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toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

It's only in this part of the world we see some wise sayings as an insult or disrespect...

Grow and be wise to me isn't an insult rather a prayer.

One of my Sunday school students while I was teaching suddenly said, sir, are you ok?

The other students why would you disrespect uncle telling him he's not ok.

Meaning, she insulted me...
I laughed and said, I'm not ok.
I have malaria and typhoid.

She saw that reluctantness in me to teach that very day..

It's a question she asked me and it's my duty to know it's a question not an insult or disrespect.

Saying, Grow and be wise to me is to continue growing with the heart of wiseness to live.

No matter how you put it, it sounds so insulting, and she has every right to be upset with you.

How can u tell someone daughter to grow and be wise...was she daft or foolish b4 ni....words are powerful and should b use wisely........Go ask the founder of Paystack, him go tell u how word dey powerful reach.

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

u and Monday okpebolo edo state governor na the same thg.una no sabi talk.

This is what you see when you date teenagers. They are not mature enough to comprehend a simple encouragement phrase. And you are not also mature enough to handle it personally without coming here

I don't know ur plan with her in the future, but I will advise don't settle down with a woman whose parents advise comes first in the relationship.

oluxy:
It's only in this part of the world we see some wise sayings as an insult or disrespect...

Grow and be wise to me isn't an insult rather a prayer.

One of my Sunday school students while I was teaching suddenly said, sir, are you ok?

The other students why would you disrespect uncle telling him he's not ok.

Meaning, she insulted me...
I laughed and said, I'm not ok.
I have malaria and typhoid.

She saw that reluctantness in me to teach that very day..

It's a question she asked me and it's my duty to know it's a question not an insult or disrespect.

Saying, Grow and be wise to me is to continue growing with the heart of wiseness to live.

When we are in a country where is like a taboo to ask your senior uncle/aunty, "how are you doing".......

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

Why didn't you say "grow with wisdom"
And yes you disrespected her mother, you wouldn't have mentioned her.

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

"grow and be wise". Does that sound like a normal congratulatory message to someone for their birthday whom you're supposed to be offering facilitations to?

Only females ask questions they already know the answers to. You seem the know-it-all type many people naturally dislike.

Also you've been dating an underaged child.

You need that your caption pass your girlfriend.

You are rude.

Why are you dating a girl of 18yrs? How old are you?

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

Lol.. Let me ask, how old are you?

Dont be a fool can be an insult and can also be an appeal.
The tone and choice of your words is definitely that of an insult, adding salt to injury is telling her that her mum sent her to attack you.
I think you are the one that needs the growing up

U just needed to have added "r" to the "wise".
Na u get fault sir

Kobojunkie:
You want him to set boundaries on his girlfriend's phone? Are you sure you are OK at all?

He is talking about his girlfriend mum being able to view his status.

You are the one that needs to grow and be wise.
I guess you just heard the phase.

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

Continue to grow in wisdom n knowledge is better than grow n be wise.

You disrespected her..that's unwise thing to say

It was bad.

Not a wise statement at all. It means she has been behaving or doing things unwisely.

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

You didn't only disrespect your girlfriend, you disrespected her mum too. That's an insult in disguise. You need to apologize to her and her mum.

You don't have a job, you had an interview, your girlfriends mom is already in your relationship interpreting messages and you don't think it's time to run?

toboizilla:
Can you Popsy tell you when you are travelling, safe journey ? Go and be successful ? Grow and be a billionaire ?

False equivalence Bro, I wasn't talking to her Dad

u didnt answer his question

udemzyudex:
✓He is talking about his girlfriend mum being able to view his status.

Is OP his girlfriend? Boundaries are not weapons to be used in policing the lives of others but in checking your own.

You are 36 and still pulling up threads like this.

And you are advising a teenager to ''grow old, and be wise''. Do you think you have displayed your advice so far?

Munashak:
U just needed to have added "r" to the "wise".
Na u get fault sir

That would have been just as bad. OP is a middle aged man dating a child. Is he any wiser than that kid who at least knows to keep her mother in her life still?

Ten06:
This is what you see when you date teenagers. They are not mature enough to comprehend a simple encouragement phrase. And you are not also mature enough to handle it personally without coming here

A grown man dating a teenager is already a man who is inadequate among his peers needing to find validation among kids without much experience. That is not a wise person to begin with. That child is much mature since she still has her mother, a supposed adult in her life to help her navigate her relationship with someone much older than her. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
How old are you? I ask because I need to get some context to this "grow and be wise" suggestion of yours to a girl whom you refer to as a girlfriend. 🥱🥱

Isn't it obvious she might be <18? Why else would she need to grow or be considered unwise? He's going for an interview, but he knows that she just turned 18. Meaning he's been datingsomeone below that. And he's an adult. Wonder what he discusses when people talk about pedophiles at work.

Time will tell.

18 and and 33.

You both need to grow and be wise.

It's like saying the person doesn't have sense!

Kingsasian:
O boy i don't want to believe you are an adult. That is an insult no matter how you try to paint it. If you are wishing an adult who is old enough to birth you goodwill or prayers nothing stops you from doing it well. What you posted is meant for kids. If na me sef I go insult you before you clear yourself

The message was to his 18yr old girlfriend not to her mother. This one you are saying some one old enough to birth him

Olodo u think u mk sense by dat statement.. ...na the mu-mu gal I blame sha