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45 years living in ph , single with 2m and don't know what to do with it

MrHandsome2013:
45 years living in ph , single with 2m and don't know what to do with it

2m not bad. Try give girl belle na

buttlover:
2m not bad. Try give girl belle na

Dem suppose study your wickedness for university. WKD101😂

buttlover:
2m not bad. Try give girl belle na

Where you collect degree for wickedness😂

buttlover:
2m not bad. Try give girl belle na

I pity your friends

MrHandsome2013:
45 years living in ph , single with 2m and don't know what to do with it

you can start a gay nightclub in Ph.
You will be surprised how many pH guys will patronize you. Them plenty for PH

The fact that you didn't allow a leech to come for that 2m is worthy of commendation. You'll be fine in the end.

buttlover:
2m not bad. Try give girl belle na

I support this though.

45 you suppose don start family o. Not like there's a time line but from personal point of view I'll start a family.

If you won't die rich, at least let a family come from you.

Start running a POS centre, that one is easy to open even if u no get shop,buy the POS machines and start from home, no forget to give girl belle,it might look like a joke but it's necessary,a man becomes serious with his life when he has a wife and a kid

MrHandsome2013:
45 years living in ph , single with 2m and don't know what to do with it

Find one loyal girl and marry then things will fall into place.

Goodadvice01:
Find one loyal girl and marry then things will fall into place.

Host78:
I support this though.

45 you suppose don start family o. Not like there's a time line but from personal point of view I'll start a family.

If you won't die rich, at least let a family come from you.

buttlover:
2m not bad. Try give girl belle na

If you have these type of friends, you will die of depression and poverty,

PapaNnamdi:
If you have these type of friends, you will die of depression and poverty,

How?

No try gv woman belle cos dt 2m go go down evn if u open d pos biz..just calm down find beta 2sure stake d 2m..with 2mil u go open whr dem de charge phone with pos and use d remain 2m guide

PapaNnamdi:
If you have these type of friends, you will die of depression and poverty,

lolz.

I think some of you have decided to serve money all your lives without anything else.

And worst still, you'll die a pauper after all the money chasing.

It's almost laughable.

Money is not the be all of life. Most people will never have the lump sum of money in their bank account.

Heck, more than 90% of people will live paycheck to paycheck all their lives regardless of how hard or smart they hustle.

If you can sustain a family living paycheck to paycheck, do it.

If you want to wait until you have it all figured out, you'll miss out on the pleasures of having a family.

I have a principal then in high school. He waited until he was almost 50 before starting his family.

He rose from being a mere secondary school teacher until he became a vice principal and then the principal of the school before he started his family.

That was either in his 51 or 55 years of age. His wife gave birth to two boys.

She was a younger woman. I think about 6 or 7 years after his marriage, then we were already out of secondary when he died.

I remember this vividly because we contributed money to support the family at the time.

His first son was barely out of primary school. Now he has left all that hustling and family as a burden to someone else.

Did all that hustling payoff? Was he a rich man? Of course not.

This will be the reality of most people. Either they make it too late without much to show for it or they make it too late and won't enjoy the family they started.

The average life expectancy in Nigeria is 56 years at the upper limit.

On average, not wishing the op bad but a man in his 45 years is expected to have a life of 10 or 11 years ahead of him with all things being equal.

If op should marry today, his first child will be 15 years Old when he dies on average.

At 15, that Child will still be in secondary school with the younger ones following closely.

Now, assuming the op continues his hustle. He has been on earth for 45 years and has saved 2 million in his 45th year.

Now do the maths, do you think he'll suddenly amass a billion dollars in the next 15 years or he'll become super wealthy?

I understand that anything can happen. But let's be realistic.

Op you have been hustling. And you need to keep hustling. Never give up.

But if you've done something for 45 years, maybe try something new.

No one is saying Starting a family will attract blessings.

All I'm saying is starting a family now will put you in the best position to enjoy them and help them enjoy you too.

