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‎A Nigerian lady is devastated after ending her 10‑year relationship, opening up about her battle with depression.

‎She shared the heartbreaking incident in video posted to her TikTok account, @mamayochicher.

In the now‑viral TikTok video, the lady revealed that she has contemplated suicide, but hasn’t acted on it because of her son.

‎”I don’t know what to do. I’ve been so depressed. I don’t know who to talk to. I’ve known this person for 10 years“, She stated,

However, the identity of her ex‑fiancé was not disclosed in the video, and she sought the services of a therapist.

That kain heartbreak is depressing...

She will get over it because life continues.

DyshApp:
‎A Nigerian lady is devastated after ending her 10‑year relationship, opening up about her battle with depression.

‎She shared the heartbreaking incident in video posted to her TikTok account, @mamayochicher.

In the now‑viral TikTok video, the lady revealed that she has contemplated suicide, but hasn’t acted on it because of her son.

‎”I don’t know what to do. I’ve been so depressed. I don’t know who to talk to. I’ve known this person for 10 years“, She stated,

However, the identity of her ex‑fiancé was not disclosed in the video, and she sought the services of a therapist.

First of all, no video? Then she even has a child for the fiancé?

But the main issue here is the timeframe. 10 years? Haba. Aunty, are you 'Lord of the Rings'? That is too long na.

I am curious about what actually caused the breakup. Until I hear the man's side of the story, I’m keeping my judgment pending. There are always three sides to a story.

Oooooooooooloooooollo

DyshApp:
‎A Nigerian lady is devastated after ending her 10‑year relationship, opening up about her battle with depression.
‎She shared the heartbreaking incident in video posted to her TikTok account, @mamayochicher.
In the now‑viral TikTok video, the lady revealed that she has contemplated suicide, but hasn’t acted on it because of her son.
‎”I don’t know what to do. I’ve been so depressed. I don’t know who to talk to. I’ve known this person for 10 years“, She stated,
However, the identity of her ex‑fiancé was not disclosed in the video, and she sought the services of a therapist. Stay updated — read other interesting gists here(Link in signature)

You are going to be fine. You have already taken the first step, and now you just need to keep taking more steps in the same direction, and you will be fine. 🥱🥱

Did she end it
Herself and start crying?
I no grab

Abeg if una date these women for 10yrs, make una dey marry dem oooooooo. After una scatter kpekus finish, una go want make we wey get average preeq to inherit una damages, it's not fair na. Anyways dear, I wish you the best in future and I hope you meet a new man who will dry your tears and give you reasons to smile again. But for now, welcome back to the street!!! Hopefully you don't stay in the street for long because if you do, we *******************

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Is the spouse the cause of the depression?

Mental health

Since una learn this nonsense from Americans, una no want us to hear word again.

Even goat now dey cry mental health.

Una go leave marriage go dey friend married men.

See this one. Na children they islamist terrorists and bandits den in this country and u are complain over one useless relationship

This is why you should have a plan B, C and D if possible

Don't put all your hope in one basket

Even if I'm in a serious relationship i’m still very much open to any incoming relationship till I'm married.

I have trust issues, I don’t trust Nigerian men

10 years, the guy don chop everything finish...kai🥱....

Please post his info, we need to send her back to him, na his load, nonsense 😡

dawnomike:
That kain heartbreak is depressing...

How so? Because she's the one crying?

I remember dating a lady who couldn't stop talking to married men at nights. Her reason was " I dont know how to stop them".
Tomorrow she ll cry how I wasted her time without saying the things she was doing wrong.

What offence did you commit against the guy?


Let's start from there

Nisuru my padi Oro yii Ma beyin yo

10 years of what? Why will you even love a man that is not your husband Talk of being in a relationship with only this guy for good ten years? He has found a classy girl for himself. Sorry sis

Lalami3232:
Abeg if una date these women for 10yrs, make una dey marry dem oooooooo. After una scatter kpekus finish, una go want make we wey get average preeq to inherit una damages, it's not fair na. Anyways dear, I wish you the best in future and I hope you meet a new man who will dry your tears and give you reasons to smile again. But for now, welcome back to the street!!! Hopefully you don't stay in the street for long because if you do, we *******************

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

They left them for 2minutes men

Leave. Heal yourself. Marriage is not do or die.

jiggyman:
How so? Because she's the one crying?

