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A lady who insists on a no sex before marriage most likely has other options, certainly doesn't desire you sexually, and definitely cannot attach to you emotionally.

A man who has to win a woman's affection, is already playing a lost game, and he'll pay dearly for it, when whatever won and sustained the woman's affection is no more.

Let him continue donating to the girl.
We have seen how this plays out.
'what have you even done for me'
'did I ask or beg you to do that for me'
'didnt we have sex'
'just that little favour you did and you are making noise'
That day his eyes will clear

I'm glad that this thread is still alive and thriving!!

Up the red pill!!

🙂🙂🙂

Marriage/long-term relationship is a loss for the modern man because the law and society are not rewarding his efforts, hence, it is better to abstain from the game (if he is not interested in having children) or gamble wisely(if he is interested in having children).

KennethIbe59:
Good day kings in the house

Please I need your take on this
There’s this girl I met — she just relocated from Abuja to Lagos. She’s the sister to my senior man’s wife.

I’ve been very close to their family before I relocated to another area, but I still visit them often. My senior man’s wife likes me a lot.

So, one day when I visited them, I met this girl and collected her number. I’m 35, and she just turned 27.

She was actually the first to chat me up, and we started vibing well. Most times, she’s the one who initiates our chats.

I’ve visited her at her workplace before; we’ve kissed twice on different occasions. She has even sent me money for food twice. I’ve never given her money before — I only spend a little when we hang out for drinks.

Last Sunday was her birthday. I went to see her, called her on the phone, and she came out without telling her sister where she was going. I took her to a bar, and we lodged for about an hour — we had sex.

While we were at the bar, her sister kept calling her several times, but she didn’t pick up.

After everything, I escorted her back home and even spent some time with her sister’s husband at a nearby bar before heading back to my place.

I didn’t call her that night. The next morning, I called — but she didn’t pick, which is unlike her because she always calls me “back” whenever she misses my call.

Since then, I haven’t called her again.

Also I bought her body spray as a gift for her birthday

What do you think I should do, kings?

@Rizzputin
@pukkalolo
@heartofcity12
@caveAdullam
@martinez39s
@skepticus
@emmaodet
@pansophist

This is an interesting one because there's a hidden dynamic at play here…

Please read this deeply… because there's a big lesson to learn here.

You see brother, there can be a million reasons why she suddenly started ignoring your calls… it can be because
- She felt cheap after having sex with you.

- Her sister is angry with her for going out with you and the sister advises her against
continuing any sexual interaction with you…

- She suddenly got a text from her ex

- Or whatever millions of other reasons your human brain can come up with

But the truth is… none of those reasons actually matter. Because the moment you think it matters is the moment you start failing the low-key shit test being thrown at you.

This low-key shit test is called: “Guilt-tripping” or “Induced Insecurity.”

This is when a woman makes you feel like you did something wrong. Or she makes you feel like you’ve “messed up”, so you start chasing her more.

Example pattern:

She initially show high interest in you…then

- she suddenly pulls away and starts giving you the impression that she's losing interest in you.

- She starts ignoring your calls or messages without saying why.

- Even when she doesn't ignore your calls or messages; she gives you attitude and gives you short, dry responses like “ok,” “k,” or “hmm.”

The goal of this shit test (consciously or unconsciously) is to make you feel like you “messed up” somewhere somehow. So that you start trying to fix the situation…by calling her or text her multiple times, simping for her and chasing her.

Most Men fall for this shit test because it is a Trojan horse kind of shit test: you won't realize she's playing manipulative tricks on you.

One reason guys(even redpillers) easily fall for this manipulative shit test is because most guys have the mentality of being in control or trying to fix situations.
When it comes to women, we have to go against this mentality: instead of trying to control and fix situations with women, we need to think differently…

Here's what I mean…

In my simping days, when I look back at all of my past failures or mistakes with girls, I would say that 80% of the failures came from trying to fix situations when the girls started ignoring me or misbehaving.

Back then I never knew these girls were giving me the Guilt-tripping” or “Induced Insecurity” shit test. They were low-key making me feel like I did something wrong, so I can now start getting worried and start chasing them more.

Now, I'm very experienced. I understand all kinds of "Guilt-tripping” and manipulative shit tests women execute to control men.

So in order to conquer those shit test, I follow the “Do nothing” principle.

Let me explain…

A few weeks ago, I started talking to this girl I really clicked with. And honestly… I like her. She’s very beautiful, super feminine, and has the sweetest personality.

At the beginning, she showed interest in me. About three weeks ago, we had our first date…just a chill evening walking around ShopRite and vibing.

