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How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by essentialone(op): 12:04am On Dec 05, 2025
How will you know if a female moniker on Nairaland is actually a female person?

As it stands today, the only female moniker I actually think is a real female on Nairaland, is my most beautiful and adorable Pretydiva. Big heart to her always.

But why exactly will a guy be using a female moniker? I guess there are certain things my mother will curse me if I should do. One of them is pretending to be a Female. Like how is that even necessary? Unless they are scammers using it to dupe guys of money for transportation to visit them.

But if I was the owner of Nairaland, the verification process will be wider to ensure you don't manipulate your gender. You will do Video verification, submit your NIN, or PVC, which cannot be used twice. Also the verification will take 3 days before it will be approved.

@Seun take note.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by budaatum: 12:18am On Dec 05, 2025
And lift up our whatever so you can check because you really must know.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by eepeepook: 12:20am On Dec 05, 2025
They do it for attention and to digitally fulfill same sex fantasies.

essentialone:
How will you know if a female moniker on Nairaland is actually a female person?

As it stands today, the only female moniker I actually think is a real female on Nairaland, is my most beautiful and adorable Pretydiva. Big heart to her always.

But why exactly will a guy be using a female moniker? I guess there are certain things my mother will curse me if I should do. One of them is pretending to be a Female. Like how is that even necessary? Unless they are scammers using it to dupe guys of money for transportation to visit them.

But if I was the owner of Nairaland, the verification process will be wider to ensure you don't manipulate your gender. You will do Video verification, submit your NIN, or PVC, which cannot be used twice. Also the verification will take 3 days before it will be approved.

@Seun take note.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by budaatum: 12:29am On Dec 05, 2025
eepeepook:
They do it for attention and to digitally fulfill same sex fantasies.
Or so you can focus on what's above the eyes and not what's under the chin.

Especially since most focus on what's under the waist and never what's in their own head.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by franchasofficia: 5:05am On Dec 05, 2025
essentialone:
How will you know if a female moniker on Nairaland is actually a female person?

As it stands today, the only female moniker I actually think is a real female on Nairaland, is my most beautiful and adorable Pretydiva. Big heart to her always.

But why exactly will a guy be using a female moniker? I guess there are certain things my mother will curse me if I should do. One of them is pretending to be a Female. Like how is that even necessary? Unless they are scammers using it to dupe guys of money for transportation to visit them.

But if I was the owner of Nairaland, the verification process will be wider to ensure you don't manipulate your gender. You will do Video verification, submit your NIN, or PVC, which cannot be used twice. Also the verification will take 3 days before it will be approved.

@Seun take note.
You forgot to tell them to lift up their skirts and also remove their pata kini to be very sure none females have a female moniker on nl.


Seun that is not ready to pay mods is the person you want to do all these rigorous verification that will definitely require him spending some money, you are on a wild goose chase bra shocked



If you are interested in any female moniker, chat her up, get to know her in real life before resuming texting and sending her money cos I know that's why you want to be sure they are really ladies before you start sending money to their aza, abeg make the giveaway reach we guys too oh, we are also humans we no be bandits cheesy
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by Dtruthspeaker: 5:16am On Dec 05, 2025
Ah it shows you are not sharp. How can you not know if a female is a female? A woman always shows herself.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by essentialone(op): 6:34am On Dec 05, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Ah it shows you are not sharp. How can you not know if a female is a female? A woman always shows herself.
In real life yeah, but on a faceless forum, not all the time.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by Nobody: 6:38am On Dec 05, 2025
By their words and thought, you shall know them.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by onome25(m): 9:58am On Dec 05, 2025
essentialone:
How will you know if a female moniker on Nairaland is actually a female person?

As it stands today, the only female moniker I actually think is a real female on Nairaland, is my most beautiful and adorable Pretydiva. Big heart to her always.

But why exactly will a guy be using a female moniker? I guess there are certain things my mother will curse me if I should do. One of them is pretending to be a Female. Like how is that even necessary? Unless they are scammers using it to dupe guys of money for transportation to visit them.

But if I was the owner of Nairaland, the verification process will be wider to ensure you don't manipulate your gender. You will do Video verification, submit your NIN, or PVC, which cannot be used twice. Also the verification will take 3 days before it will be approved.

@Seun take note.
E be like say u de find wife from Nairaland bah grin grin grin...Na scammers full nairaland pls run oooo🏃🏃🏃🏃
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by essentialone(op): 11:09am On Dec 05, 2025
onome25:
E be like say u de find wife from Nairaland bah grin grin grin...Na scammers full nairaland pls run oooo🏃🏃🏃🏃
Hahahaha. We have to treat ladies right. But you need to be sure the lady is actually a lady.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by duduade(m): 12:12pm On Dec 05, 2025
This one has been scammed

But he no know how to talk am here
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by brain54(m): 12:27pm On Dec 05, 2025
Werey say nin and PVC with video verification...


