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Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by Emmabyte: 11:43am On Nov 27, 2025
Find out from AI or where, oga moving will be my name ones I find out
epainos:
My advice to youths:
Go find out how s(he) got infected. Take your time and do due diligence. If it is the result of a reckless lifestyle and unfaithfulness while you are together, leave the person. If it is not the person's fault, there are ways for both of you to marry without infecting the other person, so do not ditch the person. Infact, don't.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by Phred1717: 11:44am On Nov 27, 2025
To be fair to myself.... I will walk away. But, HIV from where?
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by fetcher36(m): 11:44am On Nov 27, 2025
If you walk away, you never loved them.
True love is not conditional
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by BlackViper: 11:45am On Nov 27, 2025
It would depend on the circumstances of the relationship and whether or not I am at risk from being exposed to infection

RetroviralS:
Be honest… what would you do if the person you love tested HIV positive today?

Would you still hold their hand or would you walk away?

A> I’d walk away, I’m not ready

B> I'd Stay, love is stronger than fear

C> I’d need time, it’s not easy

Every day, we see people face this exact moment —a heartbeat between love and fear. Let's be real, its not easy to make a decision when it involves matters of the heart.

Vote honestly in the comment section. Let’s start the kind of conversation that speaks reality.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by joshuaedem(m): 11:45am On Nov 27, 2025
You wey write am, you go stay?
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by Sterope(f): 11:48am On Nov 27, 2025
After all the money spent on HIV education, these comments are very disgraceful.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by duduade(m): 11:50am On Nov 27, 2025
D

I would be a friend
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by dechriz(m): 11:53am On Nov 27, 2025
It depends oo.

First, I will run away and observe from afar, gather everything I need to know before I commit.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by valentineuwakwe(m): 11:57am On Nov 27, 2025
Base on the circumstance she contracted the illness; this will determine my answers from the options you listed......
In my country, HIV is a death sentence and even if it's love, cityboy grin is not ready to join my ancestors now oo.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by isan(m): 11:59am On Nov 27, 2025
I'll run faster than Usain bolt
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by maasoap(m): 12:01pm On Nov 27, 2025
mariovito:
If the roles reversed, would they stay?
How would you know? It is not a question for you to answer since you are not living in their head
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by maasoap(m): 12:05pm On Nov 27, 2025
Oisagbai78:
I will have to do another test to confirm if it's positive. I don't trust our health care System these days. It could be a wrong result they gave.
Someone who might already be on medication
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by debbydams(f): 12:12pm On Nov 27, 2025
RetroviralS:
Be honest… what would you do if the person you love tested HIV positive today?

Would you still hold their hand or would you walk away?

A> I’d walk away, I’m not ready

B> I'd Stay, love is stronger than fear

C> I’d need time, it’s not easy

Every day, we see people face this exact moment —a heartbeat between love and fear. Let's be real, its not easy to make a decision when it involves matters of the heart.

Vote honestly in the comment section. Let’s start the kind of conversation that speaks reality.
I go tear run.. I no go look back sef
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by mariovito(m): 12:17pm On Nov 27, 2025
maasoap:
How would you know? It is not a question for you to answer since you are not living in their head
My point is, humans are inherently selfish and I blame no one for that. It's something wired in our 🧬 DNA to ensure survival.

Except through medical negligence and a. Few other means of transmission.

If it's through coitus or promiscuity, I will be long gone like a sniper rifle.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by tollyboy5(m): 12:21pm On Nov 27, 2025
RetroviralS:
Be honest… what would you do if the person you love tested HIV positive today?

Would you still hold their hand or would you walk away?

A> I’d walk away, I’m not ready

B> I'd Stay, love is stronger than fear

C> I’d need time, it’s not easy

Every day, we see people face this exact moment —a heartbeat between love and fear. Let's be real, its not easy to make a decision when it involves matters of the heart.

Vote honestly in the comment section. Let’s start the kind of conversation that speaks reality.
C
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by perdollar(m): 12:22pm On Nov 27, 2025
The answer to your question is Why should I stay?
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by jahsharon: 12:26pm On Nov 27, 2025
RetroviralS:
Be honest… what would you do if the person you love tested HIV positive today?

Would you still hold their hand or would you walk away?

A> I’d walk away, I’m not ready

B> I'd Stay, love is stronger than fear

C> I’d need time, it’s not easy

Every day, we see people face this exact moment —a heartbeat between love and fear. Let's be real, its not easy to make a decision when it involves matters of the heart.

