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DeclanR:
From my DM:

Good morning sir, please I need your advice and that of your followers too.

I met a young lady of 27years old just three months ago.

I met her at a photo studio where she works. Got her number, kept in touch with her for like a month, and I decided to express my feelings to her. She accepted to date me.

But here are some contentious Issues between us.


— She's a single mother of a 6yr old lady. The baby lives somewhere else while my babe lives alone in a rented apartment. Her parents are Divorced. And the dad remarried. Her six year old baby lives there.
But dating a single Mum isn't really the issue for me, as long as she loves me and has a good character.

— She pierced her nose and has a nose ring. I didn't complain.

— She has a Legchain and I'm not comfortable with this. I've asked her to remove it, but she said she can't remove it. I feel responsible ladies shouldn't be putting on legchains. This is a lady I do all my best to ensure she's happy. I support her with the little I can. The public image of ladies who use legchains isn't appealing to the society at all.

— She can't allow me access to her phone. She said her phone is her Privacy. Yes her phone is actually her privacy, no doubt. But why is her body not her privacy as well? If I can see her unclothedness, then why can't I see her phone. She's always so Glued to her phone, if I need to get something from her phone, maybe music or movies, she can't release it to me. If she's showing me anything from the phone, she will still hold the phone and be showing me . Truth is, I'm not comfortable with that. If there's nothing to hide, then, I see no reason for hiding her phone always. I told her I'm not the only guy she's dating but she keeps denying it. Well, do I even expect her to Agree?
All the ladies I've dated, I try to check their phones from time to time especially when they least expected. I wouldn't just say give me your phone, I want to probe you. There were ways I would get the phone from them respectfully.
If some police officers turn up at my place and want to search my apartment, I will gladly open it for them because I know there is nothing incriminating in my apartment. But if I have a skeleton in my cupboard, I wouldn't allow them search it, even if they have their search warrants.

I gave her this illustration

— in the second week of our Relationship, I went to her place of work and while she was operating her phone, I jokingly asked her when she didn't reply my last WhatsApp message. She said she wasn't having data. I refused to believe that. Then I asked to check her phone, but she refused. She carried it and showed me numbers of UnReplied chats, but while she was showing me, I noticed that she had asked WhatsApp A.I "Drugs for Abortion". I was shocked . Meanwhile,I had initially asked her if she was pregnant for someone else. Because I have not slept with her yet. She was sick within that period and what made me suspect her the most was her constant throw of Saliva almost every three minutes. I asked if she was pregnant, but she said No. Then later I saw that abortion thing on A.I

She wanted to explain to me, but I ignored her. I was so angry because I almost gave her money to go for some medical tests to ascertain the main issue with her health. Firstly she said she had no money to run tests. Later she did it, and the doctor called to inform her it was Malaria and typhoid. I asked her to go get the result from the hospital where she had the test , then Snap the test result and send to me, but she claimed she wasn't having transport fare. In my mind, I knew she wasn't sincere. Later she told me that it was her friend(lady) that typed that abortion thing on her phone. That her friend was the one that did the abortion.
But I thought she said her phone was her privacy?
I didn't and still do not believe it was her friend that typed it. She lied, I guess. The next week, she completely broke down and couldn't go to work for a whole week. Right now, she is still feeling unwell. When she tries to talk, she develops instant headache. She looks pale.
I'm sure she did abortion.

Before we started the relationship, I asked about her guy, but she said she wasn't in any serious relationship and that the guy wasn't a serious person and that she had broken up with him. I pressed further again, I asked, have u ended things with the guy formally? She said the guy hasn't called her for over a week and she too didn't bother to call. That's it.

I asked about her baby's father, she said, immediately it was discovered that she had took in and became pregnant, her baby's father disappeared till today and she hasn't heard from him. This is the 6th year. I doubt this one.


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I doubt if this is real? It doesn't make any sense that a young man will intentionally just put himself into stress.
There is always somebody for everyone. So, if you love those kind of ladies then enjoy it and leave us out of it.
I am very sure you didn't invite anyone here to enjoy the bedroom activities?
You better go and study Geh Geh univ€rsity progr@mme.

Since you don't wanna tell yourself the truth, I'll type it for your reading:

That girl is sleeping with multiple men.

There are reasons why most football clubs run away from players with consistent injury history no matter how good they are...such players end up being bad investment....ask chelsea Fc abt Chilwell.

You are the football club here ...she is the football player..So terminate the contract and release her....press the abundant mindset button and sign another better player within your budget.

Karlifate:
Since you don't wanna tell yourself the truth, I'll type it for your reading:

That girl is sleeping with multiple men.

Thanks for spewing the bitter truth bro.
I appreciate 🙏

DeclanR:
✓ Thanks for your spewing the bitter truth bro.I appreciate 🙏

Bitter truth, which the man has no substance-backed evidence for? Nonsense! 🥱😮😮

I know many of you thrive only when you label the woman as the problem in order to keep yourselves from taking accountability for your own mistakes, so I won't go much into that. The only evidence presented in your wrote up there stands against the young man's judgment. He went into a relationship -- he probably forced himself on her, too, at that, with a woman whom he literally sees so many red flags in. Does that make sense?

Simps will ALWAYS be SIMPS while Alphas will always get the girl knocked up cos he is hitting the puna hard while the simp only dreams about it but pays her bills..

DeclanR:
Thanks so much dear. God bless you for making this sensible comment. You've spoken wisely Sir 🙏.
Again, God bless you 🙏

Oga.....u are just a means to an end.....
I know u will not hear
All these red flag, and u are till with such a woman...... Continue ...

I dey expect another lamentation thread from you

Don't depend on her bro

advanceDNA:
Oga.....u are just a means to an end.....
I know u will not hear
All these red flag, and u are till with such a woman...... Continue ...

I dey expect another lamentation thread from you

Lol..
I hear u sir

Lonestar124:
Don't depend on her bro

Sure bro

Na to just dey knack dey go, but with protection.

I can't bank on her.

Thanks 👍

Jesus Christ,some people are just so funny,make una leave that guy

HE WILL LEARN THE HARD WAY!!!!

Sonnobax15:

Hehehe..

Bro, trust me on this --you don't need any good tailor to tell you that those materials being displayed by her are more than enough to sew a very big red flag . In fact,a very long gown of red flags

Gr8mind07:
I am just curious to know what attracted her to you in the first place, because none of her attributes mentioned above indicates a good testimony

Big boobs and nyash

See how he cleverly averted answering the question you threw at him.

Caaz:
Big boobs and nyash

See how he cleverly averted answering the question you threw at him.

🤣🤣🤣
Yes o. I had almost always opaque with answers to questions