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Revealer3:
This one is also wrong,it should be "grow and be richer'.

The previous one should be "grow with wisdom"

You should be careful with your choice of word,else you will be misunderstood

Your head dey there

bentenny:
It's like saying the person doesn't have sense!

toboizilla:
After exchanging pleasantries and she said i wish you all the best in your exam and i said i wish you all the best in life, how is that being rude ?

Human being loves flattery. Even if you think she's not wise, you could have added wisdom by saying, ' grow with more wisdom '

Dzzzz:
Can you tell your popsy on his birthday”Grow and be Wise”?..How do you think he will take it?

In as much he didn’t chose his words well, but he can’t say that to his dad cus his dad is not 18yrs old. He said it to his girlfriend who is still very young. Even though he should have said: grow in wisdom, or grow with more wisdom

Kobojunkie:
Yeah, you were being rude to your gal. And her mother knew it too. And at your age, you are definitely old enough to know what is rude to say to someone you claim to love or at least pretends to. 🥱🥱🥱

It couldn't have been a poor choice of words because only a father or mother or an elder should be able to say such words to their ward. But here you said those words, not once since you felt it OK to repeat them had the mother not raised an issue the first time. You know for a fact that those are disrespectful for lover to utter to another. More like words someone grooming another would say.

For the first time I agree with you, even though supporting a female is still in it hahaha

You purposely said that, and it's an insult, what do you mean by grow and BE wise?? You no know sey nah underage you dey friend before?? Person wey just turn 18 abi nah because the mama know about the relationship

How about her telling you to " have sense and become rich/start making money" at your own birthday?? I know sey you no go sleep that day

Accept your mistake abeg, don't be that " I'm always right" kind of man jare. Be praying for her on your own, not shaming her

floss:
I can’t find anything wrong with what OP said

“Grow and be wise “

That’s a positive statement for a girl her man wants the best for…

If the girl’s mom finds it disrespectful maybe she will prefer

“ Grow and be foolish “

Hmmm…. This your angle sef makes sense

Kobojunkie:
You want him to set boundaries on his girlfriend's phone? Are you sure you are OK at all?

Ah ah! Kobo easy with the insult, the guy you are answering thought the op is talking about his own phone and that’s why he asked how the mother gets to handle his phone. I won’t lie to you, I thought so too

BigYash:
Op grow up and be wise is an insult,and you know it.. smh .. children of nowadays

What of grow up and be foolish

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

You both are still too young to start dating.... You didnt disrespect anyone

ROK123:
You purposely said that, and it's an insult, what do you mean by grow and BE wise?? You no know sey nah underage you dey friend before?? Person wey just turn 18 abi nah because the mama know about the relationship
How about her telling you to " have sense and become rich/start making money" at your own birthday?? I know sey you no go sleep that day
Accept your mistake abeg, don't be that " I'm always right" kind of man jare. Be praying for her on your own, not shaming her

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

I'm sure it's her mother that's raising her and no father figure at all.
I'm sure if there was a responsible man in her life, you won't have the effrontery to even be dating her as an underage...
Now tell me, will you want a guy like you to be in your daughter of underage life like yourself?
In fact, will you want to have a daughter like her?

BodyCount:
✓ I'm sure it's her mother that's raising her and no father figure at all. I'm sure if there was a responsible man in her life, you won't have the effrontery to even be dating her as an underage... Now tell me, will you want a guy like you to be in your daughter of underage life like yourself? In fact, will you want to have a daughter like her?

Exactly! 🤔

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

You don’t need girlfriend for now

toboizilla:
15 years older than her, and this happened 3 years ago

You are 33 years dating 18 years old girl.
What's the difference between you and Pa Ned Nwoko now.

You should be in court for child molestation.

Since you know bringing it up will escalate things further, keep quiet and let the incident die naturally

hatchy:
You are 33 years dating 18 years old girl.
What's the difference between you and Pa Ned Nwoko now.

You should be in court for child molestation.

The guy no get shame, i hope he is not fucking an 18yr old girl, and he is 33, the girl he may not even marry.

Kalulu44:
The message was to his 18yr old girlfriend not to her mother. This one you are saying some one old enough to birth him

you didn't read well. It was meant for her mom

hatchy:
You are 33 years dating 18 years old girl.
What's the difference between you and Pa Ned Nwoko now.

You should be in court for child molestation.

You go be Olodo, you leave topic go Dey choke eyes for watin no concern you. Them suppose use you do example

Lekby25:
The guy no get shame, i hope he is not fucking an 18yr old girl, and he is 33, the girl he may not even marry.

Olodo, learn to read and stay on the topic.
You know nothing about relationship

You disrespected all of them.

There's something called "manner of speech". Work towards getting it.

Learn to chew your words before spitting it out

If what you are saying is truth. Then u willbhave to leave ur girl.coz she wont follw ur lead but her mum's. Her mum will run ur family. Nd it wont end well. My token.

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

Not cool..

Where were you during English Studies?

Kingsasian:
you didn't read well. It was meant for her mom

It's you that didnt read well, her mother saw it on her daughter's phone. The guy and his girlfriend were wishing each other well. Then the guy later told his 18yr babe that she will grow and be wise. Which her mother later saw. How can he tell her mother who should be over 40yrs that. It's you that didn't read well

toboizilla:
15 years older than her, and this happened 3 years ago

God of Moses
So na something of 3 years ago you remember today to analyse

Oh chim

toboizilla:
I’ll appreciate your honest feedback.

grow and be wise

ukaface:
God of Moses
So na something of 3 years ago you remember today to analyse

Oh chim

It obviously didn’t happen three years ago. He just rushed to say that so Nairalanders won’t roast him for dating a small girl. If it really happened that long, he wouldn’t be remembering every detail with HD clarity.
This thing is clearly recent.

Nazgul:
It obviously didn’t happen three years ago. He just rushed to say that so Nairalanders won’t roast him for dating a small girl. If it really happened that long, he wouldn’t be remembering every detail with HD clarity.
This thing is clearly recent.

The man is allegedly a 33 year old dating an 18 year old. Agbaya. Why would the mother even allow it in the first place.

GloriousGbola:
The man is allegedly a 33 year old dating an 18 year old. Agbaya. Why would the mother even allow it in the first place.

We all know why...
Stop pretending. 😂😂😂

Dzzzz:
You only came to argue and not to learn..You asked for opinion and yet you disagree with peoples opinion.So, there’s only one thing left for you to do and that’s do as you please..

If you reason isn't convincing enough....he has every right to defend himself and explain his own position..... you're not "Mr know it all". .