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Women don't understand sacrifice.
Their father sacrificed for them, therefore they think a man should sacrifice to make them comfortable. If that man doesn't make them comfortable, their hypergamy will make them abandon him and look for a man who will.
They will watch a man bleed financially and they will not lift a finger to help him. They think it is a man's responsibility to suffer, sacrifice and even die for them. Don't sacrifice for a woman who brings you no value.

Odebayo4010:
Women don't understand sacrifice.
Their father sacrificed for them, therefore they think a man should sacrifice to make them comfortable. If that man doesn't make them comfortable, their hypergamy will make them abandon him and look for a man who will.
They will watch a man bleed financially and they will not lift a finger to help him. They think it is a man's responsibility to suffer, sacrifice and even die for them. Don't sacrifice for a woman who brings you no value.

It is well. Some things you don't get to understand as a male because you are still a boy...it is life experience that will make you become a man.

Then you will understand and empathize with your father and uncles.

Can you guys get pregnant and nurture babies until they're adults that you've come to a conclusion that we know nothing about sacrifice?

Do you know the number of women who died during labour?

This is deep. I can understand your POV

Samantha125:
Can you guys get pregnant and nurture babies until they're adults that you've come to a conclusion that we know nothing about sacrifice?

Do you know the number of women who died during labour?

They carried the pregnancy for themselves so they can have children for themselves that will take care of them when they are old. Whatever they did, they did it for themselves

Ruke1991:
They carried the pregnancy for themselves so they can have children for themselves that will take care of them when they are old. Whatever they did, they did it for themselves

Yeah, only the woman had the child, and the father has no benefit whatsoever, according to you.

A lady once brought money for because I told her I wasn't having money even though na play.

Another lady gave me money to complete my ticket even though I didn't tell her about the trip.

One was ready to date a man just for him to give me job

Just say those that you have met. There are both good and bad guys and girls

Samantha125:
Can you guys get pregnant and nurture babies until they're adults that you've come to a conclusion that we know nothing about sacrifice?

Do you know the number of women who died during labour?

Yeah a woman's sacrifice is just to birth kids abi, lmao

Bros you're very right ooooooo because if they understood the sacrifices that God did in creating and carefully hiding their virginity in-between their legs and even sealing it with blood, they won't have given it out because of indomie and egg, shawarma or ice cream. For this, you're very right. But if you want to really confirm, then make the mistake of training her through school and you will understand why God regretted creating Humans

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Many men are out here digging their own graves trying to please people who view them as nothing more than a utility bill payer— very greedy and selfish gender. The biggest scam is thinking that your sacrifice will buy her loyalty. It won't. As you said, the moment the financial tap runs dry, that "love" evaporates and the hypergamy kicks in immediately.

The point about the father figure is the root cause. They are used to receiving without giving, so they enter relationships with that same "daddy" expectation, forgetting that a relationship is supposed to be a partnership, not a sponsorship. It is foolishness to burn yourself to keep someone warm who wouldn't even strike a match for you. If she brings no tangible value to your life or growth, keep your resources to yourself. Men need to wake up. Let her go ASAP. Never make any girl feel she’s indispensable. You’re better off with a hookup lady than an entitled selfish one.

SpencerForbes:
Many men are out here digging their own graves trying to please people who view them as nothing more than a utility bill payer— very greedy and selfish gender. The biggest scam is thinking that your sacrifice will buy her loyalty. It won't. As you said, the moment the financial tap runs dry, that "love" evaporates and the hypergamy kicks in immediately.

The point about the father figure is the root cause. They are used to receiving without giving, so they enter relationships with that same "daddy" expectation, forgetting that a relationship is supposed to be a partnership, not a sponsorship. It is foolishness to burn yourself to keep someone warm who wouldn't even strike a match for you. If she brings no tangible value to your life or growth, keep your resources to yourself. Men need to wake up. Let her go ASAP. Never make any girl feel she’s indispensable. You’re better off with a hookup lady than an entitled selfish one.

There are also men out there who have no respect nor regard for women and treat women so badly that they get bad in return.

The choice is not only between "a hookup lady" and an "entitled selfish one". There are women out there who would sacrifice for you and their family too.

Do those kids nurture themselves until adulthood?

How many of you can even look after a single child for a week? Who looked after you as children, your fathers?

marlow1962:
Yeah a woman's sacrifice is just to birth kids abi, lmao

If they carry the pregnancies for themselves, then why are men called fathers?

