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A young man is making waves on social media after sharing his frustrating experience with a “talking stage“, who he lent money.

In a viral WhatsApp chat screen recording shared on X (formerly Twitter) by @Teniola, the man recalled lending her ₦20k and even shared his account details to make repayment.

The lady, however, responded by asking if he was actually serious about taking the money back, and tensions quickly rose.

He reminded her that she had asked him to lend her money to sort out an issue due to her app not functioning, and he trusted her word.

She still insisted that even though her app had problems, it didn’t mean he should demand repayment. She became upset, saying she wouldn’t pay the money because the app was still malfunctioning and wouldn’t work forever.

Many took to the comments section to weigh in. One commentator said, “He helped her, now she’s making him feel guilty.” Another wrote, “When generosity becomes a drama… Nigerian relationships sef.”

What started as a simple act of trust became a heated conversation, leaving Nigerians divided: should he have demanded repayment, or let go of the money.

Just sue her simple, you can't be acting dubious and disgracing our gender. Why didn't you tell him you weren't going to pay him back before he sent it

It’s the gaslighting that is diabolical!

Can you Imagine.
Women are very funny creatures, your gaslighting someone that helped you with 20k that you don't have , give him back his money, Ur belittling 20k but you don't have.
How is she even blaming d guy for something she clearly doesn't have God forbid I jam these kind babes , every time their app isn't working that's their slogan , avoid broke girls by all means o.
Nigga better sue her ass. It's not even about the money ,she's very very stupid to pull this kinda rubbish.

Mjshexy:
Just sue her simple, you can't be acting dubious and disgracing our gender. Why didn't you tell him you weren't going to pay him back before he sent it

The money he’ll spend in sueing her will definitely be more than 20k and if she can’t even pay 20k she won’t be able to pay anything more

Can you imagine that, some girls and entitlement shaa. You categorically asked to be lent money and now claiming it is supposed to be free, free indeed. If na me I will never leave that money for you, I go disgrace you and make sure I get that money back. Why not simply ask him to dash you money instead of claiming your App is not working, thief

Nigeria non-virgins and gaslighting na 5&6. This is still the same thing they do when their husbands want to go for DNA test. Dem go say 'if you go for DNA test, that means you don't trust me and this marriage won't be the same because I can't share my heart with someone who doesn't trust me " . Funny gender!!!
Auntie, the virginity wey God entrust for your hand, where's it? Joke apart sha, this gaslighting get degree from Harvard

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

DyshApp:
The money he’ll spend in sueing her will definitely be more than 20k and if she can’t even pay 20k she won’t be able to pay anything more

Of course he will include the expense on damage caused to it and the court will honour it.

A lady ask you to borrow her money that her app is not working and you believe her ?

This just proves you are a big f👀l if you can fall for such scam.

You want to empress olosho in talking stage.

Una go learn the hard way don’t worry.

Them no dey borrow woman money , just give what you can afford to lose unless you know her very well and she’s working or doing business.

Guys don't give a lady a dime in your talking stage. Even for tfare, let her come first then you refund her. If she makes an issue about it, then she's not the right woman for you.
Women of these days are irritatingly entitled. The reason she's demeaning the help she got from the guy is because she never valued it in the first place. That 20k would have done better to buy caprisonne and biscuits for kids in your area who would be grateful than waste on an entitled woman.

Sue her to court this is enough evidence and she must definitely pay for damages

DyshApp:
A young man is making waves on social media after sharing his frustrating experience with a “talking stage“, who he lent money.

In a viral WhatsApp chat screen recording shared on X (formerly Twitter) by @Teniola, the man recalled lending her ₦20k and even shared his account details to make repayment.

The lady, however, responded by asking if he was actually serious about taking the money back, and tensions quickly rose.

He reminded her that she had asked him to lend her money to sort out an issue due to her app not functioning, and he trusted her word.

She still insisted that even though her app had problems, it didn’t mean he should demand repayment. She became upset, saying she wouldn’t pay the money because the app was still malfunctioning and wouldn’t work forever.

Many took to the comments section to weigh in. One commentator said, “He helped her, now she’s making him feel guilty.” Another wrote, “When generosity becomes a drama… Nigerian relationships sef.”

What started as a simple act of trust became a heated conversation, leaving Nigerians divided: should he have demanded repayment, or let go of the money.

I know this kind of behavior... It is called broke but stubborn syndrome. There is nothing wrong with the app..

Just watch how Kobojunkie will defend that girls nasty behavior

Swear for her and sue her, that is what I do to people I lend money to

Just garther some of your friends and and go and meet her, she go hear word

Mjshexy:
Just sue her simple, you can't be acting dubious and disgracing our gender. Why didn't you tell him you weren't going to pay him back before he sent it

sue to where..for a loan?

Stop dating animals, you people wouldn’t listen.

DyshApp:
A young man is making waves on social media after sharing his frustrating experience with a “talking stage“, who he lent money.

In a viral WhatsApp chat screen recording money.

If she is not selling or offering any service for which you are paying for,
Never lend money to a lady you just met online....the money is as good as gone.

Imagine the audacity
Someone's hard earned 20k
SMH

Lol. These ladies are always entitled about everything and ashamed of nothing.

I can't even loan a talking stage money at first when I'm not crazy.

I feel guys doing talking stage with a girl are not normal!

Dude, w T F is talking stage? Women are not stwepid bro. They know who they want to fk the seconds they see him, and if you ain't that guy, just forget it! Talking stage is another name for "friendzone". She isn't attracted to you oga, she sees you as a mugu and means for extortion and you fell for the scam.

Young man invite her over to your house and dismantle her kpekpus. Women are loyal to their feelings (how you make her feel sexually, and emotionally) and not your sacrifices and all these talking stage super stories

She said her app was still malfunctioning

Bad economy and sense of entitlement don make our ladies cunning criminals

Na so I borrow this girl 10k after sending she was like are u collecting it back.

Months later I use scope borrow 10k , then block the motherfucker

Even bulk of the people here would do same. They just pretend to castigate her.

If you toast the average Nigerian young woman, she’d feel entitled to your money.

And it’s funny how they don’t realise how irritating that behaviour is.

Afriifa:
Even bulk of the people here would do same. They just pretend to castigate her.

Only a Simp and a f 👀 l would do the same.

That format is old already. It doesn't work anymore

dangerous trusting a clear stranger. come to think of it he might also be setting a trap but got caught first.

DyshApp:
The money he’ll spend in sueing her will definitely be more than 20k and if she can’t even pay 20k she won’t be able to pay anything more

... True... That's why he should "emotional damage" to it

WantsandMore:
Just watch how Kobojunkie will defend that girls nasty behavior

That one wey no smart
Just garbage in garbage out

Smartguyboy:
A lady ask you to borrow her money that her app is not working and you believe her ?

This just proves you are a big f👀l if you can fall for such scam.

You want to empress olosho in talking stage.

Una go learn the hard way don’t worry.

Them no dey borrow woman money , just give what you can afford to lose unless you know her very well and she’s working or doing business.

See this one condoning nonsense.
.call a spade a spade.. what is wrong is what is wrong... Dnt support scam, except maybe u are a yahoo boi