are told that only some specifically designed to do that can?

Kobojunkie:
Clearly, comprehension is lacking here.
You would literally have to buy and use a condom specifically designed to delay ejaculation to get that feature. So, why insist that all condoms do what you are told that only some specifically designed to do that can?

😂😂😂You feel defeated and you can’t handle it 😂😂When it comes to s*x,I have more experience than you..I observe any and everything around me.If you don’t know about something,just listen before you talk..You said studies have been shown,what studies?

Kobojunkie:
Clearly, comprehension is lacking here.
You would literally have to buy and use a condom specifically designed to delay ejaculation to get that feature. So, why insist that all condoms do what you are told that only some specifically designed to do that can?

I never knew you could result to lying bruh!!When did I say “All condoms”😂😂

Dzzzz:
😂😂😂You feel defeated and you can’t handle it 😂😂When it comes to s*x,I have more experience than you..I observe any and everything around me.If you don’t know about something,just listen before you talk..You said studies have been shown,what studies?

OMGosh! 🙄🙄🙄

Lack of comprehension na serious issue! 🙄🙄🙄