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In this era of content creation craze, is this all that Nigerian women can think of?

Sex? Preeq? Doggy? Bedmatics? Nyash? Breast?
Is that it??
Nothing else they can think of?


I stumbled upon one skit video where a lot of Arabs were abusing Africans as having nothing upstairs but sexual themes in all their videos. They weren't wrong.

The Nigerian woman can do better.
This is disgusting.


*Spits!

More from Nigerian women...

The bitter pill to swallow is that sex-related content sells far more than educational content. You either join the trend or watch from the sidelines.

Even here on Nairaland, the gap between the Investment section and the Romance section is massive. Post a solid business idea, and you’ll get a handful of comments. But make a post on 'how to last longer than a second-hand generator,' and watch the engagement explode. That’s just how the world rolls now.

And the men aren't different...

Infact, they are worse.

Don't make it a woman thing!

You really can't blame them, they're merely reacting to what the market they're serving wants otherwise they won't make any money

It is ludicrous

But Nigerian men are also always glorifying sex in their skits and music.

It's a miracle to come across a Nigerian afrobeat song conveying words of wisdom.

Samantha125:
But Nigerian men are also always glorifying sex in their skits and music.

It's a miracle to come across a Nigerian afrobeat song conveying words of wisdom.

Except me.
I indulge you come the my bedroom studio and listen to my sweet sensation song. It is full of wisdom.

Stop living online. The real world has many activities to indulge in.

Sex related content sells online.. Na wah them dey push to that route.

Sex, preek, penis, dick all things things are sin before God. Can we just have normal talk without involving sex, dick and satisfaction

Not long ago, one SA music artist was just warning upcoming female musicians against working with producers with bedroom studios, apparently you guys are bad news... And the warning was even coming from a male artist.

Mercury12:
Except me.
I indulge you come the my bedroom studio and listen to my sweet sensation song. It is full of wisdom.

That's why I love intelligent women like mad , we would talk about politics , capitalism , culture and traditions, business ideas and philosophy, great and interesting topics , deep conversations about life.
Intelligence in women is so sexy likeee , teach me something I don't know , discuss greek mythology.

It's sad that most Nigerian girls these days has nothing to offer other than sex ,all they can offer is sex sex sex , sex this sex that , I pity for the next generation.

If you find you an intelligent woman better hold her tight. So Ur offsprings can be smart and make you proud.

VeryWickedMan:
In this era of content creation craze, is this all that Nigerian women can think of? Sex? Preeq? Doggy? Bedmatics? Nyash? Breast? Is that it?? Nothing else they can think of?
I stumbled upon one skit video where a lot of Arabs were abusing Africans as having nothing upstairs but sexual themes in all their videos. They weren't wrong. The Nigerian woman can do better. This is disgusting. *Spits!

Nigerian men are considered among the highest watchers of porn across the world, and you think the women are wrong for wanting to get the attention of men by selling the same or similar content to them? 🥱🥱🥱

Because Arabs pointed out what they have observed about Africans, do you think the blame should be dumped on the woman alone? Are African women busy having sex with themselves? 🥱🥱🥱

MikeofKd:
That's why I love intelligent women like mad , we would talk about politics , capitalism , culture and traditions, business ideas and philosophy, great and interesting topics , deep conversations about life.
Intelligence in women is so sexy likeee , teach me something I don't know , discuss greek mythology.

It's sad that most Nigerian girls these days has nothing to offer other than sex ,all they can offer is sex sex sex , sex this sex that , I pity for the next generation.

If you find you an intelligent woman better hold her tight. So Ur offsprings can be smart and make you proud.

the smarter the crazier, enjoy craziness with smart people if judging by qualifications and early life achievements than those lazy ass that talk more than action. You need energy for all things to materialise.

starpower:
the smarter the crazier, enjoy craziness with smart people if judging by qualifications and early life achievements than those lazy ass that talk more than action. You need energy for all things to materialise.

Most of the intelligent women I've met aren't crazy at all they mostly nerds and highly introverted. It's u that know where u see intelligent women that are crazy o.