Vote honestly in the comment section. Let’s start the kind of conversation that speaks reality.
I hope you are mentally sound, somebody catch HIV, you are asking if I will stay with her, shey I dey craze ni?
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by jahsharon: 12:27pm On Nov 27, 2025
RetroviralS:
Though few are considerate, no one would blame you for making that choice. It's actually a tough choice to make. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
It’s not a tough choice, stop deceiving yourself. If you want to marry somebody that is HIV positive, Goodluck to you.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by Abemy(m): 12:33pm On Nov 27, 2025
She will walk away not me. Maybe to the person who gave her.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by Berankis: 12:35pm On Nov 27, 2025
At the stage of my life and with all she has done for me, there's nowhere to go again than for us to keep walking our destination together whatever the situation.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by Insabanur12(m): 12:36pm On Nov 27, 2025
The only place I can never run away from, is the battlefield and of course a battlefield of my own choosing... Outside that, I walk away from everything senseless
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by YourGFsnatcher: 12:36pm On Nov 27, 2025
RetroviralS:
Be honest… what would you do if the person you love tested HIV positive today?

Would you still hold their hand or would you walk away?

A> I’d walk away, I’m not ready

B> I'd Stay, love is stronger than fear

C> I’d need time, it’s not easy

Every day, we see people face this exact moment —a heartbeat between love and fear. Let's be real, its not easy to make a decision when it involves matters of the heart.

Vote honestly in the comment section. Let’s start the kind of conversation that speaks reality.
Na me say make she go knack person without protection? She's on her own 💯.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by epainos: 12:43pm On Nov 27, 2025
Emmabyte:
Find out from AI or where, oga moving will be my name ones I find out
Same way she will move away from you if you are the unfortunate one. The thing is that what you have in your mind or what other will do to you. But when they do it, you would have forgotten that you had such in mind too. Just be ready for it. And the funny thing is that it covers not only hiv, many other issues so that even sef na that kin woman who go ditch you na e you go find. You may think the person is good, but wait. Yes, thenperson is good, but this mind set you have is why that person will change. It is a law of the human race.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by Goodlady(f): 12:56pm On Nov 27, 2025
RetroviralS:
Be honest… what would you do if the person you love tested HIV positive today?

Would you still hold their hand or would you walk away?

A> I’d walk away, I’m not ready

B> I'd Stay, love is stronger than fear

C> I’d need time, it’s not easy

Every day, we see people face this exact moment —a heartbeat between love and fear. Let's be real, its not easy to make a decision when it involves matters of the heart.

Vote honestly in the comment section. Let’s start the kind of conversation that speaks reality.
Noitpo A!
A option!!
Option A!!!
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by AmishaCandra: 12:59pm On Nov 27, 2025
Love keh, run away, mtchew

Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by DMerciful(m): 1:15pm On Nov 27, 2025
How is it possible that you've not gotten it despite sleeping together before it became known?
RetroviralS:
Be honest… what would you do if the person you love tested HIV positive today?

Would you still hold their hand or would you walk away?

A> I’d walk away, I’m not ready

B> I'd Stay, love is stronger than fear

C> I’d need time, it’s not easy

Every day, we see people face this exact moment —a heartbeat between love and fear. Let's be real, its not easy to make a decision when it involves matters of the heart.

Vote honestly in the comment section. Let’s start the kind of conversation that speaks reality.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by Greattha: 1:20pm On Nov 27, 2025
Depends on how the "spouse" got infected.

If it wasn't through infidelity/adultery then,...

RetroviralS:
Be honest… what would you do if the person you love tested HIV positive today?

Would you still hold their hand or would you walk away?

A> I’d walk away, I’m not ready

B> I'd Stay, love is stronger than fear

C> I’d need time, it’s not easy

Every day, we see people face this exact moment —a heartbeat between love and fear. Let's be real, its not easy to make a decision when it involves matters of the heart.

Vote honestly in the comment section. Let’s start the kind of conversation that speaks reality.
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by sonssyo(f): 1:41pm On Nov 27, 2025
HIV is not the only life threatening ailment, there are lots of them yet, people have not walked away, it's a two way stuff, you either walk away or stay,that will not affect the other,life is turn by turn most especially when you are sure you were not flirting around with women or men as the case maybe.
Though stuffs like this is not always easy but at the end one will go with his or her mind ...life goes on...
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by sunnyprof: 1:55pm On Nov 27, 2025
JASONjnr:
Omo, na japa straight.....

Will always find love somewhere and even better....
..... to someone who later have cancer (does not show until almost mid-age), then what will you do then?
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by themanderon: 1:56pm On Nov 27, 2025
How did the person get it?
Re: HIV Positive Partner: Be Honest, Would You Stay Or Walk Away? by Emmabyte: 2:23pm On Nov 27, 2025
Store store
epainos:
Same way she will move away from you if you are the unfortunate one. The thing is that what you have in your mind or what other will do to you. But when they do it, you would have forgotten that you had such in mind too. Just be ready for it. And the funny thing is that it covers not only hiv, many other issues so that even sef na that kin woman who go ditch you na e you go find. You may think the person is good, but wait. Yes, thenperson is good, but this mind set you have is why that person will change. It is a law of the human race.
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