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We cant just blame the lady, what kind of hairstyle do u keep

ExudeLoveToAll:
Since women are sex workers isn't it? Did I read where you also said the woman should work to get a man she can afford? Prostitution era and then you say women aren't sex objects? I pity you lot

You nailed it oh! Entitlement mentality makes people lose their self worth, i dated entitled lady and I'm married to a woman who knows that everyone must contribute whether in relationship or marriage in other to be valued and I'm at peace and happy.

I know some Nigerian ladies based in Europe and how they contribute towards their homes (they are not entitled oh!) I also know some friends here whose wives are not entitled also. The truth is that all women do not have entitlement mentality hence people who have entitlement mentality are unserious and immature.

That was what Lola typed to me..thankfully i am good 🙂

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

she is a poor broke girl that can't even take care of her hair

She should get a work not a man

RollinTNDA:
Dating a girl = Acting like her dad

The moment you date a girl
You are practically replacing her father's role
You are now Assistant Dad

You are taking the responsibility of her

Know this and know peace..

Except she's working, but if she's not, get ready for trouble.

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

She was never faithful with you before, you just never knew. No girl broke up with a guy without a back up.
That's how the fish brain generation behaves. She will eventually try to come back when she gets disappointed by her back-up guy. Just chill bro, such girls are plenty and don't deserve good men.

Qualityoffer:
According to you, the OP should work hard on getting a woman he can afford or make more money to satisfy the needs of the present one and retain her - which means that you believe that women are just commodities and are like infants that should be taking care of by their dads.

And the same you have a problem with someone, the person you quoted in particular, who advised the OP to know that once he starts dating a woman, he should know that he has become her second dad - dads are good in taking care of their infants.

Well, my bible has your type of person in mind when it says in 1 Timothy 6:4 - they are conceited and understand nothing. They have an unhealthy interest in controversies and quarrels about words that result in envy, strife, malicious talk, evil suspicions.

Don't even think that I will dignify you with meaningless back-and-forth exchange of words on this thread.

You are wasting your time on that junkie of a woman.

No be life we dey live for this country.

Leave girls alone ND go ND find money for yourself...

Anyhow u see it. Women are all about money.. I respected myself and I HV peace.. I haven't slept with anyone for almost 5years now.. and I didn't die..

I rest, them rest, my acct balance rest...

Choose your priorities rightly

RealityKings1:
She should get a job so that she can afford the lifestyle she wants. The guy has money and can take care of his own bills,
Its the girl that DOESN'T HAVE MONEY.

It’s a relationship matter, so it’s usually the man who takes care of shared needs. That’s why I guess you often ask him for money, even if he already has a lot in his bank account. In a relationship, the man is generally expected to handle expenses. Even if the woman has plenty of money herself, she might not mention it, that’s just how it works in many cases.

Jman06:
I never expected to make sense to YOU. No be you again? You have a reputation here for never giving up an argument nor seeing sense in other people's thoughts.

You have time replying that troll. Anywhere I see its post, I jump am pass with the speed of light and I hope it does the same to mine. No sense in any of its write-up. And yes, it’s an “it”

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

If you reply for that chat you don fvck up. Except Una meet physically

Liability wan leave you
You come dey seek for advise
Instead of going on your knees and thanking God.
The mama wey born you
How much in your lifetime you don give her
Mtchewwwwwwwwww

Tolu2024:
If you are not a yahoo boy and you want to date please look for someone who have something doing or someone still living with her parents and respected background and good home training, leave all this street girls for yahoo boys you can’t compete with them.

Very important, and remember whatever you spend on a lady that you are not married to is a wasted effort, she will just upgrade.

Smart guys just stay away from ladies while hustling, and then wait for them at the finish line.

where Una Dey pick up this orphans in the name of relationship?………this naija girls should stop seeing relationships as a poverty alleviation scheme and do better

So at this age and time, women still Dey do dependency on men?

