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Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by oskisammy: 4:47pm On Dec 03, 2025
I slept with a call girl that gave me an incurable STI
it has been hell on earth mentally and physically

This bad news has overshadowed all my wins this year
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by oskisammy: 4:49pm On Dec 03, 2025
Maj196:
Carrying too much olosho
If you dey lagos, better stop o
herps & warts dey reign o
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by hakeemhakeem(m): 4:51pm On Dec 03, 2025
AqualinaXYZ:
Worst mistake the Yorubas made in 2023 was supporting Tinubu thinking their problems was gonna be over




Hunger dey wound them now
They done pressed your neck sorry
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Ollyb2020(m): 4:51pm On Dec 03, 2025
Worst Decision I Made This Year?

Believing that doing the right thing would protect me

I trusted a man with his car under a hire agreement, When the engine died, I took it upon myself to fix it based on our written and verbal agreement,I borrowed money, took loans with my wife and mother-in-law’s help, I spent over 1.3 million to replace the engine all because I believed in keeping my word and did all in good faith, believing I would be refunded or allowed to recover the money from the job

The day the car got fixed was the day my life scattered the owner changed the story, secretly collected the vehicle from the dealer, and sold it without telling me. Up till now, he refused to give me a single naira from the money I invested

That single betrayal displaced my family
We lost our home
I’ve been moving from place to place
My wife is staying with her mother
I’m still repaying the debt every week, every month for a sacrifice I made in good faith

It hurts to realize a man can destroy your life simply because he has power and connections.
But even in all this, I’m still standing wounded but not finished

If this year taught me anything, it’s that having a good heart doesn’t mean people will treat you right but God sees everything

I pray 2026 brings healing, justice, and a fresh start for me and my family 🙏
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by oskisammy: 4:54pm On Dec 03, 2025
oskisammy:
I slept with a call girl that gave me an incurable STI
it has been hell on earth mentally and physically

This bad news has overshadowed all my wins this year
I got promoted at work, and landed a juicy 2nd job
embarassed

what is all that without health
I wish I can travel back in time and just marry early.
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Austino50: 4:57pm On Dec 03, 2025
By ever investing in CBEX online trade
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by curiobling: 4:58pm On Dec 03, 2025
Ollyb2020:
Worst Decision I Made This Year?

Believing that doing the right thing would protect me

I trusted a man with his car under a hire agreement, When the engine died, I took it upon myself to fix it based on our written and verbal agreement,I borrowed money, took loans with my wife and mother-in-law’s help, I spent over 1.3 million to replace the engine all because I believed in keeping my word and did all in good faith, believing I would be refunded or allowed to recover the money from the job

The day the car got fixed was the day my life scattered the owner changed the story, secretly collected the vehicle from the dealer, and sold it without telling me. Up till now, he refused to give me a single naira from the money I invested

That single betrayal displaced my family
We lost our home
I’ve been moving from place to place
My wife is staying with her mother
I’m still repaying the debt every week, every month for a sacrifice I made in good faith

It hurts to realize a man can destroy your life simply because he has power and connections.
But even in all this, I’m still standing wounded but not finished

If this year taught me anything, it’s that having a good heart doesn’t mean people will treat you right but God sees everything

I pray 2026 brings healing, justice, and a fresh start for me and my family 🙏
wow! So touching from the deep. May God come quickly with releif for you
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by curiobling: 5:01pm On Dec 03, 2025
oskisammy:
I got promoted at work, and landed a juicy 2nd job
embarassed

what is all that without health
I wish I can travel back in time and just marry early.
We all have a price to pay for disobedience to the warning from God, if it's HIV, that would be very difficult to cope with bro
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Sirchiboy(op): 5:01pm On Dec 03, 2025
Ollyb2020:
Worst Decision I Made This Year?

Believing that doing the right thing would protect me

I trusted a man with his car under a hire agreement, When the engine died, I took it upon myself to fix it based on our written and verbal agreement,I borrowed money, took loans with my wife and mother-in-law’s help, I spent over 1.3 million to replace the engine all because I believed in keeping my word and did all in good faith, believing I would be refunded or allowed to recover the money from the job

The day the car got fixed was the day my life scattered the owner changed the story, secretly collected the vehicle from the dealer, and sold it without telling me. Up till now, he refused to give me a single naira from the money I invested

That single betrayal displaced my family
We lost our home
I’ve been moving from place to place
My wife is staying with her mother
I’m still repaying the debt every week, every month for a sacrifice I made in good faith

It hurts to realize a man can destroy your life simply because he has power and connections.
But even in all this, I’m still standing wounded but not finished

If this year taught me anything, it’s that having a good heart doesn’t mean people will treat you right but God sees everything

I pray 2026 brings healing, justice, and a fresh start for me and my family 🙏
Sorry about this.
The best way to win is to stay wickend. ..
I remember how I helped many people in the past but I got stab at the back.
Where do you stay?
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Ollyb2020(m): 5:01pm On Dec 03, 2025
curiobling:
wow! So touching from the deep. May God come quickly with releif for you
Amen 🙏, thanks Man
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Keyz1: 5:05pm On Dec 03, 2025
Not selling Pi at $3
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by lightwind(m): 5:06pm On Dec 03, 2025
franksam209:
I don't understand plz,, do you prefer staying in a smaller apartment or what?
I'm about moving to a bigger apartment and I'm seeing someone regretting his own progress
$

What i mean is that i am still in a small place.

And I am not married yet, and i am closed to 36.