At one point, when we got a corner where no one could see us…we had our first kiss. After the kiss, I teased her saying, “Wow, you’re not a good kiss at all,” and she laughed, playfully smacked my arm, and tried to prove me wrong by saying she was just shy because this was our first kiss.

Our vibe was perfect. It got late, so I walked her to her estate gate and made sure she got in safely.

That night, I sent her a simple text on WhatsApp: “You home safe?”

Two blue ticks. Meaning, She read it. No reply.

The next day…Sunday…still no reply from her. She even posted on her WhatsApp status: a video of her whole family dressed up heading to church in her dad’s car.

So yeah… she wasn’t busy. She was intentionally ignoring me.

As an experienced guy… I instantly recognized what was happening: a classic guilt-trip shit test. She ignores the message on purpose to see if I’ll get anxious, and start to chase her by double-texting, calling, trying to “fix” things.
That’s the trap. I didn’t fall for it. I did absolutely nothing.

Three days passed. No reply from her.

But she was posting statuses daily, so she definitely was active but purposely ignoring me.

She's very beautiful chic, so at that point, most guys would start over-thinking: “What did I do wrong? Where did I mess up?” they'll be tempted to reach out and fix things… but I stayed disciplined and did nothing because I understand female manipulative games.

Two weeks later, out of nowhere, she hits me up:
“Heyyyy, sorry for the late reply… I’ve actually missed you though.”

The rest, as they say, is history.

Here’s the truth: if I had chased when she ignored me, her attraction would’ve died instantly. Instead, by following the “do nothing” principle…I gave her space to wonder, “am I not beautiful in his eyes? Why isn’t he blowing up my phone like every other guy?”

Because I did nothing, she became intrigued and curious. That’s what pulled her back in, stronger than before. Her attraction for me sky-rocket.

So KennethIbe59, with this girl you’re dealing with right now: follow the “Do Nothing” principle. Don’t try to fix it. Don’t explain. Don’t chase.

When a woman realizes you’re not panicking or running after her, something clicks. She starts wondering what makes you different. That’s when her respect, and attraction…skyrockets.

Stay solid, king.

Stay blessed.

Pukkalolo:
This is an interesting one because there's a hidden dynamic at play here…

Please read this deeply… because there's a big lesson to learn here.

You see brother, there can be a million reasons why she suddenly started ignoring your calls… it can be because
- She felt cheap after having sex with you.

- Her sister is angry with her for going out with you and the sister advises her against
continuing any sexual interaction with you…

- She suddenly got a text from her ex

- Or whatever millions of other reasons your human brain can come up with

But the truth is… none of those reasons actually matter. Because the moment you think it matters is the moment you start failing the low-key shit test being thrown at you.

This low-key shit test is called: “Guilt-tripping” or “Induced Insecurity.”

This is when a woman makes you feel like you did something wrong. Or she makes you feel like you’ve “messed up”, so you start chasing her more.

Example pattern:

She initially show high interest in you…then

- she suddenly pulls away and starts giving you the impression that she's losing interest in you.

- She starts ignoring your calls or messages without saying why.

- Even when she doesn't ignore your calls or messages; she gives you attitude and gives you short, dry responses like “ok,” “k,” or “hmm.”

The goal of this shit test (consciously or unconsciously) is to make you feel like you “messed up” somewhere somehow. So that you start trying to fix the situation…by calling her or text her multiple times, simping for her and chasing her.

Most Men fall for this shit test because it is a Trojan horse kind of shit test: you won't realize she's playing manipulative tricks on you.

One reason guys(even redpillers) easily fall for this manipulative shit test is because most guys have the mentality of being in control or trying to fix situations.
When it comes to women, we have to go against this mentality: instead of trying to control and fix situations with women, we need to think differently…

Here's what I mean…

In my simping days, when I look back at all of my past failures or mistakes with girls, I would say that 80% of the failures came from trying to fix situations when the girls started ignoring me or misbehaving.

Back then I never knew these girls were giving me the Guilt-tripping” or “Induced Insecurity” shit test. They were low-key making me feel like I did something wrong, so I can now start getting worried and start chasing them more.

Now, I'm very experienced. I understand all kinds of "Guilt-tripping” and manipulative shit tests women execute to control men.

So in order to conquer those shit test, I follow the “Do nothing” principle.

Let me explain…

A few weeks ago, I started talking to this girl I really clicked with. And honestly… I like her. She’s very beautiful, super feminine, and has the sweetest personality.

At the beginning, she showed interest in me. About three weeks ago, we had our first date…just a chill evening walking around ShopRite and vibing.

At one point, when we got a corner where no one could see us…we had our first kiss. After the kiss, I teased her saying, “Wow, you’re not a good kiss at all,” and she laughed, playfully smacked my arm, and tried to prove me wrong by saying she was just shy because this was our first kiss.

