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What should someone do if the person does not care whether a lady is a virgin or not, but a lady lied to such person about virginity and the person discovered after the wedding?

ebubeson:
What should someone do if the person does not care whether a lady is a virgin or not, but a lady lied to such person about virginity and the person discovered after the wedding?

You keep quiet and carry your cross... that's the "worse" you vowed to.😁

ebubeson:
What should someone do if the person does not care whether a lady is a virgin or not, but a lady lied to such person about virginity and the person discovered after the wedding?

How do you discover that she lied about her virginity, though? Let's start with you explaining how you mean here.

ebubeson:
What should someone do if the person does not care whether a lady is a virgin or not, but a lady lied to such person about virginity and the person discovered after the wedding?

Finding virgins is like finding a pawpaw seeds in a watermelon. Nonetheless, a lie is a lie. We wont live based on those lies. You either love me like that or you move on.

Not enough reason but that's purely marriage on deceit.

teeteepeejay:
➜Finding virgins is like finding a pawpaw seeds in a watermelon. Nonetheless, a lie is a lie. We wont live based on those lies. You either love me like that or you move on.

Well, the same way you cannot tell whether a man is a virgin unless he tells you himself, is the same way you cannot tell whether a woman is a virgin unless she tells you that she is. That fact has been established for many decades now...only many of you continue to think you have some sort of virgin detector in your brains.

LordIsaac:
➜You keep quiet and carry your cross... that's the "worse" you vowed to.😁

I disagree! A lie is definitely a lie. But the problem is, how to obtain evidence to prove that it was a lie.

Are you sure you really need my answer?

Kobojunkie:
I disagree! A lie is definitely a lie. But the problem is, how to obtain evidence to prove that it was a lie.

You have eventually acknowledged it...there's nothing you can do. Trust me on this completely! Except you hate peace.

LordIsaac:
➜You have eventually acknowledged it...there's nothing you can do. Trust me on this completely! Except you hate peace.

I am in no way stating that it is impossible to prove.

Kobojunkie:
I am in no way stating that it is impossible to prove.

My brother, no matter the proof, you are joined together already. What were you thinking of when they asked you "...for better or worse...?", and you said, "I do." This is the "worse" part.

LordIsaac:
➜My brother, no matter the proof, you are joined together already. What were you thinking of when they asked you "...for better or worse...?", and you said, "I do." This is the "worse" part.

Nah! Divorce is always an option open to every married individual out there since marriage has never been by force. 🥱🥱

Go to your closet, lock the door and cry your heart out. You will be okay and free. Move on.

Which cross? To hell with such vow.
A marriage buit on deceit is a house without foundation. Scatter it asap cos it'll later scatter. Except you're on suicide mission journey.

LordIsaac:
You keep quiet and carry your cross... that's the "worse" you vowed to.😁

Divorce straight!!

Belurved1:
Which cross? To hell with such vow.
A marriage buit on deceit is a house without foundation. Scatter it asap cos it'll later scatter. Except you're on suicide mission journey.

...for better or worse....was what you said "I do" to. That's the "worse" part.

jmoore:
Divorce straight!!

Divorce costs millions, several court appearances, and sharing of property. Stop speaking like a child. These are matters for matured people.

So if she’s womb-less, will you continue?

LordIsaac:
...for better or worse....was what you said "I do" to. That's the "worse" part.

Belurved1:
So if she’s womb-less, will you continue?

For better or worse.... why did you lie taking vows if you don't intend to follow through?

Belurved1:
So if she’s womb-less, will you continue?

The only grounds for "no marriage" by law is if it wasn't consummated, not womb! Even at that, the vow was "for better or WORSE!"

Continue.

LordIsaac:
The only grounds for "no marriage" by law is if it wasn't consummated, not womb! Even at that, the vow was "for better or WORSE!"

Belurved1:
Continue.

If only it were by emotions.

Belurved1:
So if she’s womb-less, will you continue?

How can a woman be womb-less unless she was born that way or had to have her womb removed due to cancer? What has any of that to do with the subject of discussion?

LordIsaac:
Divorce costs millions, several court appearances, and sharing of property. Stop speaking like a child. These are matters for matured people.

Grandpa.

Nollywood is not hollywood

Just park one side.

Let it go.
You guys are into it already.