Ruke1991:
They carried the pregnancy for themselves so they can have children for themselves that will take care of them when they are old. Whatever they did, they did it for themselves

The Manipulated Man

I support you

Odebayo4010:
Women don't understand sacrifice.
Their father sacrificed for them, therefore they think a man should sacrifice to make them comfortable. If that man doesn't make them comfortable, their hypergamy will make them abandon him and look for a man who will.
They will watch a man bleed financially and they will not lift a finger to help him. They think it is a man's responsibility to suffer, sacrifice and even die for them. Don't sacrifice for a woman who brings you no value.

I think you mean girls not woman.. Many woman know what sacrifies mean only a handful of them fall short,

Odebayo4010:
Women don't understand sacrifice.
Their father sacrificed for them, therefore they think a man should sacrifice to make them comfortable. If that man doesn't make them comfortable, their hypergamy will make them abandon him and look for a man who will.
They will watch a man bleed financially and they will not lift a finger to help him. They think it is a man's responsibility to suffer, sacrifice and even die for them. Don't sacrifice for a woman who brings you no value.

honestly Nigerian women precisely are very self centered I rather be lonely than be with them

How many football players understand the sacrifice football clubs make to pay their weekly salaries...The players don't fvcking care...

Just get me paid....i have a contract already!!

Take for example...during Covid-19 in 2020.....when fans were not allowed inside the stadium....All clubs suffered a drastic reduction in revenue.....leading clubs to tryna enforce their players to take a pay cut.....could you believe that most players no gree.....they said they want it paid in full....however, most agreed clubs pay them more than half during that hard time and then repay them the balance gradually when things get better....

....Men are the football clubs.....Women are football players....they dont give a fvck abt your sacrifice as long as they are married to you...

Samantha125:
Can you guys get pregnant and nurture babies until they're adults that you've come to a conclusion that we know nothing about sacrifice?

Do you know the number of women who died during labour?

Samantha please, this is a very old one in the book that has lost relevance.

Childbirth is a sacrifice, but it’s still a decision please. Women choose when and with whom to have kids. They even nurture the kids to take care of themselves and may turn them against thier fathers if the man do anyhow.

Men don’t get to choose the expectations placed on them. We're required to provide and perform or we're judged instantly.

That’s the imbalance most men are now revolting against. Women love men for what they can offer, while women are loved by men simply for who they are.

That’s why this discussion is about hypergamy and expectations, not biology.

Not all women

Oh! It's a decision? Let's say all women were to decide to stop procreating and be full focused on being providers like men, what do you think would happen? Not only will humanity become endangered, but they'll no longer see the value of having men in their lives as they'll be providing for themselves and one thing about money is that it can buy you everything.

And aren't you guys the same people who'd shame those women who can't conceive by calling them barrens and double crossing them with other women to bear children for you?

Marvyx:
Samantha please, this is a very old one in the book that has lost relevance.

Childbirth is a sacrifice, but it’s still a decision please. Women choose when and with whom to have kids. They even nurture the kids to take care of themselves and may turn them against thier fathers if the man do anyhow.

Men don’t get to choose the expectations placed on them. We're required to provide and perform or we're judged instantly.

That’s the imbalance most men are now revolting against. Women love men for what they can offer, while women are loved by men simply for who they are.

That’s why this discussion is about hypergamy and expectations, not biology.

Samantha125:
Oh! It's a decision? Let's say all women were to decide to stop procreating and be full focused on being providers like men, what do you think would happen? Not only will humanity become endangered, but they'll no longer see the value of having men in their lives as they'll be providing for themselves and one thing about money is that it can buy you everything.

And aren't you guys the same people who'd shame those women who can't conceive by calling them barrens and double crossing them with other women to bear children for you?

All women decide to stop procreating?

All women focus on being providers?

Two impossible things that won't happen in this lifetime

You haven't answered any of my questions.

South Korea has so far seen a major decline in birth rates over the years that some schools even had to close down due to lack of learners.

Women are slowly choosing themselves over being tied down by the same people who'd still be unappreciative of their sacrifices.

Marvyx:
All women decide to stop procreating?

All women focus on being providers?

Two impossible things that won't happen in this lifetime

True happiness comes from inside!!!!!

As a man discover true happiness need to come from your conscience and mind. Never get happiness through others validation in friendship and relationships.

The best investment and sacrifice is on yourself, never neglect yourself sacrificing for love nor friendship.

So a woman can only manipulate a man that gets happiness from her validation .
That is why I tell men to get clarity before chosen a life partner.

True and real happiness comes from inside.

Clarity is life!!!!!!!

It takes clarity to attain mental freedom.