Their discussions are good and Interesting. I'm learning

MikeofKd:
Most of the intelligent women I've met aren't crazy at all they mostly nerds and highly introverted. It's u that know where u see intelligent women that are crazy o.

ok o!, I agree with you

it depends on where your mindset lies towards whats trending.
for every 10 of such "uncut" contents you see from women, just note that there are equally over 200 more of other types of appropriate contents you seem not alarmed about and they are from women, dont let social media algorithm misinform you. from fashion , cooking, movies, dating, health, religion, pets, politics, gadgets. career etc etc etc all from women are uncountable

its the effect of SOCIAL MEDIA algorithms

right now, if you search and then watch 5 trado-medicine clips today for instant, the next one week you would be misled to think trado-medicine is what nigerians talk about 247 and everywhere. its the algos unfortunately

so rest, let women be, and take charge of your own timelines

DONT CLICK ON SUCH CLIPS AGAIN FOR A WEEK, AND NOTICE HOW THEY WILL COMPLETELY VANISH FROM EXISTENCE IN YOUR SOCIAL MEDIAL REELS!

eepeepook:
Stop living online. The real world has many activities to indulge in.

Best advice so far.

The worst thing to happen to Nigerian social media is monetisation!


The best thing i did for all my social media was to

1. unfollow any channel that doesn’t teach me anything. I don’t want to open social media to laugh if nothing is funny in my offline life.

2. Unfollow all Nigerians and Africans except people you know in person. Why? The reasoning is too poor and it will rub off on you.

3. Unfollow all women whether African or not. They are emotionally charged all the time and if you begin to see things from their perspective, you will most likely be ruined.

4. Follow people that post interesting things.. book reviews, economic reviews, science discoveries, brilliant debates, documentaries and so on.

5. If i want Nigeria news, i check NL or new websites not social media news.

6. Downloaded interesting books and started reading more.


7. If i am in dire need of entertainment, i go on YouTube and watch people like dave chapell and the likes who tell intelligent jokes. No be joke of, e get one man, e get one boy, e get one girl, the boy come say this and that, them come knack. Crazy stuff

8. Unfollowed all sports channels and stopped watching live sports. If I can’t resist the urge then i check live scores online. Watching sports is for the poor.


9. Start doing real world things again


10. Put your phone down!




Within a week, the algorithm started showing me better things and better people instead of skits and nyash or dead women like these. Even when they showed skits, it was foreign, funny, :Pnon sexual and wouldn’t hurt my IQ.

I want when somebody says “dey play” or “everywhere go first blur”,, i no go understand.
What is my business with knowing who portable or yhemo lee is? Wetin concern me with knowing carter efe or peller? How many people did our forefathers know asides friends, extended family and business partners. Now we know what’s happening in strangers lives more than our own families.

The worst thing to ever happen to Nigerian social media is monetisation.

After 2 weeks i made the mistake of engaging in the post of one Nigerian, everything just scatter! I started seeing nincompoops again.

My next goal is to break my addiction to nairaland. I don’t want to be hateful and silly like most people here.


TAKE YOUR ATTENTION BACK PEOPLE!

Senkasa:
God will heal Nigeria.

Would you be referring to the same deities that have so far allowed the country to fall to the deplorable state it exists in today?

Allsmilez999:
Best advice so far.


The best thing i did for all my social media was to

1. unfollow any channel that doesn’t teach me anything. I don’t want to open social media to laugh if nothing is funny in my offline life.

2. Unfollow all Nigerians and Africans . Why? The reasoning is too poor and it will rub off on you.

3. Unfollow all women. They are emotionally charged all the time and if you begin to see things from their perspective, you will lost likely be ruined.

4. Follow people that post interesting things.. book reviews, economic reviews, science discoveries, documentaries and so on.

5. If i want Nigeria news, i check NL or new websites not social media news.

6. Downloaded interesting books and started reading more.


7. If i am in dire need of entertainment, i go on YouTube and watch people like dave chapell and the likes.

8. Unfollowed all sports channels and stopped watching live sports. If I can’t resist the urge then i check live scores online. Watching sports is for the poor.

Within a week, the algorithm started showing me better things and better people instead of skits and nyash or dead women like these. Even when they showed skits, it was foreign, funny, :Pnon sexual and wouldn’t hurt my IQ.


The worst thing to ever happen to Nigerian social media is monetisation.

After 2 weeks i made the mistake of engaging in the post of one Nigerian, everything just scatter! I started seeing nincompoops again.

My next goal is to break my addiction to nairaland. I don’t want to be hateful and silly like most people here.


TAKE YOUR ATTENTION BACK PEOPLE!

That’s true. From cruise, Nairaland is seriously turning to Facebook. I’m just looking for a reliable news websites. Nairaland is slowly turning into a distraction. It can be helpful to those that needs jobs but outside that, no meaningful impact except gbas gbos. But the question is how is sport related to the poor

SpencerForbes:
That’s true. From cruise, Nairaland is seriously turning to Facebook. I’m just looking for a reliable news websites. Nairaland is slowly turning into a distraction. It can be helpful to those that needs jobs but outside that, no meaningful impact except gbas gbos. But the question is how is sport related to the poor

You know how you feel sad/angry while watching your team lose?