Because you'll have a longer time to spend with with them, take care of them and actually train your children in way you want and live a legacy.

Thank you.

Average life expectancy in Nigeria is 54 years old.

A Nigerian man on average is expected to live up to 54.3 years old before dieing.

Op, you're 45 years old. On average, you still have 9 years ahead of you.

This is on average. You could still make it up to 100 years old.

But let's be sincere with ourselves. Now is the time to really settle down.

I'm not saying spend your 2 million on a woman in marriage or wedding.

You can impregnate one and start living together. Start a family.

This is the best course of action I'll suggest.

Then proceed to learning a skill.

Business is risky right now but a skill will actually help you a lot.

I don't have an idea of the skill to learn but learning a skill will ensure regular food for the family.

Forget the hustling now. Focus on how to grow a family.

Forget "chasing money now" or the idea "making it big".

Focus on family and how to provide for the family you want to start.

I'm not saying family will attract blessings. But if the big dreams will not come at least work on the smaller dream of family before you loose both the small and big dreams.

Some people come into wealth very late in life and you might be the same but how will you enjoy your wife and children when you're 60 something and they are so little?

Please be strategic o.

Marry two wives.
Open restaurant business for the first, and open a mini supermarket for the second.
Relax and enjoy your life. No part two o

Host78:
lolz.

I think some of you have decided to serve money all your lives without anything else.

And worst still, you'll die a pauper after all the money chasing.

It's almost laughable.

Money is not the be all of life. Most people will never have the lump sum of money in their bank account.

Heck, more than 90% of people will live paycheck to paycheck all their lives regardless of how hard or smart they hustle.

If you can sustain a family living paycheck to paycheck, do it.

If you want to wait until you have it all figured out, you'll miss out on the pleasures of having a family.

I have a principal then in high school. He waited until he was almost 50 before starting his family.

He rose from being a mere secondary school teacher until he became a vice principal and then the principal of the school before he started his family.

That was either in his 51 or 55 years of age. His wife gave birth to two boys.

She was a younger woman. I think about 6 or 7 years after his marriage, then we were already out of secondary when he died.

I remember this vividly because we contributed money to support the family at the time.

His first son was barely out of primary school. Now he has left all that hustling and family as a burden to someone else.

Did all that hustling payoff? Was he a rich man? Of course not.

This will be the reality of most people. Either they make it too late without much to show for it or they make it too late and won't enjoy the family they started.

The average life expectancy in Nigeria is 56 years at the upper limit.

On average, not wishing the op bad but a man in his 45 years is expected to have a life of 10 or 11 years ahead of him with all things being equal.

If op should marry today, his first child will be 15 years Old when he dies on average.

At 15, that Child will still be in secondary school with the younger ones following closely.

Now, assuming the op continues his hustle. He has been on earth for 45 years and has saved 2 million in his 45th year.

Now do the maths, do you think he'll suddenly amass a billion dollars in the next 15 years or he'll become super wealthy?

I understand that anything can happen. But let's be realistic.

Op you have been hustling. And you need to keep hustling. Never give up.

But if you've done something for 45 years, maybe try something new.

No one is saying Starting a family will attract blessings.

All I'm saying is starting a family now will put you in the best position to enjoy them and help them enjoy you too.

Because you'll have a longer time to spend with with them, take care of them and actually train your children in way you want and live a legacy.

Thank you.

Women live longer than men because "they" don't have a wife.

Your principal died because 😷
He lived longer when he was single don't you agree?

PapaNnamdi:
Women live longer than men because "they" don't have a wife.

Your principal died because 😷
He lived longer when he was single don't you agree?

E get the kind highness you go high, you go Dey commot wisdom from extraterrestrial realm😂 talk true, Wetin be your motive and inspiration 🤔😂

PapaNnamdi:
Women live longer than men because "they" don't have a wife.