Our vibe was perfect. It got late, so I walked her to her estate gate and made sure she got in safely.

That night, I sent her a simple text on WhatsApp: “You home safe?”

Two blue ticks. Meaning, She read it. No reply.

The next day…Sunday…still no reply from her. She even posted on her WhatsApp status: a video of her whole family dressed up heading to church in her dad’s car.

So yeah… she wasn’t busy. She was intentionally ignoring me.

As an experienced guy… I instantly recognized what was happening: a classic guilt-trip shit test. She ignores the message on purpose to see if I’ll get anxious, and start to chase her by double-texting, calling, trying to “fix” things.
That’s the trap. I didn’t fall for it. I did absolutely nothing.

Three days passed. No reply from her.

But she was posting statuses daily, so she definitely was active but purposely ignoring me.

She's very beautiful chic, so at that point, most guys would start over-thinking: “What did I do wrong? Where did I mess up?” they'll be tempted to reach out and fix things… but I stayed disciplined and did nothing because I understand female manipulative games.

Two weeks later, out of nowhere, she hits me up:
“Heyyyy, sorry for the late reply… I’ve actually missed you though.”

The rest, as they say, is history.

Here’s the truth: if I had chased when she ignored me, her attraction would’ve died instantly. Instead, by following the “do nothing” principle…I gave her space to wonder, “am I not beautiful in his eyes? Why isn’t he blowing up my phone like every other guy?”

Because I did nothing, she became intrigued and curious. That’s what pulled her back in, stronger than before. Her attraction for me sky-rocket.

So KennethIbe59, with this girl you’re dealing with right now: follow the “Do Nothing” principle. Don’t try to fix it. Don’t explain. Don’t chase.

When a woman realizes you’re not panicking or running after her, something clicks. She starts wondering what makes you different. That’s when her respect, and attraction…skyrockets.

Stay solid, king.

Stay blessed.

You and long posts shaa... Try making it more brief for people like me

Someone quoted "marriage is a lottery you're most likely guaranteed to lose".

Those attributes that protected the proper functioning of marriage are non-extinct now

The greatest mistake you can ever make is treating a woman like some sort of valuables, she will make you pay for it. Women are not to be loved, treat them like trash and ignore them.

"Women are always attracted to toxicity"
The above 👆is the greatest truth of all time..

You know that guy that treat her like trash and ignore her all the time, he's the price to her. Don't be deceived by her pretentious act of hating that toxic guy, he's the type she wants. Just ignore her for your own good.

She will beg that guy to come fvck her while she make excuses for you. 😂 Don't trust any word that come from the mouth of a woman, don't believe anything.

I thought I was already a pro, outside is so brutal mehn.

What I experienced in the last 12 hours will never make me trust a woman ever again, those Specie are not to be loved.

Pls always be at the top of your game, women are born gamer.

Pukkalolo:
This is an interesting one because there's a hidden dynamic at play here…

Please read this deeply… because there's a big lesson to learn here.

You see brother, there can be a million reasons why she suddenly started ignoring your calls… it can be because
- She felt cheap after having sex with you.

- Her sister is angry with her for going out with you and the sister advises her against
continuing any sexual interaction with you…

- She suddenly got a text from her ex

- Or whatever millions of other reasons your human brain can come up with

But the truth is… none of those reasons actually matter. Because the moment you think it matters is the moment you start failing the low-key shit test being thrown at you.

This low-key shit test is called: “Guilt-tripping” or “Induced Insecurity.”

This is when a woman makes you feel like you did something wrong. Or she makes you feel like you’ve “messed up”, so you start chasing her more.

Example pattern:

She initially show high interest in you…then

- she suddenly pulls away and starts giving you the impression that she's losing interest in you.

- She starts ignoring your calls or messages without saying why.

- Even when she doesn't ignore your calls or messages; she gives you attitude and gives you short, dry responses like “ok,” “k,” or “hmm.”

The goal of this shit test (consciously or unconsciously) is to make you feel like you “messed up” somewhere somehow. So that you start trying to fix the situation…by calling her or text her multiple times, simping for her and chasing her.

Most Men fall for this shit test because it is a Trojan horse kind of shit test: you won't realize she's playing manipulative tricks on you.

One reason guys(even redpillers) easily fall for this manipulative shit test is because most guys have the mentality of being in control or trying to fix situations.
When it comes to women, we have to go against this mentality: instead of trying to control and fix situations with women, we need to think differently…

Here's what I mean…

In my simping days, when I look back at all of my past failures or mistakes with girls, I would say that 80% of the failures came from trying to fix situations when the girls started ignoring me or misbehaving.