Picture how you get so angry that you insult the players

Picture yourself sitting through 90mins then 90mins + extra time and then 90mins + extratime + penalties and your team still loses.

Or imagine yourself spending all that time in the stadium.


How will you feel after the match?


Now picture dangote in the same scenario… does it make sense?

People like him will rather buy the football team and make money off them.

Lets say he too like arsenal, do you thibk he will attend every arsenal game as a fan,, do you think dangote will have season tickets and attend all home games?

Only a poor man can do that, time dey.

Once i am bored, i know i should be doing something useful with my time,,, if not i go to sleep.


Now,

Real world things like what?

Allsmilez999:
Best advice so far.

The worst thing to happen to Nigerian social media is monetisation!


The best thing i did for all my social media was to

1. unfollow any channel that doesn’t teach me anything. I don’t want to open social media to laugh if nothing is funny in my offline life.

2. Unfollow all Nigerians and Africans . Why? The reasoning is too poor and it will rub off on you.

3. Unfollow all women whether African or not. They are emotionally charged all the time and if you begin to see things from their perspective, you will most likely be ruined.

4. Follow people that post interesting things.. book reviews, economic reviews, science discoveries, documentaries and so on.

5. If i want Nigeria news, i check NL or new websites not social media news.

6. Downloaded interesting books and started reading more.


7. If i am in dire need of entertainment, i go on YouTube and watch people like dave chapell and the likes who tell intelligent jokes. No be joke of, e get one man, e get one boy, e get one girl, the boy come say this and that, them come knack. Crazy stuff

8. Unfollowed all sports channels and stopped watching live sports. If I can’t resist the urge then i check live scores online. Watching sports is for the poor.


9. Start doing real world things again


10. Put your phone down!




Within a week, the algorithm started showing me better things and better people instead of skits and nyash or dead women like these. Even when they showed skits, it was foreign, funny, :Pnon sexual and wouldn’t hurt my IQ.

I want when somebody says “dey play” or “everywhere go first blur”,, i no go understand.

The worst thing to ever happen to Nigerian social media is monetisation.

After 2 weeks i made the mistake of engaging in the post of one Nigerian, everything just scatter! I started seeing nincompoops again.

My next goal is to break my addiction to nairaland. I don’t want to be hateful and silly like most people here.


TAKE YOUR ATTENTION BACK PEOPLE!

Samantha125:
Real world things like what?

Whatever engages your brain.

For some it could be

1. learning a new language
2. Learning how to swim or play a sport like tennis
3. Taking walks and meeting new people everyday
4. Speaking more on the phone rather than text
5. Visiting people to just talk and see how they are doing just like how it used to be when we were little
6. Learn an online skill.. the world is changing
7. Read
8. Embrace boredom
9. Sing more
10. Exercise

99% of your posts are sense-minus and unfunny.

But this one makes a whole lot of sense

It is just not restricted to female content creators

Even the males MUST always go carnal

Join Reddit and see what real social media/forum looks like.

This is exactly why our women shy away from expressing themselves sexually. People like the op who shame women for the slightest expression of their sexual thoughts need to stop that rubbish. It makes no sense! Men cannot be expressing their sexuality freely whilst trying to suppress women from doing same.

1. How many languages can you speak?
2. After learning how to swim and play tennis, what will you then do?
3. Sometimes the less people you have in your life, the better.
4. There's no difference between texting and speaking on your phone because at the end of the day, you'll still be on your phone.
5. People still do visit each other to hang out, nothing has changed.
6. The same content creation that you guys are demoralizing is an online skill... You can't be advocating for people to do real world activities while still advising them to consider doing an online skill.
7. We do read on a daily basis... Many of those people that you see on weekends watching football do actually have 9 to 5 weekday jobs, watching football is just one of their spare time hobbies.
8. Some people would rather have spare time hobbies than embrace boredom because too much boredom can lead to depression.
9. Singing is not for everyone.
10. People still do exercise, nothing has changed there.

You can live like Dangote all you want, but there's no guarantee that you'll ever be one... I have family members and friends who are in health, finance, education, engineering, and languages, but still watch football.

Allsmilez999:
Whatever engages your brain.

For some it could be

1. learning a new language
2. Learning how to swim or play a sport like tennis
3. Taking walks and meeting new people everyday
4. Speaking more on the phone rather than text
5. Visiting people to just talk and see how their doing how it used to be when we were little
6. Learn and online skill.. the world is changing
7. Read
8. Embrace boredom
9. Sing more
10. Exercise