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Why It Is Better To Choose Women That Choose You by Tekashi89(op): 9:34pm On Nov 18, 2025
I only like women who like me. I do not convince the uninterested.

If she is unsure, confused, or not ready, she is telling you the truth. She does not want you.

Women do not hesitate for what they want.

A woman’s interest is not built, it is triggered.

If you are begging for her attention, you are already disqualified.

You do not beg for what you can lay down your life for if protection is out of the window.

Men chase, boys plead, kings choose. And kings do not negotiate desire.

A woman who likes you will show up, submit, invest, and make it effortless. Everything else is manipulation.

If she is not excited about you, she is using you.

For validation, for time, for attention, not attraction.

Convincing a woman to like you is the most beta move in existence.

She will never respect you. She will only tolerate you until a real man walks in.

Women do not fall for effort, they fall for energy.

And if yours does not move her, she is not meant for you.

Men waste years trying to prove their worth to women who decided in thirty seconds that they were not the one.

That is not romance, that is self-destruction.

A woman who does not like you is not your responsibility, but a woman who does is your blessing.

Everything else is ego, illusion, and delusion.

Stop selling yourself to women who do not want you and start choosing the ones who do.

That is how you win and that is how you keep your sanity. Oops!
Re: Why It Is Better To Choose Women That Choose You by Aeman(m): 3:21pm On Nov 19, 2025
What of if she is trying and showing interest in you because of what she sees you have at the moment?
How about that?
Re: Why It Is Better To Choose Women That Choose You by pinokio6634(m): 10:28am On Nov 21, 2025
And you can only be chosen when you've taken time to build your life to a stage and a point where you're irresistible....

For instance the girls I couldn't bag durings my 100L days,I'm bagging them now in NYSC with ease and I actually choose from those that like me,those that do not like me can hit the rocks IDGAF.
Re: Why It Is Better To Choose Women That Choose You by fyneboi79(m): 11:16pm On Nov 21, 2025
Hmm...this is quite true. Very nice write up.
Re: Why It Is Better To Choose Women That Choose You by Cum4me(m): 9:23pm On Nov 22, 2025
Aeman:
What of if she is trying and showing interest in you because of what she sees you have at the moment?
How about that?
gbam grin very interesting question but op can't answer you grin. At your lowest time when no body see your vision but someone stood by you regardless she should be acknowledge and taken seriously because she's an angel in respective of her color or tribe.
Re: Why It Is Better To Choose Women That Choose You by Goo0dHardDick: 8:14am On Nov 23, 2025
Aeman:
What of if she is trying and showing interest in you because of what she sees you have at the moment?
How about that?
It's on the post dude.

Women are not stwepid bro. They know if they want a guy the very seconds they see him. Everything else is manipulation and delusion. Showing interest because of what she sees should never be termed as interest, but rather materialistic interest.

Women are not loyal to your sacrifices or to what they see you have. They are loyal to their feelings bro. They're loyal to how you make them feel at that moment (this is what they will keep remembering about you for as long they're concerned) how you made her feel psychologically is what gets her hooked on you, not what she sees you have.

You can have a car today and your babe will be knacking a guy without a car or even a house over his head. Haven't you seen such cases? A girl will love Mr A because he is rich but will prefer Mr B because he is sexually attractive but she wants to sleep with Mr C because that is her dream man meanwhile she wants to marry Mr D because he is her spec and heart desires?

The Above should tell you that women who falls for what they see you have at the moment will never take you serious. You're just a means and easy route for her to escape whatever situations she is in. Meanwhile the guy she wants and sleeping with might not even have half of what you have (she's loyal to this guy because of how he makes her feels sexually, psychologically etc. understand this, women are loyal to their feelings). This is why you must knack a girl in the first date. Take her to your house and make the sexual encounter unforgettable. If you like spend heaven on earth on her, dude without getting into her V and screw her V so hard to make her go gaga about you on bed, you just ended up putting yourself in her friendzone. Despite your heavy spending on her, she'll dump you and look fo a guy who can make her FEEL that thing she always wanted (and that is on bed)

Why do you think those rich men's wives always cheat on their rich husbands despite what they see their husbands have at the moment? The answer is simple! Women respond and are loyal to their feelings, not what they see you have at the moment. (This doesn't mean you shouldn't improve yourself financially and all round).
Re: Why It Is Better To Choose Women That Choose You by Goo0dHardDick: 8:21am On Nov 23, 2025
Cum4me:
gbam grin very interesting question but op can't answer you grin. At your lowest time when no body see your vision but someone stood by you regardless she should be acknowledge and taken seriously because she's an angel in respective of her color or tribe.
The question has been answered.
Re: Why It Is Better To Choose Women That Choose You by dederocs(m): 5:04pm On Nov 23, 2025
Very intelligent piece
Re: Why It Is Better To Choose Women That Choose You by Bostin(m):
Aeman:
What of if she is trying and showing interest in you because of what she sees you have at the moment?
How about that?
In this case she didn't chose you she chose what she sees to gain in you . A woman that chose you will want to spoil you with gifts with the little she can afford . She will over care and put your interest first .
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