Back then I never knew these girls were giving me the Guilt-tripping” or “Induced Insecurity” shit test. They were low-key making me feel like I did something wrong, so I can now start getting worried and start chasing them more.

Now, I'm very experienced. I understand all kinds of "Guilt-tripping” and manipulative shit tests women execute to control men.

So in order to conquer those shit test, I follow the “Do nothing” principle.

Let me explain…

A few weeks ago, I started talking to this girl I really clicked with. And honestly… I like her. She’s very beautiful, super feminine, and has the sweetest personality.

At the beginning, she showed interest in me. About three weeks ago, we had our first date…just a chill evening walking around ShopRite and vibing.

At one point, when we got a corner where no one could see us…we had our first kiss. After the kiss, I teased her saying, “Wow, you’re not a good kiss at all,” and she laughed, playfully smacked my arm, and tried to prove me wrong by saying she was just shy because this was our first kiss.

Our vibe was perfect. It got late, so I walked her to her estate gate and made sure she got in safely.

That night, I sent her a simple text on WhatsApp: “You home safe?”

Two blue ticks. Meaning, She read it. No reply.

The next day…Sunday…still no reply from her. She even posted on her WhatsApp status: a video of her whole family dressed up heading to church in her dad’s car.

So yeah… she wasn’t busy. She was intentionally ignoring me.

As an experienced guy… I instantly recognized what was happening: a classic guilt-trip shit test. She ignores the message on purpose to see if I’ll get anxious, and start to chase her by double-texting, calling, trying to “fix” things.
That’s the trap. I didn’t fall for it. I did absolutely nothing.

Three days passed. No reply from her.

But she was posting statuses daily, so she definitely was active but purposely ignoring me.

She's very beautiful chic, so at that point, most guys would start over-thinking: “What did I do wrong? Where did I mess up?” they'll be tempted to reach out and fix things… but I stayed disciplined and did nothing because I understand female manipulative games.

Two weeks later, out of nowhere, she hits me up:
“Heyyyy, sorry for the late reply… I’ve actually missed you though.”

The rest, as they say, is history.

Here’s the truth: if I had chased when she ignored me, her attraction would’ve died instantly. Instead, by following the “do nothing” principle…I gave her space to wonder, “am I not beautiful in his eyes? Why isn’t he blowing up my phone like every other guy?”

Because I did nothing, she became intrigued and curious. That’s what pulled her back in, stronger than before. Her attraction for me sky-rocket.

So KennethIbe59, with this girl you’re dealing with right now: follow the “Do Nothing” principle. Don’t try to fix it. Don’t explain. Don’t chase.

When a woman realizes you’re not panicking or running after her, something clicks. She starts wondering what makes you different. That’s when her respect, and attraction…skyrockets.

Stay solid, king.

Stay blessed.

I'm learning

Thank you very much sir

Pukkalolo:
This is an interesting one because there's a hidden dynamic at play here…

Please read this deeply… because there's a big lesson to learn here.

You see brother, there can be a million reasons why she suddenly started ignoring your calls… it can be because
- She felt cheap after having sex with you.

- Her sister is angry with her for going out with you and the sister advises her against
continuing any sexual interaction with you…

- She suddenly got a text from her ex

- Or whatever millions of other reasons your human brain can come up with

But the truth is… none of those reasons actually matter. Because the moment you think it matters is the moment you start failing the low-key shit test being thrown at you.

This low-key shit test is called: “Guilt-tripping” or “Induced Insecurity.”

This is when a woman makes you feel like you did something wrong. Or she makes you feel like you’ve “messed up”, so you start chasing her more.

Example pattern:

She initially show high interest in you…then

- she suddenly pulls away and starts giving you the impression that she's losing interest in you.

- She starts ignoring your calls or messages without saying why.

- Even when she doesn't ignore your calls or messages; she gives you attitude and gives you short, dry responses like “ok,” “k,” or “hmm.”

The goal of this shit test (consciously or unconsciously) is to make you feel like you “messed up” somewhere somehow. So that you start trying to fix the situation…by calling her or text her multiple times, simping for her and chasing her.

Most Men fall for this shit test because it is a Trojan horse kind of shit test: you won't realize she's playing manipulative tricks on you.

One reason guys(even redpillers) easily fall for this manipulative shit test is because most guys have the mentality of being in control or trying to fix situations.
When it comes to women, we have to go against this mentality: instead of trying to control and fix situations with women, we need to think differently…

Here's what I mean…

In my simping days, when I look back at all of my past failures or mistakes with girls, I would say that 80% of the failures came from trying to fix situations when the girls started ignoring me or misbehaving.