Though I'm a Gemini in real case.

Shut up with this lame "you're still a boy" talk. It is now stale.
Make a point to counter what he said. You have not said anything tangible, just insults.

As for me, the writer is right, I have witnessed this firsthand. Speaking from personal experience. Even when they try to help, they do so grudgingly and take it back some other way, either by being disrespectful or even cheating, almost as in protest for doing what they feel they are ordinarily not supposed to do. Most Nigerian females have a very poor entitled mindset. It is sickening. There is virtually nothing in marriage for a man, you toil and labour till you drop.
And a lot of women are protesting that they are marginalised, that misogyny bla bla bla, but in reality, they are in control and want to remain that way

otipoju:
It is well. Some things you don't get to understand as a male because you are still a boy...it is life experience that will make you become a man.

Then you will understand and empathize with your father and uncles.

wonder233:
Shut up with this lame "you're still a boy" talk. It is now stale.
Make a point to counter what he said. You have not said anything tangible, just insults.

As for me, the writer is right, I have witnessed this firsthand. Speaking from personal experience. Even when they try to help, they do so grudgingly and take it back some other way, either by being disrespectful or even cheating, almost as in protest for doing what they feel they are ordinarily not supposed to do. Most Nigerian females have a very poor entitled mindset. It is sickening. There is virtually nothing in marriage for a man, you toil and labour till you drop.
And a lot of women are protesting that they are marginalised, that misogyny bla bla bla, but in reality, they are in control and want to remain that way

So you can't talk without insults. And you have comprehension problems. Does my post antagonize what he said?

Yes it's not loaded with specific details but it is still an opinion.

A boy does not know certain things until he becomes a man.. the true nature of women is one. Their irrationality, self-centeredness and hypergamous tendencies can never be known until they have dealt you a blow or two.

love a woman and she'll use you.

Use a woman and she'll love you

Samantha125:
Can you guys get pregnant and nurture babies until they're adults that you've come to a conclusion that we know nothing about sacrifice?

Do you know the number of women who died during labour?

How is giving birth a sacrifice?? Wasn't it mercy eke that is saying she wants to carry baby despite not having a man...she said she's willing to pay to have one. ....Toke did same... so why delude urself into making it seem like carrying a child is sacrifice for a man...but if marriage crumble. 95 percent of the time , the woman takes the child or children away and will refuse the man to have 50% custody.... this una manipulation no de work again... go find new format

Samantha125:
You haven't answered any of my questions.

South Korea has so far seen a major decline in birth rates over the years that some schools even had to close down due to lack of learners.

Women are slowly choosing themselves over being tied down by the same people who'd still be unappreciative of their sacrifices.

That's why they say women think and act like kids ...imagine if men had the same mentality.... then the world would be underdeveloped and no progress ...infact living will be a disaster...

Men see their their contribution as their responsibility....women see their contribution as a favour....that's kids mentality...very narcissistic mentality

Can a typical African man be able to meet up with the joint custody requirements without dumping the children with female relatives?

Let's say they're required to take weekly turns in looking after the children, how many men will keep up?

And many of your brothers have also expressed desires in having baby mamas without any strings attached, who's gonna provide for those babies?

cr7lomo:
How is giving birth a sacrifice?? Wasn't it mercy eke that is saying she wants to carry baby despite not having a man...she said she's willing to pay to have one. ....Toke did same... so why delude urself into making it seem like carrying a child is sacrifice for a man...but if marriage crumble. 95 percent of the time , the woman takes the child or children away and will refuse the man to have 50% custody.... this una manipulation no de work again... go find new format

Samantha125:
Can a typical African man be able to meet up with the joint custody requirements without dumping the children with female relatives?

Let's say they're required to take weekly turns in looking after the children, how many men will keep up?

And many of your brothers have also expressed desires in having baby mamas without any strings attached, who's gonna provide for those babies?

So a woman that works will not dump the child with relatives.... i guess u are saying women are jobless and men are hardworking ... a man that's jobless will have time for the child

The only person that's acting like a child here is you... You complain of how women have nothing to contribute in relationships and marriages despite them bringing life into this world and slaving themselves away to make sure that you have a home to come to after a long day at work, but if they make a decision to choose themselves and their careers over children and men in order to provide and look after themselves, you'd still complain.

What do you men want?

cr7lomo:
That's why they say women think and act like kids ...imagine if men had the same mentality.... then the world would be underdeveloped and no progress ...infact living will be a disaster...

Men see their their contribution as their responsibility....women see their contribution as a favour....that's kids mentality...very narcissistic mentality