I feel like i am wasting away


$
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Ollyb2020(m): 5:08pm On Dec 03, 2025
Sirchiboy:
Sorry about this.
The best way to win is to stay wickend. ..
I remember how I helped many people in the past but I got stab at the back.
Where do you stay?
Thanks so much for your words, I really appreciate it
As for “being wicked,” honestly that one no fit me because I was raised to do right by people even when life shows me the oppositei still believe kindness pays, it just takes time

And about where I stay… I’m based in Lagos normally, that’s where I run my mobility work. But since this whole incident happened, I haven’t had a stable home or job, so I’ve just been moving between family houses for now still around Lagos axis
I’m just trying to get back on my feet.
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by lightwind(m): 5:10pm On Dec 03, 2025
Donangelo644:
It is never too late for you to marry and moving to a bigger apartment is part of the marriage preparation. Unless the apartment consumes you would have used to get married.
$

I just want to get the woman now that i am still in a small place, then move to bigger place when things start getting better and big.



$
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by lightwind(m): 5:11pm On Dec 03, 2025
Arda1000:
36?
At least u have a fiancé bah?
$

Yes i do....

I am scared asf

$
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by lightwind(m): 5:12pm On Dec 03, 2025
kaywhy09:
Be baby daddy and enjoy your life.

Thank me later.
$

Someone else said the same to me before.

But i enjoy that wife things.....


$
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by walozanga(m): 5:25pm On Dec 03, 2025
Forex trade
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by MrHandsome2013: 5:25pm On Dec 03, 2025
lightwind:
$

Someone else said the same to me before.

But i enjoy that wife things.....


$
Have you gotten a lady yet.
If not make sure you study a girl that you want to marry for the sake of your unborn kids.
Dont marry yellow or religious Lady with no skill or handwork.
If you do then you are subjecting your unborn kids to truama
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by lightwind(m): 5:26pm On Dec 03, 2025
MrHandsome2013:
Have you gotten a lady yet.
If not make sure you study a girl that you want to marry for the sake of your unborn kids.
Dont marry yellow or religious Lady with no skill or handwork.
If you do then you are subjecting your unborn kids to truama
$

Yes i have..

Thank you, you are on point


$
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Sirchiboy(op): 5:27pm On Dec 03, 2025
Ollyb2020:
Thanks so much for your words, I really appreciate it
As for “being wicked,” honestly that one no fit me because I was raised to do right by people even when life shows me the oppositei still believe kindness pays, it just takes time

And about where I stay… I’m based in Lagos normally, that’s where I run my mobility work. But since this whole incident happened, I haven’t had a stable home or job, so I’ve just been moving between family houses for now still around Lagos axis
I’m just trying to get back on my feet.
Why don't you try voluteer to work in a company for free even if it is just a month.
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by 1phone(m): 5:46pm On Dec 03, 2025
Allowing my spermatozoa to fertilize one of the ovaries that swam through the oviduct to meet the X in the fallopian tube.

God will see me through .. already in 3rd trimester
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by kaywhy09(m): 5:46pm On Dec 03, 2025
lightwind:
$

Someone else said the same to me before.

But i enjoy that wife things.....


$
I thought so too, until I eventually entered at 38.

Worked well for some though.
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Ollyb2020(m): 5:56pm On Dec 03, 2025
Sirchiboy:
Why don't you try voluteer to work in a company for free even if it is just a month.
I actually don’t mind volunteering at all, work no dey scare me
My only challenge right now is stability. I’m still paying the debts from the car issue, and I don’t even have a steady place to stay or transport money to move around consistently

Once I get a little footing, I’ll definitely volunteer or take anything that can help me rebuild. For now, I’m just trying to survive small small and find my balance again
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by IyaTola: 5:58pm On Dec 03, 2025
Keyz1:
Not selling Pi at $3
How.much is it now?
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by IyaTola: 5:58pm On Dec 03, 2025
Ollyb2020:
I actually don’t mind volunteering at all, work no dey scare me
My only challenge right now is stability. I’m still paying the debts from the car issue, and I don’t even have a steady place to stay or transport money to move around consistently

Once I get a little footing, I’ll definitely volunteer or take anything that can help me rebuild. For now, I’m just trying to survive small small and find my balance again
there's a thread for remote jobs on nairaland
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Ollyb2020(m): 6:03pm On Dec 03, 2025
IyaTola:
there's a thread for remote jobs on nairaland
Thanks, I’ll definitely check it out
Remote work would actually help me a lot right now since my biggest challenge is stability and movement
If I see something I qualify for, I’ll apply immediately

Please, which section exactly can I find the remote jobs thread? I don’t want to miss it
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by GindoX(m): 6:06pm On Dec 03, 2025
Falling in love
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by lightwind(m): 6:07pm On Dec 03, 2025
kaywhy09:
I thought so too, until I eventually entered at 38.

Worked well for some though.
$

You mean u entered at 38 with wife or as a baby daddy ?


$
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Arda1000(m): 6:12pm On Dec 03, 2025
lightwind:
$

Yes i do....

I am scared asf

$
if u have any steady means of income just manage dey pay her marriage dues small small,then give her belle if u have not done so
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by musa234(m): 6:18pm On Dec 03, 2025
oskisammy:
I got promoted at work, and landed a juicy 2nd job
embarassed

what is all that without health
I wish I can travel back in time and just marry early.
no cure? Are you serious?
Re: Worst Decision You Made That Affected Your Life This Year by Ollyb2020(m): 6:19pm On Dec 03, 2025
Y
IyaTola:
there's a thread for remote jobs on nairaland
Thanks, I’ll definitely check it out
Remote work would actually help me a lot right now since my biggest challenge is stability and movement. If I see something I qualify for, I’ll apply immediately

Please, which section exactly can I find the remote jobs thread? I don’t want to miss it
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