Back then I never knew these girls were giving me the Guilt-tripping” or “Induced Insecurity” shit test. They were low-key making me feel like I did something wrong, so I can now start getting worried and start chasing them more.

Now, I'm very experienced. I understand all kinds of "Guilt-tripping” and manipulative shit tests women execute to control men.

So in order to conquer those shit test, I follow the “Do nothing” principle.

Let me explain…

A few weeks ago, I started talking to this girl I really clicked with. And honestly… I like her. She’s very beautiful, super feminine, and has the sweetest personality.

At the beginning, she showed interest in me. About three weeks ago, we had our first date…just a chill evening walking around ShopRite and vibing.

At one point, when we got a corner where no one could see us…we had our first kiss. After the kiss, I teased her saying, “Wow, you’re not a good kiss at all,” and she laughed, playfully smacked my arm, and tried to prove me wrong by saying she was just shy because this was our first kiss.

Our vibe was perfect. It got late, so I walked her to her estate gate and made sure she got in safely.

That night, I sent her a simple text on WhatsApp: “You home safe?”

Two blue ticks. Meaning, She read it. No reply.

The next day…Sunday…still no reply from her. She even posted on her WhatsApp status: a video of her whole family dressed up heading to church in her dad’s car.

So yeah… she wasn’t busy. She was intentionally ignoring me.

As an experienced guy… I instantly recognized what was happening: a classic guilt-trip shit test. She ignores the message on purpose to see if I’ll get anxious, and start to chase her by double-texting, calling, trying to “fix” things.
That’s the trap. I didn’t fall for it. I did absolutely nothing.

Three days passed. No reply from her.

But she was posting statuses daily, so she definitely was active but purposely ignoring me.

She's very beautiful chic, so at that point, most guys would start over-thinking: “What did I do wrong? Where did I mess up?” they'll be tempted to reach out and fix things… but I stayed disciplined and did nothing because I understand female manipulative games.

Two weeks later, out of nowhere, she hits me up:
“Heyyyy, sorry for the late reply… I’ve actually missed you though.”

The rest, as they say, is history.

Here’s the truth: if I had chased when she ignored me, her attraction would’ve died instantly. Instead, by following the “do nothing” principle…I gave her space to wonder, “am I not beautiful in his eyes? Why isn’t he blowing up my phone like every other guy?”

Because I did nothing, she became intrigued and curious. That’s what pulled her back in, stronger than before. Her attraction for me sky-rocket.

So KennethIbe59, with this girl you’re dealing with right now: follow the “Do Nothing” principle. Don’t try to fix it. Don’t explain. Don’t chase.

When a woman realizes you’re not panicking or running after her, something clicks. She starts wondering what makes you different. That’s when her respect, and attraction…skyrockets.

Stay solid, king.

Stay blessed.

Gobengroup:
The greatest mistake you can ever make is treating a woman like some sort of valuables, she will make you pay for it. Women are not to be loved, treat them like trash and ignore them.

"Women are always attracted to toxicity"
The above 👆is the greatest truth of all time..

You know that guy that treat her like trash and ignore her all the time, he's the price to her. Don't be deceived by her pretentious act of hating that toxic guy, he's the type she wants. Just ignore her for your own good.

She will beg that guy to come fvck her while she make excuses for you. 😂 Don't trust any word that come from the mouth of a woman, don't believe anything.

I thought I was already a pro, outside is so brutal mehn.

What I experienced in the last 12 hours will never make me trust a woman ever again, those Specie are not to be loved.

Pls always be at the top of your game, women are born gamer.

...

Fr man, they play games,even the so called church girls..
Manipulation is their universal nature😹..

I snub females for a reason,I also ignore them,yet they still flock around me trying to change me and get me😹.

Now the game is boring cos I can predict their moves, nothing interesting out there anymore..
If you're aware, you'll see these girls like prey,but it's time consuming to roll with them..
Peace is better😹.
I pity naive men,women go show them pepper😹

Gobengroup:
The greatest mistake you can ever make is treating a woman like some sort of valuables, she will make you pay for it. Women are not to be loved, treat them like trash and ignore them.

"Women are always attracted to toxicity"
The above 👆is the greatest truth of all time..

You know that guy that treat her like trash and ignore her all the time, he's the price to her. Don't be deceived by her pretentious act of hating that toxic guy, he's the type she wants. Just ignore her for your own good.

She will beg that guy to come fvck her while she make excuses for you. 😂 Don't trust any word that come from the mouth of a woman, don't believe anything.

I thought I was already a pro, outside is so brutal mehn.

What I experienced in the last 12 hours will never make me trust a woman ever again, those Specie are not to be loved.

