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bixton:
Did he send her to Abuja for any business?
Why should he be the one to pay?

I said for the sake of the children. If he wishes to have a stabilized family, he can pay (if he has the funds).
What if roles were reversed?

PWANMaxGroup:
I said for the sake of the children. If he wishes to have a stabilized family, he can pay (if he has the funds).
What if roles were reversed?

If the roles are reversed, it still same response from me.. let the woman the man went to meet pay the bill.


There's no such thing as because of the children and there's no such thing as having or maintaining a stabilized family when such is found out ....

you want to raise 50million naira for a cheating wife....

after few months she continue her cheating again

Since she was on her way to her boyfriend's house then it's obviously the duty of the boyfriend to rescue her because if the husband rescues her she will still be visiting boyfriend so it will be more like the husband rescuing her for her boyfriend.

Jennyclay:
you only attack my first paragraph but turn blindly to the second paragraph

You men are all guilty of my second paragraph. If your wife treats you well or not you men would still cheat on her

The husband should pay biko

It's both ways
No matter what , a woman will still cheat on You with her first love , more than 99.9% women fall in this category

Jennyclay:
For the sake of the children the husband should pay

If the husband was treating the wife well her eyes won't be outside

He was already a bad husband.
Let him continue being a bad husband, it's in his DNA.

LordIsaac:
His wife is his responsibility! And yes, he has to do everything within his power (even lay down his life), to save her. That's the "for worse" part of the vow!

No man owes any responsibility to a cheating wife,no man.

A cheating wife is worse than a snake that should be cast into the pit of h ell.

Karma is real.
Husband, don't pay any ransom.

Chilipepper:
Wife kidnapped on her way to boyfriend's house: Should the husband save her?

PWANMaxGroup:
For the sake of the children, if the man has the money, he should pay. When she is released, the couple should find a way to iron their case.

Why would you want to iron a case the kidnappers have already ironed 4u 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

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Bahamas95:
If I pay dat ransom make I die!

you don't even have the money to pay

Omo..this nah serious matter.

Are you a prophet because how you manage to know that the Said husband is not treating the wife fine is what I don't understand, people like you are needed in the north,please which school is next in the bandit list

Jennyclay:
For the sake of the children the husband should pay

If the husband was treating the wife well her eyes won't be outside

Sorry case... Let boyfriend paymmm

Jennyclay:
For the sake of the children the husband should pay

If the husband was treating the wife well her eyes won't be outside

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tell your boyfriend / husband this story and your answer, let him decide if there's sense in it or not

Father4all:
Oyou don't even have the money to pay

Is not about the money, even if the ransom is N5 I won't pay it.

MarkNsukkaBread:
So you want to abandon the mother of your kids just like that

I don't fall for emotional blackmail.


She knows I am the father of her kids before she did the nonsense.

correctyourself:
If to say u dey close to me, the back of my hand ✋ for do something

No matter what, stop threatening or joking with violence

Nigerians have seen beating, hitting or other forms of violence as normal

The boyfriend is not far from the kidnap, he strategically planned and executed the whole deal awaiting his 50m ...

Nobody sees a woman on the street and kidnap her, kidnappers usually must go with information inorder not to waste their time except if she was kidnapped randomly on the high way then the boyfriend can be exonerated....

Emmabyte:
Are you a prophet because how you manage to know that the Said husband is not treating the wife fine is what I don't understand, people like you are needed in the north,please which school is next in the bandit list

You don't need to bother yourself asking her that question. That is their defense mechanism on issues like this.

Who is husband? Or don’t mean ex-husband? What children are you talking about? Children that she had for different men and hanged them on her mumu husband?

Jennyclay:
For the sake of the children the husband should pay

If the husband was treating the wife well her eyes won't be outside

I know this statement must definitely come from a fellow cheating woman

Jennyclay:
For the sake of the children the husband should pay

If the husband was treating the wife well her eyes won't be outside

make him go do DNA before he pay.

Jennyclay:
For the sake of the children the husband should pay

If the husband was treating the wife well her eyes won't be outside

I don't fully believe that... no matter how you treat anyone you can't fully cater for all of their needs but with love, commitment and contentment is all that matters. The lady in question is a prostitute but for the sake of the kids and the love we once shared I will pay and then end my relationship with her...

Are you sure the boyfriend isn't the kidnapper?

Jennyclay:
For the sake of the children the husband should pay

If the husband was treating the wife well her eyes won't be outside

Hos over bros

LordIsaac:
His wife is his responsibility! And yes, he has to do everything within his power (even lay down his life), to save her. That's the "for worse" part of the vow!

..is it the husband that sent her to go and play away match ? 🙄

kevotek1000:
I don't fully believe that... no matter how you treat anyone you can't fully cater for all of their needs but with love, commitment and contentment is all that matters. The lady in question is a prostitute but for the sake of the kids and the love we once shared I will pay and then end my relationship with her...

Let the boyfriend pay..since she loves the boyfriend more than her husband

PWANMaxGroup:
I said for the sake of the children. If he wishes to have a stabilized family, he can pay (if he has the funds).
What if roles were reversed?

.and after paying..she will still continue with the cheating...