A lady on X @clakkla has said it’s embarrassing and a red flag for adults [ male or female ] in their 30s to still be virgins.

According to her, it shows that such persons are either not capable of attracting mates or don’t have the appropriate psychological functioning to have stable adult relationships.


Cc dominique, farano , Rocktation

But it is not shameful having a body count of over 200 at the age of 30+. Yeye talk!

She may be right.

If things work well as planned and expected, everyone interested in getting married should be settled before 30

Being a virgin is not bad, Just don't be a dumb virgin

I was a virgin till 25 then I got disvirgined by my babe then, my ex was very happy she disvirgined me and I had mad sexual experience mainly from reading my dad's notes ( my dad was a gynaecologist) and regularly I visit my dad at his office as a child.

Amotolongbo:
She may be right.

If things work well as planned and expected, everyone interested in getting married should be settled before 30

Exactly, the right time/age for a lady to have children is between 26-33 year of age as she still has alot of anergy.

there's a point in what she said but it might have been said in the wrong way... what she said about attracting suitable mates might be true for women especially if her character stinks or she uses men for game, this is when we can establish the fact that a virgin woman who doesn't have a good character is not living up to her status because what's the need of being a virgin if you don't have a good character to back it up? note, this doesn't devalue the essence of virginity...

but for men, it might not be true due to the fact that women date up and men date down.. men in that age range she mentioned would be still struggling to be stable physically and financially... so they might not be able to attract a mate by that time especially if they are not also physically attractive... even if a man is a devil, he will be able to attract a mate if he's physically attractive or have something of value women want, irrespective of whether he's a virgin or not.. this is why a woman and a man will never and can never be the same...

and in some cases, some wasn't celibate by choice, they just didn't have the chance, it doesn't have to do with their character...

Foolish talk from a loosed hoe. This is what they say when trying to justify their oloshoism.

As a guy I've had tons of opportunities to sleep with various beautiful girls, but ended up not doing so, because I wish to do so with only one girl. My wife.

If you're a girl or guy above 30 and youre still a virgin, you've no idea how much some folks wish to be in your shoe. Dont listen to any of this used hoes!


(Just don't be a dumb virgin Sha)

Everyday one evil talk from one unknown entity. May God save us

I agree. Whenever I meet a chic old enough, claiming to be virgin, I immediately lose interest.

Thunder 🔥 u

She has a point

I don’t owe any man my virginity

It may be shameful in their country but, in this our 9ja, it is a miracle for girl to be a virgin at that age.

i knew it was a woman before clicking the heading.smh

Amotolongbo:
She may be right.

If things work well as planned and expected, everyone interested in getting married should be settled before 30

A damaged woman wants everyone to be damaged too.

Why would anyone not have a ton of sex before 30. How do you relieve stress then? Mehn, gotta be one hell of an irritable, frustrated person lacking any glow.

ReluctantAdult:
Why would anyone not have a ton of sex before 30. How do you relieve stress then? Mehn, gotta be one hell of a irritable, frustrated person lacking any glow.

So u're trying to say daht sex is the only way known to mankind to relieve stress abi?... stop misinforming the general public please

LeeSmart:

So u're trying to say daht sex is the only way known to mankind to relieve stress abi?... stop misinforming the general public please

People who don't have sex are super frigid, difficult and irritable. Their hypocritical moral grandstanding makes them frustrating to work with.
It's a necessity to release all that bottled up tension.

Also, sexual tension can only be relieved by having sex. All that talk of reading a book, working, exercising bla bla, when you're h0rny is just hogwash. Lol.

Àwa Team Virgin @38 keeping mine till wedding night.

I don’t even have girlfriend talk less of marriage
GOD no go Kuku shame us

talk2hb1:
Àwa Team Virgin @38 keeping mine till wedding night.

I don’t even have girlfriend talk less of marriage
GOD no go Kuku shame us

It didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for others.
There is no one-cap fit all. You sold yours doesn't mean others should sell their's.

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