Pls always be at the top of your game, women are born gamer.

..
And please, can you tell us the story,so we get better from the lessons 👐

SpencerForbes:
Could you elaborate on what you mean exactly by 'experience' in this context?

Specifically, does that term imply:

- Dating every woman primarily to investigate and confirm her past?

- Trying to ascertain the history of every single person you've ever dated, even casual flings?

In this context, experience simply means dating women that meet you pre-relationship standards and taking note of things.

Also... you can evaluate you past relationships and spot patterns.

One thing you realize with women is the more you date them it gets to a point where you see patterns.

Those girls that cant help themselves by taking pics in every outing. That girl with 8 male friends? The girl who has friends who are ALL club girls? How does she respond after first sex? What are her views on sex.

All of the above are pointers to her history. The beauty of these questions is that the right one unlocks something about her. You dont have to ask her. Just have them in your mind

Now.. you may never know the exact number. However, being observant while encouraging certain conversations puts you in a great position to see her for who she truly is NOT who she claims to be

Gobengroup:
The greatest mistake you can ever make is treating a woman like some sort of valuables, she will make you pay for it. Women are not to be loved, treat them like trash and ignore them.

"Women are always attracted to toxicity"
The above 👆is the greatest truth of all time..

You know that guy that treat her like trash and ignore her all the time, he's the price to her. Don't be deceived by her pretentious act of hating that toxic guy, he's the type she wants. Just ignore her for your own good.

She will beg that guy to come fvck her while she make excuses for you. 😂 Don't trust any word that come from the mouth of a woman, don't believe anything.

I thought I was already a pro, outside is so brutal mehn.

What I experienced in the last 12 hours will never make me trust a woman ever again, those Specie are not to be loved.

Pls always be at the top of your game, women are born gamer.

You are 90% right. I'll explain the 10% you're missing. But first, let's start with the 90%. For reasons, you will soon understand

You see... I got exposed to dark triad & toxic traits that women LOVE so much when I was in primary/secondary school

Unlike most guys I knew women loved the dark. The evil. The danger. And the thrill that a toxic man brings into her otherwise boring life.

How did I come to know this? From watching Discovery channel. Yes, you read that right. You're probably familiar with it. However one show I loved a lot was serial killer series. I would stay up all night and binge watch them like crazy. I was fascinated that such people existed .

My mind never went to anything concerning women. And frankly I viewed women in primary school at the time as innocent people that loved good men. Until I watched a Ted Bundy episode in secondary school.

If you dont know Ted he was a notorious serial killer. He is confirmed to killed 30 women. And suspected to have killed up to 80. Yet, he 5 long term relationships, multiple sexual partners and received 100 love letters containing nudes and marriage proposals.

At that age, I was shocked that there were women who loved men this toxic. The fantasy of rescuing and fixing a damaged man. All my bad boy friends success started to click. Everything started to make sense. Women hate a perfect world and perfect man. They love chaos.

Granted, these Ted Bundy women are the extremes. But they're many. And lots of women have that desire to fix the damaged bad boy. In fact, his story formed a HUGE foundation of my "serial killer" game. Women trying desperately to fix me and offering sex as a way to "heal" me. It was crazy. I still use this style of game today... but a more toned down version.

So yes, you're right that they absolutely love a toxic man. I will break it down more in deathly from real world angles why later on.

For now... let's proceed to the 10% I spoke about that you're missing.

While girls like bad boys, too much of everything is bad. Saying you will treat them like trash will not help your situation.

Both the guy that treats like trash and the guy that treats her like some valuables will both lose.

The key is balance. As a great philosopher once said: Moderation is the mother of all virtues.

Finding a balance (comes with practice) is how you win

Yes women hate a perfect world and perfect man. But a world that's too chaotic will chase her away.

Hope this helps you in your journey

It's not the african idea of marriage. It's the toxic nature the women over there have built where they rather walk out instead of figuring things out when issues comes up.

I say this because, the white people over there are facing the same high divorce rate.

So much so that they are 1. Leaving their women behind and going to Asia as passport bros to get married

2. There are numerous podcasts blowing up encouraging the men not to get married.

So, your theory of African men mentality causing the problem does not hold water.

The problem is uncontrolled freedom one partner has over the other. And that uncontrolled partner is the female.

Hence they end up filing for divorce at any slightest provocation.

They know they will always win.

When you know you'll alway win in a game regardless of how you play, you stop working on yourself. You ignore redflags. You don't care about the algorithm no more.

This is the problem.

Gobengroup:
The greatest mistake you can ever make is treating a woman like some sort of valuables, she will make you pay for it. Women are not to be loved, treat them like trash and ignore them.