Like say na visa application!
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by floss(m): 12:28pm On Dec 05, 2025
The only legit things on Nairaland are

- The hate between igbos and Yorubas, yorubas and igbos

- Reasonable Nigerians hate Apc government and their politicians , While the ones that care about the good of the country supports other parties

- The hate Yorubas have for mazi nnamdi Kanu and the hate igbos have for Tinubu led government.

In all these, the north remains master of both the igbos and the Yorubas grin
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by essentialone(op): 12:50pm On Dec 05, 2025
brain54:
Werey say nin and PVC with video verification...


Like say na visa application!
Yes he just need to improve his tech game. Once an NIMC NIN has been captured, it has become captured.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by brain54(m): 1:03pm On Dec 05, 2025
essentialone:
Yes he just need to improve his tech game. Once an NIMC NIN has been captured, it has become captured.
That's going too far o...


Even FB, Twitter etc don't have those requirements.


He needs to up his tech game no doubt.


Someone like me would not submit my personal details here o!
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by essentialone(op): 2:01pm On Dec 05, 2025
brain54:
That's going too far o...


Even FB, Twitter etc don't have those requirements.


He needs to up his tech game no doubt.


Someone like me would not submit my personal details here o!
It will only be known by the Admins and Moderators at backend.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by Dtruthspeaker: 2:42pm On Dec 05, 2025
essentialone:
In real life yeah, but on a faceless forum, not all the time.
You can tell even on this forum. It is simply because you are not paying attention. If you did you would see through their posts that men and women are very different so you can identify each one
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by Dtruthspeaker: 2:46pm On Dec 05, 2025
essentialone:
It will only be known by the Admins and Moderators at backend.
This is how you people encourage the trampling of rights. Meanwhile they have provided dms for interested people to connect and meet up privately, so this is completely unnecessary.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by Samantha125(f): 3:37pm On Dec 05, 2025
But why are you guys complaining when we women are not bothered? Did we ask you to be our spokespersons?

Allow your brothers to disguise themselves as please, they're obviously members of the 🏳️‍🌈 and can only embrace their sexualities on faceless forums like nairaland... grin grin grin

And there's no way I'll go through all that headache just to register my nairaland account only to get trolled by misogynists.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Dec 05, 2025
Dem don collect from dis one.... sorry oh?
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by PureSperm: 5:53pm On Dec 05, 2025
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Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by essentialone(op): 6:40pm On Dec 05, 2025
Truth is what you a guy sees as nothing, a lady may find offensive or insultive. And no be every discussion we dey follow woman talk.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by essentialone(op): 4:57am On May 06
Bro,! One of the reasons why many men are disrespected today is largely a mindset thing.

Many men chase attention, validation, and temporary pleasure instead of chasing value, discipline, and financial strength.

Most young men today do not value purpose like the men before them. Our fathers and grandfathers understood that respect comes from responsibility, not from chasing w00men or cheap validation.

Today, you see young men desperate for attention. They measure their worth by how many w00men notice them, how many likes they get, how many compliments they receive.
That mindset is what keeps them small.

When a man lacks m0ney, lacks direction, lacks discipline, everything becomes attractive to him. Even distractions look like opportunities. Even traps look like blessings.

But when a man has m0ney, when he has built himself, when he has options, his mindset changes. He is no longer impressed easily. He chooses, he does not beg. He selects, he does not chase.

A man without m0ney have no option. A man with m0ney is a man with options

Options to walk away. Options to choose better. Options to build the life he wants without depending on anyone’s approval.

Until a man begins to place premium on his growth, his finances, and his purpose — he will keep falling for distractions disguised as opportunities.
Until men stop chasing validation and start chasing value, they will keep getting played.

Your life is important. Your mission is important. Build yourself first.

The discipline to wake up and work when you don’t feel like it. The discipline to ignore distractions. The discipline to focus on m0ney, skills, and growth. The discipline to delay gratification. These are the things that separate respected men from forgotten ones.

Bro, understand this clearly — attention is cheap. Respect is expensive. And respect is paid for with discipline, value, and m0ney.

I hope you got value reading this.
Share it with a brother who needs to hear the truth.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.
Re: How Will You Know If A Female Moniker On Nairaland, Is Actually A Female Person? by EmmyMaestro(m): 11:13am On May 06
It is good to know o because, it reminds me the movie Surrogates where you can be making out with another surrogate not knowing it is a man behind it
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