"Women need a reason to cheat, men just need a woman" That has to be the dumbest quote ever. _{C'mon when there's Vivaladiva and quickygirl looking for dudes though they are in a relationship?} Granted, our sex drives are visually connected but that doesn't mean that the moment we're in a relationship, we go out and cheat with the next thing in a skirt. We need reasons to cheat (like the one time we begged you wear that sexy Victoria Secret lingerie and you refused because you thought you looked too fat in it . . . jk). Seriously though, everyone needs a reason to cheat. So to this, I scream false.

What do you nairalanders think?

I agree with you, dumb quote

i agree too. dumb quote.

People do things with reasons both substantial and unsubstantial, definitely has nothing to do with gender. The quote is meaningless to me.

i wonder why a woman/ will be cheating in d first place,it beats my imagination

This is one of those quotes that portray women as the good and pure while men are just bad in everything. I think that all in all, cheating whether one needed a reason an excuse to cheat or just wanted to cheat. So it doesn't make the woman better in any way.

neither does it make a man better too

wen one aint comfortable in a relationship,why not zoom out,instead of jumping from pillar to post

Iagree, sexy, so when is the party?

kadijen:

neither does it make a man better too

when one aint comfortable in a relationship,why not zoom out,instead of jumping from pillar to post

I know. . . But now I can't help but think that women probably cheat more than men. I was in a store like 2 days ago and I saw this one girl with her boyfriend down the aisle. I noticed how she was taking several glances at me but trying to play it off so that her dude doesn't see her I guess then they walked past me and she got real close to me without touching me. After like 2-3 seconds I looked back and caught her looking back at me and looking away quick. Now if her boyfriend wasn't there, I'm sure she would have tried to get at me. So all that talk about guys cheating because they want to is BS, the ladies are now in the lead.

stephen a woman can withstand a naked man,but a man can hardly resist the temptation wen he sees a girl naked,so?

anywaysmen ooo women oooo,i really dont support cheating

kadijen:

stephen a woman can withstand a naked man,but a man can hardly resist the temptation when he sees a girl naked,so?

What happened to your ladies from "Sex and The City"?

Plus, that's just a stereotype, we can control ourselves if we wanted to. Some ladies will want to sleep with a dude even if they are fully aware that he's got a girlfriend . . . and I'm living proof.

there is no doubt that they r alot of sluts around,but like i said u dont compare them to the men,men cheat u know

infact men and women cheat,whichever way i dont support it

I know girls that are attracted to only Guys in a Relationship

they wont even look at single guys.

They all need deliverance, reason will not help them!

Gamine:

I know girls that are attracted to only Guys in a Relationship

they wont even look at single guys.

[b]They all need deliverance, [/b]reason will not help them!

u can say dat again

Gamine:

I know girls that are attracted to only Guys in a Relationship

they wont even look at single guys.

They all need deliverance, reason will not help them!

True

stephen u r making it sound as if u men dont cheat too

Sure some men cheat but I am done with women being all hypocrite and bashing us. If a woman said she was cheated on, other women would say "Oh he is a bastard." If she said she cheated on him, they would turn round and said "You go girl, your boyfriend was thinking about it anyway." Naw . . . it's time to flip the script.

As much as the looks like a female bashing thread, I will not trip over it. I disagree with the quote too.

DaPhoenix:

As much as the looks like a female bashing thread, I will not trip over it. I disagree with the quote too.

Damn! I thought I lost you love. Where you been?

back to the topic, on the contrary, I'm just speaking the truth. If it looks like I'm bashing women, I'm sorry.

StephenP:

Damn! I thought I lost you love. Where you been?

aww . . . I was in a phase where I wasn't feeling NL no more so I left, now I'm bored and back here.

DaPhoenix:

aww . . . I was in a phase where I wasn't feeling Nairaland no more so I left, now I'm bored and back here.

For like a month though? Dang! I got scared that something had happened to my beautiful lady. Why didn't even log on to your IM?

StephenP:

For like a month though? Dang! I got scared that something had happened to my beautiful lady. Why didn't even log on to your IM?

You really missed me bad. I'm sorry, sexy.

~tears~ see love!

@post
I agree, so are we going to throw a party?

DaPhoenix:

You really missed me bad.   I'm sorry, sexy.

Apology accepted. Welcome back.

Ruby_Pearl:

~tears~ see love!

@post
I agree, so are we going to throw a party?

LOL!! What kind of party?

Ruby_Pearl:

~tears~ see love!

@ poster

na so u fine wey girls just dey pursue u up and down??

back to the topic,
i think the quote is correct. drawing from my extensive experience (both personal and witmessed), whenever women intend to cheat or cheat, they usually make up lame reasons or excuses (the most common is he was cheating on me so i had to cheat) but the urge to cheat in men is congenital. it is almost impossible to find a man that will be totally faithful.

gabe_logan:

@ poster

na so u fine wey girls just dey pursue u up and down??

I guess.

gabe_logan:

back to the topic,
i think the quote is correct. drawing from my extensive experience (both personal and witmessed), whenever women intend to cheat or cheat, they usually make up lame reasons or excuses (the most common is he was cheating on me so i had to cheat) but the urge to cheat in men is congenital. it is almost impossible to find a man that will be totally faithful.

As opposed to cheating on him because she thinks he cheated on her, why didn't she just break up with him? They say two wrongs don't make a right. Like I said before, I think the percentage of women that cheat in a relationship is higher than men except the women don't get caught but we do.

Na wah oooo