"Women are always attracted to toxicity"
The above 👆is the greatest truth of all time..

You know that guy that treat her like trash and ignore her all the time, he's the price to her. Don't be deceived by her pretentious act of hating that toxic guy, he's the type she wants. Just ignore her for your own good.

She will beg that guy to come fvck her while she make excuses for you. 😂 Don't trust any word that come from the mouth of a woman, don't believe anything.

I thought I was already a pro, outside is so brutal mehn.

What I experienced in the last 12 hours will never make me trust a woman ever again, those Specie are not to be loved.

Pls always be at the top of your game, women are born gamer.

Ogbeni calm down and stop talking out of rage.

Redpill no be about your stage. That rage phase just hurts you more. Look at the mistakes you made and readjust. That's why you need to be on the redpill on a daily dose or perish.

It is better a man goes into a relationship with a mindset of knowing he can lose his girl anytime, that way he will invest with caution and only do what he can afford to lose, hence no need for over banging or pressuring yourself to make her happy

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Pukkalolo:
This is an interesting one because there's a hidden dynamic at play here…

Please read this deeply… because there's a big lesson to learn here.

You see brother, there can be a million reasons why she suddenly started ignoring your calls… it can be because
- She felt cheap after having sex with you.

- Her sister is angry with her for going out with you and the sister advises her against
continuing any sexual interaction with you…

- She suddenly got a text from her ex

- Or whatever millions of other reasons your human brain can come up with

But the truth is… none of those reasons actually matter. Because the moment you think it matters is the moment you start failing the low-key shit test being thrown at you.

This low-key shit test is called: “Guilt-tripping” or “Induced Insecurity.”

This is when a woman makes you feel like you did something wrong. Or she makes you feel like you’ve “messed up”, so you start chasing her more.

Example pattern:

She initially show high interest in you…then

- she suddenly pulls away and starts giving you the impression that she's losing interest in you.

- She starts ignoring your calls or messages without saying why.

- Even when she doesn't ignore your calls or messages; she gives you attitude and gives you short, dry responses like “ok,” “k,” or “hmm.”

The goal of this shit test (consciously or unconsciously) is to make you feel like you “messed up” somewhere somehow. So that you start trying to fix the situation…by calling her or text her multiple times, simping for her and chasing her.

Most Men fall for this shit test because it is a Trojan horse kind of shit test: you won't realize she's playing manipulative tricks on you.

One reason guys(even redpillers) easily fall for this manipulative shit test is because most guys have the mentality of being in control or trying to fix situations.
When it comes to women, we have to go against this mentality: instead of trying to control and fix situations with women, we need to think differently…

Here's what I mean…

In my simping days, when I look back at all of my past failures or mistakes with girls, I would say that 80% of the failures came from trying to fix situations when the girls started ignoring me or misbehaving.

Back then I never knew these girls were giving me the Guilt-tripping” or “Induced Insecurity” shit test. They were low-key making me feel like I did something wrong, so I can now start getting worried and start chasing them more.

Now, I'm very experienced. I understand all kinds of "Guilt-tripping” and manipulative shit tests women execute to control men.

So in order to conquer those shit test, I follow the “Do nothing” principle.

Let me explain…

A few weeks ago, I started talking to this girl I really clicked with. And honestly… I like her. She’s very beautiful, super feminine, and has the sweetest personality.

At the beginning, she showed interest in me. About three weeks ago, we had our first date…just a chill evening walking around ShopRite and vibing.

At one point, when we got a corner where no one could see us…we had our first kiss. After the kiss, I teased her saying, “Wow, you’re not a good kiss at all,” and she laughed, playfully smacked my arm, and tried to prove me wrong by saying she was just shy because this was our first kiss.

Our vibe was perfect. It got late, so I walked her to her estate gate and made sure she got in safely.

That night, I sent her a simple text on WhatsApp: “You home safe?”

Two blue ticks. Meaning, She read it. No reply.

The next day…Sunday…still no reply from her. She even posted on her WhatsApp status: a video of her whole family dressed up heading to church in her dad’s car.

So yeah… she wasn’t busy. She was intentionally ignoring me.

As an experienced guy… I instantly recognized what was happening: a classic guilt-trip shit test. She ignores the message on purpose to see if I’ll get anxious, and start to chase her by double-texting, calling, trying to “fix” things.
That’s the trap. I didn’t fall for it. I did absolutely nothing.

Three days passed. No reply from her.

But she was posting statuses daily, so she definitely was active but purposely ignoring me.

She's very beautiful chic, so at that point, most guys would start over-thinking: “What did I do wrong? Where did I mess up?” they'll be tempted to reach out and fix things… but I stayed disciplined and did nothing because I understand female manipulative games.