Frivolous behaviour

Break up because of no money for hair

Lazy girls everywhere 😒

A man is only responsible for his wife and family not girlfriend.

I just wonder why it is the man who must pay for relationship or sex enjoyed by both parties .

You expect a man to make the money you cannot make as if women are banned from making money.

Rubbish!

Guy, if you're man enough, the best response for her is "good luck". Don't let any girl put unnecessary pressure on you. Yes she thinks she deserves better, then let her go and get the better but I'm sure she'll come back with tears to apologise only that someone like me don't take any girl that leaves me voluntarily back.

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

Qualityoffer:
According to you, the OP should work hard on getting a woman he can afford or make more money to satisfy the needs of the present one and retain her - which means that you believe that women are just commodities and are like infants that should be taking care of by their dads.

And the same you have a problem with someone, the person you quoted in particular, who advised the OP to know that once he starts dating a woman, he should know that he has become her second dad - dads are good in taking care of their infants.

Well, my bible has your type of person in mind when it says in 1 Timothy 6:4 - they are conceited and understand nothing. They have an unhealthy interest in controversies and quarrels about words that result in envy, strife, malicious talk, evil suspicions.

Don't even think that I will dignify you with meaningless back-and-forth exchange of words on this thread.

That person you quoted is completely lost with realities about relationship.
The only thing I can tell the OP is that the girl just saved him. He should start building himself for now. We have been there and back to reality

If I was op, I'd be so glad this is happening..


But op , hope say you don chop that puna Sha.

Nigerian girls will never disappoint.

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

Did the op tell you he's broke?

You should have advised the girl to get a job for herself. It's obvious she's broke and from a poor background. Looking for a man to fulfill her dream lifestyle.
This mentality is disgusting and sickening.

duduade:
All I know is that as a man be responsible for your woman’s upkeep

When she's a wife...

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

Women are not a commodity to be afforded.
You just gave a misplaced advice here.
If you itemize yourself, men would treat you as such.

Mcheew
Quote some kpekus and run

Kobojunkie:
So, a woman asking her man for money to take care of her hair needs is a street girl?

Why bother dating women when you are not willing to give even the bare minimum where dating is concerned? Why even engage women if you know you have nothing to offer them?

..let the woman go and look for work to do ...and stop depending on men to provide all her needs

Gbam, see this person as said it all listen to her.

Tolu2024:
If you are not a yahoo boy and you want to date please look for someone who have something doing or someone still living with her parents and respected background and good home training, leave all this street girls for yahoo boys you can’t compete with them.

Hmmmmmmm....
Let the bidding continue.
The highest bidder buys the commodity.

Kobojunkie:
1. Women are not commodities; rather, relationships are transactional. Note the difference! A man who wants a certain type of woman should be willing and able to take on a part of what it costs— be it financial cost, emotional, physical& mental labor, etc.,— for her to maintain herself in the way that he likes her. A man who wants a woman who dresses like a million dollars should be ready to have to take on some of the cost of maintaining that million-dollar look that he so likes. This is nothing new.

There have always been costs associated with dating culture; this is something that adult men and women have engaged in for centuries; only a child of a man would think he could get a woman he cannot afford above his range at no cost to him.

2. I don't play these childish games with your kind, using the content of that book, which you lot have little or no regard for at the end of the day. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

relationships are transactional
No Wonder Hookup became the new Norm. This is the Exact reason

Go and borrow money and give her bro

irumole1975:
I didn’t know what to say so I just left her on read. And I liked one of the msgs where she prayed for me. I wish her well tho

Ladies plenti wey dey find boyfriend. That girl is a leech; let her go. There are many other girls out there.

You see this thing they call the dating or relationship world, men have the upper hand...ladies only control the sex market.

Good riddance! Go and look for a more reasonable girl...always look for working-class or business ladies. Stop dating corpsers, students and jobless ladies...those ones have no value to add to a man's life.

Good luck