₦airaland Forum

If you ask some people that are single or in toxic and unfulfilling marriages or relationships, they may tell you that there were periods when good people came around with true love, but they abused it or wasted it.

Life does not always wait for people to misbehave to satisfaction and then give them the love they desire when they are done misbehaving. This goes to some ladies and guys who may have used their youthful days to live wild, abandon true and sincere lover: but are now looking for good persons to marry.

Some married people may wish to have the experience of those that "choked" them with love in the past. Some single people today may wish to have the clingy people that "choked" them with attention and love, but such may never come that way again.

In this era where we have a lot of unfit people for marriage, if God gives you a good partner, cherish the person, marry the person and treat the person well.

ebubeson:
➜If you ask some people that are single or in toxic and unfulfilling marriages or relationships, they may tell you that there were periods when good people came around with true love, but they abused it or wasted it.
➜ Life does not always wait for people to misbehave to satisfaction and then give them the love they desire when they are done misbehaving. This goes to some ladies and guys who may have used their youthful days to live wild, abandon true and sincere lover: but are now looking for good persons to marry.
➜In this era where we have a lot of unfit people for marriage, if God gives you a good partner, cherish the person, marry the person and treat the person well.

Where are these good people, as study after study shows that the vast majority of women in marriages, including those who thought they married the love of their lives, are unhappy in marriage. Where are all the magically good people/men that these women met? How come they are almost nowhere to be seen, even if we are to assume they are now married to other women?

2. So, if women refuse to settle for less than what they want in life, does this life punish them with a bad partner in marriage? But somehow, we are never able to find out where all the so-called good partners ever disappear to?

3. Your god has also been guilty of not being able to find good partners for your pastors. Many are having to seek divorce after a while, and the rate of unfulfilled marriages in your churches exactly mirrors that outside of your churches. So, again, this fairy tale you keep trying to push, how come no one ever finds me?

Why not allow people, especially women, to freely configure their own lives as they choose, while you learn to mind your own life?

— Are you advocating for single people to date everyone that asks them out according to your first and last paragraph?

— How can you determine if a person is good or not? Remember some people are wolves in sheep clothings.

— How is being ‘clingy’ connected to being in love with person?

The Problem is looking a replica of the man they took for granted