Two weeks later, out of nowhere, she hits me up:
“Heyyyy, sorry for the late reply… I’ve actually missed you though.”

The rest, as they say, is history.

Here’s the truth: if I had chased when she ignored me, her attraction would’ve died instantly. Instead, by following the “do nothing” principle…I gave her space to wonder, “am I not beautiful in his eyes? Why isn’t he blowing up my phone like every other guy?”

Because I did nothing, she became intrigued and curious. That’s what pulled her back in, stronger than before. Her attraction for me sky-rocket.

So KennethIbe59, with this girl you’re dealing with right now: follow the “Do Nothing” principle. Don’t try to fix it. Don’t explain. Don’t chase.

When a woman realizes you’re not panicking or running after her, something clicks. She starts wondering what makes you different. That’s when her respect, and attraction…skyrockets.

Stay solid, king.

Stay blessed.

a woman replied you after 2 weeks of ignoring you and you replied her back and accepted the friendship shows nothing that you are a back up plan and as well suffering from women scarcity mentally. Spit🤧

a woman is not traditional, then yes, she benefits from marriage more. It's like buying a man's husband's duties and lifestyle with fake currency. The juice is not worth the squeeze.

If her traditionalism is based on subscription, when it only applies when you have money, are loyal to her emotions, and are a repentant street girl, then you should marry a man because at least both of you will pay during the date.

Otherwise, men and women benefit from marriage, if done rightly.

Women are joining the work force to be like men and that is more effective than contraception. Deceive her with the career, tell her she can store her eggs, tell her there is IVF, waste her best years of fertility and when there is a crisis, sell medical solutions to them.

Once you are able to convince women that they don't need to carry a baby, the deal is done. Now they want us to be using science to have babies, sleeping with dolls and selling us all kind of solutions when God gave us free.
Don't take everything from the West, you're just a commodity to them.

Tonnyray:

Long time no see. How have you been?

JESHAL007:
A lady who insists on a no sex before marriage most likely has other options, certainly doesn't desire you sexually, and definitely cannot attach to you emotionally.

A man who has to win a woman's affection, is already playing a lost game, and he'll pay dearly for it, when whatever won and sustained the woman's affection is no more.

The female gender is full of issues.
I once told a lady that when i have relationships with ladies,
i dont bother about sex and can even go a year without sexing them.
This is exactly what she said. "If that is the way it is between you and every girl you meet,
then you have a very bad and terrible problem". Which corrolates with what you
said that if a lady insists on no sex before marriage, then she does not desire you sexually
and cannot attach to you emotionally. A bad boy will not fall into this trap because
a bad boy will demand for sex and if there is no sex, he will leave. This is why bad boys gain a lot from
women. Generally, the female gender is full of issues.
The problem is that religion and culture teaches us that pre-marital sex is not good.
Anyway i hope most ladies do not marry a man they are not sexually and emotionally attracted to
all because of money or social pressure. That is a foundation for adultery.

S

JESHAL007:
a woman is not traditional, then yes, she benefits from marriage more. It's like buying a man's husband's duties and lifestyle with fake currency. The juice is not worth the squeeze.

If her traditionalism is based on subscription, when it only applies when you have money, are loyal to her emotions, and are a repentant street girl, then you should marry a man because at least both of you will pay during the date.

Otherwise, men and women benefit from marriage, if done rightly.

stop preaching gay and focus on the red pill .

Kipaji:
Long time no see. How have you been?

I'm good bro..
And you?

Tonnyray:
I'm good bro..
And you?

I'm managing.

most Nigerian girls have multiple partners.
Always use protection else few moments can change the rest of your life.

There are 2 sides of a relationship - Love and Business.
Most women consider the 2 ruthlessly. You can be handsome, caring and good on bed (the Love/Attraction side) but how financially buoyant are you to sustain a family (the Business side)? She may date you for sometime but will drop the relationship at the shortest moment when a better option shows up.

The rule for every successful relationship: the woman must choose you. She must have a genuine desire for you.

It doesn't matter whether you are poor or rich, ugly or handsome, short or tall.

If a woman likes you, she likes you and will do anything to make that relationship work. She will be the one to give herself advice and behave in the best manners to get you attached.

If she doesn't care about your feelings, won't listen to your serial complaints and warnings, just forget about her

Number 1 rule for men: never in any condition sacrifice your dreams and ambitions on the altar of love because of any woman.

Because once a woman senses that her level is now above yours, she will treat you with contempt and dislike

The nice guy opens his heart to genuinely love a woman but is ignorant that the woman is a manipulator who wants to lure him with the promise of affection and companionship to siphon his time and money