Your principal died because 😷
He lived longer when he was single don't you agree?

this is senseless so I won't bother debating on it.

Host78:
lolz.

I think some of you have decided to serve money all your lives without anything else.

And worst still, you'll die a pauper after all the money chasing.

It's almost laughable.

Money is not the be all of life. Most people will never have the lump sum of money in their bank account.

Heck, more than 90% of people will live paycheck to paycheck all their lives regardless of how hard or smart they hustle.

If you can sustain a family living paycheck to paycheck, do it.

If you want to wait until you have it all figured out, you'll miss out on the pleasures of having a family.

I have a principal then in high school. He waited until he was almost 50 before starting his family.

He rose from being a mere secondary school teacher until he became a vice principal and then the principal of the school before he started his family.

That was either in his 51 or 55 years of age. His wife gave birth to two boys.

She was a younger woman. I think about 6 or 7 years after his marriage, then we were already out of secondary when he died.

I remember this vividly because we contributed money to support the family at the time.

His first son was barely out of primary school. Now he has left all that hustling and family as a burden to someone else.

Did all that hustling payoff? Was he a rich man? Of course not.

This will be the reality of most people. Either they make it too late without much to show for it or they make it too late and won't enjoy the family they started.

The average life expectancy in Nigeria is 56 years at the upper limit.

On average, not wishing the op bad but a man in his 45 years is expected to have a life of 10 or 11 years ahead of him with all things being equal.

If op should marry today, his first child will be 15 years Old when he dies on average.

At 15, that Child will still be in secondary school with the younger ones following closely.

Now, assuming the op continues his hustle. He has been on earth for 45 years and has saved 2 million in his 45th year.

Now do the maths, do you think he'll suddenly amass a billion dollars in the next 15 years or he'll become super wealthy?

I understand that anything can happen. But let's be realistic.

Op you have been hustling. And you need to keep hustling. Never give up.

But if you've done something for 45 years, maybe try something new.

No one is saying Starting a family will attract blessings.

All I'm saying is starting a family now will put you in the best position to enjoy them and help them enjoy you too.

Because you'll have a longer time to spend with with them, take care of them and actually train your children in way you want and live a legacy.

Thank you.

You made so much sense.

Host78:
Average life expectancy in Nigeria is 54 years old.

A Nigerian man on average is expected to live up to 54.3 years old before dieing.

Op, you're 45 years old. On average, you still have 9 years ahead of you.

This is on average. You could still make it up to 100 years old.

But let's be sincere with ourselves. Now is the time to really settle down.

I'm not saying spend your 2 million on a woman in marriage or wedding.

You can impregnate one and start living together. Start a family.

This is the best course of action I'll suggest.

Then proceed to learning a skill.

Business is risky right now but a skill will actually help you a lot.

I don't have an idea of the skill to learn but learning a skill will ensure regular food for the family.

Forget the hustling now. Focus on how to grow a family.

Forget "chasing money now" or the idea "making it big".

Focus on family and how to provide for the family you want to start.

I'm not saying family will attract blessings. But if the big dreams will not come at least work on the smaller dream of family before you loose both the small and big dreams.

Some people come into wealth very late in life and you might be the same but how will you enjoy your wife and children when you're 60 something and they are so little?

Please be strategic o.

On the flip side ,it even made frontage on Nairaland when Lastma chased a vehicle into a busy street and killed a pregnant woman and her kids in Ago,Lagos.
The husband should be in his 60's , never married, never had kids .
Where is he starting from?
At that his age ? The "Kachuumbaego" time wasted
Him go use walking stick escort pikin go write Common Entrance . if he starts birthing new ones now.

This kind one go marry way younger woman and die years ahead of her then they start asking why men don't live long?

I wish him all the best in him chase

PapaNnamdi:
Women live longer than men because "they" don't have a wife.

Your principal died because 😷
He lived longer when he was single don't you agree?

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Wise words man😹