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| It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by lilkudos(op): 4:13pm On Dec 03, 2025 |
The Dangers of Masturbation ( How to Overcome ) Watch the Deeper full detailed video here - https://augustinemartins..com/2025/12/the-dangers-of-masturbation-how-to.html "It is better to have sex than to masturbate", but both are not ideal. You lose a lot from that single act. - Prophet Lovy Elias. The Hidden Dangers of Masturbation: What Many People Don’t Realize Masturbation is a topic many people avoid, yet it quietly shapes the habits, emotions, and mental clarity of countless individuals. While it may seem harmless, frequent or compulsive masturbation can create deeper issues that affect your daily life, relationships, and personal growth. 1. It Can Become Addictive Masturbation triggers a strong dopamine release—the “pleasure chemical.” Over time, the brain may start craving that quick dopamine hit, creating a cycle of dependence. This can lead to compulsive behaviors that are hard to break. 2. It May Reduce Motivation Excessive self-pleasure often leads to mental fatigue and low drive. Many people report decreased ambition, loss of focus, and reduced energy. Your brain begins to associate pleasure with instant gratification instead of long-term effort. 3. It Can Harm Real Relationships When someone relies too much on masturbation (especially with pornography), it may affect their intimacy with real partners. Unrealistic expectations, reduced sensitivity, and emotional disconnection often develop over time. 4. It Can Trigger Guilt, Shame, or Anxiety Many people struggle emotionally after the act—feeling disappointed, spiritually distant, or mentally drained. These emotions can accumulate and lead to long-term stress. 5. It Weakens Discipline and Willpower Any habit that provides instant pleasure without effort can slowly weaken self-control. Overindulgence in masturbation can make it harder to maintain discipline in other areas like work, fitness, faith, or personal development. 6. It keeps your poor and unmotivated You tend to lose your memory and focus to reality, during the act, you invoke certain spirits to yourself which damages you mentally and spiritually. Even when you have sex and think of somebody else during the act, you are still invoking certain spirits of destructions to yourself. Choosing a Healthier Path Breaking the cycle is possible. Replacing the habit with healthier alternatives—exercise, prayer, reading, meditation, hobbies, or meaningful connections—helps rewire the mind for long-term fulfillment instead of short-term pleasure. Self-control builds confidence, discipline, and a stronger sense of identity. The goal isn’t just to avoid masturbation—it’s to pursue a healthier, more empowered version of yourself.
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| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by Nobody: 4:54pm On Dec 03, 2025 |
It's like we are fighting battles on all sides. Fornication = Invite demons. Masturbation = Covenant with Marine spirits. Marriage = Battle with Foundational powers. Singleness = War against lust and porn. It seems whatever path a man takes, there is a spirit waiting for him at the junction. 😂 |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by Amotolongbo(f): 4:59pm On Dec 03, 2025 |
You can be arrested for raping someone but you can’t be arrested for raping yourself |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by SixSeven: 6:24pm On Dec 03, 2025 |
Amotolongbo:I don't think this is the best comparison because he who masturbates wants the pleasure. Is it the devil he will blame? It is with your own consent you please yourself. Maybe when you have sex in your dream, we can call it rape but you can choose to wake up from the dream too ![]() |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by Goodmarlian: 8:40am On Dec 04, 2025 |
I dey soapy daily and I dey make 20k daily from my delivery business, people wey no dey soapy dey beg me for money they even say I don get pride Africans wake up. |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by Goodmarlian: 8:40am On Dec 04, 2025 |
I dey soapy daily and I dey make 20k daily from my delivery business, people wey no dey soapy dey beg me for money they even say I don get pride Africans wake up. |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by Nicoddemus(m): 4:53pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:No be small thing my brother ![]() |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by Curtis03360: 5:34pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
Goodmarlian:Boss abeg enlighten me about this delivery job I go like do am |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by Wananonly: 5:57pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
You have written eloquently bro.. But my question is this... Why do women squirt but men don't? |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by BItt: 6:05pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:No escape |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by BItt: 6:06pm On Dec 04, 2025 |
Wananonly:Because men follow a narrow path. Guess where a narrow path leads to ![]() |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by Wananonly: 8:18am On Dec 05, 2025 |
BItt:You got me scratching my head bro |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by Cheniron(f): 9:29am On Dec 05, 2025 |
What do people enjoy in mastubating? |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by lilkudos(op): 9:03pm On Dec 26, 2025 |
SpencerForbes:Smiles, of course! That is why we put God in everything we do, because life is filled with valleys and hills. Those things you that you listed are vices that the devil uses for distractions and keeping separated from God's purpose for your life. The battle is not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers! It's a battle of the mind. To have the right mindset to everything. |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by lilkudos(op): 9:05pm On Dec 26, 2025 |
Lol, you can still be arrested for that. Probably because you haven't sued yourself. Amotolongbo: |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by lilkudos(op): 9:07pm On Dec 26, 2025 |
How do you feel after doing that? Goodmarlian: |
| Re: It Is Better To Have Sex Than To Masturbate! But... by lilkudos(op): 9:09pm On Dec 26, 2025 |
Why do men not get pregnant after sex? Man and Woman are not built the same, because women have breast and men don't. If you can answer that, then you have answered all questions. Wananonly: |
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