I remember dating a lady who couldn't stop talking to married men at nights. Her reason was " I dont know how to stop them".
Tomorrow she ll cry how I wasted her time without saying the things she was doing wrong.

how do you know she was talking to married men?

10 years of marathon nackingggg

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Will ending the relationship solve the problem?
Does she think she can easily find another man that will give her the happiness she desires instead of depression?

Mistake! It's not about finding another man; she doesn't need a man to be happy, sane and vivacious. She needs herself to help herself! In fact, if I were her, I'd stay off men for a little while.

DyshApp:
‎A Nigerian lady is devastated after ending her 10‑year relationship, opening up about her battle with depression.

‎She shared the heartbreaking incident in video posted to her TikTok account, @mamayochicher.

In the now‑viral TikTok video, the lady revealed that she has contemplated suicide, but hasn’t acted on it because of her son.

‎”I don’t know what to do. I’ve been so depressed. I don’t know who to talk to. I’ve known this person for 10 years“, She stated,

However, the identity of her ex‑fiancé was not disclosed in the video, and she sought the services of a therapist.

Ten years is a long time to invest in one person, so the pain is real and valid.
But let’s say it plain:

1 She stayed 10 years with no ring, no serious financial commitment , and no clear plan.
That wasn’t a relationship after a while; that was a situationship with an expiry date she refused to read.

2 Love is not a prison sentence. If someone can walk away after a decade without blinking, they were never truly in. She didn’t lose a fiancé; she gained her freedom back.

3 Depression is heavy, but the child she mentioned is now her reason to heal, not to harm. One therapist appointment can change everything; please let her book it today.

Counsel to every sister in this kind of shoes

Never give any man “girlfriend benefits” for fiancée or wife years.


Time is the most expensive thing a woman owns; stop donating it to people who won’t pay the full price.

She’s hurting now, but in a year she’ll look back and thank God that door finally closed.


This is not the end of her story; it’s the end of a chapter that was blocking her real plot twist.

Stay strong, mama. Better days are coming. 🙏🏾

Jennyclay:
This is why you should have a plan B, C and D if possible

Don't put all your hope in one basket

Even if I'm in a serious relationship i’m still very much open to any incoming relationship till I'm married.

I have trust issues, I don’t trust Nigerian men

Stop this, you will be caught, and it will be devastating and confusing.

nwakibie3:
What offence did you commit against the guy?


Let's start from there

nah according to Obasanjo internet it's irrelevant just what the guy did to her. Nigerians judge with emotions when it comes to females, even if the guy did 99 right they will drag him with the 1 thing wrong but whatever she did, none of anyones concerns. Look at Regina , no one is talking of the 120m she syphoned from Ned all they care about is how to drag Ned, if it were Ned using drugs trust .E be would be out of senate by now with women holding placards in from of his house.

POPULATION GO REDUCE

abc

Lonestar124:
Stop this, you will be caught, and it will be devastating and confusing.

Do you know how it feels to be heartbreaken? I don't think you know

For me, I can only be loyal to a man I'm already married to.

BlueStripper:
Mental health

Since una learn this nonsense from Americans, una no want us to hear word again.

Even goat now dey cry mental health.

Una go leave marriage go dey friend married men.

😂😂😂😂
Next one we go carry na "Triggered". "My Truth"


While I understand what pain can do to a person, I still don't understand how people set up camera, some lighting and cry into social media. Like don't you have friends in real life? No family members you can confide in?

Good people always have good people they can lean on. So you no just get any good "people".

Na attention thing? Finding helper?

Jennyclay:
Do you know how it feels to be heartbreaken? I don't think you know

For me, I can only be loyal to a man I'm already married to.

When you reach that stage, your heart will be so divided that commitment becomes impossible. Every memory—of Charles's deeper pockets, Dominique's superior performance , or Richard's caring nature—will pull you away.

The painful consequence is hating yourself for failing to fully embrace the person standing right beside you.

But it's your life and your decision

Very very good. We are happy to see you alive.

We the executives of the National Association of Fornicators and Adulterers (NAFA) are happy to have you join our list of side chicks to married men.